What exactly attracts you Aqua men?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by cancertheropy on Wednesday, June 29, 2016 and has 34 replies.
This is a question that has bothered me for sometime as I use to attract this Aqua guy for a while but now I can't seem to do it. I believe I am too clingy towards him which is my fault. I know that asking too much turns the aqua off, as I've been told by this person. Anyways, what is it that you like and just attracts you.

I would like to know more of attraction to someone that you already know rather than someone that's new in your life as I have gathered that new people are intriguing.
Clingy is a turn off for them
i was " the girl that got away' when he was young. Reunited 32 years later...
Posted by Lindaaaatje
i was " the girl that got away' when he was young. Reunited 32 years later...
Wow! Nice. How is it going?

Posted by truecap
Clingy is a turn off for them
Haha yes. I've noticed. Then once I pay no attention to him it's like he turns his head my direction at times until I show signs of clingy when I take notice to it haha.
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by Lindaaaatje
i was " the girl that got away' when he was young. Reunited 32 years later...
Wow! Nice. How is it going?

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we have our ups and downs and ups and downs.... :-)

Posted by cliquey
very hot women, they can accept huge personality flaws as long as the girl is hot
Um, I feel that this situation is different. We're both gay sooo...
Posted by cliquey
very hot women, they can accept huge personality flaws as long as the girl is hot
lol



and the husband of ash, Bollywood actress. (he is an aquarius sun)

he said, he married her for her REAL self.

Posted by cancertheropy
Posted by cliquey
very hot women, they can accept huge personality flaws as long as the girl is hot
Um, I feel that this situation is different. We're both gay sooo...
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hot guys with great personalities and good character. lol
Posted by cliquey
it's pretty sad tho, when you'd anything to be given a chance an they cut you off saying you aren't good looking enough to even get to know them as friends

brutal and hearthbreaking
Never had that problem. As even though I've turned him off multiple times, it didn't stop him from inviting me over for some fun time.
Lol there has to be something else besides physical attractiveness. So you got it already for the aqua but you still turn them off from being clingy. What else is a turn on for them, such as with the mental attraction? And besides stop being clingy, lol got that one noted down already.
Aqua likes anyone they can trick . So be available and trickable and you will have the aqua or the aqua will have you. smile


Fun to them are any games they can play on you!! Never play games with them tho or trick them. Or you will lose them to the person they can trick more than you.

They only become friends or pursue and stay with people they can trick

smile

Posted by Wisdom83
Aqua likes anyone they can trick . So be available and trickable and you will have the aqua or the aqua will have you. smile


Fun to them are any games they can play on you!! Never play games with them tho or trick them. Or you will lose them to the person they can trick more than you.

They only become friends or pursue and stay with people they can trick

smile



Could you give me an example of this trickery you speak of? Cause I'm too smart when it comes to people trying to play mind games with me lol.

Posted by younowho
Posted by cancertheropy
Lol there has to be something else besides physical attractiveness. So you got it already for the aqua but you still turn them off from being clingy. What else is a turn on for them, such as with the mental attraction? And besides stop being clingy, lol got that one noted down already.
generosity

we are rude and cold . if you can show warmth and compassion , we are honey to bee. Also being funny.Clingy is ok sometimes but if he asks for space you should give him.

Patience and feminine. Usually strong women who can stand for herself and yet still have compassion and warmth.



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He never asks for space, that's the problem. I know I'm being clingy, the only reason I know questioning and asking turns him off is because I literally had to pry it out of him lol. As he's never one to say anything- just uses words to try to throw me off all the time and if my emotions are doing the thinking instead of my brain then I get all confused on what he's trying to do and can assume things that may or may not be true. I do think that he knows I'm always trying to figure him out 100% as I like doing that with everyone I meet and I tell him stuff (which is a side note I'm done telling him what's going through my head. I feel like it may be a turn off). Very compassionate I am, patient until my emotions get the best of me which is a working progress but I technically gave up on this Aqua guy as I decided (which is easier for me) to believe he didn't care that much. But he answers almost all my messages without ignoring or anything.
Posted by cliquey
very hot women, they can accept huge personality flaws as long as the girl is hot

they would go as far as to reject a girl that has the perfectly suited personality for them for just a little bit better looking one with a terrible personality

they want aesthetics and don't give a flying fuck about anything else

aquas are extremely body aware and picky more so than any other sign and it's time people recognize it and stop portraying them as those ascended creatures that are above all things material

beauty above all for Aquas, especially the straight males

the most tactical ones that wouldn't outright ridicule your physical flaws when you reveal your romantic interest in them in the best case, would just pretend you don't exist
lmao at "very hot women".

I am not "very hot" by any means and always attract Aqua men!

I was in denial for awhile, but my friend told me I remind her of Tim burtons movie characters (LOL). I have big eyes. I'll say that.

corpse bride type look. especially since I'm super skinny as well. ultra metabolism. it kind of sucks, because I want to be normal weight. I look malnourished yet I eat constantly. oh the irony.

if that is the recipe for "hot women", then I guess I'm it! but I know it's not. I'm just teasing. however that description is accurate for my physique. so I guess we shall take it for what it is. I've dated/seen....5 Aquas....seeing one currently. two of my Aqua friends were interested in me, but I preferred to keep them as friends. I can list their placements if that's wanted too. I'm surprised that people think they like hot women. I mean. it makes sense. most men like hot women in general, so it's not completely shocking. but for people to say they only date hot women is news to me. I don't view myself as the next top model over here.

then again, maybe I look so odd/unique that it's attractive. lmfao.
Posted by cancertheropy
Lol there has to be something else besides physical attractiveness. So you got it already for the aqua but you still turn them off from being clingy. What else is a turn on for them, such as with the mental attraction? And besides stop being clingy, lol got that one noted down already.
in my experience, they like women they can't figure out. if you're like a fountain that just spews out your life story they are quick to figure you out, get bored and evacuate. BUT more earthy ones may not really care.

the guy I'm talking to now is an Aqua. on our first date he asked me "what makes H tick" (my name starts w H- just keeping it anon, though some already know my name on here somehow)...

I just laughed and said I wasn't telling him and he had to figure it out. he was totally into it LOL. it made him more interested I'll say that. he replied with something along the lines of "ah so I'll have to take the time to find out by getting to know you by seeing you more...I like that"

that type of deal. they don't want you to be cryptic to where they have no idea what's happening. but they don't want you to be an open book.

not too fond of emotional outbursts though some are more capable of dealing with it than others.... ummm

what else..... idk. be witty? lol. that kind of has to be a natural trait though.

every Aqua is different that's the issue. it depends on the moon and the Venus. but mental stimulation is normally the key for all of them. the only way they would date an idiot is if they want the control. other than that, they need someone at least slightly in their IQ range without wanting to blow them up.

one Aqua I talked to had Cap moon/Aries Venus/Sag Mars. he absolutely LOVED when I'd get mad at him and act super sassy and say impulsive things. why, who knows. he was a very interesting guy.

now...if I say impulsive things to my current Aqua, he's not going to tolerate it. I already did this once (oops- Aries is my 3rd dominant). he wasn't pleased. the other guy I mentioned above would get totally excited and interested by my sass- even turned on if you will. my current guy was more like "that was mean don't do that again". I haven't. he has a Cancer moon/Cap Venus/Cap Mars. I like him because he is mature but also a bit sensitive. I feel like he will help me grow. I hope I can do the same for him. he CAN be a bit of a know-it-all sometimes. he has a Leo rising. he has himself on a pedestal no man can reach, but I kind of admire that about him. he pompous and drives just about anyone else nuts though. I think it's cute. his cancer moon makes him quite the moody one though. not your typical Aqua. not at all.

I'd find out your guys placements. I didn't notice them throughout the thread, but I could've missed it.
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Lol there has to be something else besides physical attractiveness. So you got it already for the aqua but you still turn them off from being clingy. What else is a turn on for them, such as with the mental attraction? And besides stop being clingy, lol got that one noted down already.
generosity

we are rude and cold . if you can show warmth and compassion , we are honey to bee. Also being funny.Clingy is ok sometimes but if he asks for space you should give him.

Patience and feminine. Usually strong women who can stand for herself and yet still have compassion and warmth.



He never asks for space, that's the problem. I know I'm being clingy, the only reason I know questioning and asking turns him off is because I literally had to pry it out of him lol. As he's never one to say anything- just uses words to try to throw me off all the time and if my emotions are doing the thinking instead of my brain then I get all confused on what he's trying to do and can assume things that may or may not be true. I do think that he knows I'm always trying to figure him out 100% as I like doing that with everyone I meet and I tell him stuff (which is a side note I'm done telling him what's going through my head. I feel like it may be a turn off). Very compassionate I am, patient until my emotions get the best of me which is a working progress but I technically gave up on this Aqua guy as I decided (which is easier for me) to believe he didn't care that much. But he answers almost all my messages without ignoring or anything.
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I've found that as soon as I stopped trying to figure him out and just took him as he came, we were able to really connect. I have a habit of trying to figure people out and what makes them tick. He found it intriguing at first, but then I started to notice him avoiding my probing questions. My take on it is that aquarius kind of pride themselves on not being able to be "figured out" and will try to switch things up as soon as you've got them pinned down.

I've settled on the fact that he's a continually-evolving being (like the rest of us- but aquarius seems to be constantly evolving) and to just accept and appreciate that rather than trying to figure it out (they like to be the ones to do that).
Just talk about something you know interests him and don't ask probing questions, I'm Aquarius moon, I find that really off-putting when I'm getting to know someone, makes me cringe!! Sort but I just read your observations and most of them are correct, just get along as friends its nice, he will open up eventually on his own time, when he is ready ?

Little secret, let him work YOU out ,stay quiet about your interest in him, speak only interesting things about you x
Posted by piscespoppy
Just talk about something you know interests him and don't ask probing questions, I'm Aquarius moon, I find that really off-putting when I'm getting to know someone, makes me cringe!! Sort but I just read your observations and most of them are correct, just get along as friends its nice, he will open up eventually on his own time, when he is ready ?

Little secret, let him work YOU out ,stay quiet about your interest in him, speak only interesting things about you x
Lol thanks. Although I don't know any interesting things to say about me anymore. It sounds easier than what it actually is as I do not know what information about me would even in the slightest peak his interest.
My guess would be independence, confidence and a witty sense of humor.

I'm not an aqua though.
Just nonchalantly have a crossword to hand, he will love to help you with it x
Aqua moon and a few other Aquarius placements make me not clingy. It may be my Cancer rising where I want to take care of someone eventually, and always want consistent talks and spend time togetherness. Then I want to love you, kiss you, hug you, and it makes it seem we may be together already. And I'm possessive but I'll give space too.
I'm sorry I can't help but ask questions. Aquarius moon here. Lol
@degenerate_ingenue

Sun - Aquarius

Moon - Gemini

Mercury - Capricorn

Venus - Pisces

Mars - Aquarius
Wel I'm an Aquaman.. clingy is okay.. I happen to find that sweet, but too clingy makes me gasp for air. We love our freedom, meaning if I say that I'm gonna go over to a friend I will just go and I don't expect to be held back. Don't pry into our lives .. I am okay with talking about certain factors in my life but don't constantly ask me why I do things the way I do. I am very loyal, which means that if I'm into you .. be sure that you are the only person I have eyes for on a more serious note. Try being his friend.. listen to him.. join him on his weird adventures.. give him some freedom.. play mind games. To me looks are not a factor. I need you to be interesting in a way that only I would find you interesting and before I know it ...boom I'm nuts about you. Example: I have a couple of female friends but I have eyes for only one (the cancerian).

By the way.. personally.. sensitive sweet cancers attract me.. can't explain .. everywhere you read.. it says Aqua's are cold etc. And here I am.. attracted to sensitive types. Opposites attract?
Wrong sign, unless the Aqua has some Gemini influence.

Aquas place physical beauty as middle of the road. After all, plastic surgery and make up can make any woman go from troll to doll.

Aqua Venus/Aqua Sun are looking for UNIQUE beauty, I could see an attraction to the corpse bride look.

Paul Newman, an Aqua guy, was devoted to his wife, who was considered a great actress but plain on looks compared to Liz Taylor at the time.

Nancy Regan was another woman who married an Aqua for life, lord knows she needed make-up.

There was also Sonny and Cher.

My point is, Aquas of both sexes gravitate toward unconventional pretty or handsomeness.
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Whats wrong with make up ? ask any guy non of them will say no to good make up. Lord knows some people need it more than others here .
Why did you automatically assume what I said about make-up was negative? You totally missed the point as it sailed past you like a football.

Let me lob that again. Aquas place physical beauty as middle of the road for attractiveness because we know how manufactured it is. That goes for the ladies as well as the guys. The exceptions that I see are those Aquas with Aries/Gemini or Taurus traits.
Posted by Wisdom83
Aqua likes anyone they can trick . So be available and trickable and you will have the aqua or the aqua will have you. smile


Fun to them are any games they can play on you!! Never play games with them tho or trick them. Or you will lose them to the person they can trick more than you.

They only become friends or pursue and stay with people they can trick

smile



Is this a trick? My mind just did a spin smile

I work with one with Scorp moon. Talk about trickery. I feel like I'm mentally playing a one up game with him all the time, except bc most of the time I really don't care I think I win

Can they out-trick a Scorp? Winking
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Posted by Wisdom83
Aqua likes anyone they can trick . So be available and trickable and you will have the aqua or the aqua will have you. smile


Fun to them are any games they can play on you!! Never play games with them tho or trick them. Or you will lose them to the person they can trick more than you.

They only become friends or pursue and stay with people they can trick

smile



Is this a trick? My mind just did a spin smile

I work with one with Scorp moon. Talk about trickery. I feel like I'm mentally playing a one up game with him all the time, except bc most of the time I really don't care I think I win

Can they out-trick a Scorp? Winking
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No offense to a lot of you scorpios but every scorpion I've met I've been able to figure them out easily and what they're up to lol. Mind games are hard for me to fall for unless I don't have time to think about it.
Posted by cancertheropy
@degenerate_ingenue

Sun - Aquarius

Moon - Gemini

Mercury - Capricorn

Venus - Pisces

Mars - Aquarius
he will love a good conversation smile he has an active mind with that Gemini moon. he likes someone who can stimulate his mind. the Pisces Venus...that could be a problem if it's square his moon. gives him a bit of a dichotomy of what he wants. Pisces Venus would mean he likes a shy and quiet person...someone who is gentle and not too over the top. but someone who makes him emotionally satisfied would be someone who has a lot to say about a lot of different topics (Gemini moon). it makes him a bit complicated. but ultimately your clingy side might be something his Venus enjoys but his moon does not. unless it involves anything intellectual. he's got a lot going on! definitely be clever. his Gemini moon will appreciate that.

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Posted by Wisdom83
Aqua likes anyone they can trick . So be available and trickable and you will have the aqua or the aqua will have you. smile


Fun to them are any games they can play on you!! Never play games with them tho or trick them. Or you will lose them to the person they can trick more than you.

They only become friends or pursue and stay with people they can trick

smile



Is this a trick? My mind just did a spin smile

I work with one with Scorp moon. Talk about trickery. I feel like I'm mentally playing a one up game with him all the time, except bc most of the time I really don't care I think I win

Can they out-trick a Scorp? Winking
No offense to a lot of you scorpios but every scorpion I've met I've been able to figure them out easily and what they're up to lol. Mind games are hard for me to fall for unless I don't have time to think about it.
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No offense taken.

Honestly I don't play mind games, but if I'm going to be played I'll play back until I just don't care to.

I don't know. I have an air Mars and earth moon though. I prefer straight forward ppl

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Posted by Wisdom83
Aqua likes anyone they can trick . So be available and trickable and you will have the aqua or the aqua will have you. smile


Fun to them are any games they can play on you!! Never play games with them tho or trick them. Or you will lose them to the person they can trick more than you.

They only become friends or pursue and stay with people they can trick

smile



Is this a trick? My mind just did a spin smile

I work with one with Scorp moon. Talk about trickery. I feel like I'm mentally playing a one up game with him all the time, except bc most of the time I really don't care I think I win

Can they out-trick a Scorp? Winking
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Aqua is a fixed sign. Younger Aquas will play games to test boundaries with everything. The older they get, the less inclined they are to play games as the boundaries have already been learned and established.

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Wrong sign, unless the Aqua has some Gemini influence.

Aquas place physical beauty as middle of the road. After all, plastic surgery and make up can make any woman go from troll to doll.

Aqua Venus/Aqua Sun are looking for UNIQUE beauty, I could see an attraction to the corpse bride look.

Paul Newman, an Aqua guy, was devoted to his wife, who was considered a great actress but plain on looks compared to Liz Taylor at the time.

Nancy Regan was another woman who married an Aqua for life, lord knows she needed make-up.

There was also Sonny and Cher.

My point is, Aquas of both sexes gravitate toward unconventional pretty or handsomeness.
lol great points. Sonny Bono was Pisces venus/Libra mars Leo moon too. Cher said she loved Sonny to the end, but she needed more "stimulation" as Sonny was really boring it seemed to me. (which is why Greg Allman, super Sagittarius was the stimulation she needed. Also, that guy from KISS, super stimulation!!)

but he did help a lot in making her big with the sonny and cher show.


at least he has an 11th house stellium....double virgo (he is actually dominant 11th houser) why are some Virgos so damned WILD???? that's like major stimulation.



this guy right here, WILD

not boring at all. (he ended up married to a Pisces sun anyway) lol