whats on ur mind?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by VenusLady on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 and has 6 replies.
Ok so my lil aqua is going through one of his "i hate the world..leave me the hell alone" phases AGAIN! I have learned not to take this personal anymore even if it does leave me with an ice cold feeling because i'm getting to realise this is a regular pattern with him. What i would like to know though is whats on an aquas mind at a time like this? Do you literally hate everyone around you or are you just needing some quiet time? I go through these moments too but my aqua seems to go the extreme, i'm talking no form of communication whatsoever until he's ready. I mean, if someone called/texted me and told me that they were worried about me, no matter how bad i was feeling i would always get in touch just to let them know i'm ok even if i just sent a simple text message and then switched my phone off...my aqua doesn't seem to care what you think...you could call him for 3 weeks, put an APB out on him and everything but you will not get a response until he feels ready...then when he does he acts like his behaviour was perfectly acceptable, i'm just wondering what that's about? The uncanny thing is this usually happens after we've had a really good time together.
Oh and i know a man only treats you the way you allow him too but this is more than that, i'm actually worried about my lil aqua, its not only me, he does it to his family too..its just not normal to shut the whole world off for no particular reason or is it for an aqua?
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Well I know for me I never did the relationship thing up until now, i'm over 30yrs old, I was too emotionally unstable, yeah I looked normal but I internalized life so inside it was complete chaos, just like your guy. For me when I was going thru that period, I was beseeching a higher power, picking myself apart, trying to emotionally get myself together. Its really hard to explain, just like your Aqua, I hated everything and everyone, people made me so dayum sick, my mom (leo) learned to leave me alone very early on, she let me sulk, let me be depressed, let me be mean, be selfish, she let me work it out. A person has to have mountains of patience or your not going to be happy. I took over 5 years to get emotionally stable, I shut out the world, I was essentially a hermit and now I'm in a better state emotionally and mentally, I appreciate life and I express love freely and with all my heart, I wasn't able to do this before, I'm not saying anyone else needs to be this way but if your dealing with an Aqua that is going thru his/her spiritual journey, your in for a ride as you already know.
I almost want to tell people to leave Aqua's alone until they can get past this phase in there life but that wouldn't be fair, me personally I avoided long term relationships and friends due to my behavior, the only people that totally got it and understood me was a Leo, Virgo and Capricorn, all the rest couldn't hang.
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it's true sweet p, we jus aren't any fun to be around when the moods come, its just best to leave an aqua alone and let him/her work it all out, were confident that we can work it out by ourselves.
much patience is needed with an aqua
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Tiki 33:
Thanks for the insight. You actually sound exactly like my aqua and if he really is going through his spiritual journey then i better get ready for a long ride! He also keeps saying that he is scared that he is going to mess things up with me and that he couldn't cope if he did that...when i ask him why he would mess things up, he says he's not talking about with another woman, just that he feels he may not be able to give me what i need. When i tell him that he's all i need, he just sighs as if he's already been defeated. I'm beginning to wonder if his "i hate the world phases" have been the cause of breakups in his relationships before. He seems to know he's pushing me away but can't help himself which leaves him confused and doubting himself and possibly me. Confused? Welcome to my world...lol! Still luv him though!
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thanks starfish! That was some great information, I actually read about it but have to admit you explained it much better lol!
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That makes a lot of sense Starfish, thanks! I wonder when Saturn was last in Taurus? I believe i went through this spiritual journey 2 years ago. I changed my job, relocated to another country, moved away from friends and family and got rid of what i believed to be the unnecessary things in my life. It was as if i had a rebirth! Change is a big thing for taureans and we dont take to it easily but once i accepted this phase of my life i found it to be a powerful/enlightening experience and an everlasting life lesson that i shall never forget. I feel I know myself better now than ever and i've finally found my direction in life. I wish my lil aqua could see that his feelings/fears/desires are all part of his make-up and he needs to love/accept himself before he can love/accept another.
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