spider dreams
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by seaclovers on Friday, March 20, 2009 and has 4 replies.
i have found it to be really starnge that when i sleep with someone when i first meet them, we tend to have a very comfortable connection, whereas now(ive been seeing this guy now for a little over a month and there hasnt really been any kind of physical contact, mainly on my part, and for once hes a really good guy. i mean a really good guy but i cant seem to be comfortable around him, like really comfortable). hes a virgo
im a saggie and that bothers me. i understand that when you take that step in sleeping with someone, you are crossing that threshold of absolute comfortability and thus me not being intimate with him would cause me to be uncomfortable around him.
another issue is last night when i was spending the night, the more he became close to me, the more i wanted to scream and run away. laying there i was thinking of different ways to leave. pick up my things, tell him i couldnt sleep and just leave. i know it would hurt him but i didnt care.
if it wasnt for the fact that it was really warm and it was late, i wouldnt have fallin asleep. well sorta. that, and me knowing it would hurt him and he would be pondering and worrying all night about why i left.
when i did fall asleep for a few moments ( i dont normally remember my dreams) but last night i kept haveing this dream that i was behind this spiderweb(thick) and has multiple spiders crawling through it. (i hate spiders!) i was on my knees and i could see an opening toward the ground, and someone on the other side. but i couldnt make out who it was. and i couldnt escape.
im a saggie and that bothers me. i understand that when you take that step in sleeping with someone, you are crossing that threshold of absolute comfortability and thus me not being intimate with him would cause me to be uncomfortable around him.
another issue is last night when i was spending the night, the more he became close to me, the more i wanted to scream and run away. laying there i was thinking of different ways to leave. pick up my things, tell him i couldnt sleep and just leave. i know it would hurt him but i didnt care.
if it wasnt for the fact that it was really warm and it was late, i wouldnt have fallin asleep. well sorta. that, and me knowing it would hurt him and he would be pondering and worrying all night about why i left.
when i did fall asleep for a few moments ( i dont normally remember my dreams) but last night i kept haveing this dream that i was behind this spiderweb(thick) and has multiple spiders crawling through it. (i hate spiders!) i was on my knees and i could see an opening toward the ground, and someone on the other side. but i couldnt make out who it was. and i couldnt escape.
i woke up, and when he left for work, i left his house and came home and went straight to the computer. i looked up spider dreams and a couple of different meanings came about.
one would be a mother figure, uhh dont think so.
two was a feeling of being trapped either emotionally or physically. sounds interesting
and three would be a sign of deceit-fulness and something hidden withen the context.
now there was a couple other ones saying that dreaming of a spider was a good omen. of a change in paths and i also read that it can be translated into someone close to you will pass away.
i cant get it out of my head that the feeling of being trapped is incredibly how i was feeling as i was laying there, wishing apon my escape.
the deceit was interesting. i thought about this one for a while, and knowing him i dont think that he would be the one who would be deceitful. and i thought about how recently ive been thinking about my ex. (the aqua) and my growing urge to call him and spend time with him because that reminds me of my comfort zone.
but is it wrong for me to want to scream and leave when i havent given him the chance to become close to me?
one would be a mother figure, uhh dont think so.
two was a feeling of being trapped either emotionally or physically. sounds interesting
and three would be a sign of deceit-fulness and something hidden withen the context.
now there was a couple other ones saying that dreaming of a spider was a good omen. of a change in paths and i also read that it can be translated into someone close to you will pass away.
i cant get it out of my head that the feeling of being trapped is incredibly how i was feeling as i was laying there, wishing apon my escape.
the deceit was interesting. i thought about this one for a while, and knowing him i dont think that he would be the one who would be deceitful. and i thought about how recently ive been thinking about my ex. (the aqua) and my growing urge to call him and spend time with him because that reminds me of my comfort zone.
but is it wrong for me to want to scream and leave when i havent given him the chance to become close to me?
so,the Virgo dude is a rebound?
no no. me and aqua go way back like 2-3 years. but we havent really spoken in about a year because he decided to get some girl pregnant and thus, he is a dad as of 2 weeks ago. all of which was around the time when we were still dating.
i only contacted him about a fweek ago to see if his baby was born and how he was doing, because he doesnt have the best of support systems.
virgo is the boyfriend, and in no way shape or form a rebound.
i just feel as if im missing the connection my and aqua had
i only contacted him about a fweek ago to see if his baby was born and how he was doing, because he doesnt have the best of support systems.
virgo is the boyfriend, and in no way shape or form a rebound.
i just feel as if im missing the connection my and aqua had
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