What the **** is his problem?!!!

Last night he said he would stay over at my place. But he didn't turn up & he didn't even call or text me to explain why. This morning I texted him to ask why -no reply. What should I do if he calls? Pretend nothing happened & I wasn't annoyed? Why are Aquarian men so inconsiderate sometimes? I mean.. eventhough I'm Scorpio and I'm supposed to be jealous & possessive and all that crap but I still suppress those feelings knowing that it would ruin our relationship.. I just don't get why people can be so selfish..

Haha nicely put aguaaqi.

Ant(eye)bling: what does fwiw mean per favor?

I've heard it suggested before that aquarians behave like this to test the other person. Well I hafta say as an aquarian I might be a very small tendency to this kinda behavior but it's not that extreme as to say I will go to someone's house and then not turn up. And if I am displaying this behavior it has nothing at all to do with testing the other person. It is rather that I have gone off on a complete tangent to myself and have mometarily lost track of what I should be doing. And if I am on this kind of brain wave it pretty much rules out any other kinda games being played like trying to test the other person in any way. That's crediting the average aquarian with too much game playing acumen. That's much more the scorpio's fort?.

aquarian tests?

i think it is just a term to hide the escapist tendencies in a man.

i will never do that thing to a girl,that guy sounds like asshole,ie if aguaaqi's points are not the reason.

Yeah and that's the thing....a lorra women do put up with exactly this typ of sh*t. It intrigues them or something. Gives these menfolk a certain "je ne sais quois" 😉

FWIW ~ for what it's worth


They want to be seen as glamorously aloof, when in fact it's just plain rude.

He did call in the evening to find out how I was doing. Turns out he came back late from work & didn't want to wake me up.. and the next day he was really busy. And this morning he called again just to tell me he missed me..

You do understand that about half of the world's population has never made a phone-call, right?

"wow, he is the last remaining human without modern day communication devices!"

Look, I'm not trying to criticize you for the sake of criticism, I just think being aware of different living conditions is important.

If he called me and said sorry, with a good explination,. that would be enough for me.If it were a repetitive occurrence, It would be different..

So Ameth, why would you want to be with someone where you have to suppress your feelings? That spells trouble for me regardless. You ought to feel free and easy about your relationship, not stifled and guarded. That shows you are headed for trouble. Now I have been guilty of such rude behavior in some fashion or other but I would expect the other person to call me on it, to give me a hard time about it. Otherwise I would think they didn't care about me. If I told them I would be there and I wasn't and they never said anything then I would feel a real disconnect with them. I want to know if I hurt someone even when I have an idea that I had, I want them to be open with me. As an Aqua female, the first thing that makes me want to run the other way is a person who is not open. You can tell him how you feel in a way that makes him more responsive just don't get out of control. Use analagies, we like to analyze.