What is wrong??

Posted by feby16aqua
I know I can be difficult but also I've never been with a cancer so I can't say...what's going on? Why did you break?

Posted by ceu
I am an Aquarius lesbian. I understand from your opening post that this may be more of an opportunity for you to vent your feelings, or at least, depending on the response your receive to your opening post, gauge how comfortable you feel to speak at greater length and in greater depth.
It is very provocative of you to end your post by saying, "Just dont understand why Aquas are soo difficult..", without further explanation.
I second Feby16 and ask, what happened?
There some wonderful Aquarius posters on this board, female and male. They are compassionate and intelligent. I would do a roll call, but I know I would forget someone.
With my Cancer friends and family members, I open the door to a conversation and when they feel emotionally comfortable and ready they come out of their "proverbial" shells to talk for awhile, albeit in a sideways manner. Then they retreat again and reemerge when they are ready to continue the conversation. It is a patient process. I respect both our approaches.
I feel though that IF you decide you would like advice you need to be direct in asking for it and in communicating the details of what happened between to you and her. Otherwise the conversation will proceed in a sideways fashion. In fact, perhaps, you are quietly asking why "Aquas are soo difficult."
Outside of that "IF", please feel comfortable and free to vent!