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Posted by feby16aqua
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oh oh, and they can't be cheap or stingy...that will turn me off instantly. K, I'm done.



yes! That turns me off as well. Like bothers me lol.
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LOL Feb, I dated a guy awhile back, he was everything I wanted in a person... the moment I saw that side to him, I fled. It was sickening to me. Can't do it. C'ya.
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Weird! I agree, but it's not really weird, it's true; people who are genuine. I was just thinking about this last night. I thought it was maybe emotional intelligence that is attractive, or maybe it's just energy. I prefer someone who is fit, but I think if I really connected with someone their weight wouldn't matter. I know that once I connect with someone on a non-physical level, they become incredibly sexy to me. It wouldn't matter if they were sagging here or fluffy there, a mental connection does wonders. It's definitely mental or emotion that's first for me, when others look at pics of half-naked people and get excited, where I honestly wonder who they (in the pic) are inside and if I would be attracted to that.

I guess it's a lot easier to change the outside by caring for yourself than it is to change what you're truly made up of on the inside.
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We went somewhere to eat and I ordered something expensive. I never assumed he was paying for it and frigg, that is what I wanted. He gave me that look and said, you are ordering that?

That was it for me.

I said yes, and proceeded to order some fancy appetizers just to watch him sweat. That put him in a foul mood.

I enjoyed my meal whilst thinking, how to break up with him.

When the bill came I took it right away and said, don't worry--it's on me 😛

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Posted by feby16aqua
I would not go out and expect someone to pay for me...I'm prepared. But if I know that he's going to be paying I will try to take it easy on him LOL. Plus I'm weird about eating in front of someone I'm into 😉 I'm not a shy person...but I become incredibly shy and coy with an interest.



LMAO! That's one of my tells I think. Which is why I'm always super conscious when I end up at lunch or dinner with the person I like.
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I would not go out and expect someone to pay for me...I'm prepared. But if I know that he's going to be paying I will try to take it easy on him LOL. Plus I'm weird about eating in front of someone I'm into 😉 I'm not a shy person...but I become incredibly shy and coy with an interest.



LMAO! That's one of my tells I think. Which is why I'm always super conscious when I end up at lunch or dinner with the person I like.
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Me too tbh but wine is my friend.
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Very much so!! I don't know what placement it is in my chart, but I'm superficial when it comes to my partner. I have to be physically attracted to my partner, not just his personality. I have often seen people overlooking looks for a greattt personality, but I can't seem to do that. I don't care how beautiful a person's personality is because if I don't find them physically appealing, it just wouldn't go past that.

What am I attracted to? Slender faces with facial hair in men. I'm not attracted to babyfaced and clean shaven men. I don't care much for height as long as the guy is taller than me. I don't care if he's physically built, just as long as he's not fat or lardy. I don't mind skinny guys, so long as he doesn't look frail. Hygiene is a must!

When I meet someone, what strikes me most is the way they carry themselves and whether I find them attractive.