seaclovers
@seaclovers
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ok ok... clarification anyone?
hummm... well would requesting to see me again be a form of a detached compliment? hahaha
or does it sound like a form of "i like you as a friend and want to hang out again" type thing...?
i dont want to ask him either cause its waayyy too early and it to me would seem like a make or break type of question to him.
or does it sound like a form of "i like you as a friend and want to hang out again" type thing...?
i dont want to ask him either cause its waayyy too early and it to me would seem like a make or break type of question to him.
few questions...
are you keeping tabs on him via myspace instead of actually talking to him ?
is he aware you look at his page and may be complimenting them because he knows you're looking ? what is the past history on his my space before you started hanging out ?
so you're a lil sad because you think your bossom size would not be sufficient for him ?
you want to find out things about him but you rather ask strangers on a forum than talk to the person you're dating ?
are you sure you are ready to date ?
are you keeping tabs on him via myspace instead of actually talking to him ?
is he aware you look at his page and may be complimenting them because he knows you're looking ? what is the past history on his my space before you started hanging out ?
so you're a lil sad because you think your bossom size would not be sufficient for him ?
you want to find out things about him but you rather ask strangers on a forum than talk to the person you're dating ?
are you sure you are ready to date ?
well.. i dont want to come off as being strange or needy to him. and his myspace.. well i understand we have been seeing each other and its not official,
but it does bother me when girls will leave him comments saying " thanks, and i think your smoken hot too"
and stuff like that. im not ganna ask him about it because it will seem like im being overberring..
im just curious as to why if (i think) hes interested, why is he not giving me those compliments.. i dunno.. i dont want to ask him "what is this exactly between us" cause that to me sounds as if im pressuring him into something.
and i ask people i dont know because it gives me an unbiased oppinion on the matter. plus i tend to say things without thinking sometimes to people, and i just want to make sure im in the right or wrong before i go and actually ask the questions.
but it does bother me when girls will leave him comments saying " thanks, and i think your smoken hot too"
and stuff like that. im not ganna ask him about it because it will seem like im being overberring..
im just curious as to why if (i think) hes interested, why is he not giving me those compliments.. i dunno.. i dont want to ask him "what is this exactly between us" cause that to me sounds as if im pressuring him into something.
and i ask people i dont know because it gives me an unbiased oppinion on the matter. plus i tend to say things without thinking sometimes to people, and i just want to make sure im in the right or wrong before i go and actually ask the questions.
playboy.
The aqua I dated was free with compliments. it was never "official" but he didn't flirt with other girls until the end of the end and then it was in my face and he knew I was looking. It was his way of getting out.
The aqua I dated was free with compliments. it was never "official" but he didn't flirt with other girls until the end of the end and then it was in my face and he knew I was looking. It was his way of getting out.
wow thanks guys. its my 21 bday today.. and ive had a pretty shitty day. reading these really made me feel better..
and you are right about the confidence. its when i feel sexy with the one im with is when im most confident... but i like knowing straight out if he really does think im attractive ya know?
and yes, we "are" hanging out and it is me whom he is making time for.i just like reassurance thats all.. my last aqua would let me know.. so it was always nice..
him a playboy... i actually can see that.. he is extremely good looking and my last aqua was too.
uhhh.. i dunno...
and you are right about the confidence. its when i feel sexy with the one im with is when im most confident... but i like knowing straight out if he really does think im attractive ya know?
and yes, we "are" hanging out and it is me whom he is making time for.i just like reassurance thats all.. my last aqua would let me know.. so it was always nice..
him a playboy... i actually can see that.. he is extremely good looking and my last aqua was too.
uhhh.. i dunno...
aquas are usually very appealing...
You definitely need to feel confident in yourself. Women come in all shapes and sizes and men might be attracted to one or more of those elements, but it is the entire package including personality and confidence that makes a woman sexy. Especially where an aqua is concerned, personality and friendship are high on the list of traits they admire.
I've dated an aqua playboy as well. They are usually pretty open about it. I wouldn't ask too many questions if I were you, if you are interested in carrying this out further. Why not just ask him if he is seeing anybody else? That's a legitimate question and not a hard one to answer. don't elaborate on why you want to know.
You need to ask yourself though, if you care if he is seeing somebody else? If you do, this question must be asked. If not, or if you are seeing others, don't worry about his actions on the myspace.
Happy Birthday!
You definitely need to feel confident in yourself. Women come in all shapes and sizes and men might be attracted to one or more of those elements, but it is the entire package including personality and confidence that makes a woman sexy. Especially where an aqua is concerned, personality and friendship are high on the list of traits they admire.
I've dated an aqua playboy as well. They are usually pretty open about it. I wouldn't ask too many questions if I were you, if you are interested in carrying this out further. Why not just ask him if he is seeing anybody else? That's a legitimate question and not a hard one to answer. don't elaborate on why you want to know.
You need to ask yourself though, if you care if he is seeing somebody else? If you do, this question must be asked. If not, or if you are seeing others, don't worry about his actions on the myspace.
Happy Birthday!
haha oh yeah a muse a libra! i totally know not to ask too many questions! trust me. haha its always the cold shoulder if/when i do. lol
but yeah.. i dont think he is dating anyone else.
hes in the military so he lives on base, and he's always online if hes not at work. and he usually stops in my work (which is right down the street) on his breaks...
thanks for the birthday wishes! i apprieciate it!
well i think i also need to consider the fact that i, myself haha have been kinda waiting for him to pay me respects so to say, and yet i dont really give him any either haha.
i just thought about that yesturday.(smacks forehead)
but..
im not sure how well they take flattery.. and i myself(i know it sounds craazzzyyy)dont take compliments all that well.. haha and yet im here complaining. lol
so in my mind, i guess i dont know if hes like me about them or not. lol
too many compliments and i run away. i get freaked out...
haha i guess i just want him to at least say, hi sexy or soemthing ya know? haha
oh god.. i sound soo needy.
damn! saggies do have outrageous demands huh??!!!
uuhhhggggg...
but yeah.. i dont think he is dating anyone else.
hes in the military so he lives on base, and he's always online if hes not at work. and he usually stops in my work (which is right down the street) on his breaks...
thanks for the birthday wishes! i apprieciate it!
well i think i also need to consider the fact that i, myself haha have been kinda waiting for him to pay me respects so to say, and yet i dont really give him any either haha.
i just thought about that yesturday.(smacks forehead)
but..
im not sure how well they take flattery.. and i myself(i know it sounds craazzzyyy)dont take compliments all that well.. haha and yet im here complaining. lol
so in my mind, i guess i dont know if hes like me about them or not. lol
too many compliments and i run away. i get freaked out...
haha i guess i just want him to at least say, hi sexy or soemthing ya know? haha
oh god.. i sound soo needy.
damn! saggies do have outrageous demands huh??!!!
uuhhhggggg...
lol, no actually, the more we criticize (jokingly, we arent virgo harsh...well, depending on who you ask) the more we care.
You sound like a mild leo, fwiw 🙂
You sound like a mild leo, fwiw 🙂
haha yeah...
thats another reason why i dont take them too well. haha i cant tell if they are criticism or flirtacious.. haha if thats how you spell um. lol
i get offended really really quick sometimes... soo.. im always on guard with my dukes up, if i think someone is disrespecting me..
its always when i have no walls up (usually when i like someone) that i get plummelled over with hurtful things.
oh and my bros a leo. lol me and him are tight!
haha
thats another reason why i dont take them too well. haha i cant tell if they are criticism or flirtacious.. haha if thats how you spell um. lol
i get offended really really quick sometimes... soo.. im always on guard with my dukes up, if i think someone is disrespecting me..
its always when i have no walls up (usually when i like someone) that i get plummelled over with hurtful things.
oh and my bros a leo. lol me and him are tight!
haha
so what did you get up to for your big day? 🙂
haha thanks somechick23!
well.. my car was finally fixed,
my co workers bought me a xbox 360
(i work at a gaming store haha and yet i have like no systems lol)
haha and some really great cash as always. lol
oh and i failed my communications class cause i got choked up and couldnt finnish my speech... yay.. me........(sarcastic)
what a birthday!
i think a nice dacari would have been the best, but i didnt consume a drip of alcohol on my 21st....
its interesting. lol
i like being a rebel! haha jk
well.. my car was finally fixed,
my co workers bought me a xbox 360
(i work at a gaming store haha and yet i have like no systems lol)
haha and some really great cash as always. lol
oh and i failed my communications class cause i got choked up and couldnt finnish my speech... yay.. me........(sarcastic)
what a birthday!
i think a nice dacari would have been the best, but i didnt consume a drip of alcohol on my 21st....
its interesting. lol
i like being a rebel! haha jk
sounds like the great birthday to me ! cept the exam bit 😢
why get drunk and miss some of the memories imo ? 😕 didn't get drunk on my 21st either !
so what games have you got ?
hey need some console advice - choice between 360, psp, wii or ps3? advantage and disadvantage of each from your perspective if you don't mind I hope 🙂
hmm, so can you retake the class ? what were you thinking about or was it stage fright? 🙂 good luck eitherway
why get drunk and miss some of the memories imo ? 😕 didn't get drunk on my 21st either !
so what games have you got ?
hey need some console advice - choice between 360, psp, wii or ps3? advantage and disadvantage of each from your perspective if you don't mind I hope 🙂
hmm, so can you retake the class ? what were you thinking about or was it stage fright? 🙂 good luck eitherway
hey! zenalchemy!!
well, id have to say i own a gamecube, ps2, x360! lol and a psp.
weve had like all the systems before.
um well im a big sony fan, and protested microsoft because all their systems tend to break(meanign x360 wirth the red ring of death) wthen the first year. i swear from how many people complain about them and how many people come into my work haveing to exchange them because of that problem, id say that microsoft purposly makes the internal harddrive fail on people withen a certain time frame to make you send it back in, or have to pay money to either get it fixed or replaced.
but on a lighter note, the 360 is a really great console. its the best out there so far.
psp!? i love mine. but, mine is modded (so i can play the old psone games, snes and regular nintendo games on it and never have to buy games, i just download them) i think if you want a psp, thats the way to go. although i work at a gameing store, i feel you wont get the most out of your psp unless its modded. imo
well, id have to say i own a gamecube, ps2, x360! lol and a psp.
weve had like all the systems before.
um well im a big sony fan, and protested microsoft because all their systems tend to break(meanign x360 wirth the red ring of death) wthen the first year. i swear from how many people complain about them and how many people come into my work haveing to exchange them because of that problem, id say that microsoft purposly makes the internal harddrive fail on people withen a certain time frame to make you send it back in, or have to pay money to either get it fixed or replaced.
but on a lighter note, the 360 is a really great console. its the best out there so far.
psp!? i love mine. but, mine is modded (so i can play the old psone games, snes and regular nintendo games on it and never have to buy games, i just download them) i think if you want a psp, thats the way to go. although i work at a gameing store, i feel you wont get the most out of your psp unless its modded. imo
the wii is alot of fun, but only if you have a bunch of people to play with. otherwise it can be kinda boring sometimes. and alot fo the games that they have are for a younger audience and family oriented.
the ps3! ummm.. im a huge sony fan!.. but the ps3 kinda let me down. im still holding out for it, but until it becomes better then the x360.
its advantage is that it is a blueray player, which in essence will cost the same amount as if you were to buy the system, and everything is supposed to be blue ray in the next 2 years anyways so thats a plus. game wise... not so great. the 360 and sony have so many shared games now its rediculous. you cant tell apart the systems too often now because there are so few games that are solely for either one.
alot of the original sony developers like square enix (makers of final fantasy) switch over to microsoft. not to mention on of the original developers of the original ff series left square to form his own company because he didnt like the way things were changing with sony.
the 360 breaks down alot, but people tend to get more game play out of it and it has the best line up of games right now anyways. the ps3 has a blue ray player which is a plus, the wii is family oriented and lots of fun with groups, and the psp is amazing if its modded.
hope that helps.
it all breaks down to really, whiat kind of games do you like, what kind of gameing enviroment your into and how much your willing rto spend.
^_^
the ps3! ummm.. im a huge sony fan!.. but the ps3 kinda let me down. im still holding out for it, but until it becomes better then the x360.
its advantage is that it is a blueray player, which in essence will cost the same amount as if you were to buy the system, and everything is supposed to be blue ray in the next 2 years anyways so thats a plus. game wise... not so great. the 360 and sony have so many shared games now its rediculous. you cant tell apart the systems too often now because there are so few games that are solely for either one.
alot of the original sony developers like square enix (makers of final fantasy) switch over to microsoft. not to mention on of the original developers of the original ff series left square to form his own company because he didnt like the way things were changing with sony.
the 360 breaks down alot, but people tend to get more game play out of it and it has the best line up of games right now anyways. the ps3 has a blue ray player which is a plus, the wii is family oriented and lots of fun with groups, and the psp is amazing if its modded.
hope that helps.
it all breaks down to really, whiat kind of games do you like, what kind of gameing enviroment your into and how much your willing rto spend.
^_^
and yeah i can retake the class, but i applied to state last month and needed that class in order to even be accepted. now that i failed it, if i dont have it on my transcripts completed after the spring semester, chances are really slim as to me being accepted..
i can take it again, but classes are really full right now for it.. so its ganna be super tough..
and stage frieght..
uuhhggg.. i don know what happened. this would ahve been the 2nd speech i gave in the class. first time, i was fine, nrvouse but fine, this time i was fine until it was time to start and then it was like i drew a blank, and freaked out and couldnt calm down.. it was horrible...
i can take it again, but classes are really full right now for it.. so its ganna be super tough..
and stage frieght..
uuhhggg.. i don know what happened. this would ahve been the 2nd speech i gave in the class. first time, i was fine, nrvouse but fine, this time i was fine until it was time to start and then it was like i drew a blank, and freaked out and couldnt calm down.. it was horrible...
seaclovers...if i remember correctly, your aqua had made up some story to get you jealous...so more than likely he is saying other girls are hot to get you jealous. it seems he is quite the little game player.
hey clover,
thanks for all the tips...highly informative --- wanted to hear from you as you work there so you prob know the common customer complaints.
Thinking about it all...i'll just check out the avalable games there are out there for each console, should help the decision. I dont know, there so much to do already 🙂
guess sony won the blu-ray vs HD dvd battle huh?
Any news for re-taking the class?
thanks for all the tips...highly informative --- wanted to hear from you as you work there so you prob know the common customer complaints.
Thinking about it all...i'll just check out the avalable games there are out there for each console, should help the decision. I dont know, there so much to do already 🙂
guess sony won the blu-ray vs HD dvd battle huh?
Any news for re-taking the class?
hey guys! sorry for the delay! i went to a friend of mines place for the weekend as it was both our 21st bdays this week and we had a blast!
zena!->no problem on the info!
if theres anything else you wanna know just ask. oh and somechick23, i havent heard of that one just yet.
im actually waiting for the new kingdom herats game for the ps2 thats coming out on the 2nd. wheee!!!!
haha
oh and yeahmoonchild8, it didnt dawn on me till you mentioned it...
haha maybe because i know hes interested and yet i didnt pay him too much attention he wanted to see how i would react if i saw comments on his page??
haha
either way, good news!!->
HE CAME OVER FOR THANKSGIVING, EVERYONE GOT ALONG SUPER GREAT AND WE KISSED FOR THE FIRST TIME! WOO!!! haha
and its been pretty super since.
of course the day after i left for the weekend, and after 2 days of no contact with him, hes been contacting me a lot. lol i think its funny. aquas are sooo predicatable when you know how they tick haha
zena!->no problem on the info!
if theres anything else you wanna know just ask. oh and somechick23, i havent heard of that one just yet.
im actually waiting for the new kingdom herats game for the ps2 thats coming out on the 2nd. wheee!!!!
haha
oh and yeahmoonchild8, it didnt dawn on me till you mentioned it...
haha maybe because i know hes interested and yet i didnt pay him too much attention he wanted to see how i would react if i saw comments on his page??
haha
either way, good news!!->
HE CAME OVER FOR THANKSGIVING, EVERYONE GOT ALONG SUPER GREAT AND WE KISSED FOR THE FIRST TIME! WOO!!! haha
and its been pretty super since.
of course the day after i left for the weekend, and after 2 days of no contact with him, hes been contacting me a lot. lol i think its funny. aquas are sooo predicatable when you know how they tick haha
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has been giving alot of compliments to other females.
like telling them they look smoken hot and sexy and stuff (myspace.. haha sorry)
and yet i get nothing. and obviously hes interested in me since we have gone out a few times and he is coming over..
i mean i guess im kinda used to them being in their own little world as with my ex, another aqua... but im not sure if this is just a aqua thing, or is he really attracted to these other women...
another thing... i notice he tends to comment on girls who have large breasts.. so im guessing hes a breast man..
which kinda sucks cause i have what one would acll a "healthy butt" haha... yeah its pretty nice.. but that makes me sad since my assest happends to be in that area, i feel like i wouldnt be adequete enough for him since my honkers arent exactly the first thing people look at.not that they are small.. they are a c, but still..
and i dont go flaunting them around, i am pretty modest when i dress myself, so.. yeah..
i know it sounds stupid.. but im just curious. the scorpio rising in me is making me feel insecure and jealous that hes giving attention to these other girls and yet i get none...
im sure its just that because he likes me he gives attention to others..—