Posted by Gennie
Real Love for an Aqua is like finding out Santa Claus is real.
Posted by FutureSeeker
The minute I was able to figure out how to free myself from my toxic ex- I detached emotionally faster than I could blink.
We became strangers. My life had two parts- then and now.
I've dated, I've liked men, I've cared for a few deeply, but none have hit me as deep as I feel with my Cancer man. I've always felt suffocated in a relationship. Always been afraid of committing, that somehow it will "clip my wings" and I won't be able to be my "butterfly" self. With my Cancer man, my heart feels so full of love. I actually feel clingy. I actually miss him. Me, the woman who didn't miss anyone when she was deployed, misses her man during the work day. I miss his presence. I feel solid with him. I feel so fixated on him. I love him, and I would do anything to make him smile. He has brought a special sunshine to my life when it has been raining for so so long. That's just how I know.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by FutureSeeker
The minute I was able to figure out how to free myself from my toxic ex- I detached emotionally faster than I could blink.
We became strangers. My life had two parts- then and now.
I've dated, I've liked men, I've cared for a few deeply, but none have hit me as deep as I feel with my Cancer man. I've always felt suffocated in a relationship. Always been afraid of committing, that somehow it will "clip my wings" and I won't be able to be my "butterfly" self. With my Cancer man, my heart feels so full of love. I actually feel clingy. I actually miss him. Me, the woman who didn't miss anyone when she was deployed, misses her man during the work day. I miss his presence. I feel solid with him. I feel so fixated on him. I love him, and I would do anything to make him smile. He has brought a special sunshine to my life when it has been raining for so so long. That's just how I know.
Stupid cancer men and their knack of bringing a freedom oriented, unemotional and commitment phobe Aqua to her knees. I stay away from them. I don't like emotions because they make me feel weak and out of control. No Bueno! Cancies can do that to an Aqua and I just don't like that effect.click to expand
Posted by justagirlPosted by aquarius09Posted by FutureSeeker
The minute I was able to figure out how to free myself from my toxic ex- I detached emotionally faster than I could blink.
We became strangers. My life had two parts- then and now.
I've dated, I've liked men, I've cared for a few deeply, but none have hit me as deep as I feel with my Cancer man. I've always felt suffocated in a relationship. Always been afraid of committing, that somehow it will "clip my wings" and I won't be able to be my "butterfly" self. With my Cancer man, my heart feels so full of love. I actually feel clingy. I actually miss him. Me, the woman who didn't miss anyone when she was deployed, misses her man during the work day. I miss his presence. I feel solid with him. I feel so fixated on him. I love him, and I would do anything to make him smile. He has brought a special sunshine to my life when it has been raining for so so long. That's just how I know.
Stupid cancer men and their knack of bringing a freedom oriented, unemotional and commitment phobe Aqua to her knees. I stay away from them. I don't like emotions because they make me feel weak and out of control. No Bueno! Cancies can do that to an Aqua and I just don't like that effect.
what is it with this combo? Brings me to my knees and yaaaaaa I want my otherside back lol but not really, but i do. GAHHHHH Wonder if its just cancer men/aqua woman. because i don't see the opposite combo much.click to expand
Posted by pennystealing123
So aquas, have you ever felt like you were wrong about "the one?"
If so, how did you handle it?
Posted by BeAcancer7191
My aqua husband explained that he knew within three days of just day to day conversation with me. He thought he was nuts, and put it in the back of mind a- lot, but the more we spoke. The more vivid it became.
He fought it as he's never been one to be affectionate, or "mushy." Lol.
He literally would push me away for hours to a week, or he would become distant and keep to himself. One day he told me "I can't do this. I need to be alone."
After that day it has happened so many times. I was done. Within the same hour he was calling..texting..pleading forgiveness..
Nowwww an entire year later..we are married, he's stuck to me at the hip, and we have a baby on the way. Lol.
Love for an aqua person might be push and pull factor.
Even today he still has a distance about him, but we are so close now that if I do the same thing he says " you wouldn't like if I did that, let's talk."
I love him so much, everyday with him is definitely new. Only thing...he's more introverted than I am. So I have to sometimes drag him out the house lol
Posted by aquanibPosted by aquarius09Posted by pennystealing123
So aquas, have you ever felt like you were wrong about "the one?"
If so, how did you handle it?
LOL! Perfect timing to ask this question because I'm going through that right now. I'm heartbroken even though I'm not showing any of it. Nobody would believe me if I told them that I'm nursing a heartbreak, but it's deep within me. Honestly, it sucks what I'm feeling right now. I normally avoid getting into pointless relationships because I dread heartbreak, but who would've thought that you can face the same kind of pain without dating the person. I feel like I just got dumped without getting dumped. LOL
You flirted on a longer timeframe, ie not just once, thought too much of it and it kinda all went to shyte in the end? If so, never flirt without a condom! ;Dclick to expand
Posted by BeAcancer7191
My aqua husband explained that he knew within three days of just day to day conversation with me. He thought he was nuts, and put it in the back of mind a- lot, but the more we spoke. The more vivid it became.
He fought it as he's never been one to be affectionate, or "mushy." Lol.
He literally would push me away for hours to a week, or he would become distant and keep to himself. One day he told me "I can't do this. I need to be alone."
After that day it has happened so many times. I was done. Within the same hour he was calling..texting..pleading forgiveness..
Nowwww an entire year later..we are married, he's stuck to me at the hip, and we have a baby on the way. Lol.
Love for an aqua person might be push and pull factor.
Even today he still has a distance about him, but we are so close now that if I do the same thing he says " you wouldn't like if I did that, let's talk."
I love him so much, everyday with him is definitely new. Only thing...he's more introverted than I am. So I have to sometimes drag him out the house lol
Posted by FutureSeekerPosted by aquarius09Posted by FutureSeeker
The minute I was able to figure out how to free myself from my toxic ex- I detached emotionally faster than I could blink.
We became strangers. My life had two parts- then and now.
I've dated, I've liked men, I've cared for a few deeply, but none have hit me as deep as I feel with my Cancer man. I've always felt suffocated in a relationship. Always been afraid of committing, that somehow it will "clip my wings" and I won't be able to be my "butterfly" self. With my Cancer man, my heart feels so full of love. I actually feel clingy. I actually miss him. Me, the woman who didn't miss anyone when she was deployed, misses her man during the work day. I miss his presence. I feel solid with him. I feel so fixated on him. I love him, and I would do anything to make him smile. He has brought a special sunshine to my life when it has been raining for so so long. That's just how I know.
Stupid cancer men and their knack of bringing a freedom oriented, unemotional and commitment phobe Aqua to her knees. I stay away from them. I don't like emotions because they make me feel weak and out of control. No Bueno! Cancies can do that to an Aqua and I just don't like that effect.
Oh- I definitely agree- I loathe all the emotion and I cannot stand feeling this vulnerableclick to expand
Posted by Librawoman77Posted by FutureSeekerPosted by aquarius09Posted by FutureSeeker
The minute I was able to figure out how to free myself from my toxic ex- I detached emotionally faster than I could blink.
We became strangers. My life had two parts- then and now.
I've dated, I've liked men, I've cared for a few deeply, but none have hit me as deep as I feel with my Cancer man. I've always felt suffocated in a relationship. Always been afraid of committing, that somehow it will "clip my wings" and I won't be able to be my "butterfly" self. With my Cancer man, my heart feels so full of love. I actually feel clingy. I actually miss him. Me, the woman who didn't miss anyone when she was deployed, misses her man during the work day. I miss his presence. I feel solid with him. I feel so fixated on him. I love him, and I would do anything to make him smile. He has brought a special sunshine to my life when it has been raining for so so long. That's just how I know.
Stupid cancer men and their knack of bringing a freedom oriented, unemotional and commitment phobe Aqua to her knees. I stay away from them. I don't like emotions because they make me feel weak and out of control. No Bueno! Cancies can do that to an Aqua and I just don't like that effect.
Oh- I definitely agree- I loathe all the emotion and I cannot stand feeling this vulnerable
Libra Sun, Aquarius Moon, Aquarius Mars. I can not stand nor tolerate Cancer men. I usually dismiss those sappy momma boys within the third date.click to expand