Should I make the first move?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by pvvtz on Wednesday, November 28, 2018 and has 11 replies.
So I have a very specific relationship with Aqua Sun Pisces Venus Scorpio Mars man. At first it was a "non strings attached" kind of relationship but now I think I might fell in love with him. He's so inteligent and he stimulates me mentally so much that I can't get enough of him but he also seems kind of emotionally detached. I'm also not very good at showing my feelings which complicates things even more. I can talk with him about anything but I think talking about feelings would be too risky and he would get scared. Is it possible that he could like me back but he's waiting for me to make the first move because he's scared of showing affection or getting rejected? Are we even compatible? I'm Taurus Sun Gemini Venus and Scorpio Mars. Help me please i'm so confused!
Posted by pvvtz

So I have a very specific relationship with Aqua Sun Pisces Venus Scorpio Mars man. At first it was a "non strings attached" kind of relationship but now I think I might fell in love with him. He's so inteligent and he stimulates me mentally so much that I can't get enough of him but he also seems kind of emotionally detached. I'm also not very good at showing my feelings which complicates things even more. I can talk with him about anything but I think talking about feelings would be too risky and he would get scared. Is it possible that he could like me back but he's waiting for me to make the first move because he's scared of showing affection or getting rejected? Are we even compatible? I'm Taurus Sun Gemini Venus and Scorpio Mars. Help me please i'm so confused!


My ex had that placements and he wasn’t scared. Very straight forward and wanted to commit fast.

In my opinion Aquarius with Pisces Venus will tell you if they love you very soon and it wouldn’t be any doubt.
Posted by pvvtz

So I have a very specific relationship with Aqua Sun Pisces Venus Scorpio Mars man. At first it was a "non strings attached" kind of relationship but now I think I might fell in love with him. He's so inteligent and he stimulates me mentally so much that I can't get enough of him but he also seems kind of emotionally detached. I'm also not very good at showing my feelings which complicates things even more. I can talk with him about anything but I think talking about feelings would be too risky and he would get scared. Is it possible that he could like me back but he's waiting for me to make the first move because he's scared of showing affection or getting rejected? Are we even compatible? I'm Taurus Sun Gemini Venus and Scorpio Mars. Help me please i'm so confused!
When I'm in doubt, I do nothing and enjoy it.

You could be compatible if we knew the degrees of your Sun. Could be quintile. Could have synastry involving other planets.

As in boxing, the winner is usually the person who can take the most hits. Make the first move....? How resilient are you after defeat? What's your recovery like? The answer those questions should help you determine wherher or not you should make the first move.

Posted by pvvtz

So I have a very specific relationship with Aqua Sun Pisces Venus Scorpio Mars man. At first it was a "non strings attached" kind of relationship but now I think I might fell in love with him. He's so inteligent and he stimulates me mentally so much that I can't get enough of him but he also seems kind of emotionally detached. I'm also not very good at showing my feelings which complicates things even more. I can talk with him about anything but I think talking about feelings would be too risky and he would get scared. Is it possible that he could like me back but he's waiting for me to make the first move because he's scared of showing affection or getting rejected? Are we even compatible? I'm Taurus Sun Gemini Venus and Scorpio Mars. Help me please i'm so confused!
what do you mean by "first move" ?

how often do you meet?

I think no need to talk emotions, if you see each other frequently, I would suggest some interesting things to do (not saying date, but more like: would you like to go to this photo exhibition? I would like to try one game in a casino, like to join me? or something)

Pisces venus is a romantic, but Aqua sun is quite sparse with emotional displays... if he likes to be with you, thats your answer, imho
I find with men if you have to make the move they arent that interested. In my experience thats been the case 98% of the time.

But to stop the confusion and guessing.... just pull the trigger.
Another case of women getting emotionally attached with FWB.

OP....would he give you the the time of day if your legs were closed. That's the question.
Posted by HeartofTopazz

Make the move and save yourself the trouble of guessing and obsessing.


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Posted by heliumfiasco

I find with men if you have to make the move they arent that interested. In my experience thats been the case 98% of the time.

But to stop the confusion and guessing.... just pull the trigger.
Best advice ever.

Find out where you stand.

All you have to lose is a FWB.

You can find that anywhere.

How about...

Ask and be prepared to be

1. FREE to do whatever and whoever you want

OR

2. To be in relationship with someone you like.
Either way. You WIN
Ask him if he wants to go halfsies on a bastard