Sexual tension

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by libra sun on Friday, November 12, 2010 and has 4 replies.
So I used to be FWB with an Aqua guy, at first I thought he liked me more than I him, then I realised I liked him more than him me, so I just got over it. Since I have paid him no attention he's showed up looking for it lol. I'm not interested in him like that anymore, I lose interest very quickly once someone stops giving me attention, im not one to work for it.
I do really like him as a friend though, but there is so much sexual tension between us that it just makes everything so awkward! The thing is I dont think either of us actually want to sleep with eachother lol we're quite happy just hanging out together and enjoy eachothers company. I can tell he feels uncomfortable around me though but he still comes round, and I sense the feeling he doesnt want to leave when he comes. It's him that instigates it, I just reply and say he can come round.
I told him a while ago how a felt about him and he never got back to me about it! I'm just not sure what the guy wants from me. I know you will probably say talk to him, but he refuses to talk about the way he feels, always avoids the topic or ignores a text message if its about feelings. Just wondering what you guys think, is this typical Aquarius trying to get some attention? Should I just ignore it and eventually he will stop acting weird? Is this his (very late) way of saying he likes me because if so I dont want to hurt his feelings or do we just need to "do it" one last time to get rid of the tension lol
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If he's not ready to share his feelings, having sex with him won't make him any more ready. It might release whatever sexual frustration that's been building up but that's about it. Sounds like you want both, sex from him AND for him to express how he truly feels about you. BUT sex & emotions are 2 different things. Even the people who express their innermost emotions during/after sex had to be READY to express such feelings 1st.
Just wait until this guy is ready. I know it's frustrating but hey, that's how some Aquas can be. He probably has his own reasons for why he can't just come out & tell you how he truly feels. Either way, just respect whatever those reasons are.
If you just want to have sex with him, be honest about that & go for it! If his pace/speed & the way he goes about things isn't fast-paced enough for you, then chalk it up & accept that...take it for what it is. Just know that having sex with him won't make him open up. I'll make you both feel better/less frustrated physically, but that's about it.
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To be fair the guy missed his chance to share his feelings with me, if they are there I dont want to hurt them, but it would be a lot better if he didnt have them, then we could just bang it out and be done with it lol. I dont want a sexual relationship with him, just want his friendship without the weirdness, but then again maybe thats impossible with you Aqua's Tongue
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'I dont want a sexual relationship with him, just want his friendship but then again maybe thats impossible with you Aqua's '
IMO, it is for some of them.
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