The longest relationship you've been in ?
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by LittleRainbow on Friday, October 25, 2013 and has 20 replies.
I was just wondering how long,and what sign it could be with you ?
Oh,for those who had known bout my previous thread,oh well,after 4 days,there's still no words from the Aquarius guy I've confess,argh,nevermind,I know I must give him a long time ?(But how long was the "long" ?)
Btw,so which sign last longest with you guys ?I'm just curious
Oh,for those who had known bout my previous thread,oh well,after 4 days,there's still no words from the Aquarius guy I've confess,argh,nevermind,I know I must give him a long time ?(But how long was the "long" ?)
Btw,so which sign last longest with you guys ?I'm just curious
Well within reason I think! I've been in the situation before and yeah it totally sucks. I feel with all the capricorn influence he has perhaps Truecap can give a more helpful answer because I would say if he hasn't replied yet then go commando on his ass 
The longest relationship I had is with a Sag, lasted for the better part of 6 years followed by a Leeb for around 3 years.
The longest relationship I had is with a Sag, lasted for the better part of 6 years followed by a Leeb for around 3 years.
Did I hear my name??
Well, you're really not dating, so I wouldn't put a time limit on the contact. Give him as much time as he needs to figure things out. That doesn't mean just sit around and wait for his call. Get out there, accept a date with someone else, go out with the girls, do your thing, live your life, just don't worry about it.
When you do see him be friendly, and keep things as they were. No pressure on him and don't mention it again. Honestly, from your other post, I think he just thinks of you like a friend. A real friend he trusts and likes to talk to and spend time with. Whatever you do, and listen up good, is DO NOT ever ask him why he hasn't called. That's whiny, clingy and puts pressure on him, makes a man feel like you're bitching at him. Aqua men like independent, confident women and if you ask why he hasn't contacted you (or you keep texting him) he will think you're needy. Besides, men like people they can make happy and if you're complaining he hasn't called, he's not making you happy.
And as for the time frame, my limit was always two weeks. No contact after two weeks, they're not into you and its time to move on. Any contact after that was never taken seriously. Oh, I'd be nice and friendly, but I wouldn't take him seriously as someone I would date.
No, I'm not lecturing you. Just some words of wisdom from the peanut gallery.
I am a cap and so far, my aqua and I have been together for a year and a half (19 months to be exact).
Well, you're really not dating, so I wouldn't put a time limit on the contact. Give him as much time as he needs to figure things out. That doesn't mean just sit around and wait for his call. Get out there, accept a date with someone else, go out with the girls, do your thing, live your life, just don't worry about it.
When you do see him be friendly, and keep things as they were. No pressure on him and don't mention it again. Honestly, from your other post, I think he just thinks of you like a friend. A real friend he trusts and likes to talk to and spend time with. Whatever you do, and listen up good, is DO NOT ever ask him why he hasn't called. That's whiny, clingy and puts pressure on him, makes a man feel like you're bitching at him. Aqua men like independent, confident women and if you ask why he hasn't contacted you (or you keep texting him) he will think you're needy. Besides, men like people they can make happy and if you're complaining he hasn't called, he's not making you happy.
And as for the time frame, my limit was always two weeks. No contact after two weeks, they're not into you and its time to move on. Any contact after that was never taken seriously. Oh, I'd be nice and friendly, but I wouldn't take him seriously as someone I would date.
No, I'm not lecturing you. Just some words of wisdom from the peanut gallery.
I am a cap and so far, my aqua and I have been together for a year and a half (19 months to be exact).
Truecap : Oh,no wonder your name has a "cap" lol,i nvr figure that out,it's ok,he's thinking me as a friend,he just message me juznow.And yeah,i didn't ask him bout the calls,i just asked did you read my message and he said he just read juznow(yeah,he rarely use his hp =.= )
Aquasnoz : Wow !!That's v long...i only dated not longer than a month,but the reason we broke up(with a pisces) is becaoz he controlls me.He ask me what am i doing every second and ask me if i have another man (why he ask is coz i didnt reply his message for a day==)and the worst part is after 2 day dating he called me to kiss him(i mean seriously,that's too fast)
Aquasnoz : Wow !!That's v long...i only dated not longer than a month,but the reason we broke up(with a pisces) is becaoz he controlls me.He ask me what am i doing every second and ask me if i have another man (why he ask is coz i didnt reply his message for a day==)and the worst part is after 2 day dating he called me to kiss him(i mean seriously,that's too fast)
Both of my relationships where with Taurus women... Never, ever again! one was 2 years and the other 5, we just broke up... They are very clingy and possessive and care way to much about money!
Helena88 : Ohh,I wont want to be with a Taurus @.@ I had problems argueing with taurus all time T.T
with my mirror for the longest time
Posted by ceu
Helena88, you and the Taurus woman are no longer involved with each other? You did not respond back to the thread you posted on the Taurus board about that Taurus woman. I wish you the best! Are there many OUT lesbians where you live?
No we are not, sadly now it's getting kinda stalky...
There are! I live in The Netherlands and almost everyone is okay with gay people.
But they look like dudes, and I'm very girly... So it's still hard to find a girl who actually looks like a girl.
And you? Is it safe there
?Posted by LittleRainbow
Helena88 : Ohh,I wont want to be with a Taurus @.@ I had problems argueing with taurus all time T.T
Hahaha! YES! And the fights are damn explosive! They are very loveable and sweet but damn they are jealous of everyone! Even guys (I'm a lesbian) And the 'You are mine' is sweet at first, until you find out they aren't actually kidding, gets a little creepy!
I just don't get them...
Helena88 : Agree with you !Although I'm just friends with two Taurus,omg they are so open minded and they love to argue.Some are lazy and annoying.And they always say bad about me(to me[Leo]),like they said i'm so not like a girl when i'm so unpolite beating him(coz i was telling him properly not to take my things and put off but he didnt) and one of my female taurus said openly to me in front of my crush(we're just friends) that i have a small breast ==
I feel so awkward and ashamed of myself T.T
I feel so awkward and ashamed of myself T.T
Posted by LittleRainbow
Helena88 : Agree with you !Although I'm just friends with two Taurus,omg they are so open minded and they love to argue.Some are lazy and annoying.And they always say bad about me(to me[Leo]),like they said i'm so not like a girl when i'm so unpolite beating him(coz i was telling him properly not to take my things and put off but he didnt) and one of my female taurus said openly to me in front of my crush(we're just friends) that i have a small breast ==
I feel so awkward and ashamed of myself T.T
Yeah... That sounds like something my ex would say/do
She is lazy and annoying too. And VERY judgmental! It's never really good enough and when it is good enough, they want to change it.Helena88 : To be honest,I do really believe in astrology including my love life.which I had planned if can I wouldn't want to be with a Taurus,Aries and Pisces,i personally dont really like them
Posted by LittleRainbow
Helena88 : To be honest,I do really believe in astrology including my love life.which I had planned if can I wouldn't want to be with a Taurus,Aries and Pisces,i personally dont really like them
My best friend is Aries, he's quite aggressive sometimes... I don't like that. I would love another Aquarius a Gemini or a Leo!
My sister is a Gemini and her bf is Aqua like me and when we are together, it is so much fun!
Helena88:Wow cool...lol, I dont like one of my Aries friend too...when my lecturer gave tips on our trials she told me if anyone cant get an for that subject, one is totallt stupid...and I always get pass only...at the end she didn't even get an A !
Lol, Leo are aggressive too...including me...sometimes I'm too straight forward which made my friends feel sad...no choice. ..that's natural to me.
I did like to pair with Gemini and Aquarius...maybe Virgo (but I don't remember having a friend that is virgo)
I never like Scorpio. ..including my few aquarius friends...it's a long story so I cant say much
Lol, Leo are aggressive too...including me...sometimes I'm too straight forward which made my friends feel sad...no choice. ..that's natural to me.
I did like to pair with Gemini and Aquarius...maybe Virgo (but I don't remember having a friend that is virgo)
I never like Scorpio. ..including my few aquarius friends...it's a long story so I cant say much
CEU, where are your from? If you don't mind me asking.
Capricorn on and off four years next leo on and off three years...
CassieJones24bze : Who goes better with you ?
Edited :
CassieJones24bze : Who goes better with you ?
One of my capricorn friend was a rather close to my Aquarius friend(same gender).My Aqua friend doesn't really like the cap,as he was a bit annoying so i was curious...
CassieJones24bze : Who goes better with you ?
One of my capricorn friend was a rather close to my Aquarius friend(same gender).My Aqua friend doesn't really like the cap,as he was a bit annoying so i was curious...
Posted by ceuPosted by Helena88Posted by ceu
Helena88, you and the Taurus woman are no longer involved with each other? You did not respond back to the thread you posted on the Taurus board about that Taurus woman. I wish you the best! Are there many OUT lesbians where you live?
No we are not, sadly now it's getting kinda stalky...
There are! I live in The Netherlands and almost everyone is okay with gay people.
But they look like dudes, and I'm very girly... So it's still hard to find a girl who actually looks like a girl.
And you? Is it safe there
That is lovely that being gay and lesbian is largely accepted in The Netherlands. Where I am from, it is not; however, I am going to live my life happily regardless.
We do not have a Lesbian or Gay scene, or nightclubs, bars, or places to openly congregate with one another. I do not think I could count on my 5 fingers 5 OUT lesbians.
The women here are very down-low. They marry; have husbands and children with their husbands and still want to have sexual and emotional relationships with women while enjoying the social, legal, and economic privileges of being married to a man.
It is very difficult for me to find a girlfriend because I do not waste my time or energy or consideration on these type of women, who sadly constitute the majority.
I think that many women want to be easily recognizable as lesbians. Dressing the way males do is an easy of identifying one's self. As long as a woman does not behave as if she is the MAN and expect me to be docile and subservient to her, I am not concerned with how she dresses.
With women who have a more "feminine" appearance, I pay careful attention to their body language. If she mirrors my body language, looks down at my lips, caresses herself while talking to me, if she smiles with her eyes, looks back at me after walking away, holds my eye contact, where she touches me and herself while speaking to me, and the list goes on.click to expand
Awesome that you are so open about it! Most people would care to much of what others think of them, especially in such a town where you live, but you don't and that is what I call true character!
It's sad to hear that a lot of people still only accept 'the American drea
Aries - 6 years
Taurus - 6 Months (on and off)
Taurus - 6 Months (on and off)
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