Typical Aqua?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by RosyLibra on Saturday, November 22, 2014 and has 17 replies.
So I need advice from other Aquas, I'm a Libra woman in a relationship with an Aquarius man. I've done all the research for Aquarius because I had never been interested in horoscopes or such until I met him. I had never met anybody like him and though we met under unusual circumstances, we were both immediately drawn to each other. A friend suggested I look into his horoscope and now a lot of things make sense. However, since I'm new to the horoscope thing, I still have a lot of questions. For example, within 2 weeks of us talking (no sex yet) he told me he loved me... From what I can tell of Aquas, that's very unusual, does he really mean it? Also, I've read that Aquas can disappear from time to time, idk what the deal is bc he hasn't disappeared on me yet and I'm not sure if that's a good thing or he's just not showing me his true self? In fact, we usually text and talk all day (plus FaceTime bc we live in diff states) the only times we take longer to text back is when we're at work bc we're busy... Is that normal of an Aqua?
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I didn't know there was More to it lol I will follow ur advice thanks _??
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Ok, like I said, I'm new at this... I'm totally confused. Lol I have no idea how to "do his chart" or mine. Help please _???
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That was very helpful, thank u _??_ It says his sun sign is Aquarius with Ascendant sign being Gemini
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I just want to add we have been talking for about 4 months...
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Ok, so his chart says
Sun-Aqua
Moon- Aries
Mars- Taurus
Saturn- Gemini
Mercury- Aqua
Jupiter- Aqua
Venus- Aqua
Neptune- Sag
Uranus- Libra
Pluto- Libra
Does that give a better perspective?
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I don't know charts, but I will say this. Don't necessarily take what he says at face value...it's more about actions anyway. Aqua or not.
Also, he will distance himself...it may not always be physically in the literal sense. It may be ocnnection wise.

Anyway point is, enjoy things how they are. Don't get all wacko when he changes his patterns and don't focus on him. Have a life Big Grin
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From the looks of that chart hes going to be a lot to handle. Just breathe. His venus is in Aqua. That is kind of good for you. Hes got Heavy Aqua influence. If it were me i would definitely bail if i saw that. Way too much air! I dont have a chart of the person i am interested in. If i did it would be extremely helpful. Then i can see what influences him on a cosmic level. He is seriously influenced that way. He wont tell me. Says he does not know it. Yea. right.
Some do tell you they love you. I mean the aqua i speak of said it in when he saw me after i got back from a trip. They may "feel" it at the time but its sort of passing thing. If he says that again look him in the eyes and say... what did you say? Gotta say it to my eyes.
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Posted by aqualover07
From the looks of that chart hes going to be a lot to handle. Just breathe. His venus is in Aqua. That is kind of good for you. Hes got Heavy Aqua influence. If it were me i would definitely bail if i saw that. Way too much air! I dont have a chart of the person i am interested in. If i did it would be extremely helpful. Then i can see what influences him on a cosmic level. He is seriously influenced that way. He wont tell me. Says he does not know it. Yea. right.
Some do tell you they love you. I mean the aqua i speak of said it in when he saw me after i got back from a trip. They may "feel" it at the time but its sort of passing thing. If he says that again look him in the eyes and say... what did you say? Gotta say it to my eyes.


Well we had a falling out about 2 months after we started talking and he didn't say it again after that, so I asked him why not and he said he still felt it but that he didn't want to give me the opportunity to hurt him again. He really is an Aqua through and through, only occasionally does he step out of the norm. I feel he does love me still bc I read Aquas get really protective of the ppl they love, if someone is messing with their loved ones, they take matters into their own hands. Well, sometime ago, I had issues with a coworker (female Aries) who was being very ugly to me and since I really hate conflict I would just let it slide over and over. However, since we share everything about our day, he knew what was going on and he called her (recall he lives in another state) and to make the story short he basically told her to back off or she would answer to him. I asked him to please not do that again and he has respected my wishes but I did understand that he was just trying to be protective of me, which was kinda sweet. He throws me off whenever he acts out of Aqua "normal" lol i.e. he's a little jealous sometimes and doesn't hesitate to show it, things like that. I can handle the Aqua side of him bc I really understand it, I admire it actually, I just wanted insight on what it means when he goes outside the Aqua norm
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Another thing he does that I'm curious about... Whenever he's had a really stressful day, he calls me and I can immediately tell something is wrong. I can tell bc I feel like he's trying to pick a fight, I'm not a combative person however so it never works, but is that Aqua? I'm glad he calls me when he's under a lot of stress but I'm not really sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. Does he call me bc I help calm him? Or does he call me bc i don't fight back? _???
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Posted by IAmMystified
I don't know charts, but I will say this. Don't necessarily take what he says at face value...it's more about actions anyway. Aqua or not.
Also, he will distance himself...it may not always be physically in the literal sense. It may be ocnnection wise.

Anyway point is, enjoy things how they are. Don't get all wacko when he changes his patterns and don't focus on him. Have a life Big Grin

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Posted by RosyLibra
Posted by IAmMystified
I don't know charts, but I will say this. Don't necessarily take what he says at face value...it's more about actions anyway. Aqua or not.
Also, he will distance himself...it may not always be physically in the literal sense. It may be ocnnection wise.

Anyway point is, enjoy things how they are. Don't get all wacko when he changes his patterns and don't focus on him. Have a life Big Grin


I wish I didn't focus so much on him but to be honest, he's the first man I've met that can hold my attention for this long. He's funny, smart, tall, handsome, I could go on but u get the point. I've always had admirers but he's totally different than the rest. I feel a connection with him in mind, body and soul that I've never had with another man before. That's why I did my homework on Aquarius and realized why he was the first man that could catch my attention and keep me interested lol but I will try to heed ur counsel and take it day by day
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Posted by RosyLibra
Another thing he does that I'm curious about... Whenever he's had a really stressful day, he calls me and I can immediately tell something is wrong. I can tell bc I feel like he's trying to pick a fight, I'm not a combative person however so it never works, but is that Aqua? I'm glad he calls me when he's under a lot of stress but I'm not really sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. Does he call me bc I help calm him? Or does he call me bc i don't fight back? _???


Can't speak for all the aqua guys out there, but I am most fragile when stressed. I usually need someone to vent off my frustrations but be careful with your responses though, I might snap back and turn my anger at you. If you have that calming effect on him, then you're good for him. Just ignore his retorts and don't get intimidated, aqua men love their women strong, mature, and comforting when he's at his weakest.
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Posted by NotoriousAquaman
Posted by RosyLibra
Another thing he does that I'm curious about... Whenever he's had a really stressful day, he calls me and I can immediately tell something is wrong. I can tell bc I feel like he's trying to pick a fight, I'm not a combative person however so it never works, but is that Aqua? I'm glad he calls me when he's under a lot of stress but I'm not really sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. Does he call me bc I help calm him? Or does he call me bc i don't fight back? _???


Can't speak for all the aqua guys out there, but I am most fragile when stressed. I usually need someone to vent off my frustrations but be careful with your responses though, I might snap back and turn my anger at you. If you have that calming effect on him, then you're good for him. Just ignore his retorts and don't get intimidated, aqua men love their women strong, mature, and comforting when he's at his weakest.
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Awwww thank u _??_ I feel so much better now. Whenever he calls me stressed out, I ask him what's wrong and he always says "nothing" so I let it go. Throughout the conversation he's snapping back at me but I just keep it cool and pretend I don't see it. Then at some point, he'll tell me by himself (I guess by then he's ready) what happened to stress him out or made him angry and we hash it out, by the time we hang up he's making jokes again. I was just curious as to why he wanted to pick a fight with me. But what you said relieves me, that means my reaction to his aggression is the reason he calls me, "I'm good for him". _??? thank u so much
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I think he's not trying to pick a fight with you per se but when i'm angry I pick a fight with those i'm close with.
Who knows why but the fact that he calls you means you are a source of relief i guess.
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Posted by RosyLibra
Posted by NotoriousAquaman
Posted by RosyLibra
Another thing he does that I'm curious about... Whenever he's had a really stressful day, he calls me and I can immediately tell something is wrong. I can tell bc I feel like he's trying to pick a fight, I'm not a combative person however so it never works, but is that Aqua? I'm glad he calls me when he's under a lot of stress but I'm not really sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. Does he call me bc I help calm him? Or does he call me bc i don't fight back? _???


Can't speak for all the aqua guys out there, but I am most fragile when stressed. I usually need someone to vent off my frustrations but be careful with your responses though, I might snap back and turn my anger at you. If you have that calming effect on him, then you're good for him. Just ignore his retorts and don't get intimidated, aqua men love their women strong, mature, and comforting when he's at his weakest.


Awwww thank u _??_ I feel so much better now. Whenever he calls me stressed out, I ask him what's wrong and he always says "nothing" so I let it go. Throughout the conversation he's snapping back at me but I just keep it cool and pretend I don't see it. Then at some point, he'll tell me by himself (I guess by then he's ready) what happened to stress him out or made him angry and we hash it out, by the time we hang up he's making jokes again. I was just curious as to why he wanted to pick a fight with me. But what you said relieves me, that means my reaction to his aggression is the reason he calls me, "I'm good for him". _??? thank u so much
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Well, you're welcome. I think it's gonna get better though in time, as he gains more trust in you.
One more thing though, I think it would also be important that you express to him how these situations make you feel. You two should meet half way, and he should be aware of this. Pick a good time to bring this up and tell him how this makes you feel. Probably at this point, he's still unconsciously testing you and gauging your "worthiness" by how you handle his worst side. I do this often and this is not something I'm conscious about.
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To NotoriousAquaman, I agree with u bc he's constantly telling me that I haven't seen the worst of him and that once I do, I'm going to run. I don't intimidate easily though and he doesn't realize it (or maybe he does lol) that through our conversations, I've been able to piece together a pretty good picture of what he's like when his anger is directed at someone. See, his moon is in Aries, so now I understand what he means and what he's afraid of. However, my moon is in Taurus which means that regardless of how angry the other person can get, it truly doesn't rile me at all. I guess I'll just let our relationship take it's course and we'll see if I can take it or not lol
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