Should I leave my Aquarius?

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Hello,

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. My fiance, Aquaman, and I have been together for 5 years. We are due to get married January 2021. Recently, we got really drunk and out of nowhere he told me that he doesn't "completely" love me but wants to get married because he wants me to himself and I'm the one ----yada yada. I asked him, "Where is this coming from" and he brought up something that I did before we even got together.

Aquaman and I initially met in high school in 2013. Then 5 years ago in 2015, Aquaman and I had reconnected through a friend, we ended up friends with benefits and the sex was happening every day for months. Again, we were NOT in a relationship, just fwb.

I ended up moving in with him cause he was in need of a roommate and I was desperate to get out of the place I was at. At this time we were still fwb for about 3 months. His cousin, Geminiman, ended up at the house almost everyday cause he would come chill with Aquaman. They were really close.

I ended up having sex with his cousin, after getting drunk, I didn't say anything about it to Aquaman at the time, because again, we were just fuck buddies and he never asked for exclusivity or confessed he had feelings for me. I never even suspected he had feelings for me cause Aquarius are so good at being aloof, detached, and don't show their emotions.

Anyways, he ended up finding out from his cousin about what happened and confronted me about it. He started crying, saying he thought I was the one and that I should've known...I'm not gonna lie, I loved Aquaman the whole time we were fwb but I never knew how he felt about me cause he never confessed feelings and was still talking to other women. Btw, he would occassionally bring women over to the house too.

Anyways, he never asked me to move out even though he was really pissed at me and we continued having sex after about two weeks of him avoiding me. Couple months later, he ended up asking me to be his girl, but during the first 2 years together he kept bringing up the whole cousin thing and would say things like I am scandalous and always brings me down about it...he sometimes makes me feel so terrible that he makes me cry and I just want to run away

He has told me he hates me for "betraying" him and that's why he can't "completely" love me..in all honesty, I don't feel I did anything wrong because again, WE WERE NOT TOGETHER and how was I supposed to know he digged me at the time, I'm not a mindreader. I honestly thought he just wanted sex cause he never confessed feelings for me or asked to be exclusive..

Now, that was the first 2 years together, these last 3 years, he's rarely brought it up until we got drunk the other night...and I can't believe that after 5 years of being together and me proving myself to him that he still feels he can't "trust" or "completely love" me.

I can't lie. I absolutely adore this man and love him with all of my being but how can I marry someone who keeps bringing up shit from 5 years ago?

Now, with our wedding day coming closer and closer, I can't bring myself to marry Aquaman because of what he said the other night...how can I marry someone who can't "completely" love me because of something I did when we weren't together.

And for the record...In the past, when he brought up the occurance, I tried to leave him cause I was tired of him bringing me down but he tells me I can't go anywhere and he loves me too much to let me walk away but then he shoves the whole "fucking his cousin" thing in my face randomly and guilt trips me about it over and over...

I love him so much and I know he loves me but I'm at a crossroad with myself..

What should I do?

Btw, I'm Sagittarius (12/03/96) and he's Aquarius (01/22/95), if that helps anything.
Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. You seem to have got into a rut, with him using "his cousin" as a way to control you. It's your weak spot, and he loves pushing it, to get an emotional reaction from you. He gets pleasure from it, and the only way to stop it is to make it UNPLEASANT for him.

Each time he brings up his cousin, tell him to STFU. Never, ever get defensive and visible upset when someone accuses you! Accuse back! "How about the women you brought home before we were exclusive? Don't they count? Hypocrite!" Bring up any detail you can remember about any of those women. Give them names...invent things, if you can't remember. Beat him at his own idiotic mind game. Eventually, he will never mention "his cousin" again.

The "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both. If you don't like it, feel free to walk out.
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Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. You seem to have got into a rut, with him using "his cousin" as a way to control you. It's your weak spot, and he loves pushing it, to get an emotional reaction from you. He gets pleasure from it, and the only way to stop it is to make it UNPLEASANT for him.

Each time he brings up his cousin, tell him to STFU. Never, ever get defensive and visible upset when someone accuses you! Accuse back! "How about the women you brought home before we were exclusive? Don't they count? Hypocrite!" Bring up any detail you can remember about any of those women. Give them names...invent things, if you can't remember. Beat him at his own idiotic mind game. Eventually, he will never mention "his cousin" again.

The "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both. If you don't like it, feel free to walk out.


Lol.

I agree with everything hole heartily apart from the “aquas do not love”😅😅😅 You are very wrong on that
An Aquarians love style is different to others, not saying they don't, but it's not everyone's cup of tea....
Posted by UndineThe "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both.


Do you think this about Aqua women too?
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Posted by UndineThe "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both.


Do you think this about Aqua women too?
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I only got to know a few Aqua women at a very superficial level, so I don't know. Unless women born on 19th of February are mislabelled AquasBig Grin...I know 3 of them quite well. They are more family orientated than Aqua men, with a clear focus on their children, not husbands...

However, I have plenty of experience with Aqua men...father, mentor, long term friend, FWB, lover, ex...
Aquarius is ruled by the 11th.....they're more comfortable in friendship and group situations whereas Libra ruled by the 7th is about the other, rather than others.

If you've no strong Uranus in your chart and like warmth and intimacy, then maybe this will be challenging for you.

I was with two Aqua men.....they were interesting but not rship material..and left me feeling lonely...
He’s using his male privilege to guilt trip you.

1. You weren’t exclusive, so it’s fair game for both parties to sleep with other people. Men just cry when someone beats them at their own game. Men do this all the time by keeping themselves label-free. When people aren’t exclusive or in fwb arrangement, one shouldn’t expect exclusivity. Too bad for his wrongful expectation. The only thing that probably bothers him and he’s not vocalizing is that it was with HIS cousin. You shouldn’t have slept so close to home. That’s what he can’t make amends with. Aquas have high egos and his is bruised because you slept with his cousin. This stops him from completely loving you.

I’d say you stop feeling guilty about it yourself so that his words have no power over you. People can only make you feel bad about things you haven’t forgiven yourself for. Get over it yourself and then you will be able to tell him to not mention it.
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He’s using his male privilege to guilt trip you.

1. You weren’t exclusive, so it’s fair game for both parties to sleep with other people. Men just cry when someone beats them at their own game. Men do this all the time by keeping themselves label-free. When people aren’t exclusive or in fwb arrangement, one shouldn’t expect exclusivity. Too bad for his wrongful expectation. The only thing that probably bothers him and he’s not vocalizing is that it was with HIS cousin. You shouldn’t have slept so close to home. That’s what he can’t make amends with. Aquas have high egos and his is bruised because you slept with his cousin. This stops him from completely loving you.

I’d say you stop feeling guilty about it yourself so that his words have no power over you. People can only make you feel bad about things you haven’t forgiven yourself for. Get over it yourself and then you will be able to tell him to not mention it.


I think it’s probably the cousin part too. He can’t live that down. He’s probably embarrassed by it.


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I failed to mention, I think if it was a stranger he wouldn’t care. Men joke each other about those things where I’m from. They call it community property.

Maybe that’s his issue. Idk
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Posted by UndineThe "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both.


Do you think this about Aqua women too?


I only got to know a few Aqua women at a very superficial level, so I don't know. Unless women born on 19th of February are mislabelled AquasBig Grin...I know 3 of them quite well. They are more family orientated than Aqua men, with a clear focus on their children, not husbands...

However, I have plenty of experience with Aqua men...father, mentor, long term friend, FWB, lover, ex...


Just curious. ‘Clear focus on the children’ sounds about right.

Sorry about your horrible experiences with Aqua men.

Thanks for your response.
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Oh....I'm sorry to have given the impression that my experiences with Aqua men were horrible....quite the contrary! They are adorable as friends, FWB, even as fathers (to feisty and independent daughters).
You didn’t do anything wrong BUT sounds to me like he’s bothered that it was his cousin. Someone he is connected to for the rest of his life. A reminder of what happened, every time he runs into him.

Plus making you his wife, and at family functions, running into his cousin,who’s fucked you, won’t be fun. It’s a ego killer.

It would’ve probably been an easier pill to swallow for him, had it been a stranger.
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈
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That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂

Posted by Undine

Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. You seem to have got into a rut, with him using "his cousin" as a way to control you. It's your weak spot, and he loves pushing it, to get an emotional reaction from you. He gets pleasure from it, and the only way to stop it is to make it UNPLEASANT for him.

Each time he brings up his cousin, tell him to STFU. Never, ever get defensive and visible upset when someone accuses you! Accuse back! "How about the women you brought home before we were exclusive? Don't they count? Hypocrite!" Bring up any detail you can remember about any of those women. Give them names...invent things, if you can't remember. Beat him at his own idiotic mind game. Eventually, he will never mention "his cousin" again.

The "loving" thing is irrelevant. Aquas do not love...they conveniently attach to someone they either use, see as a friend, or both. If you don't like it, feel free to walk out.


I agree that aqua men and women detach themselves from their lovers that it renders them incapable of giving true love in a relationship.

If they see you as a friend or as a means to an end, they show you love to an extent just not the ideal unconditional love that most people desire.
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sorry but i think sleeping w/ yr FWB/housemate’s cousin is sloppy af. you claimed you loved this aqua during FWB status but were inconsiderate by sleeping w/ his family member... that he’s clearly close w/ if he’s over at the house a lot.

i’d be rubbed the wrong way by it too.


Ya it was all fine and good, until she said she was already in love with him at the time. You don’t fuck someone’s cousin if you’re in love with them.

Would have been fine if she said that she didn’t feel that way about him til way later, after the fact. Mehhhh
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If it counts for anything, I completely read him wrong. I was really under the impression that he didn't feel any way about me at all 😭😭😭 and didn't want to move "forward" with me. Aquarius are so hard to read. Again, before the whole cousin thing, we were already fwb for 3-4 months, I feel like I gave him enough time to make it exclusive but he didn't, so even though I really had feelings for him I couldn't bring myself to say it because he never did or even made me feel like I had a chance, imo
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.
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CC can do no wrong in my eyes, so I chose to ignore her words. I will be a dumb hoe everyday for her. 🥰

Half the stuff she says is just as she’s writing and she just goes all the way with it when she’s getting her point across. I love her for it.

You didn’t hurt my feelings at all. Maybe it would hurt if it touched on something personal, but I’ve never done anything like what the OP did.

I commented on your “Whenever a Sag wants dick, it’s hell or high water- like all sag women are desperate. That’s one thing that a Sagittarius will never be.

This isn’t my problem at all. It’s the OPs.
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc
Yes, one of the women he brought over to the house was my best friend and yes, they did sleep together. No lie, it bothered me ALOT at the time, but we were not exclusive and my dumbass told my best friend I didn't like Aquaman (even though I did) and that he was just dick, so I couldn't get mad at him or her about it. She's a Gemini.

And the only reason I treated us so casually is because he did, he brought 3 girls over within the 1st 2 months that I was living there. So at that point, I was like "oh he really don't care about me"
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Posted by Black-Mamba

you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!
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Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.
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Posted by nanorobot
Posted by Black-Mamba

you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


sowwy but every sag placement i know, victimizes TF outta themselves.
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I always thought this was a water placement thing. I’ve never come across victimization as part of being a 🔥 sign.
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Posted by nanorobot
Posted by Black-Mamba

you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.
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Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐
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sorry but i think sleeping w/ yr FWB/housemate’s cousin is sloppy af. you claimed you loved this aqua during FWB status but were inconsiderate by sleeping w/ his family member... that he’s clearly close w/ if he’s over at the house a lot.

i’d be rubbed the wrong way by it too.


Ya it was all fine and good, until she said she was already in love with him at the time. You don’t fuck someone’s cousin if you’re in love with them.

Would have been fine if she said that she didn’t feel that way about him til way later, after the fact. Mehhhh


If it counts for anything, I completely read him wrong. I was really under the impression that he didn't feel any way about me at all 😭😭😭 and didn't want to move "forward" with me. Aquarius are so hard to read. Again, before the whole cousin thing, we were already fwb for 3-4 months, I feel like I gave him enough time to make it exclusive but he didn't, so even though I really had feelings for him I couldn't bring myself to say it because he never did or even made me feel like I had a chance, imo


nah, you cant blame the aqua’s “lack of expressed emotion” for you fucking his cousin. that was YOUR bad, not the aqua’s.

you fucked his close family member, while you were “in love” with the aqua bc you were drunk af. regardless of it being official or not, it’s not cute.

maybe you need to quit drinking?
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Thanks, I actually don't drink at all. But when I do, I have a bad habit of overdoing it 😔😔😔 I will admit that 👺👺👺
I don’t know about leaving him. Maybe just hold off on marriage until y’all see a counselor.
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Posted by Black-Mamba

you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


sowwy but every sag placement i know, victimizes TF outta themselves.


I always thought this was a water placement thing. I’ve never come across victimization as part of being a 🔥 sign.


self victimizing from fire signs makes total sense to me.

just watch an aries throw a fit when they dont get their way.

aries drop it after they throw the fit. sag will project their self victimizing on the other person. everything is always someone else’s fault... bc sag’s hate responsibility.
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Oh. I guess victimizing comes in all different forms. I’m used to it being more manipulative. I never thought of throwing a fit When a person doesn’t get their way as playing the victim.

You’re last statement must be related to who you know. I have no problem admitting anything cause the other person isn’t gonna do anything about it anyways. There’s no need to hold back.

I thought Sag was known for being blunt and honest. Not taking responsibility, is the opposite of that.
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sorry but i think sleeping w/ yr FWB/housemate’s cousin is sloppy af. you claimed you loved this aqua during FWB status but were inconsiderate by sleeping w/ his family member... that he’s clearly close w/ if he’s over at the house a lot.

i’d be rubbed the wrong way by it too.


Ya it was all fine and good, until she said she was already in love with him at the time. You don’t fuck someone’s cousin if you’re in love with them.

Would have been fine if she said that she didn’t feel that way about him til way later, after the fact. Mehhhh
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I definitely was in love with him, but my mindset was that Aquaman and I were never going to happen because he was still bringing other women to the house 💁💁💁 it is what it is. And one of the ladies he brought over was my own best friend before the cousin thing even happened.

Idk....the fear that I have is that he'll never be able to live it down...and I don't want him to feel bad about it, so I've asked to leave and pack up before but he keeps saying no that I can't go anywhere. Like what do you want me to do, I've already told him if he doesn't want to deal with the whole cousin thing, he doesn't have to deal with me AT ALL, but he always says I can't leave
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Posted by Black-Mamba

you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


CC can do no wrong in my eyes, so I chose to ignore her words. I will be a dumb hoe everyday for her. 🥰

Half the stuff she says is just as she’s writing and she just goes all the way with it when she’s getting her point across. I love her for it.

You didn’t hurt my feelings at all. Maybe it would hurt if it touched on something personal, but I’ve never done anything like what the OP did.

I commented on your “Whenever a Sag wants dick, it’s hell or high water- like all sag women are desperate. That’s one thing that a Sagittarius will never be.

This isn’t my problem at all. It’s the OPs.


So 1) don’t lash out at me because you choose to hold other people to different standards

And 2) don’t lash out at me for attempting (and failing) to read between the lines and placing intention behind my words without asking me. Don’t tell me what I meant when I said something - you can just ask me instead of reflexively taking it personally to the nth level.

No one ever said, not once, or even implied that sag women were “desperate”. I said they loved sex very much and were very sexual entities.
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I don’t like things so organized so I didn’t read the pointers just the last line.

You said sag WOMEN were hungry for dick and nothing stops them when they want it. Lol.

But both of us can pretty much say what we want to say. It’s an open forum. So I still stick with my original statements because I meant what I said when I said it.
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Yes, one of the women he brought over to the house was my best friend and yes, they did sleep together. No lie, it bothered me ALOT at the time, but we were not exclusive and my dumbass told my best friend I didn't like Aquaman (even though I did) and that he was just dick, so I couldn't get mad at him or her about it. She's a Gemini.

And the only reason I treated us so casually is because he did, he brought 3 girls over within the 1st 2 months that I was living there. So at that point, I was like "oh he really don't care about me"


What kind of ho fuckery is this

This is beyond my limitations
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Some jerry springer shit huh? Lol
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Posted by Black-Mamba

you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


sowwy but every sag placement i know, victimizes TF outta themselves.


I always thought this was a water placement thing. I’ve never come across victimization as part of being a 🔥 sign.


self victimizing from fire signs makes total sense to me.

just watch an aries throw a fit when they dont get their way.

aries drop it after they throw the fit. sag will project their self victimizing on the other person. everything is always someone else’s fault... bc sag’s hate responsibility.


Oh. I guess victimizing comes in all different forms. I’m used to it being more manipulative. I never thought of throwing a fit When a person doesn’t get their way as playing the victim.

You’re last statement must be related to who you know. I have no problem admitting anything cause the other person isn’t gonna do anything about it anyways. There’s no need to hold back.

I thought Sag was known for being blunt and honest. Not taking responsibility, is the opposite of that.


responsibility doesnt really have much to do w/ being “blunt & honest”. taking responsibility is recognizing when you’ve acted out emotionally, over what someone said, objectively. you took something personally & acted out.

i know

5 sag moons

7 sag suns

they all self victimize & project it out onto others bc “feelings are icky so it must be your fault”.
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Lol are you kidding? I guess that’s how a Scorpio would see it. Like I said, I’m water dominant. I’m all about feelings, when I show them. Sag moons are nothing like the Suns. Just like Scorpio Sun and Moons. There’s a big difference in them.
I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Yes, one of the women he brought over to the house was my best friend and yes, they did sleep together. No lie, it bothered me ALOT at the time, but we were not exclusive and my dumbass told my best friend I didn't like Aquaman (even though I did) and that he was just dick, so I couldn't get mad at him or her about it. She's a Gemini.

And the only reason I treated us so casually is because he did, he brought 3 girls over within the 1st 2 months that I was living there. So at that point, I was like "oh he really don't care about me"


What kind of ho fuckery is this

This is beyond my limitations


Some jerry springer shit huh? Lol


It’s like a rotisserie chicken factory
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😂😂😂😂😂 yes we really are a whole mess "rotisserie chicken factory" 😭😭😭 "jerry springer" 💀💀💀💀
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.


Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐


girl, you came for nano & threw in all the gemini jabs as a knee jerk response bc you didnt like what she said.


i am chill w/ you but, cmon, ya gotta start recognizing shit you do & stop shifting blame every time you get yr feelings hurt.
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That’s the reason why I quoted her because I didn’t agree with her generalization of Sagittarius women.

I don’t understand what you’re saying?

There was no knee jerk response. It was a response and was fairly thought out about generalizations of my sign and hers. Which got my point across.

The fact that you guys keep saying my feeling are hurt are pretty funny. Why would my feelings be hurt about someone saying something about a whole sign and it doesn’t pertain to me, well other then the fact that I love sex.

Women can’t “project” their “feelings” into me because that’s how they would feel in a certain situation. A stranger can rarely hurt my feelings. The only ones who can are people I care about.

Like I said before. Hurt feelings and having a sensitivity to sweeping generalizations are different.

I wasn’t personally hurt, just making a statement.

I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.
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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
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SO

WTF

First of all she's FWB/roommate with feelings/love all involved. Which she's aware of

You don't fuck anyone I'm acquainted with

My aqua moon is OFFENDED

LMAOOOOO
He sounds like an asshole. But so is everyone. I don't know.. do you want your husband to have that opinion of you? That your only 90% loveable? Or do you just want a husband? On the grand view it doesn't really matter cause we all die. I think you should pick which will be the easiest option for you long term.
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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.


SO

WTF

First of all she's FWB/roommate with feelings/love all involved. Which she's aware of

You don't fuck anyone I'm acquainted with

My aqua moon is OFFENDED

LMAOOOOO


TBH, I'd be livid too. lol
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Come on now

And the Gemini is completely innocent in this situation

Sag probably came on strong and didn't know what to do

Lmaoo

🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


CC can do no wrong in my eyes, so I chose to ignore her words. I will be a dumb hoe everyday for her. 🥰

Half the stuff she says is just as she’s writing and she just goes all the way with it when she’s getting her point across. I love her for it.

You didn’t hurt my feelings at all. Maybe it would hurt if it touched on something personal, but I’ve never done anything like what the OP did.

I commented on your “Whenever a Sag wants dick, it’s hell or high water- like all sag women are desperate. That’s one thing that a Sagittarius will never be.

This isn’t my problem at all. It’s the OPs.


So 1) don’t lash out at me because you choose to hold other people to different standards

And 2) don’t lash out at me for attempting (and failing) to read between the lines and placing intention behind my words without asking me. Don’t tell me what I meant when I said something - you can just ask me instead of reflexively taking it personally to the nth level.

No one ever said, not once, or even implied that sag women were “desperate”. I said they loved sex very much and were very sexual entities.


I don’t like things so organized so I didn’t read the pointers just the last line.

You said sag WOMEN were hungry for dick and nothing stops them when they want it. Lol.

But both of us can pretty much say what we want to say. It’s an open forum. So I still stick with my original statements because I meant what I said when I said it.


3) don’t lash out at me, and then admit that you didn’t even fully read what I said in the post that you lashed out about.

Like..... LMAO are you joking? Take responsibility for your shit already. It’s not that hard.

Come on: “I admit I reacted emotionally and catty when it wasn’t valid”

You don’t even have to apologize if you don’t want to. That gets awkward for me, on my end.
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I’m just gonna copy and paste this cause I think the only people who are in their feelings is the women who are mad that I didn’t say anything to CC

Y’all wild. I’m sorry I lover her and she gets a pass from anything she does. 🤣🤣

“I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.”


You want me to apologize for commenting on a sweeping generalization of my sign. That’s not gonna happen because I still stand by my words.

What if I said all Gemini’s were cheaters, flaky and liars. Like so many others have on the site?

Would that be correct? Because I know 100 of them “Just like this”

No. It wouldn’t and I would never say such a thing because I actually know how Gemini’s can be at their core.

So you get no apologies because there isn’t anything to apologize for.

My statement was just a statement
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I don’t know about leaving him. Maybe just hold off on marriage until y’all see a counselor.


All of our various opinions and infighting notwithstanding, this is some good advice. See a counselor if y'all love each other.
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Yes, she’s only 23 YO
But who can pass on a HOT, I mean HOT saggy

😍😍🔥🔥🤭🤭
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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.


SO

WTF

First of all she's FWB/roommate with feelings/love all involved. Which she's aware of

You don't fuck anyone I'm acquainted with

My aqua moon is OFFENDED

LMAOOOOO


TBH, I'd be livid too. lol


Come on now

And the Gemini is completely innocent in this situation

Sag probably came on strong and didn't know what to do

Lmaoo

🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥


Nah, that Gemini is kinda nasty too. He knew better. SMH
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TEMPTATIONS

those damn things lol

🤷🏽‍♀️🤔🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.


Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐


girl, you came for nano & threw in all the gemini jabs as a knee jerk response bc you didnt like what she said.


i am chill w/ you but, cmon, ya gotta start recognizing shit you do & stop shifting blame every time you get yr feelings hurt.


That’s the reason why I quoted her because I didn’t agree with her generalization of Sagittarius women.

I don’t understand what you’re saying?

There was no knee jerk response. It was a response and was fairly thought out about generalizations of my sign and hers. Which got my point across.

The fact that you guys keep saying my feeling are hurt are pretty funny. Why would my feelings be hurt about someone saying something about a whole sign and it doesn’t pertain to me, well other then the fact that I love sex.

Women can’t “project” their “feelings” into me because that’s how they would feel in a certain situation. A stranger can rarely hurt my feelings. The only ones who can are people I care about.

Like I said before. Hurt feelings and having a sensitivity to sweeping generalizations are different.

I wasn’t personally hurt, just making a statement.

I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.


you can say whatever you want but your actions speak louder.

i called you out so then you started attacking scorpios.

knee jerk reactions that are projecting out to other people.

looking at things objectively might help but you lack air energy so...
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You guys are seriously in your feelings.

I said Scorpio moons aren’t like the suns. That’s not attacking.

Damn are all your periods linked up or something.

This is the craziest shit I’ve ever come across.

You guys are big mad over here in this forum.

There’s no reason to be! Have some coffeee. Lighten up a little.



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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.


SO

WTF

First of all she's FWB/roommate with feelings/love all involved. Which she's aware of

You don't fuck anyone I'm acquainted with

My aqua moon is OFFENDED

LMAOOOOO


TBH, I'd be livid too. lol


Come on now

And the Gemini is completely innocent in this situation

Sag probably came on strong and didn't know what to do

Lmaoo

🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥


I’m wondering if the gem cousin knew? On the outside, it might have looked like she was just a roommate.
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Knowing aqua, not going to deep with details or expressing his love

Probably like, yea, she's just a roommate 🤔
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My statement was just a statement


no it wasnt but ok

whatever makes you feel better & not responsible for getting in yr “sensitivity”.
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K thanks for being so understanding.
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Posted by ELIGAB

I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.
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They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu

And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.

So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.


Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐


girl, you came for nano & threw in all the gemini jabs as a knee jerk response bc you didnt like what she said.


i am chill w/ you but, cmon, ya gotta start recognizing shit you do & stop shifting blame every time you get yr feelings hurt.


That’s the reason why I quoted her because I didn’t agree with her generalization of Sagittarius women.

I don’t understand what you’re saying?

There was no knee jerk response. It was a response and was fairly thought out about generalizations of my sign and hers. Which got my point across.

The fact that you guys keep saying my feeling are hurt are pretty funny. Why would my feelings be hurt about someone saying something about a whole sign and it doesn’t pertain to me, well other then the fact that I love sex.

Women can’t “project” their “feelings” into me because that’s how they would feel in a certain situation. A stranger can rarely hurt my feelings. The only ones who can are people I care about.

Like I said before. Hurt feelings and having a sensitivity to sweeping generalizations are different.

I wasn’t personally hurt, just making a statement.

I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.


you can say whatever you want but your actions speak louder.

i called you out so then you started attacking scorpios.

knee jerk reactions that are projecting out to other people.

looking at things objectively might help but you lack air energy so...


You guys are seriously in your feelings.

I said Scorpio moons aren’t like the suns. That’s not attacking.

Damn are all your periods linked up or something.

This is the craziest shit I’ve ever come across.

You guys are big mad over here in this forum.

There’s no reason to be! Have some coffeee. Lighten up a little.


you are literally the one who needs to lighten up.

and correction you said “LOL... a scorpio would see it like this”.

that is a low key jab. dont fucking play like it wasnt w/ yr passive aggressive ass moon & hurt ego mars.

i aint responding back to your stupid shit circles anymore. so dont quote me.

chase yr own god damn tail & see where it gets you.
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I actually didn’t mean it as a low key jab but your a water sign and so I said it with the emotion of a water sign seeing THAT intent like that. Fire signs don’t use emotions as a forefront for intent.

I’m not being passive aggressive and my feelings aren’t hurt. I think as a fire sign mars, I would be angry first. And I’m not.

I was reading it line by line and just saw you said don’t quote me but I don’t listen well anyways when told what to do, another stubborn Sag trait- but I take FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

Are you proud of me? See! Mutables can change!

Thanks for going in circles with me this morning. It’s been fun! Have a good day, hun! 😘😘🥰🥰
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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.


They're not "blood" cousins. They are cousins by choice because they were close as childhood friends. And Aquaman dropped that "cousin" quick cause after Geminiman found out we were official, he had the nerve to hmu asking to "chill" and to this day, he still tries to hmu

And as for my bestfriend, Geminiwoman, I had to drop her because after she and Aquaman did their thing she ended up going crazy about him. She stalked him on fb, she was constantly texting me asking why he wasn't answering her calls and she would call me asking to hangout, but when she came over she wouldn't even chill with me, she would try to interact with my roomie Aquaman and would bust into his room without him giving her permission. He finally told me I can't bring her over cause she kept invading his privacy, kept using me as a connection for her to get back in touch with him when he didnt want to so it got awkward between Geminiwoman and I.

So basically, Aquaman and I dropped both of our Geminis 💀💀💀💀 I'm pretty sure they both hate us 😭😭😭😭


Sag and Aqua using horny Geminis to score points on each other. Gemini hate crime!





JK, lol

That's a mess. So, things have been calm since then but he's not over it emotionally? Or are y'all still playing with each other?
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Sags do not only care about sex. They mirror back what people mirror to them. They believe in fairness will base actions off how invested the other person is. When they see injustice they don't play along because they have backbones unlike 90% of people. If you wanna play games and put expectations on them you don't have for yourself they will laugh in your face and you will only have yourself to blame. They know life is too short for shit like this
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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


Girl, I am not delusional. lol

He was bringing girls over to sleep with, including her best friend. Maybe she figured he brought the cousin over for her, since he was bringing so much sex.

I do see the cousin thing, though. That's gotta smart.


ya know, or maybe OP fucked the cousin out of spite? to get back at aqua for fucking her best friend?


So, I didn't want to say it, because I wanted to give the OP the benefit of the doubt, but I was thinking that somewhere in the back of her drunk mind she saw his cousin and thought, "let's find out if he really doesn't have feelings for me and likes these hoes better..."


🎯

i got $ 5 on it
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💀💀💀 this ain't it 💀💀💀 I swear 😂😂😂na, we were all drunk and just finished smoking two-three joints. And for the record, the cousin made the move 👺👺👺 such an idiot I should've never let it happen but when you're cross faded you don't really think much 💁💁💁
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I completely stopped reading after sleeping with the cousin


Like BITCH YOU FUCKED HIS COUSIN

YOU SMASHED THE HOMIE


yea you're friend with benefits but you could've slept with anyone but his cousin..

The first page with everyone saying it's not your fault is bullshit

They're delusional and probably have sag placements


😂🤣😂🤣 at last line


No mercy
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I actually liked this and then read the last line but I agree, we are delusional. It’s part of our optimism!
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.


Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐


girl, you came for nano & threw in all the gemini jabs as a knee jerk response bc you didnt like what she said.


i am chill w/ you but, cmon, ya gotta start recognizing shit you do & stop shifting blame every time you get yr feelings hurt.


That’s the reason why I quoted her because I didn’t agree with her generalization of Sagittarius women.

I don’t understand what you’re saying?

There was no knee jerk response. It was a response and was fairly thought out about generalizations of my sign and hers. Which got my point across.

The fact that you guys keep saying my feeling are hurt are pretty funny. Why would my feelings be hurt about someone saying something about a whole sign and it doesn’t pertain to me, well other then the fact that I love sex.

Women can’t “project” their “feelings” into me because that’s how they would feel in a certain situation. A stranger can rarely hurt my feelings. The only ones who can are people I care about.

Like I said before. Hurt feelings and having a sensitivity to sweeping generalizations are different.

I wasn’t personally hurt, just making a statement.

I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.


you can say whatever you want but your actions speak louder.

i called you out so then you started attacking scorpios.

knee jerk reactions that are projecting out to other people.

looking at things objectively might help but you lack air energy so...


You guys are seriously in your feelings.

I said Scorpio moons aren’t like the suns. That’s not attacking.

Damn are all your periods linked up or something.

This is the craziest shit I’ve ever come across.

You guys are big mad over here in this forum.

There’s no reason to be! Have some coffeee. Lighten up a little.


you are literally the one who needs to lighten up.

and correction you said “LOL... a scorpio would see it like this”.

that is a low key jab. dont fucking play like it wasnt w/ yr passive aggressive ass moon & hurt ego mars.

i aint responding back to your stupid shit circles anymore. so dont quote me.

chase yr own god damn tail & see where it gets you.


I actually didn’t mean it as a low key jab but your a water sign and so I said it with the emotion of a water sign seeing THAT intent like that. Fire signs don’t use emotions as a forefront for intent.

I’m not being passive aggressive and my feelings aren’t hurt. I think as a fire sign mars, I would be angry first. And I’m not.

I was reading it line by line and just saw you said don’t quote me but I don’t listen well anyways when told what to do, another stubborn Sag trait- but I take FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

Are you proud of me? See! Mutables can change!

Thanks for going in circles with me this morning. It’s been fun! Have a good day, hun! 😘😘🥰🥰


GO AWAY
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I made it extra saucy, so you would quote me! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.


Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐


girl, you came for nano & threw in all the gemini jabs as a knee jerk response bc you didnt like what she said.


i am chill w/ you but, cmon, ya gotta start recognizing shit you do & stop shifting blame every time you get yr feelings hurt.


That’s the reason why I quoted her because I didn’t agree with her generalization of Sagittarius women.

I don’t understand what you’re saying?

There was no knee jerk response. It was a response and was fairly thought out about generalizations of my sign and hers. Which got my point across.

The fact that you guys keep saying my feeling are hurt are pretty funny. Why would my feelings be hurt about someone saying something about a whole sign and it doesn’t pertain to me, well other then the fact that I love sex.

Women can’t “project” their “feelings” into me because that’s how they would feel in a certain situation. A stranger can rarely hurt my feelings. The only ones who can are people I care about.

Like I said before. Hurt feelings and having a sensitivity to sweeping generalizations are different.

I wasn’t personally hurt, just making a statement.

I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.


you can say whatever you want but your actions speak louder.

i called you out so then you started attacking scorpios.

knee jerk reactions that are projecting out to other people.

looking at things objectively might help but you lack air energy so...


You guys are seriously in your feelings.

I said Scorpio moons aren’t like the suns. That’s not attacking.

Damn are all your periods linked up or something.

This is the craziest shit I’ve ever come across.

You guys are big mad over here in this forum.

There’s no reason to be! Have some coffeee. Lighten up a little.


You are acting like a victim again. You were the one originally who was frothing at the mouth about a “generalization” and pure assumptions based on nothing, then turned around and did the same exact thing to dilettante, and now you’re trying to gaslight us and act like we are out of control and that you’ve been the chill one all along and that we are the ones in our feelings, when you are called out on your bullshit 🤣🤣

It was a nice try with the bait and switch, but that isn’t going to work here, sorry 🤷🏼‍♀️

Imagine starting drama and then trying to turn it around like you are the victim, and then further, saying that you’re never wrong.
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What drama?? Generalizations? There’s no drama in that.

iT wAs A sTatEmEnT.

The only drama that was trying to be started was the little gang up that was unsuccessful because it didn’t work and I kept my cool. Because my feelings weren’t actually hurt, like I’ve been saying from the beginning.

No one is turning anything around.

But you’ve apologized to me and I accept so

THANK YOU 😊
This guy wanted to sleep around and have her in the wings in case he couldn't find something better. He wanted her to shut her mouth the whole time while he was doing it too. She didn't and apparently that makes her a S L U T.

( Ya right ) *eye roll*

I think he should be grateful you even considered him partner material after that and lucky you didn't slit this throat in his sleep.

The cousin was a bad idea only because that gave him a tool to abuse you with and use against you for the rest of your life. If he really loved you fully and said he forgave you he would forgive you. Not bring up over and over and be emotionally abusive.

Again no one is perfect but be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and pick the best and safest option for yourself
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you a hoe a $ $ for sleeping with his cousin

you couldn't find any other dick, you slept with someone close to him who is his family member who he'll have to interact with his whole life knowing he fucked his future wife

he must really love you because I for sure would have kicked you out of my home and my life, the stress of playing that out in my brain for life would be too much

did he sleep with your sister or family member or best friend? so you'll never have to truly interact with those women he brought home

you don't even have empathy

are all sags dumb as fuck hore sluts

jfc


Whenever a sag woman wants the dick, come hell or high water, literally nothing in the world can stop her. They are extremely open, free, and sexual entities. Tunnel minded, even. Sex sex sex

I had a friend in high school, and it was just everyone, all the time. But especially married men was her thing lol. Then she acted like the victim when the wife/pregnant girlfriend came after her. “Omg I didn’t know!!!” Umm yes you did, I know you did 🙈🙈🙈


That was your friend. Sagittarius people don’t even play the victim well, which makes me even doubt what you’re saying. I’m water dominant and don’t even play the victim, but I’m sure it can happen on an individual human basis, so I can’t discount your story altogether.

The same can be said about Gemini men and women but I would never say it because I know it’s on an individual level.

You probably haven’t ever been with a Sagittarius if you think we are so tunnel minded. Just because we can freely talk about sex and admit to having it, doesn’t make us want to sleep with every human walking.

Typical Gemini grasping on to one sentence and running her mouth on it- well I can’t say the whole sign would do this. 🙂


You just decided to take what I said extremely personally, despite what others are saying here too, and that is your problem, not mine 😂😂

Cc literally just called sag women “dumb as fuck whore sluts”

I don’t care about your hurt feelings, like at all, it means nothing to me.


She's still mad at me from yesterday because I called her sensitive. Clearly, she is not!


Who are you talking about me or CC?

If it’s me, you’re funny lol. I never stay “mad” at anyone. I’ve been liking your posts.

I don’t mind being called sensitive. But my feelings aren’t hurt. There’s a difference.


Riiiight. That's why you made that jab about Geminis at the end. I see you.


Is nano not a Gemini? I said what I said and added not every Gemini 🙄 Clearly you’re having issues with reading comprehension this morning.

We get into this every mercury retrograde- So Happy Anniversary! 💐


girl, you came for nano & threw in all the gemini jabs as a knee jerk response bc you didnt like what she said.


i am chill w/ you but, cmon, ya gotta start recognizing shit you do & stop shifting blame every time you get yr feelings hurt.


That’s the reason why I quoted her because I didn’t agree with her generalization of Sagittarius women.

I don’t understand what you’re saying?

There was no knee jerk response. It was a response and was fairly thought out about generalizations of my sign and hers. Which got my point across.

The fact that you guys keep saying my feeling are hurt are pretty funny. Why would my feelings be hurt about someone saying something about a whole sign and it doesn’t pertain to me, well other then the fact that I love sex.

Women can’t “project” their “feelings” into me because that’s how they would feel in a certain situation. A stranger can rarely hurt my feelings. The only ones who can are people I care about.

Like I said before. Hurt feelings and having a sensitivity to sweeping generalizations are different.

I wasn’t personally hurt, just making a statement.

I said I didn’t play the victim and that Sagittarius people aren’t tunnel minded and only think about sex.

And you all think my feelings were hurt by those 2 statements? They aren’t even emotional statements.


you can say whatever you want but your actions speak louder.

i called you out so then you started attacking scorpios.

knee jerk reactions that are projecting out to other people.

looking at things objectively might help but you lack air energy so...


You guys are seriously in your feelings.

I said Scorpio moons aren’t like the suns. That’s not attacking.

Damn are all your periods linked up or something.

This is the craziest shit I’ve ever come across.

You guys are big mad over here in this forum.

There’s no reason to be! Have some coffeee. Lighten up a little.


You are acting like a victim again. You were the one originally who was frothing at the mouth about a “generalization” and pure assumptions based on nothing, then turned around and did the same exact thing to dilettante, and now you’re trying to gaslight us and act like we are out of control and that you’ve been the chill one all along and that we are the ones in our feelings, when you are called out on your bullshit 🤣🤣

It was a nice try with the bait and switch, but that isn’t going to work here, sorry 🤷🏼‍♀️

Imagine starting drama and then trying to turn it around like you are the victim, and then further, saying that you’re never wrong.


What drama?? Generalizations? There’s no drama in that.

iT wAs A sTatEmEnT.

The only drama that was trying to be started was the little gang up that was unsuccessful because it didn’t work and I kept my cool. Because my feelings weren’t actually hurt, like I’ve been saying from the beginning.

No one is turning anything around.

But you’ve apologized to me and I accept so

THANK YOU 😊


Great. I’ll be looking forward to your passive aggressive comments toward me for the next year or so, until you blow up again for no reason. 👌🏼
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This guy wanted to sleep around and have her in the wings in case he couldn't find something better. He wanted her to shut her mouth the whole time while he was doing it too. She didn't and apparently that makes her a S L U T.

( Ya right ) *eye roll*

I think he should be grateful you even considered him partner material after that and lucky you didn't slit this throat in his sleep.

The cousin was a bad idea only because that gave him a tool to abuse you with and use against you for the rest of your life. If he really loved you fully and said he forgave you he would forgive you. Not bring up over and over and be emotionally abusive.

Again no one is perfect but be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and pick the best and safest option for yourself


it’s common courtesy to not sleep with a close friend or family member.
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Sounds like the courtesy was gone the second he fucked other women in front of her. Play stupid games win stupid prizes
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