Need opinion/advice on aquarius girl

Hi! Aquarius girl told me she likes me back in November. We had some great moments. We even went to Gatlinburg with a group of friends. She kept asking me to go bc she needed a date. We had an amazing time. I have Been going to her house a lot over the past month and half. We have had good moments. Even became intimate. Recently she has been quiet these past few days. Last night, I went out with our mutual friends and she met up later with us. She basically wouldn't look me in the eye or really talk to me. Its weird. I was just over at her house and we had some fun!
I know aquas like space. So I understand that. I am starting school on Monday and she knows about it. Shes been making comments you are going to forget about you me... I tell her no way I won't forget about you. And she chuckles along with me. Just the past few days shes a little off. Maybe shes in aqua world.
We even hung out on New Years Eve. She basically was flirting with other people and again she makes a comment oh you won't like me bc I act crazy. I am confident in the fact that shes just having fun and being an aqua. Again I tell her that I like her and that I know its all just fun.

So those comments makes me thinks she likes me. Maybe she is worried that I don't like her or shes testing me to see where my head is.
I just don't know why she is ignoring me these past few days. I will let her come to me. Shes prob in aqua world. Shes done this once before was quiet and busy and then came back all loving.. Just need some opinions on this! Thanks!

What Feb said. Sounds like she's afraid, tell her how you feel if you haven't yet. For me personally I do get quiet around someone I reallllly like when face to face, it's a subconscious thing that I sometimes don't even realize I am doing.

I went to her house again tonight. Still shes quiet a little. Just a different vibe about her. She did make me dinner with her and her daughter. So we shall see! Should I play it cool? This girl in my eyes is worth being patient with. I hope she has feelings for me still. Just was a little confused by her turning quiet and avoiding contact with me. I know all about aquas liking their space or quiet time. Heck I like to have my own time as well. I am hoping we work out. I am starting to like her mor but I will let her come to me with her feelings!

Sammy 20 you are right on how she is acting! Tonight still quiet not really looking in my eyes and just seems like her head is elsewhere. If you get what I am saying. We were recently romantic last week and she says I make her all hot even when I am near her. I am hoping she has feelings for me. I am a Leo and I am trying to be patient and cool with it all. She was the first one to come to me and told me that she likes me.

I reciprocated her feelings. I already told her I like her as well! She did tell me about a week ago that she hasn't felt like this in a long time. Meaning sexually. So we shall see.

She did this about a month ago. Was mad at me for telling a mutual friend about us who already knew. I had no idea she would get mad about someone already knowing. No details just told the friend that I had a crush on her. I am hoping she is not mad at me again. I just don't have a good feeling. I really like this girl. A Lot! I have no idea what to do!

Update!!!
She has been cold for a couple weeks. so last night my friend asked what was up. I told her. I regret doing this now. I told this friend that I have no idea why she is being so cold and that I had no idea what we were. She was a mutual friend.. I was just venting to a friend.. but this was after she started being cold..

Tonight she gives me a text.. " I think its a good idea if we just be friends for now . you know I like privacy, and cant get that when you said you weren't going to talk to friends and you did. Im not mad just a good idea to remain friends.. then there's nothing to talk to others about but just friends..

I am hurt. I felt as if what I did wasn't grounds to break up. I wish she would just talk to me about the situation. ..

But she asked if I had a good time at the gym... send a text being a friend now. Makes me feel as if she really never had feelings for me..

I noticed her backing off .. not wanting to hang out.. not contacting me,... nothing. it was really odd for her to do this. I approached her told her I liked her and that I was ok with it taking it slow..... no response... so I let it go .. still nothing.. that's when I vented to that friend... mutual. wrong move by me.

Posted by jade72980
Update!!!
She has been cold for a couple weeks. so last night my friend asked what was up. I told her. I regret doing this now. I told this friend that I have no idea why she is being so cold and that I had no idea what we were. She was a mutual friend.. I was just venting to a friend.. but this was after she started being cold..

Tonight she gives me a text.. " I think its a good idea if we just be friends for now . you know I like privacy, and cant get that when you said you weren't going to talk to friends and you did. Im not mad just a good idea to remain friends.. then there's nothing to talk to others about but just friends..

I am hurt. I felt as if what I did wasn't grounds to break up. I wish she would just talk to me about the situation. ..

But she asked if I had a good time at the gym... send a text being a friend now. Makes me feel as if she really never had feelings for me..

I'm sorry... My advice be would be to leave her alone and give her some space. Also, you may like her a lot but if the feelings aren't mutual then it can't be forced no matter what actions you take. So, if it's real and it's there it will happen... if not then no amount of work from your part will make it happen /: Good luck.

" I think its a good idea if we just be friends for now . you know I like privacy, and cant get that when you said you weren't going to talk to friends and you did. Im not mad just a good idea to remain friends.. then there's nothing to talk to others about but just friends..


She's hurt because it wasn't respecting how she felt about not talking to outsiders. Not sure if you can be anything other than friends, you "might" be able to be more, but I know for me, it's hard if I feel trust is gone, it's gone. We are very private people, nothing you can do now. Give her space, perhaps she just needs time to sort through it all.

You can learn from this however, in the future talk to the person directly instead of through mutual friends, that's jr high school type behavior.

Oh I have learned from this! thanks

Actually I tried to talk to her personally. she ignored it completely and I gave a few days that's when I talked to our friend. regret it now

She would just avoid me. I am hoping her and I can still be friends.. Honestly shes going through a divorce. I don't think shes ready for anything serious. I was starting to like her. I told her I did and that I wanted to talk to her. So I tried to. She ignored it and I went to our friend about 5 days later . Just said to her that hey her and I haven't talked lately I don't know whats up. YEah I regret it now. Wish she would have let me just talk on the phone with her. Im giving her space and time. I apologized for not respecting her privacy. Heck she wants things private bc she is going through a divorce.. has been for awhile now.

OK.... so the aqua girl and I hung out this past weekend... she was flirting with me... she even said I guess the friends thing didn't work and laughed.. and even asked if i wanted to go on a date for her birthday... very confusing aqua.. is she into me or is she playing?

Seems to me like both

Thanks for your honesty!

I worked out with her and even had dinner last night... we haven't kissed yet. She just held my hand...she cooked my dinner last night... I am going to still hang out with her and see what happens.... she was flirting with me all night last night. So we shall see. Hopefully I don't get burnt.. deep down I know she likes me.

Posted by jade72980
OK.... so the aqua girl and I hung out this past weekend... she was flirting with me... she even said I guess the friends thing didn't work and laughed.. and even asked if i wanted to go on a date for her birthday... very confusing aqua.. is she into me or is she playing?

She asked you on a date. That's not confusing. At least not to me.

Yeah she likes me... thanks for all your help..