needy aquarian

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by chrisssssstina on Tuesday, February 3, 2009 and has 8 replies.
My aquarian guy LOVES clingy girls. It's actually kind of weird... until you realize that his moon is in cancer and his ascendent is in libra (10th house in cancer). That and aquarius is in fall (or maybe it was detriment) with sun. I've never met an aquarian quite like him. But I guess that means you cant ALWAYS rely on a sun sign..
However, he is a good liar though and lies frequently................
damn aquarians.
Wait, is HE needy or is he attracted to needy girls?
He probably just likes the really vulnerable type, the ones he can control and manipulate.
anyone who looks for clingy people...definitely says more about their own insecurity...watch out
He probably just likes the really vulnerable type, the ones he can control and manipulate.
lol - that's what I was thinking - anyone who's needy/clingy to another human being has some insecurities to address...
--- sure it's ok to cling to independence, drugs, bs, alcohol, technology but never to another human being Winking
^ i agree lol
I like to be clingy sometimes..for like a day.
Well I don't think his problem has to do with his Zodiac. I think his problem stems more from level of maturity & how he views & respects himself as a man. It's not uncommon for men to purposely or coincidently attract the vulnerable, needy or "1st date today, engagement tomorrow" type of women. Men that generally have self-respect issues or may not have the uttmost or highest respect for women tend to seek out the women they can control, the women that are natural "clingers" so that they won't have to do all the work & the women that are more focused on figuring out how to get love from a man instead of figuring out why they don't love themselves the way they should. In a way, who you attract is a reflection of what you're projecting about yourself. There is nothing sexy, cute or healthy about clingyness. B/c 9 times out of 10, these women aren't just clingy with 1 person, they are naturally clingy with all of the men/women that enter into their lives. And whatever he is projecting out about himself that's attracting all of "vulnerable" insecure or "clingy" type says alot about him.
And of course, with him having Cancer in his chart, you can kind of get an understanding of how he attracts, but maturity & personal life experiences that may have caused him to be this way don't necessarily stem from his sun or moon sign. It's not like someone can say, "Oh he's clingy b/c he's a Cancer" b/c there are tons of mature, level-headed & secure Cancers that are not clingy. I think it's just a matter of maturity level & his morals more than his sign.
Even one little personal experience or tragedy can competely change a person's outlook on everything, morals & behaviors so that's why your Sun or moon sign is not the best explanation or reason for these behaviors.
There are alot of clingy Cancers & Aquarians, yes, but most of the time clingness stems from something else stemming from personal life experiences. It doesn't just appear b/c we were born on a certain day.

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