ginnygenie
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Scorpio girl Aquarius Man..... no more hope?
Scorpio and Aquarius are both "fixed" signs.
Usually fixed signs see things as they are, like a "it is what it is" type of thing, or they don't really see things as "changing," vs a mutable sign, for example, where everything is about transforming in one form or another.
Aquarius might see a flaw in the relationship. He might not want to communicate it to you for fear of hurting your feelings. But he might see this as something that cannot be fixed, or maybe the circumstances at the moment cannot change and your relationship must be put on hold.
In my experience, most Aquarius people have one "soulmate" in their life, and no matter how many partners they have, they will never live up to the expectations of the soulmate. Doesn't matter if the soulmate has passed away or is still alive and just not committed to them at the moment.
If you are the "soulmate"- in their eyes, they will always hold you as that in their hearts no matter who is in their life or how many partners come after you.
The downside to that is if the opposite is true. Which based on what you say I don't think is true... but idk the whole story.
So if things are not working out at the moment, don't think that they won't in the future. Maybe something is putting your relationship on hold which he isn't communicating about, like work or school or financial situations.
I would step away for a while and make yourself happy. It's hard but it's probably best for the both of you if you take some space.
Usually fixed signs see things as they are, like a "it is what it is" type of thing, or they don't really see things as "changing," vs a mutable sign, for example, where everything is about transforming in one form or another.
Aquarius might see a flaw in the relationship. He might not want to communicate it to you for fear of hurting your feelings. But he might see this as something that cannot be fixed, or maybe the circumstances at the moment cannot change and your relationship must be put on hold.
In my experience, most Aquarius people have one "soulmate" in their life, and no matter how many partners they have, they will never live up to the expectations of the soulmate. Doesn't matter if the soulmate has passed away or is still alive and just not committed to them at the moment.
If you are the "soulmate"- in their eyes, they will always hold you as that in their hearts no matter who is in their life or how many partners come after you.
The downside to that is if the opposite is true. Which based on what you say I don't think is true... but idk the whole story.
So if things are not working out at the moment, don't think that they won't in the future. Maybe something is putting your relationship on hold which he isn't communicating about, like work or school or financial situations.
I would step away for a while and make yourself happy. It's hard but it's probably best for the both of you if you take some space.
He keeps the distance because you like to throw your stings at him.
I think he still likes you but he waits until he sees a change in you.
I think he still likes you but he waits until he sees a change in you.
Posted by aquarius_manHi there! Hmmm so what makes you think so that he is definitely interested? Because he once said that do not put any hope on him anymore. I really do need your opinion alot cos he is really driving me crazy hahaPosted by ginnygenie blah blah blah but he still stalks my instagram story every time. ...^ oh but i hadnt seen this hahahaha
Can anyone tell me what is he trying to do?
then he is definitely interested; also could want to see if you hang out with other guys
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Posted by nightowlI think that too 😢 thats why its driving me nuts
aqua men=no hope
tbh it seems like a false breakup. yeah I don't think a guy in his right mind would take his ex out like that. seems like he has mixed feelings
Posted by glutton4punishmentHmmm which part you don't think is true? Haha sorry Im kinda lost 😅
The downside to that is if the opposite is true. Which based on what you say I don't think is true... but idk the whole story.
So if things are not working out at the moment, don't think that they won't in the future. Maybe something is putting your relationship on hold which he isn't communicating about, like work or school or financial situations.
I would step away for a while and make yourself happy. It's hard but it's probably best for the both of you if you take some space.
Thats what Im doing right now, giving the space he wanted and yesterday he started messaging me again asking me abt my job after seeing my insta story ....
Posted by AerialViewHopefully it goes that way! Although he said that do not put any hope on him anymore...
He keeps the distance because you like to throw your stings at him.
I think he still likes you but he waits until he sees a change in you.
Doesn’t sound like a good match to me. Why do you want to be with him?
Posted by aquarius_manHmmm okay i see! He just texted me last night after seeing my insta story and was asking me about my job all that and he gone quiet again .... zzzPosted by ginnygeniedunno about him but i tend to stalk my ex's insta stories; or an actual interest's 😄Posted by aquarius_manHi there! Hmmm so what makes you think so that he is definitely interested? Because he once said that do not put any hope on him anymore. I really do need your opinion alot cos he is really driving me crazy hahaPosted by ginnygenie blah blah blah but he still stalks my instagram story every time. ...^ oh but i hadnt seen this hahahaha
Can anyone tell me what is he trying to do?
then he is definitely interested; also could want to see if you hang out with other guys
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Posted by pinkbird03Because I love him and still thinks that the relationship still can be improved and not just end suddenly like this ....
Doesn’t sound like a good match to me. Why do you want to be with him?
lol you are with a sign notorious for being the least commited in relationships.
You are also a sign notorious for needing security in relationships to feel safe.
Take those signs away and you are still in a situation where your needs are not being met because he needs to be able to do whatever the fuck he wants to do, and that appears to be shit that does not include you.
Make a decision and stick with it.
You are also a sign notorious for needing security in relationships to feel safe.
Take those signs away and you are still in a situation where your needs are not being met because he needs to be able to do whatever the fuck he wants to do, and that appears to be shit that does not include you.
Make a decision and stick with it.
Posted by aquarius_manHmm thats what I did. I gave him the space he wants and minimize constant texting with him unless nessessary. I really do want him back alot because I still see there's hope and I can see that we love each other alot. Just that I don't know how to do to make him come back.Posted by ginnygenie One day I confronted him about him being cold towards me all that. He did apologize and I confronted him further (bad move I admit) till he said his love for me is getting lesser and lesser due to all the fights we have.It was a big fight and he was saying all the nasty things to me. After a few days of consideration we talked it through face to face about our flaws and what went wrong calmly. For the whole time I held my emotions back but to my surprise he was tearing up and was telling me I'm a good girl and thanked me for telling him all his flaws all that and was sorry for saying all the nasty things to me earlier on. In the end, he ended the relationship although I tried to talk it through with him, telling him we can work on it together. Still, he said no. He told me he doesn't know how to love anymore and wants to be single. He sent me up to my house and we hugged for quite some time and I kissed him for the last time. He was in tears.^this scene is oddly familiar 😄
he likes you, he still has got feelings for you but to us aquas constant fighting is a deal-breaker. i really think he broke up with you and unless you play nice and less argumentative with him (just sweeten everything up for the next 2 months or so), I don t see how he will come back. But he still cares about you.
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Posted by aquarius_manActually yesterday was his first time initiating a conversation with me. For the past few times I was the one doing it (except for the one he asked me out) . Do aquarius tends to take back their things after breakup (eg. Clothes and money all that) he told me he will give me the money in our joint account but I said no because I do not take something that doesn't belongs to me and told him to take it out and I'll go and close the account myself and he said ok. However till now he hasnt do anything about it yet.Posted by ginnygenieyes, because he still hurt and most likely tries to break contact with you but still can't
Hmmm okay i see! He just texted me last night after seeing my insta story and was asking me about my job all that and he gone quiet again .... zzz
and your job and all that...thats just excuses so he can talk to you, pretending he's not that interested in your feels but in your career instead.
same thing 😄
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Posted by ginnygenieTwo people have to believe that in order for any positive change to occur. If that becomes the case, what are your plans to improve the relationship?Posted by pinkbird03Because I love him and still thinks that the relationship still can be improved and not just end suddenly like this ....
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Posted by aquarius_manYes yes I'm not trying to be clingy and demanding. I'm just treating him as a close friend caring for him from a distance. However, he's always the one who did not reply the conversation in the end. I would try to pursue for his replies last time but this time round I played it cool and even gave him encouragement for his work all that.Posted by ginnygenietrick him into it. be wise and soft and sweet and sad. play miserable. he will want you to feel good if he cares about you. but don t be clingy, demanding or possessive. play it cool. don't push him or rush him into it. outsmart him and play (just pretend) you 're a damsel in distress who DOESN'T NEED to be saved and will want to 'save' you (hahaha).
Hmm thats what I did. I gave him the space he wants and minimize constant texting with him unless nessessary. I really do want him back alot because I still see there's hope and I can see that we love each other alot. Just that I don't know how to do to make him come back.
aquas are people you can reason with and if there are lingering feelings you might still have a chance. if you honestly think there's still hope don't let him fade away coz once he's done that, he'll never come back.
never.
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P.S @aquarius_man I think you miss out on anothe reply I gave you 🙂
Aquarius wants to remain friends after a break up. In my experience, they are not the type to "cut you out" forever. So maybe that is was is confusing you here. Listen to what he says when he tells you he needs to be single. Maybe in the future he will come back around, but don't live your life expecting him to do that.
Posted by aquarius_manSo what is my ex doing then ?? I told him to take out the money and he said okay but now he hasnt act on anything yet. Like this the joint account will exist foreverPosted by ginnygenieDo aquarius tends to take back their things after breakup (eg. Clothes and money all that) he told me he will give me the money in our joint account but I said no because I do not take something that doesn't belongs to me and told him to take it out and I'll go and close the account myself and he said ok. However till now he hasnt do anything about it yet.no, we just say we want our things back but we don t actually care about them
we only do so to show the other that we want to burn all the bridges
i used this - i need to pick up my stuff - as an excuse to still keep in touch with my exes and i always ended up leaving my stuff at theirs - laptops, clothes, money who needs them?
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Posted by aquarius_manInteresting!Posted by taurusgirl9000if they didnt love you enough they might stay friends - or if its them who dumped you
Aquarius wants to remain friends after a break up. In my experience, they are not the type to "cut you out" forever.
otherwise, not a chance. i burn all the bridges.
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Posted by aquarius_manI don't want his money either because it will be pointless and he said he will take it out which leaves the situation hanging. I wouldnt want to be so rash and close the account because I know it will bring regrets to me
that money will remind him of you so that s why he doesnt want it; once you two choose to close it, it becomes official
Posted by aquarius_manYeah I was so called dumped by him? Haha.Posted by taurusgirl9000if they didnt love you enough they might stay friends - or if its them who dumped you
Aquarius wants to remain friends after a break up. In my experience, they are not the type to "cut you out" forever.
otherwise, not a chance. i burn all the bridges.
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But asking me out just a week after we broke up really caught me off guard. But its going out as a friend and fulfilling his promise lol. Do you do that?
Posted by taurusgirl9000Yeah thats what Im trying to do now, keeping him out of my mind and keeping him as a friend (which is hard but im trying) I have to deal with his slow replies in texts now and all that ....
Aquarius wants to remain friends after a break up. In my experience, they are not the type to "cut you out" forever. So maybe that is was is confusing you here. Listen to what he says when he tells you he needs to be single. Maybe in the future he will come back around, but don't live your life expecting him to do that.
Posted by bittercupcakeThats why its confusing me so much. Asking me out after breaking up one week and now begin contacting each other.....but its already been 2 months so I really dont know if he have moved on.
While I’ll agree with Taurusgirl9000, I’m only ‘friends’ with exes if I have no lingering feelings or have feelings for my exes. It’s one or the other. But seeing as you broke up recently, I’d say the latter.
Perseverance is key with an Aqua. Like aquariusman said, be sweet, nice, loving but open to the possibility of not being with him. Aquarius wants a loving and doting partner - but one that is not as available. Someone who’ll keep us guessing whether they’d stay or not- or walk away and will be fine without us.
Yeah I admit I am sweet and loving towards him but sometimes as a scorpio I tends to be emotional all that which keeps him offguard I guess. Actually we dotes on each other well equally....but one thing is I'll be always available for him which I guess I needs to change that
Posted by AerialViewYou love Scorpio things. Admit it. Wink wink 😉
He keeps the distance because you like to throw your stings at him.
I think he still likes you but he waits until he sees a change in you.
Posted by aquarius_manWell he told me lets close the account when we went out together. Yeah rash as in I told him I do not need his money which is kind of the truth cos we are not together why did you have to give me your money. I do not need that really.Posted by ginnygeniethen tell him so. look, i don t want your money. aquas are very good at letting things hanging hoping they will miraculously fix somehow - they wont put in any effort to fix it, though. unless they really love you. but you come off as a bit rash (wounded people are aggressive) and this approach will never work with an aqua. coz they might respond even more aggressively or play dead all of a sudden.Posted by aquarius_manI don't want his money either because it will be pointless and he said he will take it out which leaves the situation hanging. I wouldnt want to be so rash and close the account because I know it will bring regrets to me
that money will remind him of you so that s why he doesnt want it; once you two choose to close it, it becomes official
i had an ...affair? with a scorpio young lady and everything was fine until i started ignoring her because i felt she wasnt for me. and she took the break up pretty bad. and the more she was pressuring me into giving her a straight answer -r u with me or not - the more i was running from her. she blocked me on fb eventually after she texted me an angry message to which i replied simply - bugger off. end of story. but that was a fling while you talk about a relationship. why dont you ask this boy out and have a drink with him and talk things over and see exactly where you both stand? after that face to face meeting you ll know 100% what his intentions areclick to expand
Before we really broke up he told me to give him 2 days and after 2 days I went to find him, which I guess it made everything worse. But the moment he saw me he held onto my hands and began walking. I asked him the other day why did he held onto my hands since he wants to end the relationship in the first place.... he told me maybe he got used to it already.
The breakup was pretty bad for me. It hits me hard actually but I'm not that dramatic as the girl you mentioned I guess. I took it in myself and showed him I was rather okay with it. Thats why when we talked it through before breaking up for real he told me he was surprised I didnt cry at all (and hes the one who ends up crying). I vented out my emotions when I'm alone. Now I'm alittle afraid of asking him out though....
Posted by aquarius_manYeah yeah I do hear alot that aquas stays as friends with their ex !! Well caring for each other is normal for aquas I guess —Posted by ginnygenieno. if i really loved you its fucck you i dont want to see you ever again coz you re making my heart bleed and stuff like that 😄 but im not like most aquas, from what i hear
Yeah I was so called dumped by him? Haha.
But asking me out just a week after we broke up really caught me off guard. But its going out as a friend and fulfilling his promise lol. Do you do that?
but i do know of aquas who after a break up want to stay friends especially if they dump you and feel morally compelled to 'look after' you coz they dont want you to suffer 🙂)
i dont know if he loved you, but this 'friendship' thing shows me he still cares about you.
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Posted by aquarius_manThats VERY TRUE. He finally got his freedom he wants and he told me he was bored at home because his job now allows him to have more time to rest at home and I was like 'but you are the one who claims to have no alone time and now you are telling me you have nothing to do at home'Posted by ginnygenie
Thats why its confusing me so much. Asking me out after breaking up one week and now begin contacting each other.....but its already been 2 months so I really dont know if he have moved on.
2 months is nothing for an aqua 🙂))) he barely starts realizing what he actually did and now that he's 'lost' you he misses you!! now that he is no longer pressured to 'love' you and 'be with you' and 'commit' he finds it very easy to ask you out. like 'no strings attached, no hidden catch'.
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Now as friends he can reply me as slow as he wants and do whatever he wants but one thing for sure he is still watching my insta story everytime I post smth and his name is always at the top LOL 😂
Posted by aquarius_manHmmm truth hurts though. I don't think I'll forget about him but I'll treat him as my friend. Although I love him alot, I'll just keep that love to myself.Posted by ginnygenieyes, i do that with my ex, too. but she's my EX. he ll stop stalking you the moment he finds another romantic interest, don't worry. i would suggest forgetting about him.
Now as friends he can reply me as slow as he wants and do whatever he wants but one thing for sure he is still watching my insta story everytime I post smth and his name is always at the top LOL 😂
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