This aqua's texting behavior is SO annoying!!!

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by 1thgirls on Monday, April 13, 2015 and has 18 replies.
I don't normally text him first unless he does. Sometimes, I texted him first, and I feel like I picked a wrong time. His respond was short and nothing to talk. So I leave it to him to initiate it.
So.. this happens more often for the past week. He started the text, I responded and tried to make conversation. We exchanged texts back and forth... suddenly he's gone or only 1 short answer!!
It's so annoying!! But I tried to make it cool and acted like I didn't care.
So is it normal for aquarius guy? Should I confront him OR leave him alone? I don't know what to do now!
He's aqua sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.
I'm libra sun, leo moon and libra venus.
In my experience this is exactly how it goes lol
I find they are more for face to face talking rather than long, drawn out essay type texting. If it bothers you that much say something, but don't make a big deal of it.
As long as there is communication I wouldn't worry too much.
Thanks dear!
At least you said it's normal for aquarius guy... then I will not worry about it.
I'm going to just leave him alone then. He's acting hot and cold lately.
Sometimes, he's so talkative on the text... Sometimes (recently), he initiates it and text me back with short answers!
I'm going to pretend it won't bother me then.
P.S. we're in a LDR. He suggested us to do skype. But he never asks me to skype together at all.

Posted by MadMarchRam
In my experience this is exactly how it goes lol
I find they are more for face to face talking rather than long, drawn out essay type texting. If it bothers you that much say something, but don't make a big deal of it.
As long as there is communication I wouldn't worry too much.

Posted by 1thgirls
Thanks dear!
At least you said it's normal for aquarius guy... then I will not worry about it.
I'm going to just leave him alone then. He's acting hot and cold lately.
Sometimes, he's so talkative on the text... Sometimes (recently), he initiates it and text me back with short answers!
I'm going to pretend it won't bother me then.
P.S. we're in a LDR. He suggested us to do skype. But he never asks me to skype together at all.

Posted by MadMarchRam
In my experience this is exactly how it goes lol
I find they are more for face to face talking rather than long, drawn out essay type texting. If it bothers you that much say something, but don't make a big deal of it.
As long as there is communication I wouldn't worry too much.


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They're funny creatures lol but you get used to their ways quick enough.
The one I was seeing until recently wasn't overly chatty via text. One word answers/ questions etc unless he wanted a sexy chat then he had words for days lol
If he's suggested Skype before bring it up again and see what he says.
Aquas are sucky texters imo..I have a friend like this. It's better to call Aquas, lol.
LY right about that sexy chat part! He will talk for hours if we're doing that type of text.
I think my Leo moon is playing a big role right now. I'm so upset... don't know what to do...
should I text him again? Should I leave him alone? What about he's boring? etc... So many questions in my mind right now.
I tried to play it cool... but I'm still scared that it will make him forget about me.
And.. he HATES talking on the phone! I'm pretty sure about it bc he even mutes/silence/ and not even turn off the vibration of his phone.
I'm really respect girls who are dating/seeing aquarius guys and can keep up on them.
I'm trying to understand his point now. I will be so upset if he's playing mind game with me.

Posted by MadMarchRam
Posted by 1thgirls
Thanks dear!
At least you said it's normal for aquarius guy... then I will not worry about it.
I'm going to just leave him alone then. He's acting hot and cold lately.
Sometimes, he's so talkative on the text... Sometimes (recently), he initiates it and text me back with short answers!
I'm going to pretend it won't bother me then.
P.S. we're in a LDR. He suggested us to do skype. But he never asks me to skype together at all.

Posted by MadMarchRam
In my experience this is exactly how it goes lol
I find they are more for face to face talking rather than long, drawn out essay type texting. If it bothers you that much say something, but don't make a big deal of it.
As long as there is communication I wouldn't worry too much.




They're funny creatures lol but you get used to their ways quick enough.
The one I was seeing until recently wasn't overly chatty via text. One word answers/ questions etc unless he wanted a sexy chat then he had words for days lol
If he's suggested Skype before bring it up again and see what he says.
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My aqua even hates calling. Sad
Posted by mgmtlove
Aquas are sucky texters imo..I have a friend like this. It's better to call Aquas, lol.


I'll make this sweet and easy for you...
Txt him - Listen here motherfucker I sent you a text and you didn't reply and its really fucking pissing me off want to know why??...Because I fucking hate being ignored by cunts like you, so next time I send you a txt msg you better fucking reply unless its your mum dying in which case you better wish it is because I will crawl into you window at night and stick my fist elbow deep up your ass and fuck you senseless till you shit cum and cum shit for the rest of your life......sleep well bae xoxox
either do that or put your fucking phone/laptop down and go for a run or get a job or whatever the fuck u need to do because it seems like you have too much time on your hands..
There's a thing called doing something else.
My boss would at times not get a text from me for a day if it's not urgent.
My friends would consistently not get texts from me for 8 hour periods.
My phone is a device to leave messages or to be called when it's urgent. If I so happen to be doing nothing then yeah I can text back and forth pretty quickly but if I'm not texting it means I'm busy or the text you sent me doesn't warrant an answer therefore the conversation has concluded.
LMAO 11th, yeah you tell them!
Posted by tiziani
Frankly I've taken to leaving my phone disconnected for half of the month. All I need is a connection to my work email. If it's something important, then call and meet up.


I've also started practicing walking away from people when they insist on using their phone when it's meant to be a meet up (that's not a work meeting where they are required to get notes off phones).
If they want to be with their phone while having a coffee or lunch with me, I'd rather just go eat alone or find something else more interesting.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

I'll make this sweet and easy for you...
Txt him - Listen here motherfucker I sent you a text and you didn't reply and its really fucking pissing me off want to know why??...Because I fucking hate being ignored by cunts like you, so next time I send you a txt msg you better fucking reply unless its your mum dying in which case you better wish it is because I will crawl into you window at night and stick my fist elbow deep up your ass and fuck you senseless till you shit cum and cum shit for the rest of your life......sleep well bae xoxox
either do that or put your fucking phone/laptop down and go for a run or get a job or whatever the fuck u need to do because it seems like you have too much time on your hands..


Big Grin lmao
I think you just have to get used to his ways and find other things to occupy your mind. If this is driving you mad now then you'll be going crazy later down the line.
I myself like my space so this behaviour doesn't phase me. Give it a week and then message and say hi.
Posted by 1thgirls
I don't normally text him first unless he does. Sometimes, I texted him first, and I feel like I picked a wrong time. His respond was short and nothing to talk. So I leave it to him to initiate it.
So.. this happens more often for the past week. He started the text, I responded and tried to make conversation. We exchanged texts back and forth... suddenly he's gone or only 1 short answer!!
It's so annoying!! But I tried to make it cool and acted like I didn't care.
So is it normal for aquarius guy? Should I confront him OR leave him alone? I don't know what to do now!
He's aqua sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.
I'm libra sun, leo moon and libra venus.



I think it is normal for aquarius guys.
There are lots of possible reasons. Sometimes things happen, people call or show up, they get bored with the conversation, can't think of anything else to say, they fall asleep, are busy doing something, don't have time for it, they're not that into you or any number of things.
I think the problem here is it DOES bother you, but you're acting like it doesn't.
My aqua did this a few times in the beginning of our relationship. I made a joke about it and he responded with an explanation (something comes up or someone calls or he fell asleep). Then I told him it bothered me. He apologized, reinforced that it wasn't about his feelings for me. He didn't do it anymore. And it if does happen now (mine usually falls asleep - we're old, lol!) he texts me first thing in the morning explaining he fell asleep.
He's not going to know it bothers you unless you speak up. Aquas don't mind being called out on their behavior as long as it's done in a mature, rational way. Respond emotionally upset and they'll turn away. So just be an adult and let him know in a adult way it bothers you and ask for an explanation. Like, "sometimes you do this....it makes me feel unimportant. Should I take it personally or is there another reason for it?" He may respond with some lame answer, but the telling point of how he feels about you will be if he continues or improves.
Posted by flowingwater
Don't text, call.
Unless you have no other option of communication.


He's told her not to call him all the time.
Im always busy for my work, and he's busy from the school.
I'm just talking about when he suddenly stops texting me in the middle of the conversation.
If it happens once in a while, then I don't mind at all. But he has done it to me almost everyday since the past week.
He doesn't even let me know why. Sometimes he just disappeared in the middle of the conversation and I saw him online on facebook instead.
ry much for your suggestion. I think I will try to tell him in an adult way.
I'm just scared that he will think that I'm too needy and clingy. Im just curious why he keeps doing this to me.
I know I shouldn't make a big deal... But happening for a week now is kinda bothering me a bit.

Posted by truecap
Posted by 1thgirls
I don't normally text him first unless he does. Sometimes, I texted him first, and I feel like I picked a wrong time. His respond was short and nothing to talk. So I leave it to him to initiate it.
So.. this happens more often for the past week. He started the text, I responded and tried to make conversation. We exchanged texts back and forth... suddenly he's gone or only 1 short answer!!
It's so annoying!! But I tried to make it cool and acted like I didn't care.
So is it normal for aquarius guy? Should I confront him OR leave him alone? I don't know what to do now!
He's aqua sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.
I'm libra sun, leo moon and libra venus.



I think it is normal for aquarius guys.
There are lots of possible reasons. Sometimes things happen, people call or show up, they get bored with the conversation, can't think of anything else to say, they fall asleep, are busy doing something, don't have time for it, they're not that into you or any number of things.
I think the problem here is it DOES bother you, but you're acting like it doesn't.
My aqua did this a few times in the beginning of our relationship. I made a joke about it and he responded with an explanation (something comes up or someone calls or he fell asleep). Then I told him it bothered me. He apologized, reinforced that it wasn't about his feelings for me. He didn't do it anymore. And it if does happen now (mine usually falls asleep - we're old, lol!) he texts me first thing in the morning explaining he fell asleep.
He's not going to know it bothers you unless you speak up. Aquas don't mind being called out on their behavior as long as it's done in a mature, rational way. Respond emotionally upset and they'll turn away. So just be an adult and let him know in a adult way it bothers you and ask for an explanation. Like, "sometimes you do this....it makes me feel unimportant. Should I take it personally or is there another reason for it?" He may r
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Posted by 1thgirls
Thank you very much for your suggestion. I think I will try to tell him in an adult way.
I'm just scared that he will think that I'm too needy and clingy. Im just curious why he keeps doing this to me.
I know I shouldn't make a big deal... But happening for a week now is kinda bothering me a bit.

Posted by truecap
Posted by 1thgirls
I don't normally text him first unless he does. Sometimes, I texted him first, and I feel like I picked a wrong time. His respond was short and nothing to talk. So I leave it to him to initiate it.
So.. this happens more often for the past week. He started the text, I responded and tried to make conversation. We exchanged texts back and forth... suddenly he's gone or only 1 short answer!!
It's so annoying!! But I tried to make it cool and acted like I didn't care.
So is it normal for aquarius guy? Should I confront him OR leave him alone? I don't know what to do now!
He's aqua sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.
I'm libra sun, leo moon and libra venus.



I think it is normal for aquarius guys.
There are lots of possible reasons. Sometimes things happen, people call or show up, they get bored with the conversation, can't think of anything else to say, they fall asleep, are busy doing something, don't have time for it, they're not that into you or any number of things.
I think the problem here is it DOES bother you, but you're acting like it doesn't.
My aqua did this a few times in the beginning of our relationship. I made a joke about it and he responded with an explanation (something comes up or someone calls or he fell asleep). Then I told him it bothered me. He apologized, reinforced that it wasn't about his feelings for me. He didn't do it anymore. And it if does happen now (mine usually falls asleep - we're old, lol!) he texts me first thing in the morning explaining he fell asleep.
He's not going to know it bothers you unless you speak up. Aquas don't mind being called out on their behavior as long as it's done in a mature, rational way. Respond emotionally upset and they'll turn away. So just be an adult and let him know in a adult way it bothers you and ask for an explanation. Like, "sometimes you do this....it ma
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It's more important to stand up for yourself and be treated with respect than it is to worry about appearingclingy/needy. People treat us the way we allow. He'll respect you more for standing up. And if he thinks standing up for yourself is clingy/needy, then he's a jerk and not the guy for you.
That said, now, if you are texting all day long or several times a day, then that IS needy/clingy and you should stop. If you are having one text session a day and he does this every single day....then, that's just bad manners and disrespectful.
Focusing on the 'oh, you can't text me, but you can be on facebook' factor is self defeating and almost a stalkerish behavior. Maybe that is why he was reluctant to add you on facebook....?? You need to realize that you use facebook, he has a right to use it too and sometimes it's a pain in the butt to toggle back and forth on our phones between FB and text screen. Plus, friends and family message us and we talk to them via FB messenger. He has a right to do that, just as you do. It's all in perspective. The less you focus on it, the happier you will be.