puresoul
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roller coaster ride with this aqua !!!
Um it's hard to answer this because he is a guy but being an aqua I feel he has you but also has options. When I'm really into someone there is no way of talking me out of them unless Ive convinced myself they are not right for me. I've done what he's doing a few times and the reason was bcuz I wasn't 100% sure about settling down with them. Usually because there was too much negativity than positive things but there was still feelings. It's messed up I know but it seemslike he doesn't want to be alone either. So he has you to love on. he does care about u he just isn't sure about you in that way. There is a chance still cause he is interested but again there is something turning him off when it comes to you or the two of you together.. Do you have a clue what that is?
Aquas are good people that's just one of our negative ugly traits lol. I did the "unsure" thing more when I was younger. I dk how old he is but if you really care and like him than figure out what's turning him off and c if it's something u can fix or change. But only if you want to. Always b you.
Aquas are good people that's just one of our negative ugly traits lol. I did the "unsure" thing more when I was younger. I dk how old he is but if you really care and like him than figure out what's turning him off and c if it's something u can fix or change. But only if you want to. Always b you.
thanks for ur feedback!! hmmmm yeah i have been acting tooo negetice lately and not quite believing in the relationship... breaking up becuz he wouldnt commit to me but its juss tht we belong to a more reserved culture and our culture dus not quite permit live in relationships and things of tht sort ...
hmmmm he dus want to save this relationship but i do see the difference in him, he was much more into me thn he is currently... he used to tok about me being his wife and having babies with me and blah blah blah .... and now hes more like we need to save the relationship....i duno !!! its a mental turmoil .... sometimes i juss feel like giving up and moving on and not just get into all tht mess and sometimes i feel like working towards this relationship..... m soooo tired and i juss feel tht altho i do feel for him deeply , im juss dragging this relationship hoping tht one fine day he would propose me for marrige.... is it worth working towards and can this relationship be saved—
hmmmm he dus want to save this relationship but i do see the difference in him, he was much more into me thn he is currently... he used to tok about me being his wife and having babies with me and blah blah blah .... and now hes more like we need to save the relationship....i duno !!! its a mental turmoil .... sometimes i juss feel like giving up and moving on and not just get into all tht mess and sometimes i feel like working towards this relationship..... m soooo tired and i juss feel tht altho i do feel for him deeply , im juss dragging this relationship hoping tht one fine day he would propose me for marrige.... is it worth working towards and can this relationship be saved—
oh and he is 29 and i am 22
Yes, it can be. This may help I'm about your age as well and you kind of sound just like me 8 months ago. Well one bright sunny day I fell for a Scorpio boy. In class is where we met and ventured out on our roller coaster. Till one day things got weird. He started acting different. Although he possessed a lot of Scorpio traits during this process but any how I fell in the loop of confusion. Kinda like how you are. Not knowing to continue or not. But deep down I knew he wanted me the same way I wanted him. He was just a little unsure still. So knowing that I decided to keep going until he really pushed me away. If he liked me before he can do it again. Men are simple like that. So my plan was to back up and remove all negative energy. I started thinking in reality in the terms of if he doesn't want me than HIS LOSS. Never give him an option cause that's what he's keeping you as. Aquas love options but will choose if there no longer available. I wasn't a bitch either I was as sweet as could be but stood my grounds. Each week that past my man got closer. Till now.. Were together and he claims I'm his forever. Now I'm the one kind of like woah lol
See your freakin out and unsure is letting off on him and it is negative energy. I know it's hard but you need a few days to yourself to re-vamp and get back to reality. Your an amazing young lady I bet and I'm sure he knows that but if you let him always have that option than he'll keep it. He'll play hot and cold games with u like it's the best game in the world. Trust me. But if you take his safety net away don't ever give it back. Doesnt mean you can't still love him you just need to stand your ground like a lady should. He wants you.. You know that. Now it's your turn to to be strong and not hurt by his confusion. This will be hard and you may still be confused but that all depends on the outcome you want and how bad you want to save a relationship. You win either way. He takes you as his with respect or he walks away still respecting you. Be you.. And erase all negativity.
It worked for me with a scorp which is tough enough. It can work for him too you just have to be strong and have patience. Hope that helps.
See your freakin out and unsure is letting off on him and it is negative energy. I know it's hard but you need a few days to yourself to re-vamp and get back to reality. Your an amazing young lady I bet and I'm sure he knows that but if you let him always have that option than he'll keep it. He'll play hot and cold games with u like it's the best game in the world. Trust me. But if you take his safety net away don't ever give it back. Doesnt mean you can't still love him you just need to stand your ground like a lady should. He wants you.. You know that. Now it's your turn to to be strong and not hurt by his confusion. This will be hard and you may still be confused but that all depends on the outcome you want and how bad you want to save a relationship. You win either way. He takes you as his with respect or he walks away still respecting you. Be you.. And erase all negativity.
It worked for me with a scorp which is tough enough. It can work for him too you just have to be strong and have patience. Hope that helps.
Thanx girl!! I truly truly respect u for the step u had taken of stying firm on ur grounds.
And ur advises give me hope. And yes somewhr somethng tells me tht m an option. And henceforth
I very clearly told him tht we ll stay frnds, becuz u stubborn attitute is not helping this relationship grow
And I have no insecurity of him leaving becuz of sooo much shit that he has given me.
Wht I think is tht men want women whu not insecured and whu r confident bout themselves.
However if thr r ny excercises as to wht I shld be communicatin with him etc, thn I'd appretite if ud guide me.
However thanx a tonn
And ur advises give me hope. And yes somewhr somethng tells me tht m an option. And henceforth
I very clearly told him tht we ll stay frnds, becuz u stubborn attitute is not helping this relationship grow
And I have no insecurity of him leaving becuz of sooo much shit that he has given me.
Wht I think is tht men want women whu not insecured and whu r confident bout themselves.
However if thr r ny excercises as to wht I shld be communicatin with him etc, thn I'd appretite if ud guide me.
However thanx a tonn
As of right now I would say for you to cut all communication.. stop calling or texting him. BUT if he hits you up than go ahead and reply. When you reply just act as though everything in YOUR world is great. Even if your dying from a broken heart. This will intrigue him because youve changed how you normally act. But this time your happy and stable and not confused. Your not even concerened on where your relationship is going with him. For all he knows your fair game to every other man who tries to win your heart. If he truly likes/loves you than this will trigger his "man" side of needing to hunt and capture you down again. Because no man likes sharing his lady.
Like I mentioned before.. when your an option he no longer has to work for you because he knows that whenever he calls you will be right there wondering if he still loves you in which he will continue what he's doing now. But if you turn it around it will shake things up big time for him.
Don't play games with him just live your life. You will be busy and he will start noticing that. When your happy everyone notices. Breaking things off was good and now that your just friends your not required to do anything outside that nature. His attitude will change once he sees your serious.
If he countinues to stay the same way than you did yourself a favor by getting out now. It now just means he has problems within himself and your there to take it out on. No good.
So like I said girl back off and revamp.. live your life and be happy. Dont bring up the relationship or how you feel for him. He doesnt deserve that till you see it from him first.
Oh and if he plays the guilt trip card dont listen. Because when He is HOT he is manipulating you when he is COLD he is showing you his true colors. Follow that. Know his true heart when you see it.
Like I mentioned before.. when your an option he no longer has to work for you because he knows that whenever he calls you will be right there wondering if he still loves you in which he will continue what he's doing now. But if you turn it around it will shake things up big time for him.
Don't play games with him just live your life. You will be busy and he will start noticing that. When your happy everyone notices. Breaking things off was good and now that your just friends your not required to do anything outside that nature. His attitude will change once he sees your serious.
If he countinues to stay the same way than you did yourself a favor by getting out now. It now just means he has problems within himself and your there to take it out on. No good.
So like I said girl back off and revamp.. live your life and be happy. Dont bring up the relationship or how you feel for him. He doesnt deserve that till you see it from him first.
Oh and if he plays the guilt trip card dont listen. Because when He is HOT he is manipulating you when he is COLD he is showing you his true colors. Follow that. Know his true heart when you see it.
You can mail me on here if you need anything.. hope you do good and stay strong.. remember his loss not yours. Your amazing with out him.
Thnx for your guidance! I hav not heard frm his since a week and I think
Becuz I had asked for a commitment, he has backed off. But nyways as told by u I haven't spoken to him,
Did not try callin him, deleted him from my blk berry messenger. Its as tho he has dissappeared.
M juss gng to patiently wait. If he dus not understnd, oh well too bad he's loosing me and thts for sure.
Can't bear his bull crap nymore.....
Becuz I had asked for a commitment, he has backed off. But nyways as told by u I haven't spoken to him,
Did not try callin him, deleted him from my blk berry messenger. Its as tho he has dissappeared.
M juss gng to patiently wait. If he dus not understnd, oh well too bad he's loosing me and thts for sure.
Can't bear his bull crap nymore.....
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