Turning 30...

Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!

Posted by AerialView
I remember one of donjohns thread.

Aquarius women gets better with aging.

Posted by Dead_Kermit
Looking back I’ve to say 30plus has been the best time of my life. There’s no reason to worry.

As to visions, you had a different vision in your 20s, so what? You’ll have a different one in your 40s too. That’s life... things change.

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by Dead_Kermit
Looking back I’ve to say 30plus has been the best time of my life. There’s no reason to worry.

As to visions, you had a different vision in your 20s, so what? You’ll have a different one in your 40s too. That’s life... things change.

Thanks!!! I noticed that, and sometimes I tell that to others, as you mature your visions may change, but some people are so afraid of the change that they get stuck in what they thought they wanted.

I'm not afraid of change, actually I'm the type of person who always needs something new and I always do things without having second thoughts, but I guess that now I'm anxious because I can't rely on "expected results". 😕

I see. Just... results happen and are more often a combination of luck and ability than ability alone. Just remember: if you try, you risk failure. If you don’t, you ensure it.

If you do what you need, you’re surviving. If you do what you want, you’re living. Make the journey worthwhile.

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Posted by airycap82

Posted by AerialView
I remember one of donjohns thread.

Aquarius women gets better with aging.

I read the same about Cap women 😁

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Posted by AerialView
I remember one of donjohns thread.

Aquarius women gets better with aging.

I read the same about Cap women 😁

Nah Cap women stays old 😜

Old and wise.

And gorgeous.

😆😜

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!

My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by Dead_Kermit
Looking back I’ve to say 30plus has been the best time of my life. There’s no reason to worry.

As to visions, you had a different vision in your 20s, so what? You’ll have a different one in your 40s too. That’s life... things change.

Thanks!!! I noticed that, and sometimes I tell that to others, as you mature your visions may change, but some people are so afraid of the change that they get stuck in what they thought they wanted.

I'm not afraid of change, actually I'm the type of person who always needs something new and I always do things without having second thoughts, but I guess that now I'm anxious because I can't rely on "expected results". 😕

I see. Just... results happen and are more often a combination of luck and ability than ability alone. Just remember: if you try, you risk failure. If you don’t, you ensure it.

If you do what you need, you’re surviving. If you do what you want, you’re living. Make the journey worthwhile.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!

My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!

My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!

Thank you!!! haven't seen you around much, I remember we used to be on that cap board all the time 😂

Definitely self growth and awareness, focusing on myself and growing spiritually. 🤗

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Posted by Aerazo
I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ

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Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!

My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!

Thank you!!! haven't seen you around much, I remember we used to be on that cap board all the time 😂

Definitely self growth and awareness, focusing on myself and growing spiritually. 🤗

Yeah he sort of made himself vaunerable the other day but he is a year too late. I don't have time for the games and I love an Aquarius now lol.

Did you do anything nice for your birthday ?

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Posted by SassyKiwi

I feel this thread so much

I've accidentally called myself 19 when I was in my early 20s #superindenial

I have always dreaded my birthdays. Now 30 is closer to me than 20 🥺

I been slowly learning to be more grateful and appreciate how far I've come.

I just changed my life goals to be a spicy milf and then a gilf 😁

Posted by Aerazo

I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ

Posted by Aerazo

I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ