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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
I work with one and he's just such a divine creature and doesnt even know it. Its a massive, painful crush (im 24 for god's sake) but he's just sooooo quiet and i dont know what to do with him. Ive caught him looking at me a few times, but im sure he just considers me weird. He's leaving for a 2 week holiday tomorrow and i'd like to ask him out maybe...Help peeps.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
oh poor baby.
although I do approve...somewhat.
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
so sola,you have now moved on to the waterbearing territory.
hope you have braced yourself.will pray for you.
he may be quiet.but he is surely checking you out right now.and you must have patience dear,or else you will end up in loony bin.we take our time.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
this is nothing new to her devil.
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
so you mean she has been with two of the craziest sign guys of the zodiac.
hmm.
**keeps mouth shut**
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
"we take our time."
-LOL!!! he isn't kidding
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Oct 20, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 149 · Topics: 27
Sola, you're a Libra. Any other sign would have given up by now. If you can manage to really get in his private circle, you will see that he's not so quiet. In fact, he's prolly one of the funniest guys you've ever met.
Keep trying. Start with something simple. Not a big party. Just say a movie or some kind of project you could do alone together.
Yes I agree with the other posters here. he's been checking you out. We can learn all kinds of things about you without saying a single word.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Sound advice and many thanks sweet cherubs...but the god in question has a lass of his own 
There's a little spark for sure..but i'll just have to admire him from afar, he's so hot. Signed Up:
May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
No..its not lame, its so sweet.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
As for him being quiet...well, he has a little bear on his desk that says "Good in Bed"...i'll be the judge of that 
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
lol, lost in translation...
how is a bear?
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
'i'll be the judge of that '
you stay away now! nothing but trouble...he's taken!
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Heheh..take me with a pich of salt, and i dont steal people's men!!!
He's safe..for now, lol!
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
UC...you forgot SANITY!!!
but, yeah...you are right about the above. a LOT of patience is required.
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
"Sola, you're a Libra. Any other sign would have given up by now"
not so true! i am a cancer woman and i am still with my aqua...and it's been quite a while!!! i don't give up on what i believe in...
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
Is this the understatement of the year...lol! I think you need the traits in this order:
1. patience
2. PATIENCE
3. PAAAAAAAAAAATIEEEEEEEEENNNNCCEEE!!!!!
4. very healthy and active sense of humor
5. positive attitude and outlook on all situations, no matter how gut-wrenching....
6. MORE PATIENCE!!!!!!
7. Very Strong Eye-Rolling Muscles (come in very handy)
hmm ok i agree.
but in my case,the patience was more often required of me than her.and it is still like this.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
hmmm, I hear its called emotional retardation these days.
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Jul 18, 2006Comments: 1 · Posts: 660 · Topics: 42
HI SOLA!!! *MUAH* I knew you wouldn't give up on us fellas!
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
BigD...you still havent shown us.
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Jul 18, 2006Comments: 1 · Posts: 660 · Topics: 42
LOL...I luv u Lady M
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
would luv u more, if only...
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Much love BigD!!!
Im just perfect for him i can tell!! So, you think he's been checking me out, heheh, i hope he likes what he sees?!
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
Sola,
i am sure you are already making a soap in your mind about him and you and your grand love story,offcourse with the complicated plot of him being taken right now.
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
"MC...I didn't include that because let's face it...you might as well kiss that goodbye!"
LOL!!!...actually i am just now starting to regain mine! and it feels really good...
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
DtN...you're so harsh with me 
Anyways...he told me has a little girl too, and he's gone off on holiday for 2 weeks...just what i need to get over my little fantasy...not fair. Signed Up:
Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
DtN...you're so harsh with me
honey,i am not harsh,the truth is harsh,as it always is.
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
but sola,did you really share a rapport with him? as in,was there any other sign of attraction? besides physical.
wait dear,wait,patiently offcourse.good guys are always round the next corner.
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
i hope that took the edge off
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
It did my sweet, but the truth is hurtful as you have correctly stated.
We did share a little spark, the eyes are good communicators. We havent even spoken much..we just look at each other, and i start to blush, and he laughs becuse he "knows". Silly little Sola, maybe next life.
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
next life?
boy you are going pretty heavy here.
easy honey easy
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Whats heavy?? Its just a reference to my love life this life..i,e non existant.
Just thinking about it all, i have "known" six aqua's..i love them 
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...but we never quite get there.
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I never give up..they just dont get me!!
Two of the 6 just pursued me, until i was like "ok, lets give this a shot" and then they disppeared..LITERALLY!!
The others, hmm, i just wasnt that into them, and then this one comes along, and BAM...Sola was assualted by Cupids arrow. Its not my fault.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
LOL
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
This is NOT funny Lady!!
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
I had a mental pic of cupid assualting you 
I still say STAY AWAY from him...now theres a kid in the mix.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
In Spain!! Leave here on August 20th, so not long now 
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
haha 
We do pursue perse in the beginning, but always back off a bit. Signed Up:
May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Yeah well, it usually works for a while and then it gets "strange"..funny thing is, as soon as i turn my back they get back on my tail, but i dont do 2nd chances unfortunately for them.
Anyway, this Aqua is safe from the Sola luvin'...hope he has a nice Mrs because he reallly is loverly.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
In fact, i realise that i dont really fancy him, its more that i just want to touch him and see what he feels like to cuddle? God, im weird.
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Eh, no! I want something real.
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Jul 18, 2006Comments: 1 · Posts: 660 · Topics: 42
You should find a leo, Sola. They KNOW how to cuddle lol at least the lady leo.
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I need a sqweeeeeeeeze, but i'll get one from my sister later, an aries!! I dont know ANY leo's.
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"They KNOW how to cuddle lol at least the lady leo."
werd.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
LOL Sola is too much.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Ouch, Sola hurts!
"In fact, i realise that i dont really fancy him, its more that i just want to touch him and see what he feels like to cuddle? God, im weird."
Actually, I'm like that too...I want that too from the aqua guys I know. HAHAHAH
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Yes.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
lol, well I'm not sure I dont talk about my issues with many. Im usually the non-flakey one also.
BUT how does he normally open up to you??
You usually have to just let it flow out of them. When something is on our mind it comes out randomly, given enough time into the particular, but relevant conversation.
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Apr 24, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7359 · Topics: 52
looks like he is making it look like landmines to you.