What is going on with this Aquarian man—

The Aquarian guy that I'm having an online/on phone friendship with is still messing with my head, so he has been working away for a couple of weeks and we have been mailing almost every day, he came back Friday and phoned me in the evening out of the blue? We had a nice long chat and he said he wanted to see me on Sunday, but again he didn't turn up... but mailed me, was very honest saying he was tired and couldn't face the drive and his children had worn him out! Fair enough, no problem with that at all.. He also said he would arrange something else for during the week or maybe i would like to go to him? I mailed him back, said i understood and it was fine... But now he is ignoring me?

Oh and he also messaged me on Saturday morning and said that he hopes he can live up to my expectations!

So a bit of advice please, would you carry on contact with someone you wasn't really into?

No, I wouldn't carry on with someone who is not into me. Why?

He's playing around with you and you are letting him.

Pull the plug on this dude.

No, i meant would you carry on pursuing someone you are not into?

I can take being stood up once. Things happen Twice? I start losing interest and start looking elsewhere.

If he wanted to see you, he would make it happen.

Posted by TheBlisster
No, i meant would you carry on pursuing someone you are not into?

uhm, no.

I know, i keeping telling myself just stop it you silly cow! But i can't stop! I don't know what it is about him i am determined to meet him?

He does live about 130 miles away too!

I guess you are right, i need to chill out and let it go i suppose... But i just don't understand why he is pursuing me if not interested and he is a grown man in his early 50's?

Well I'm not saying that I'm rushing anything, but we have arranged to meet a few times and it has fallen through because of his work commitments, and I'm fine with that! It is the ignoring bit that bothers me more... I am a bit younger than him, but he also acts like his 12 so we get on quite well ha ha..

He's even!

Thankyou very much nasha82 🙂 I have been very patient most times, but every now and then i do get a tad frustrated, but i don't bombard his with messages.. I am so desperate to meet and he has said the same to me! We have been in contact for two months now and i think of him from the moment i wake until i go to sleep. I too act like I'm twelve most of the time and enjoy playing with him, it's fun! When he said that he hopes he lives up to my expectations, that sort of made me think he is having doubts as to whether he is good enough for me? Do you think that could be the case?

Posted by aquapiscescusp
No, I wouldn't carry on with someone who is not into me. Why?

He's playing around with you and you are letting him.

Pull the plug on this dude.

fully agree with this. He's not worth the time and effort. Once you move on and forget him, he will at some point start making some effort. Dont fall for that! x

Thanks Angeleyes17! But I'm sort of trying to look at it from an Aquarian perspective, trying to get an understanding of the way they think and act on situations like this!

Thanks Angeleyes17! But I'm sort of trying to look at it from an Aquarian perspective, trying to get an understanding of the way they think and act on situations like this!

I think you may be right nasha82, i have sent him lots of pics (that he asked for) but i only have 3 pics of him and said he didn't want to send anymore because he isn't photogenic, i told him neither was i and he was like Oh... But anyway he mailed this evening apologizing and asked me not to give up on him!

I do hope he is worth waiting for! There is definitely an attraction, i like the look of him and love the sound of his voice, he is very intelligent and funny! It is quite cute when he gets flustered at the thought of losing contact with me _??_ Thanks everyone for your help...

Just an update! I haven't heard from Mr Aqua for a few days now, and thanks to you guys i am more chilled about it and actually not worried at all! So thanks for your advice it is really helping me xxx

So i finally met my Aqua man last Thursday and we definitely clicked! You were right nasha82, he was worried that i might have been put off when i met him... and did put himself down down a bit, but we had a lovely relaxing day together and at the end he gave me the biggest hug and a little kiss _??_ We are planning to meet up again soon!

Glad it went well!!

I don't really know what you saying, Aquarius78?

Are you a 53 yr man who's job takes up so much of his time, he hardly has time to see his Children let alone have a social life?

It may be just me, but if you are into someone you would want to keep in touch now and to make sure they don't lose interest, would you?