tell me a bit about yourselves. i dont care for the sexual part but if a guy likes you what do yo like? how do you approach?
what is it that you females like?
what an odd question. Don't you think that you will get a variance of answers?
variance is ok. it's not a question that I'll get an exact or direct answer to, realize that.
I like a man who can lay off the redundancy when it comes to conversation. I need new topics all the time and anything goes, literally. I will do the chasing, thank you very much! And you have got to like dogs. And have a hairy chest. And nice hands. I like white teeth. They don't have to be chiclets but white is nice.
I am goofy and can be very uncomfortable to be around for a person that flies under the radar. I DETEST surface dwellers and refuse to talk about weather and sh1t. There have been times when I have just up and left mid-conversation because it was too horrific listening to the words that came out the other human's mouth.
I am also a workaholic and I prefer if the man I am interested in likes to work as well. Doesn't have to be a fancy job as I take care of myself but for the love of God, work!
I am goofy and can be very uncomfortable to be around for a person that flies under the radar. I DETEST surface dwellers and refuse to talk about weather and sh1t. There have been times when I have just up and left mid-conversation because it was too horrific listening to the words that came out the other human's mouth.
I am also a workaholic and I prefer if the man I am interested in likes to work as well. Doesn't have to be a fancy job as I take care of myself but for the love of God, work!
what i like?
1. smart
2. reliable
3. witty
4. social position [i am in my 40s...so...a man with no/little social position at this age....speaks volumes about who he is]
5. emotional balance
6. the list can go on and on and on and on 😄
how i approach?
stage one-i let him be...if i like what i get i go on...if not i am out [1-6 months]
stage two-i strat building with him if the building gets solid, i'll move in[sort to speak], if it is fragile...i leave with tears in my eyes[month 6-2 years]
stage three- we enjoy the building and the evolution of things...or not...[year 2- who knows till when...]
satisfactory answer? 😄
1. smart
2. reliable
3. witty
4. social position [i am in my 40s...so...a man with no/little social position at this age....speaks volumes about who he is]
5. emotional balance
6. the list can go on and on and on and on 😄
how i approach?
stage one-i let him be...if i like what i get i go on...if not i am out [1-6 months]
stage two-i strat building with him if the building gets solid, i'll move in[sort to speak], if it is fragile...i leave with tears in my eyes[month 6-2 years]
stage three- we enjoy the building and the evolution of things...or not...[year 2- who knows till when...]
satisfactory answer? 😄
I like:
1. People who don't mind my constant need for mental stimulation. No, I don't need to talk to you all day or 20 times a day. All I'm asking is that if we only do talk for 5 or 30 minutes a day that the convo is stimulating & has some substance. Ya know, keep up when I go from 1 topic/subject to the next. Let's talk about philosophy or world issues or something debatable. Let's have mind sex lolol
2. People who have 2 or 3 dimensional personalities. Meaning, they can be both introverted & extroverted. They're not just 1 way allllll the time. Someone that can adapt. They can have fun with me when I'm in the mood to do something adventurous & spontaneous but also be just as down to stay in the house all day & watch movies. Someone that isn't so predictable. Otherwise, I'll get bored quickly.
3. Someone who is open-minded. They think beneath the surface. They think outside of the box. They have their own opinions & aren't afraid to express them even if what they think technically goes against the grain. Someone who isn't afraid to mentally or literally be the outcast, the underdog or the rebel. Someone that is confident being "different."
4. Someone who is emotionally & mentally balanced. Not too serious all day, but not always in the corner crying. Someone that can keep it together & who has control of themselves.
How do I approach? Well, I approach very slyly & slowly but nonetheless, I'm paying attention to every little thing. I give compliments & reassurance when it's needed, but also make sure there's just enough mystery to keep the momentum going. I bring out my witty & funny side & ask them questions about themselves to gage how open they are. My goal in the beginning is comfort & openness. If neither is achievable in the beginning, I'll probably lose interest. I am aggressive & have a dominant personality, BUT I let them take the lead.
1. People who don't mind my constant need for mental stimulation. No, I don't need to talk to you all day or 20 times a day. All I'm asking is that if we only do talk for 5 or 30 minutes a day that the convo is stimulating & has some substance. Ya know, keep up when I go from 1 topic/subject to the next. Let's talk about philosophy or world issues or something debatable. Let's have mind sex lolol
2. People who have 2 or 3 dimensional personalities. Meaning, they can be both introverted & extroverted. They're not just 1 way allllll the time. Someone that can adapt. They can have fun with me when I'm in the mood to do something adventurous & spontaneous but also be just as down to stay in the house all day & watch movies. Someone that isn't so predictable. Otherwise, I'll get bored quickly.
3. Someone who is open-minded. They think beneath the surface. They think outside of the box. They have their own opinions & aren't afraid to express them even if what they think technically goes against the grain. Someone who isn't afraid to mentally or literally be the outcast, the underdog or the rebel. Someone that is confident being "different."
4. Someone who is emotionally & mentally balanced. Not too serious all day, but not always in the corner crying. Someone that can keep it together & who has control of themselves.
How do I approach? Well, I approach very slyly & slowly but nonetheless, I'm paying attention to every little thing. I give compliments & reassurance when it's needed, but also make sure there's just enough mystery to keep the momentum going. I bring out my witty & funny side & ask them questions about themselves to gage how open they are. My goal in the beginning is comfort & openness. If neither is achievable in the beginning, I'll probably lose interest. I am aggressive & have a dominant personality, BUT I let them take the lead.
Yes all good, thank you. if anyone else is interested to add more obviously feel free to do so.
I like open, humorous, kind, and confident men! Also intelligent and emotionally self aware...I like when they pay attention to my feelings! And men who aren't up tight and can be spontaneous...I also like guys who won't take everything I say seriously, but will take my emotions seriously. And when guys are protective...that's a huge plus!
I hate long conversations and over excessive grammar usage, half wit people oh and stereotypes. I like balloons, vintage clothing, old stuff, tall guys, relaxed and confident. Fun but not goofy, not cranky. No going through my phone, asking me my whereabouts or why i decided to stay at home and paint. I like me well if there was a man version of me i'd melt. Being: Good dancer, funny, not over complicating, adorable and reserved.
Posted by AquaMermaid
I have a Cancer moon so I crave a lot of attention. I need my man to be gentle and pamper me. I want him to love me and care for me in actions more than words. I am very sensitive by nature so I want my man to be sweet with me. I can handle emotions from water signs as I have Cancer moon influence. I need intense love. My fianc? is a Scorpio and I love him to death! Cancer is a good match for Aquarius. Please be a gentleman with her that Cancerian men are famous for.
I know the feeling. My moon is in Cancer too. I like the logical vs. emotional balance though.
I admit, we Aquarians can be quite aloof, detached & almost too logical sometimes. It's good to know that my Cancer moon allows me to experience intense love/feelings, despite my Aqua sun telling me to get stiff & somewhat avoid intense people/situations lol
I love that I can be extremely emotional & connected during times when an Aquarius moon or venus would probably not be as tuned in. However, I wouldn't trade my Aqua sun for anything in the world!! I love that I can snap right back out of it if need be. It either takes me 10 years to get over you (lol) or 10 minutes. Just depends on which sign in me decides to come out that day lol
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