Virgo friend is annoying... what should I do?

So one of my Besties is a Virgo, But Damnn... he wants to be on my ass all the time hanging out with me and its getting me annoyed... I dont want to be straight up and tell him cuz he gets sensitive and he might get pissed off and end the friendship.

Like he always wants to hang out, we drink we talk shit , most of the times he stay over my house ( in the couch of course ) cuz im lazy to drive him back to his house so id rather have him stay and drop him off at work in the morning. I dont mind doing that once in a while, but last time He spent like 3 days straight in my house... Until I told him jokingly, he needed to get all his shit and take it to his house or I was going to start charging him rent... and that it was time I send him to his house cuz I need a vacation. But shit man.... now he is like calling me names, like : cutie, my love, juice butt.. and shit like that and Im about to snap. I dont want him to think I like him just bc I let him stay at my house..when we chill and drink.

On top of everything he can talk to his elbows... in the mornings, i wont say a word like until 10am, and after coffee... and he starts making this conversations... i just point at whatever and ignore him.

Honestly it sounds like he likes you more than a friend, if you aren't interested in more, you need to tell him and I would cut the couch surfing off too. Uber is cheap, send him on his way after drinks if that keeps up.

Yeah, Im starting to feel that too.... Now he is saying that im acting like an asshole cuz since he left my house like a day ago. he is already asking me to hangout or he is going to hangout w another of his friends.... and im like... Nah! go with your other friend and have fun! I need a vacay... we already hangout like for 3 days straight... and he is saying that at least im not being as such as a-hole as we know I can be,.. I told him not to push me... haha. cuz he been texting me good night, then the next day good morning .. and I been ignoring him. like dude........ we friends but leave me the heck alone for a change.

we are also planning about doing some biz together, and he keeps talking about it all the time... its cool tho. cuz we both very hardworking people... I dont want to cut him off.... I just need a rest of his presence. But i dont want to be mean.

Posted by justagirl

Honestly it sounds like he likes you more than a friend, if you aren't interested in more, you need to tell him and I would cut the couch surfing off too. Uber is cheap, send him on his way after drinks if that keeps up.

Yeah, I thought of that... I will definitely have to start doing it.... we have had arguments before, cuz he was having a situation at his house and he asked me if he could of come by... but another of my male friends was coming to visit me and he says he doesnt need to know any of my other male friends... that why am i trying to box him in w some other dude... I told him... cuz you both my friends... then he asked me if I could let him come and stay in my bedroom while my other friend was in my house... I said .. Hell to the No! U either share w me and my other friend, or unfortunately I cant help you.... then, the next day he tried to blame it on me that He got to struggle... I told him. nah, you are my friend and this is my house and I make the rules here, u was the one who didnt like it. And you are not different or better than any other friend and you definitely dont tell me how to treat you or treat them. So, I feel I have made it clear he is just a friend... But he is not getting it apparently 😢

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Posted by justagirl

Honestly it sounds like he likes you more than a friend, if you aren't interested in more, you need to tell him and I would cut the couch surfing off too. Uber is cheap, send him on his way after drinks if that keeps up.

Yeah, I thought of that... I will definitely have to start doing it.... we have had arguments before, cuz he was having a situation at his house and he asked me if he could of come by... but another of my male friends was coming to visit me and he says he doesnt need to know any of my other male friends... that why am i trying to box him in w some other dude... I told him... cuz you both my friends... then he asked me if I could let him come and stay in my bedroom while my other friend was in my house... I said .. Hell to the No! U either share w me and my other friend, or unfortunately I cant help you.... then, the next day he tried to blame it on me that He got to struggle... I told him. nah, you are my friend and this is my house and I make the rules here, u was the one who didnt like it. And you are not different or better than any other friend and you definitely dont tell me how to treat you or treat them. So, I feel I have made it clear he is just a friend... But he is not getting it apparently 😢

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Have you just told him: I get the sense you are interested in more between us, I only like you as my buddy, this isn't going to be more than what it is? Him calling you pet names, staying all the time, getting jealous over another male friend all = interest more than a friend.

Posted by virgoop

he likes you.

tell him you don't feel the same.



duhhhhhh

But he knows... ! He also knows he is not even my type.... He also knows I was recently dating a Sag. And we used to talk about it all the time.

Since you don't want to his feelings, just tell him that you need time to yourself, away from people in general to recharge because you feel drained otherwise.

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Posted by virgoop

he likes you.

tell him you don't feel the same.



duhhhhhh

But he knows... ! He also knows he is not even my type.... He also knows I was recently dating a Sag. And we used to talk about it all the time.

Aquas always friendzone Virgos. #nohope

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Maybe because some virgos think they are better and smarter than everyone else and other should just listen to what they say. He thinks bc we are close friends I should treat him better than the rest of my friends...and I should have him in a pedestal. 😉 ... and you guys think that ppl will die or be unhappy without you around... its true he does things any other of my friends would do... But he does it cuz he wants to...

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Since you don't want to his feelings, just tell him that you need time to yourself, away from people in general to recharge because you feel drained otherwise.

Yes, thats what im currently doing.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Start leaving your house in an unsanitary condition. Also tell him his work sucks.

He doesn't leave my house in unsanitary conditions, but he is a little bit messy... but I got him straight already. lol... last time I made him clean the bathroom, including all the walls. . 😉 he knows i dont play. !



Oh wait.. u telling me to start leaving my house in unsanitary conditions... NAhh! I cant ! I'll go crazy .. ! ... I can let is slide when im too tired to clean, but not for long. !

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Posted by STILL

Since you don't want to his feelings, just tell him that you need time to yourself, away from people in general to recharge because you feel drained otherwise.

Yes, thats what im currently doing.

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Go it.

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Since you don't want to his feelings, just tell him that you need time to yourself, away from people in general to recharge because you feel drained otherwise.

Yes, thats what im currently doing.

Go it.

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Well, I havent tell him exactly like that... But I did tell him I needed some me time..... But, yeah at some point im going to sit down w him and tell him... what he's not getting... cuz even a couple of days ago... I told him. that hanging out coudnt be an everyday thing.

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

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Posted by virgoop

he likes you.

tell him you don't feel the same.



duhhhhhh

But he knows... ! He also knows he is not even my type.... He also knows I was recently dating a Sag. And we used to talk about it all the time.

Aquas always friendzone Virgos. #nohope

Maybe because some virgos think they are better and smarter than everyone else and other should just listen to what they say. He thinks bc we are close friends I should treat him better than the rest of my friends...and I should have him in a pedestal. 😉 ... and you guys think that ppl will die or be unhappy without you around... its true he does things any other of my friends would do... But he does it cuz he wants to...

don't act like Aquas don't have god complex, holier than thou attitudes.

that being said, i like them a lot.

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We secretly do, but at least we dont try to impose it to somebody else... like you have to do and listen to what i say so you can do good otherwise you'll be miserable. like virgos. . lol

But I know its all love...❤️

Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

Some of us air folks are straightforward.

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Since you don't want to his feelings, just tell him that you need time to yourself, away from people in general to recharge because you feel drained otherwise.

Yes, thats what im currently doing.

Go it.

Well, I havent tell him exactly like that... But I did tell him I needed some me time..... But, yeah at some point im going to sit down w him and tell him... what he's not getting... cuz even a couple of days ago... I told him. that hanging out coudnt be an everyday thing.

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Well yeah, IMO you should tell him in that way, so that he gets the point without his feelings being hurt. Most importantly, without you missing out on the future business partnership.

Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

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Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Posted by virgoop

telling this in detail.

you probably enjoy the ego boost and attention in some way to put up with it.

subconsciously maybe.

I really dont, Im aqua... I create my own sunshines.... ❤️ ... Actually the sunshine comes out of my A** 🤣🤣🤣

Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

You know nothing about Aquas. Stop going by what you know about Geminis. Aquas are extremely blunt.

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

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Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

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Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

Some of us air folks are straightforward.

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Im being straightforward.... he is just not getting it the way im telling him. He wants the naked words... and those are going to be hurtful. and thats what im avoiding.

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

Some of us air folks are straightforward.

Im being straightforward.... he is just not getting it the way im telling him. He wants the naked words... and those are going to be hurtful. and thats what im avoiding.

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You are being straightforward up to a point but you are worried you will hurt him. Being 100% straightforward doesn't work that way unfortunately. Speak your truth and pull the band-aid now before he gets further invested, trust me he will appreciate it more. Saying you need me time is not telling him you aren't interested in more than him being your buddy, unless perhaps that is what you want. do you want more with him?

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

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Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

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But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

If someone is your bestie and you are being real and 100% straightforward they would be your bestie after you say what you needed to say. Yes there is a way to say it without ripping the dudes heart out, don't be brutal, but be direct and clear.. not this " i need me time" that is way too vague and not actually addressing the why behind why you need a break from him.

And sorry but yes us Aquas aren't as straightforward as we think, we just think we are being clear.

Really not trying to tell you what to do, I just understand Virgos fairly well and they want as direct as you can be. Perhaps i'm misreading his intentions with you and he isn't anything other than a fiend, but what you shared doesn't read that way. I'd nip that in the butt unless you do want him interested. Bottom line, you need to draw that hard boundary to keep him from frustrating you like he has.

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

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Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

You know nothing about Aquas. Stop going by what you know about Geminis. Aquas are extremely blunt.

lol I remember this chick. She will always find a way to put Gemini in there. Let it go.

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You'll are sleazy af. Simple as that

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

Some of us air folks are straightforward.

Im being straightforward.... he is just not getting it the way im telling him. He wants the naked words... and those are going to be hurtful. and thats what im avoiding.

You are being straightforward up to a point but you are worried you will hurt him. Being 100% straightforward doesn't work that way unfortunately. Speak your truth and pull the band-aid now before he gets further invested, trust me he will appreciate it more. Saying you need me time is not telling him you aren't interested in more than him being your buddy, unless perhaps that is what you want. do you want more with him?

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No, no no, I dont want anything more than friends w him... but he knows that. Ive already dated someone else and he also knew about it.

okay if I say it my way it will come out something like this : wtf man, we just friends, tf you thinking, i dont need to see you every fking day.. whats wrong with you... can you just leave me alone for a while. get a life.! you talk to much shit sometimes i dont even know if I wna listen to you..gimme a damn break.

So, I guess you understand now why im just telling him by bits and pieces?

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

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But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

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Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

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You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

Some of us air folks are straightforward.

Im being straightforward.... he is just not getting it the way im telling him. He wants the naked words... and those are going to be hurtful. and thats what im avoiding.

You are being straightforward up to a point but you are worried you will hurt him. Being 100% straightforward doesn't work that way unfortunately. Speak your truth and pull the band-aid now before he gets further invested, trust me he will appreciate it more. Saying you need me time is not telling him you aren't interested in more than him being your buddy, unless perhaps that is what you want. do you want more with him?

No, no no, I dont want anything more than friends w him... but he knows that. Ive already dated someone else and he also knew about it.

okay if I say it my way it will come out something like this : wtf man, we just friends, tf you thinking, i dont need to see you every fking day.. whats wrong with you... can you just leave me alone for a while. get a life.! you talk to much shit sometimes i dont even know if I wna listen to you..gimme a damn break.

So, I guess you understand now why im just telling him by bits and pieces?

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Ya that's a tad harsh lol no need to tell him to get a life, or that you don't want to listen to him. Trust i understand the frustration, that's how i feel about some folks in my life from time to time.

I just think you will be better off ripping the band-aid at once. Sure he might get butthurt, but a true friend will come back with understanding, eventually.

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Posted by 777

Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

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Good lord. Honestly, don't hang out at all with him. i don't think he is willing to "get it". Unrequited love within a friendship is messed up and i've seen something similar recently but it was the female doing this shit to the guy. However, I did notice from time to time he seemed to be encouraging her interest so I could understand how she was thinking she still had a chance.

I will share a personal story: male roommate always was willing to do everything for me, always saying he'd be there after my break ups etc.. blah blah. I didn't pay attention to the signs, because he was my buddy and I thought we saw each other the same way. One day he confesses his undying love and I had to tell him in no uncertain terms, never gonna happen. It never came up again. granted shit was awkward as fuck for a time, but we got past it. Yes I hurt him, but i knew if I didn't tell him nope/ NEVER. It would have made shit much worse.

Oh lord. Yeah hes sprung. Sucks but you are going to HAVE to hurt his feelings. He will take your kindness and peacefulness as you liking him and being ok with how everything is. If you are not okay, tell him and get it over with. He will probably throw a fit but shit, its his uncomfortability or yours!

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

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You are being too nice.

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

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Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

You are being too nice.

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Yes, bc its a my friend. But I guess Everywhere you read there, im telling you i need space. dont I? like its very clear... (to me) that Im not interested to see you for at least a couple of days and im not interested in anything else.

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

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Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

You are being too nice.

Yes, bc its a my friend. But I guess Everywhere you read there, im telling you i need space. dont I? like its very clear... (to me) that Im not interested to see you for at least a couple of days and im not interested in anything else.

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Hey i get it. Ive had a Virgo not take the obvious hints for 2 years now. So Im going to have to be very mean here soon just to get space. Its not fair bc you dont want to be mean to your friend. But they are using it against us, which isnt so friendly eh? Seems selfish to me. But hey im projecting here LOLOLOL

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

You are being too nice.

Yes, bc its a my friend. But I guess Everywhere you read there, im telling you i need space. dont I? like its very clear... (to me) that Im not interested to see you for at least a couple of days and im not interested in anything else.

Hey i get it. Ive had a Virgo not take the obvious hints for 2 years now. So Im going to have to be very mean here soon just to get space. Its not fair bc you dont want to be mean to your friend. But they are using it against us, which isnt so friendly eh? Seems selfish to me. But hey im projecting here LOLOLOL

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Fake ass air signs. Be str8 forward. Stop trying to round about. "U can spend the night with me & my male friend" weirdo shit

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Im not being fake.... I dont have a male friend, im single ! the male friend was visiting.. was another simple male friend just as virgo.... most of my friends are guys...

I havent been straight forward with him and he already saying im being an A-hole... imagine if im straight forward with him,... im going to hurt him ..... And i still like his friendship. is just getting annoying. so, imma give him some days off... until i can have him around again.

Man I ain't tryna here all of those words with no meaning. How about you be real with yourself & tell him how u feel if that's ur friend like u say.

I'm 1st house sag dominant. I can see through bs even if its pitch black outside

But thats what i been doing... I Already told him he is going to his house cuz I need time by myself.... and that he needs to take all his stuff from my house and go on vacation mode.

like isnt that clear enough?!

Idk, I'm not an air sign. Clear to me is being str8 up. I would tell him I'm not interested in relationship. If he keeps persisting dont hang around

But he is not asking me for a relationship...why would i even bring that word up.?!

Air signs & semantics smh

Whatever ur not interested in, tell him. If he doesn't back off, dont hang out with him.

You dont get it... The more I keep asking him to stay away the stronger it gets..

I already told him I cant be drinking every week, specially on weekdays .

I already told him hanging out with him cant be an everyday thing.

I already told him to take all his stuff and take a vacation.

I already told him I need time by myself

I already told him if he needs to shave and shower to do that and leave. (but he still manage to do it late at night to the point where I have already fallen asleep and he figures himself out on the couch)

I already told him, he is not my man to be leaving his clothes on my chairs

I already told him to go to his house and to gimme a break.

I already told him to go and hang out w his other friends.

And after all that, I wake up this morning with him telling me good morning juice butt ... Like, If someone tells me All that.. how stupid Can I be?

Good lord. Honestly, don't hang out at all with him. i don't think he is willing to "get it". Unrequited love within a friendship is messed up and i've seen something similar recently but it was the female doing this shit to the guy. However, I did notice from time to time he seemed to be encouraging her interest so I could understand how she was thinking she still had a chance.

I will share a personal story: male roommate always was willing to do everything for me, always saying he'd be there after my break ups etc.. blah blah. I didn't pay attention to the signs, because he was my buddy and I thought we saw each other the same way. One day he confesses his undying love and I had to tell him in no uncertain terms, never gonna happen. It never came up again. granted shit was awkward as fuck for a time, but we got past it. Yes I hurt him, but i knew if I didn't tell him nope/ NEVER. It would have made shit much worse.

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Yeah, thats how this one is acting. And I really appreciate he likes to help a lot, but sometimes is like dude... stop being so extra. lol.

The other day I rearrange my bedroom and when he saw it he was like.. oh you should of waited for me.. And I told him.. You dont get it... do you? I like doing things by myself.!

To be quite honest, its not just him. Aqua friendliness is very open and welcoming. Just start being busy!

But dont necessarily need to not hang out with him ,just limit more and more.He'll get the hint.