ScorpioFemale79
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Alright I will but if an aqua is the best person to be direct with then y isn't he direct.
"Or he just thinks I wouldn't date a coworker. Because I do take work seriously and that's what I focus on but that doesn't mean u don't wanna socialize."
Maybe he's wary of you because you are too serious all the time?
Does he act the same way with other female coworkers?
Maybe he's wary of you because you are too serious all the time?
Does he act the same way with other female coworkers?
Well a million friends eh? Alot of hope there. Maybe I'm the one that secretly stands out.
You know what I feel like. I feel like we're an old married couple that all the while he feels responsible for he feels like he doesn't need to try cause he knows he'll see me the next day.
I'm too accessible.
You know what I feel like. I feel like we're an old married couple that all the while he feels responsible for he feels like he doesn't need to try cause he knows he'll see me the next day.
I'm too accessible.
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
"Or he just thinks I wouldn't date a coworker. Because I do take work seriously and that's what I focus on but that doesn't mean u don't wanna socialize."
Maybe he's wary of you because you are too serious all the time?
Does he act the same way with other female coworkers?
No but I meant. It's cause it's just two of us in the dept and he knows how much responsibility I have. We stay afloat because of me. I keep things running so he can go out and do outreach, presentations and long term planning. So he knows hes dependent on me and knows I have alot on my plate. That being said if he doesn't try and socialize with me then ill just go my work. That doesn't mean I don't wanna talk its just i don't wanna mope either so I focus on work. I do try and talk to him as much as I can but I don't feel like hes really engaged or wants to talk with me. Then I think to myself well I must not matter after all. Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where.
He seems consistent with everyone else though
Mention one day you'd just like to get out of the office for lunch. Ask him if he'd like to go with. I'd do it in a light hearted way, so he doesn't feel pressure.
"Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where."
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
Posted by truecap
Mention one day you'd just like to get out of the office for lunch. Ask him if he'd like to go with. I'd do it in a light hearted way, so he doesn't feel pressure.
Yeah I'll try today. If he declines. Then he shouldn't be pissy if I don't want to talk to him cause he doesn't seem to care if other ppl ignore him
You know what I'll do. Ill document today. Word for word. Action for action so you all can see how it is for me
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
"Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where."
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
Well, if I were to date a coworker, I'd prefer it be an aqua who could keep it quiet! 🙂
Too bad we're not too good at keeping secrets. Being a fixed sign and all, the air element always wins. LOL.
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
"Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where."
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
I thought so too until I noticed he never did it for anyone else not even with the people he always talks too plus add in the fact he had a panic attack when I disappeared one day and I'm talking about full blown cant think straight worry and he never did that with anyone else that disappeared, the subtle touching, the territorial protective crap. If that ain't interest or care. Then fakk me for assuming
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Yeah Scorp I'm going hard on you because you have gone all grey lizard. Eagle the fuck up woman lol
Oh I normally eagle the fakk up but hes just soooooo inconsistent lol. I mean its like i try and talk hes isn't all animated. So I focus on work and he gets all pissy so I talk to other coworkers (sometimes males) and he gets all territorial
It's like omg wtf dooooo u want from me
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Aquas suck at secrets. Being one of the signs of communication. They tell everyone Everything and then go: what?
This one keeps secrets. If he does tell one he tells the wrong people instead of the people he should be telling
Posted by truecapPosted by BlueSandCacoon
"Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where."
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
Well, if I were to date a coworker, I'd prefer it be an aqua who could keep it quiet! 🙂click to expand
Ideally I'd like to date him but if the fact we work together is what's stopping him then pleaaaaaase tell me that at least cause I need clarity!
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Too bad we're not too good at keeping secrets. Being a fixed sign and all, the air element always wins. LOL.
pffff says you.
if my family is in danger and someone is trying to pry something out of me, and they're gonna hurt them? kill me first. that's right. shoot me.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
I met both Aquas at work. That is a flimsy excuse and a rationalization.
There's nothing rational about what I said. It's just common sense.
If sounds like an excuse to you, because your experiences were different. But the fact of the matter is some people care about their job and others not so much.
Posted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by BlueSandCacoon
"Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where."
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
I thought so too until I noticed he never did it for anyone else not even with the people he always talks too plus add in the fact he had a panic attack when I disappeared one day and I'm talking about full blown cant think straight worry and he never did that with anyone else that disappeared, the subtle touching, the territorial protective crap. If that ain't interest or care. Then fakk me for assumingclick to expand
You obviously get ore attention because you two work at the same dept.
He panics when you disappear because he's dependent on you (your words). So yes, he cares... on a professional level. The rest are probably just assumptions you make.
Posted by BlueSandCacoonPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by BlueSandCacoon
"Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where."
I do that all the time. It means I respect you as a colleague, but it's not like we are friends or anything. If my job is important to me (because of the money), then I won't be making many friends. Much less trying to date a coworker.
I think he wants to keep things "friendly" mainly because he wants to stay away from trouble.
Just my two cents.
I thought so too until I noticed he never did it for anyone else not even with the people he always talks too plus add in the fact he had a panic attack when I disappeared one day and I'm talking about full blown cant think straight worry and he never did that with anyone else that disappeared, the subtle touching, the territorial protective crap. If that ain't interest or care. Then fakk me for assuming
You obviously get ore attention because you two work at the same dept.
He panics when you disappear because he's dependent on you (your words). So yes, he cares... on a professional level. The rest are probably just assumptions you make.click to expand
Yeah but we technically have other people that have worked here in the past that he was dependent on and whenever they went MIA he didn't even notice. Like if im not "here" he'll call me to see what happened...with anyone else he never did. There were times when I overslept and he'd call me like 9am (an hour after i normally show up) but I guess when he called me and I didn't answer (I coudln't answer - long story) he panicked and freaked the fuck out. He started pacing and spazzing and couldn't sit still and all these things [its not like anything was going on during that time period) and then when i showed up and he came back from a meeting he literally ran to me and was like wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeere were youuuuuuuuuu I could have helped you i could have picked you up!!!!!! [How would that be possible if he had a meeting to go to lol]
so you see...this is why
"He started pacing and spazzing and couldn't sit still and all these things [its not like anything was going on during that time period) and then when i showed up and he came back from a meeting he literally ran to me and was like wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeere were youuuuuuuuuu I could have helped you i could have picked you up!!!!!! [How would that be possible if he had a meeting to go to lol]"
awwww....
🙂
awwww....
🙂
I guess the best thing you can do is to just ask him. It may be detrimental to your relationship with him, but if you don't take that step you will keep being confused.
Posted by lisabethur8
"He started pacing and spazzing and couldn't sit still and all these things [its not like anything was going on during that time period) and then when i showed up and he came back from a meeting he literally ran to me and was like wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeere were youuuuuuuuuu I could have helped you i could have picked you up!!!!!! [How would that be possible if he had a meeting to go to lol]"
awwww....
🙂
Yeha it is an awww siutation but considering how he's being all confusing on a daily basis and like I don't know what the word is "hesitant" or i dont know assuming too much... it seemed surreal becuase I thought he didn't give two squats about me.
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
I guess the best thing you can do is to just ask him. It may be detrimental to your relationship with him, but if you don't take that step you will keep being confused.
And that's what is stopping me. But I am going to try today.
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Too bad we're not too good at keeping secrets. Being a fixed sign and all, the air element always wins. LOL.
Lol! I did say one who COULD keep it quiet! 😛
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by BlueSandCacoon
I guess the best thing you can do is to just ask him. It may be detrimental to your relationship with him, but if you don't take that step you will keep being confused.
I agree with this!
It's hard to face the possibility of rejection...hard to face fears in general. I'm working on it too!click to expand
Rejection sucks yes but I'm more afraid of the work ramifications. Not that he'd say anything to any management cuase he's not the type to do that. I just would feel stupid if I creeped him out.
Sometimes men (and im not generalizing them) don't handle not being interested well.
Not that he's not interseted its just i'm so insecure sometimes LOL
Posted by EusiveSoulllPosted by IntriguedScorp
Yeah Scorp I'm going hard on you because you have gone all grey lizard. Eagle the fuck up woman lol
lmao IS.. this had me in stiches
@ OP; ever considered the possibility of the relationship (if it ever took of ground) going south one day and the aftermath of working with the same person you once dated within close proximity?
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Oh yes it had me in stitches too.
and to answer your question, of course I have. And I'm not worried so much about that like I normally would be with any other coworker for several reasons.
1. He doesn't need this job, he's pretty much here for fun [honest truth]
2. Out of the two of us, he's the one that is more action oriented when he's upset. If i'm upset I mostly just focus on work...he's the one that gets all dramatic i.e. the silent treatment if he's upset at me. So if we were to get to the point where we did date I will have that conversation with him that he needs to separate the two.
3. Over the time I've known him which has been a long time we've had ups and downs [BIG ONES] that we've kept to ourselves that no one really knows about. [honest truth]. If we can go through those heated things...I think I can tolerate a relationship with him.
Posted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by feb16aquaPosted by BlueSandCacoon
I guess the best thing you can do is to just ask him. It may be detrimental to your relationship with him, but if you don't take that step you will keep being confused.
I agree with this!
It's hard to face the possibility of rejection...hard to face fears in general. I'm working on it too!
Rejection sucks yes but I'm more afraid of the work ramifications. Not that he'd say anything to any management cuase he's not the type to do that. I just would feel stupid if I creeped him out.
Sometimes men (and im not generalizing them) don't handle not being interested well.
Not that he's not interseted its just i'm so insecure sometimes LOLclick to expand
Are you referring to the man not handling the situation of him not being interested in you well?
OR
You at times acting like your not interested?
Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by feb16aquaPosted by BlueSandCacoon
I guess the best thing you can do is to just ask him. It may be detrimental to your relationship with him, but if you don't take that step you will keep being confused.
I agree with this!
It's hard to face the possibility of rejection...hard to face fears in general. I'm working on it too!
Rejection sucks yes but I'm more afraid of the work ramifications. Not that he'd say anything to any management cuase he's not the type to do that. I just would feel stupid if I creeped him out.
Sometimes men (and im not generalizing them) don't handle not being interested well.
Not that he's not interseted its just i'm so insecure sometimes LOL
Are you referring to the man not handling the situation of him not being interested in you well?
OR
You at times acting like your not interested?click to expand
I'm talking about why I haven't said anything yet. I'm more afraid of creeping him out than being rejected.
I've had men that i was interseted in before that weren't interested and instead of being nice about it they got all dickish about it.
I'm not saying every man will be like that, but I worry about that happening more with people that are more important to me. If he was a silly little crush then i wouldn't care but I've knownt his guy a long time, I consider him a friend. We've been through alot of hell together and if I lost that, that would suck LOL
Posted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by feb16aquaPosted by BlueSandCacoon
I guess the best thing you can do is to just ask him. It may be detrimental to your relationship with him, but if you don't take that step you will keep being confused.
I agree with this!
It's hard to face the possibility of rejection...hard to face fears in general. I'm working on it too!
Rejection sucks yes but I'm more afraid of the work ramifications. Not that he'd say anything to any management cuase he's not the type to do that. I just would feel stupid if I creeped him out.
Sometimes men (and im not generalizing them) don't handle not being interested well.
Not that he's not interseted its just i'm so insecure sometimes LOL
Are you referring to the man not handling the situation of him not being interested in you well?
OR
You at times acting like your not interested?
I'm talking about why I haven't said anything yet. I'm more afraid of creeping him out than being rejected.
I've had men that i was interseted in before that weren't interested and instead of being nice about it they got all dickish about it.
I'm not saying every man will be like that, but I worry about that happening more with people that are more important to me. If he was a silly little crush then i wouldn't care but I've knownt his guy a long time, I consider him a friend. We've been through alot of hell together and if I lost that, that would suck LOLclick to expand
So..
Your worried about him, someone you care about and is important to you, acting like a dick after you confirm your interest to him?
sorry if the question seems redundant I'm just trying to make sure I understand what you mean :/
You are over-thinking it. Just be an awesome person. Talk about interesting things and create the space that way. Go play bingo with him at the old folks home. Run a 5k with him,do mad libs, go to an arcade or some other activity. See how he is outside of work. If you are the typical Scorp, confessing your undying interest in him could come across as too heavy for the situation and create awkwardness and resentment in the long run.
Keep your clothes on and keep it light.
Keep your clothes on and keep it light.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
sorry if the question seems redundant I'm just trying to make sure I understand what you mean :/
Yes exactly. What you mean.
Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
You are over-thinking it. Just be an awesome person. Talk about interesting things and create the space that way. Go play bingo with him at the old folks home. Run a 5k with him,do mad libs, go to an arcade or some other activity. See how he is outside of work. If you are the typical Scorp, confessing your undying interest in him could come across as too heavy for the situation and create awkwardness and resentment in the long run.
Keep your clothes on and keep it light.
But that's the hard part. Getting him to do stuff outside if work.
Okay, of all the signs I can see an Aqua being the least dickish if somehow he were not...
And why is it hard to get him to do stuff outside of work?? You've tried multiple occasions already or something?
And why is it hard to get him to do stuff outside of work?? You've tried multiple occasions already or something?
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Okay, of all the signs I can see an Aqua being the least dickish if somehow he were not...
And why is it hard to get him to do stuff outside of work?? You've tried multiple occasions already or something?
No its just super awkward i mean we had ups and downs for a long time and even tho we get along mostly... when it gets to anything leading that way its kinda weird. One time we went on a business trip, he asked if i wanted to go to dinner and it was awkward and it normally wasn't. he was unusually quiet the whole time and i was trying to even talk to him about his interests and he just kept muttering/mumbling stuff....so I thought i was boring yet at the same time he was doing things a guy would do on a date so its awkward cause i think we're both confused lol.
You are both confused because you communicate in different ways and to top it off your both fixed signs which means one of two things will have to happen for this to work lol
Either one of you is going to have to give in and be the one who submits and confesses thier love and bends to the others will Or it's going to be at best a sharing of power of w/e which is 't bad if you both understand how you each show affection and what it takes to make each other feel loved But at worst it could be a constant rollercoaster back and forth trying to figure each other out your entire life and beleive it or not some people actually have been married and lived out that way— To me that is strange and seems a stressful life but I guess the extreme showers of passion are what they both are really wanting and living for.
I really think you should next time he offers this interest for a dinner date.... Really be brave and convey to him in the least confrontstionally what has been going through your mind and how it is he makes you feel... And always be learning up on how we communicate and what it is that makes us feel loved BUT if he reciprocates and says he feels the same tell him why you where not sure how her felt because of this, this, this, and that.... And tell him what it is that someone does that more you know they are interested and what it is that makes you feel loved so he knows. You'll know afterward that if he doesn't make an effort to show you in those ways that we reassuring to you whether it's worth it to you... He may need reminding from time to time be size we can be sorta absentminded at times 😢
Either one of you is going to have to give in and be the one who submits and confesses thier love and bends to the others will Or it's going to be at best a sharing of power of w/e which is 't bad if you both understand how you each show affection and what it takes to make each other feel loved But at worst it could be a constant rollercoaster back and forth trying to figure each other out your entire life and beleive it or not some people actually have been married and lived out that way— To me that is strange and seems a stressful life but I guess the extreme showers of passion are what they both are really wanting and living for.
I really think you should next time he offers this interest for a dinner date.... Really be brave and convey to him in the least confrontstionally what has been going through your mind and how it is he makes you feel... And always be learning up on how we communicate and what it is that makes us feel loved BUT if he reciprocates and says he feels the same tell him why you where not sure how her felt because of this, this, this, and that.... And tell him what it is that someone does that more you know they are interested and what it is that makes you feel loved so he knows. You'll know afterward that if he doesn't make an effort to show you in those ways that we reassuring to you whether it's worth it to you... He may need reminding from time to time be size we can be sorta absentminded at times 😢
Hopefully you can decipher my iPhone autocorrect if not well I tried lol
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
You are both confused because you communicate in different ways and to top it off your both fixed signs which means one of two things will have to happen for this to work lol
Either one of you is going to have to give in and be the one who submits and confesses thier love and bends to the others will Or it's going to be at best a sharing of power of w/e which is 't bad if you both understand how you each show affection and what it takes to make each other feel loved But at worst it could be a constant rollercoaster back and forth trying to figure each other out your entire life and beleive it or not some people actually have been married and lived out that way— To me that is strange and seems a stressful life but I guess the extreme showers of passion are what they both are really wanting and living for.
I really think you should next time he offers this interest for a dinner date.... Really be brave and convey to him in the least confrontstionally what has been going through your mind and how it is he makes you feel... And always be learning up on how we communicate and what it is that makes us feel loved BUT if he reciprocates and says he feels the same tell him why you where not sure how her felt because of this, this, this, and that.... And tell him what it is that someone does that more you know they are interested and what it is that makes you feel loved so he knows. You'll know afterward that if he doesn't make an effort to show you in those ways that we reassuring to you whether it's worth it to you... He may need reminding from time to time be size we can be sorta absentminded at times 😢
I agree with you. At the very least I know what he needs in general work/personal and how he functions and how making his life easier -- he can make your life easier....so I know that much about him. The only thing I don't know is why he does certain things...like if he's not gonna ask me out...he has no right to be territorial/proctive. If he's interested but won't ask me out then stop acting like it. If its platonic...stop acting like it. But anyway my point is the one thing I don't know is how he feels and I think once I learn that...I will understand overtime how that side of him functions.
I just thought I would share this thought I found from tumblr because wow... It is so damn true lol. As a matter of fact if you take a gander there you might be surprised by some of the stuff that's their too. I mean yes some of it maybe you could deduce from generic personality traits of a sign but this particular thought magnified in this picture is a very genuine Aquariun thought all the way.
I hope that enlightens you to just how big our egos are... 😢
I know it makes us look bad BUT I'm beginning to wonder, of all the signs in the zodiac, if were aren't the one most afraid of rejection. Seriously, like we would rather avoid that because we are so damn serious about everything when it comes to emotional crap... We don't just jump into anything with anyone... and when someone takes a sincere expression of yours that you share with almost no one and throws it to the side.... it can be pretty damaging for a person like that. A lot of people THINK they feel the same way but I'm starting to be convinced they are absolutely wrong ^.^
I hope that enlightens you to just how big our egos are... 😢
I know it makes us look bad BUT I'm beginning to wonder, of all the signs in the zodiac, if were aren't the one most afraid of rejection. Seriously, like we would rather avoid that because we are so damn serious about everything when it comes to emotional crap... We don't just jump into anything with anyone... and when someone takes a sincere expression of yours that you share with almost no one and throws it to the side.... it can be pretty damaging for a person like that. A lot of people THINK they feel the same way but I'm starting to be convinced they are absolutely wrong ^.^
You know that statement is so accurate... ADMIT it lol! 😛
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I just thought I would share this thought I found from tumblr because wow... It is so damn true lol. As a matter of fact if you take a gander there you might be surprised by some of the stuff that's their too. I mean yes some of it maybe you could deduce from generic personality traits of a sign but this particular thought magnified in this picture is a very genuine Aquariun thought all the way.
I hope that enlightens you to just how big our egos are... 😢
I know it makes us look bad BUT I'm beginning to wonder, of all the signs in the zodiac, if were aren't the one most afraid of rejection. Seriously, like we would rather avoid that because we are so damn serious about everything when it comes to emotional crap... We don't just jump into anything with anyone... and when someone takes a sincere expression of yours that you share with almost no one and throws it to the side.... it can be pretty damaging for a person like that. A lot of people THINK they feel the same way but I'm starting to be convinced they are absolutely wrong ^.^
So I pretty much have to do all the work huh? What's hard with aqua males is friendliness vs. interest. Some days I think he is other days I think hes nice and other days I feel like I'm bothering him and other days I feel smothered. Ugh I wish all if you were here
You don't have to do ALL the work I just was hoping to let you know that If you were ever hoping he would start to chase you.... That's pretty much never gonna happen unless he has something to prove. It's not like he won't initiate anything he is just not going to do more than show you he is interested until he knows for sure how you feel.... At least that's what it sounds like to me. Supposedly, Leo woman and Aqua me have the best matchup for a long lasting marriage... maybe for your own insight... Maybe you should look up why they tend to stay together more than any other for an Aqua male.
I know it sounds like he will never make you feel special by chasing you... don't focus so much on that think about 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space' and all you scorpios want your space at times. I have no doubt he probably is thinking something similar along the lines of that quote haha we so damn stubborn it irritates me to even think about it ^.^
I know it sounds like he will never make you feel special by chasing you... don't focus so much on that think about 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space' and all you scorpios want your space at times. I have no doubt he probably is thinking something similar along the lines of that quote haha we so damn stubborn it irritates me to even think about it ^.^
hmmmm that quote is not true (unless it's generalization)
If he has an Aries Venus, Mars, and a Cardinal moon, cardinal rising,....ect they chase. Otherwise, it can be true.
If he has an Aries Venus, Mars, and a Cardinal moon, cardinal rising,....ect they chase. Otherwise, it can be true.
^^ sorry, it's just that I'm familiar with Aries Venus. (dominant venus aries in chart) and they are Chassserrrsss. Even astrologers /astrology sites say that. Even a Pisces man with dominant aries, with venus aries will CHASE in my experience.
yeah it depends on aspects and definitely opposite attracts.
Op, you have a Libra moon? Does he any Aries in him? Does he have some taurus? Jupiter to your Moon or Sun too, helps.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
You don't have to do ALL the work I just was hoping to let you know that If you were ever hoping he would start to chase you.... That's pretty much never gonna happen unless he has something to prove. It's not like he won't initiate anything he is just not going to do more than show you he is interested until he knows for sure how you feel.... At least that's what it sounds like to me. Supposedly, Leo woman and Aqua me have the best matchup for a long lasting marriage... maybe for your own insight... Maybe you should look up why they tend to stay together more than any other for an Aqua male.
I know it sounds like he will never make you feel special by chasing you... don't focus so much on that think about 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space' and all you scorpios want your space at times. I have no doubt he probably is thinking something similar along the lines of that quote haha we so damn stubborn it irritates me to even think about it ^.^
yeah it depends on aspects and definitely opposite attracts.
Op, you have a Libra moon? Does he any Aries in him? Does he have some taurus? Jupiter to your Moon or Sun too, helps.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
You don't have to do ALL the work I just was hoping to let you know that If you were ever hoping he would start to chase you.... That's pretty much never gonna happen unless he has something to prove. It's not like he won't initiate anything he is just not going to do more than show you he is interested until he knows for sure how you feel.... At least that's what it sounds like to me. Supposedly, Leo woman and Aqua me have the best matchup for a long lasting marriage... maybe for your own insight... Maybe you should look up why they tend to stay together more than any other for an Aqua male.
I know it sounds like he will never make you feel special by chasing you... don't focus so much on that think about 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space' and all you scorpios want your space at times. I have no doubt he probably is thinking something similar along the lines of that quote haha we so damn stubborn it irritates me to even think about it ^.^
He doesn't need to chase me but I always question whether he even cares if I'm around. I mean we could be alone for hours and he won't say anything but yet if someone passes by boom hes talkative with them. He basically talks to me the least but needs me the most. I think that's fucked up
Posted by lisabethur8
hmmmm that quote is not true (unless it's generalization)
If he has an Aries Venus, Mars, and a Cardinal moon, cardinal rising,....ect they chase. Otherwise, it can be true.
Well yes it is a 'slight' generalization but I think it is pretty accurate for most Aquariuns I bet if you were to ask every Aqua in here if they have ever had that thought or could relate to almost all of the. Would say yes.
Posted by lisabethur8
^^ sorry, it's just that I'm familiar with Aries Venus. (dominant venus aries in chart) and they are Chassserrrsss. Even astrologers /astrology sites say that. Even a Pisces man with dominant aries, with venus aries will CHASE in my experience.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
You don't have to do ALL the work I just was hoping to let you know that If you were ever hoping he would start to chase you.... That's pretty much never gonna happen unless he has something to prove. It's not like he won't initiate anything he is just not going to do more than show you he is interested until he knows for sure how you feel.... At least that's what it sounds like to me. Supposedly, Leo woman and Aqua me have the best matchup for a long lasting marriage... maybe for your own insight... Maybe you should look up why they tend to stay together more than any other for an Aqua male.
I know it sounds like he will never make you feel special by chasing you... don't focus so much on that think about 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space' and all you scorpios want your space at times. I have no doubt he probably is thinking something similar along the lines of that quote haha we so damn stubborn it irritates me to even think about it ^.^
yeah it depends on aspects and definitely opposite attracts.
Op, you have a Libra moon? Does he any Aries in him? Does he have some taurus? Jupiter to your Moon or Sun too, helps.click to expand
I don't know our charts by memory
His bday is 2/8/75. Born here in so cali. Time unknown
Mine is 11/16/79. Born in Oakland Cali. Time supposedly around 8am
Man I'm too tired to constantly catch all this Iphone autocorrect
NYAA said 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space'
Yep! Yep! Yep!!! I'm a cap and need space. My aqua gives it to me with no complaints, no whining, no problem. He totally understands!!! And Aqua is the ONLY sign that doesn't make me feel smothered!!
So, yes, Ms Scorp, you will appreciate that!!!
So, did you ask him about getting out of the office for lunch— Make some kind of move already!!!
Yep! Yep! Yep!!! I'm a cap and need space. My aqua gives it to me with no complaints, no whining, no problem. He totally understands!!! And Aqua is the ONLY sign that doesn't make me feel smothered!!
So, yes, Ms Scorp, you will appreciate that!!!
So, did you ask him about getting out of the office for lunch— Make some kind of move already!!!
Posted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by lisabethur8
^^ sorry, it's just that I'm familiar with Aries Venus. (dominant venus aries in chart) and they are Chassserrrsss. Even astrologers /astrology sites say that. Even a Pisces man with dominant aries, with venus aries will CHASE in my experience.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
You don't have to do ALL the work I just was hoping to let you know that If you were ever hoping he would start to chase you.... That's pretty much never gonna happen unless he has something to prove. It's not like he won't initiate anything he is just not going to do more than show you he is interested until he knows for sure how you feel.... At least that's what it sounds like to me. Supposedly, Leo woman and Aqua me have the best matchup for a long lasting marriage... maybe for your own insight... Maybe you should look up why they tend to stay together more than any other for an Aqua male.
I know it sounds like he will never make you feel special by chasing you... don't focus so much on that think about 'wow, how nice that will be when I actually do want space' and all you scorpios want your space at times. I have no doubt he probably is thinking something similar along the lines of that quote haha we so damn stubborn it irritates me to even think about it ^.^
yeah it depends on aspects and definitely opposite attracts.
Op, you have a Libra moon? Does he any Aries in him? Does he have some taurus? Jupiter to your Moon or Sun too, helps.
I don't know our charts by memory
His bday is 2/8/75. Born here in so cali. Time unknown
Mine is 11/16/79. Born in Oakland Cali. Time supposedly around 8amclick to expand
http://www.cafeastrology.com/<BR> if you want to do your charts. 🙂 just plug it in and research/analyze what you think.
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