SHY GIRL

i swear this girl would be the last person i would guess to ever be shy, she is an aquarius but i thought for sure she was a gemini by the way she is so busy, talks to so many people and is so intelligent. in short- this chick is the class A social butterfly that everyone wishes they were. but when i TRY to talk to this girl she just freezes up and doesn't really know what to say and gets all quiet. i dont even need to be talking to her i can just be around her and she'll act the same way. what im wondering if is this normal for an aquarius princess to behave if she likes someone....or does she really NOT like me?


its just to the point where we can't even form a friendship cuz its incredibly AWKWARD


any ideas on how to loosen this girl up??

awwww that's so cute! haha ur aqua i mean. when you talk to her do u approach her already with that romantically interest vibe? what exactly do you say to her? r u guys in the same circle of friends? it's funny u thought she was a gemini. i think it's pretty common to misread aquas as their other fellow air signs (gemini & libra) cuz ther the most chattiest signs. it's true aquas can be mega talkative but yeah we can also be shy at the same time. esp wen it comes to lovey stuff. im the exact same way. it's usually when it's a cute guy or something talking to me n i swear freeze up, look down n b tongue-tied too which is weird b/c im usually such a motor mouth. maybe she likes u! lol

my advice is to treat her as a friend. almost as "one of the guys" and joke with her, laugh, tell her funny stories, fun facts, etc. act as if ur totally uninterested romantically but don't talk about being interested in other girls. i bet acting like a friend will definitely ease her up because aquas r more comfortable and in their element when they're acting in that "friend" role. im definitely more comfortable hanging out with someone i like as a friend than going on a labeled "date", n she seems like she cud b the same way. i would hang out with her & her friends but not single her out and make it obvious ur interested. be unassuming.

GOOD LUCK!!!!! 🙂

She likes you.

A lot.

🙂

my advice is to treat her as a friend. almost as "one of the guys" and joke with her, laugh, tell her funny stories, fun facts, etc. act as if ur totally uninterested romantically but don't talk about being interested in other girls. i bet acting like a friend will definitely ease her up because aquas r more comfortable and in their element when they're acting in that "friend" role. im definitely more comfortable hanging out with someone i like as a friend than going on a labeled "date", n she seems like she cud b the same way. i would hang out with her & her friends but not single her out and make it obvious ur interested. be unassuming.

GOOD LUCK!!!!! 🙂

this 😉

Posted by aquarius21
awwww that's so cute! haha ur aqua i mean. when you talk to her do u approach her already with that romantically interest vibe? what exactly do you say to her? r u guys in the same circle of friends? it's funny u thought she was a gemini. i think it's pretty common to misread aquas as their other fellow air signs (gemini & libra) cuz ther the most chattiest signs. it's true aquas can be mega talkative but yeah we can also be shy at the same time. esp wen it comes to lovey stuff. im the exact same way. it's usually when it's a cute guy or something talking to me n i swear freeze up, look down n b tongue-tied too which is weird b/c im usually such a motor mouth. maybe she likes u! lol

my advice is to treat her as a friend. almost as "one of the guys" and joke with her, laugh, tell her funny stories, fun facts, etc. act as if ur totally uninterested romantically but don't talk about being interested in other girls. i bet acting like a friend will definitely ease her up because aquas r more comfortable and in their element when they're acting in that "friend" role. im definitely more comfortable hanging out with someone i like as a friend than going on a labeled "date", n she seems like she cud b the same way. i would hang out with her & her friends but not single her out and make it obvious ur interested. be unassuming.

GOOD LUCK!!!!! 🙂

we are like opposites, shes not the type of girl i would see myself, so we never cross paths in the circle of friends way, if i didn't have a class with her i would never know who this girl was and im sure that goes the same for her, and when i aproach her its definately always in the romantic sense and im fuckin intense...i guess thats where im going wrong. i would just ask questions if i was close to her to try and strike up a conversation and she would get all red and weird...i bet its sad to watch for a bystandard...when shes sees me looking at her she puts her head down hahaha so when i pass her i just say hi and she just smiles. that sucks...i really dont see me getting anywhere with this girl because i literally almost never see her and im definately not in her clique of friends. i recently got a FB and she will not accept my friend request!! she is making it impossible

normally girls go quiet if they like you.just enjoy some silences they can be the most romantic moments..when she loosens up that probably when shes cooling off you dont want that 😛

Lol omg tht's so cute. Haha sorry. I think she likes u. I mean def if u've seen her usually talkative. That or she thinks ur cute. Wuts ur sign? N yeah approachn her intensely proly made her freeze up even more lol. R u a sagi? U sed u guys r opp, wut is it about her tht interests u?

im a gemini.....everything about her is just amazing yo

Oh how she's acting is totally typical of an Aqua

When you see her socializing & being open, it's probably with people she knows well & is comfortable with.

But you? She's still feeling you out. Observing you. Analyzing you. Testing you to see if you're worth her being comfortable with.

Most Aquas aren't shy when you finally get to know them.

They're like Cancers in that they initially have huge shells/security walls when they 1st meet someone

They literally see it as a privelege for someone to be able to see their true & more open side. And trust me, they'll make you work for it too!

She likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be so self-conscious when she's around you. She'd be her normal outgoing & social self. The fact that she won't be that way indicates that she actually cares (even if just a little bit) about what you think of her.

Newsflash: If an Aqua didn't care or had already made up their mind that they weren't that into you, they wouldn't care.

haha you made fb account to be her friend?

Posted by krysrenee7
Oh how she's acting is totally typical of an Aqua

When you see her socializing & being open, it's probably with people she knows well & is comfortable with.

But you? She's still feeling you out. Observing you. Analyzing you. Testing you to see if you're worth her being comfortable with.

Most Aquas aren't shy when you finally get to know them.

They're like Cancers in that they initially have huge shells/security walls when they 1st meet someone

They literally see it as a privelege for someone to be able to see their true & more open side. And trust me, they'll make you work for it too!

She likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be so self-conscious when she's around you. She'd be her normal outgoing & social self. The fact that she won't be that way indicates that she actually cares (even if just a little bit) about what you think of her.

Newsflash: If an Aqua didn't care or had already made up their mind that they weren't that into you, they wouldn't care.

totally true & agree! 🙂

Posted by westside
im a gemini.....everything about her is just amazing yo

oOo cool well u guys r already compatible. u just need to achieve that friend role first. awww i hope it works out for u! haha

Posted by AA
haha you made fb account to be her friend?

that was one of the more weighing reasons yes

Posted by aquarius21

Posted by westside
im a gemini.....everything about her is just amazing yo

oOo cool well u guys r already compatible. u just need to achieve that friend role first. awww i hope it works out for u! haha

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thank you!!

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Posted by westside

i recently got a FB and she will not accept my friend request!! she is making it impossible

^^ Wait no. That doesn't sound right. If she were really interested, then she wouldn't make it impossible. Unless of course, she's already taken, and then she'd make it impossible.

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yes, this is what im still stumped on, appearantly, its obvious to these other aquas that she likes me, but why the hell wont she even talk to me on FB? she IS single

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Posted by westside

i recently got a FB and she will not accept my friend request!! she is making it impossible

^^ Wait no. That doesn't sound right. If she were really interested, then she wouldn't make it impossible. Unless of course, she's already taken, and then she'd make it impossible.

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Lol u took that "impossible" comment too literally

yes, this is what im still stumped on, appearantly, its obvious to these other aquas that she likes me, but why the hell wont she even talk to me on FB? she IS single

I wouldn't worry bout it. Just wait it out n mayb she'll eventually add u. I've had 10+ ppl waiting for me to add them onto fb n idk y I ignore it lol bt I just do. N most r family members! I've had relatives always telling me y havnt I added them whenever I c them. I kno, its weird n don't hav an explanation for it lol bt mayb she's the same way? Hmmm mayb that's y we make ppl go crazy haha. Does she log in often?

Posted by westside

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Posted by westside

i recently got a FB and she will not accept my friend request!! she is making it impossible

^^ Wait no. That doesn't sound right. If she were really interested, then she wouldn't make it impossible. Unless of course, she's already taken, and then she'd make it impossible.

yes, this is what im still stumped on, appearantly, its obvious to these other aquas that she likes me, but why the hell wont she even talk to me on FB? she IS single

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Hm. For the most part, when I think a guy's cute but I don't know him well, I will freeze up in person but I'm chatty as ever thru text/online. She either may playing hard to get or she may just not be into it. Does she talk to any of your friends or people who know you?

Posted by westside
i swear this girl would be the last person i would guess to ever be shy, she is an aquarius but i thought for sure she was a gemini by the way she is so busy, talks to so many people and is so intelligent. in short- this chick is the class A social butterfly that everyone wishes they were. but when i TRY to talk to this girl she just freezes up and doesn't really know what to say and gets all quiet. i dont even need to be talking to her i can just be around her and she'll act the same way. what im wondering if is this normal for an aquarius princess to behave if she likes someone....or does she really NOT like me?


its just to the point where we can't even form a friendship cuz its incredibly AWKWARD


any ideas on how to loosen this girl up??

I'm an aquarius who is a class A social butterfly but when I'm around my guy, I freeze, go quiet, avoid looking at him. Yes, she likes you otherwise I see no reason why she's unable to interact with you. AS for her loosening up, just tell her you are interested in her because you've read my situation in the gemini/cancer cusp man forum. Just tell her and she'll reciprocate. I can guarantee you that

Posted by aquarius21

yes, this is what im still stumped on, appearantly, its obvious to these other aquas that she likes me, but why the hell wont she even talk to me on FB? she IS single

I wouldn't worry bout it. Just wait it out n mayb she'll eventually add u. I've had 10+ ppl waiting for me to add them onto fb n idk y I ignore it lol bt I just do. N most r family members! I've had relatives always telling me y havnt I added them whenever I c them. I kno, its weird n don't hav an explanation for it lol bt mayb she's the same way? Hmmm mayb that's y we make ppl go crazy haha. Does she log in often?

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yes, couple times a day, she has added other people so i know she saw mine. i would really like to spend time with this girl but i hardly see her, maybe once a week if that and even then its just nothing, no progress..i got jewed out of having a locker with the rest of my grade, and at or near my locker is where i put my game down, so im going to wait till later this year when i am able to get one of those lockers near her, and then i will be all over that....for now tho, i am keeping my eyes open for a scorpio!

Posted by 0987654321234567890
ARe you coming on too strong? Do you have a reputation? ARe you a ladies' man? 😛
We don't like that.
Try toning it down and see if that works. Do some random acts of kindness and volunteer at your local animal shelter. She'll be ALL OVER YOU.

yes. i make it a point to make my intentions clear, but i see now that that is not the right way haha...ladies man...do you mean a player? nope!

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She probably doesn't care for your Ron Paul t-shirt lmao 😛

LOL 😛

Posted by LibraLuv
My mom was like this before she met her friend, and my Aqua bestfriend is like this as well so age doesn't have anything to do with it. When they really like a guy, they get super shy and definitely will not make the first move. As the Man, you will work for their love. Believe that! Once they've decided they like the guy, they can turn aloof from what I've seen. Their attitude changes to "Oh no, if he wants me he's going to have to come after me, because I will not chase after him". They put on this air of "Does he know who I am? I am the queen!"...lol. It's amazing to watch her change from being the social butterfly to almost running from the guy. It's so weird and funny at the same time because it is totally a front. Well those are my experiences with the Aqua women I know. Treat her like a friend, show her that you are really interested in her and have your own life. The one's I know do not like Players. If you are a player, you can forget it. Aquas pay attention to everything, whether you realize they are noticing it or not. I hope it works out for you.

i see...this is so true, when i had a class with her, i would notice her looking at me out the corner of her eye whenever i talked or did anything...the first time i caught her doing it i was said "i see you judging me", she got embarrased but laughed afterwards hahaha

Hows Blastoise getting along... has he pulled?

Posted by AA
Hows Blastoise getting along... has he pulled?

i decided to message her and tell her how i feel to see if im just wasting my time..i said something like i wish you would accept my request so we can talk, haha, incase you didn't notice, i really like you.

been 2 days and she hasn't said anything, so i guess i am

i just would never have the balls to say something like that... I guess messaging makes it easier i suppose. But on the flipside a tacky cheap message would strip away any kind of meaning or genuine(ness) surely?

Posted by westside

Posted by AA
Hows Blastoise getting along... has he pulled?

i decided to message her and tell her how i feel to see if im just wasting my time..i said something like i wish you would accept my request so we can talk, haha, incase you didn't notice, i really like you.

been 2 days and she hasn't said anything, so i guess i am

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U should physically approach her and tell her in person. She'll be cornered n @ least u'll get ur answer rite away! Haha

Posted by LibraLuv
My mom was like this before she met her friend, and my Aqua bestfriend is like this as well so age doesn't have anything to do with it. When they really like a guy, they get super shy and definitely will not make the first move. As the Man, you will work for their love. Believe that! Once they've decided they like the guy, they can turn aloof from what I've seen. Their attitude changes to "Oh no, if he wants me he's going to have to come after me, because I will not chase after him". They put on this air of "Does he know who I am? I am the queen!"...lol. It's amazing to watch her change from being the social butterfly to almost running from the guy. It's so weird and funny at the same time because it is totally a front. Well those are my experiences with the Aqua women I know. Treat her like a friend, show her that you are really interested in her and have your own life. The one's I know do not like Players. If you are a player, you can forget it. Aquas pay attention to everything, whether you realize they are noticing it or not. I hope it works out for you.

You know your aqua women well. I get the same "Doesn't he know who I am? I'm the queen!" way..lol