
geminibeauty611
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Posted by truecapThanks for your insight! He did make time for me, we did a lot of things together in only 4 months so he did take his time with me.
You told him it's over, but you still hope he comes back?
Think about it this way, if he isn't capable of giving you the attention you need and crave, then isn't it best to be with someone who can?

Posted by moondustHe said it was over and then i just said OK like nm i could have said :/ I really didnt agree lol 😢Posted by truecapI think he said it was over and she kind of agreed
You told him it's over, but you still hope he comes back?
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Posted by moondustYes i am overthinking it, i did that before when i got emotional lol. Its been two weeks with no contact but i am most certainly going to give him his space! At least a month.Posted by geminibeauty611you're overthinking it 😛 sometimes I don't feel like talking to people - so I vanish. Some time later I come back like nothing happened because, in fact, nothing really happened, I'm just moody. I think that's what they call space. I'd say it is temporary, but it was him who wanted this break so you shouldn't talk to him for now. Wait until he does.Posted by moondustHe said it was over and then i just said OK like nm i could have said :/ I really didnt agree lol 😢Posted by truecapI think he said it was over and she kind of agreed
You told him it's over, but you still hope he comes back?
But do you think the aqua is just needing his space from all the emotional outburst or def over it. I mean why did he imply twice like it was temporary. Key terms for now" and "take a break".
To me it sounds temporary but that could just be my wishful thinking..im not an Aquarius, so idk they are so confusing lol. And i noticed i am not the only one with the whole distancing themselves issue.
Btw other placements would help too (moon/mars/venus)click to expand

Posted by Geminiam:/ Yeah great connection when you are in there presence but once im back home it feels like it was all a dream!Posted by geminibeauty611Ugh! Aquas are frustrating. I don't think Geminis have the patience for them. It's great, amazing when you're together but we need communication and attention when apart and they just kinda disappear and have no comprehension of why we are frustrated. Hope it works out for you, cause I know how amazing the mental connection can be with them in person...but don't drive yourself crazy over him.Posted by moondustHe said it was over and then i just said OK like nm i could have said :/ I really didnt agree lol 😢Posted by truecapI think he said it was over and she kind of agreed
You told him it's over, but you still hope he comes back?
But do you think the aqua is just needing his space from all the emotional outburst or def over it. I mean why did he imply twice like it was temporary. Key terms for now" and "take a break".
To me it sounds temporary but that could just be my wishful thinking..im not an Aquarius, so idk they are so confusing lol. And i noticed i am not the only one with the whole distancing themselves issue.
P.S. I've had one around off and on for since last August, meaning he popped up sometimes and would tell me how much I mean to him etc...before dead air for a while...then a date then dead air, then a random Happy Mother's Day text..dead air. I don't take him seriously or reach out anymore cause I deserve better.click to expand

Posted by PrincessLouiseI honestly feel that he is scared of commitment. And i may have scared him off by being too upfront of my feelings.. does feel like he broke up with me out of fear but im holding on to hope that he will get over it. He left me hanging with hope with his choice of words >_
It could be he has a lot of constraints on his time. I don't know though. But if it happens more than just one week it might be he is worried about committing to you long term. And moving to a deeper level as you have a right to expect ...more.
A break. Is often the nice guy way of saying ..break up.
I could be totally wrong though.

Posted by moondustThanks!
If you know the day, month and year he was born you can find out. Google "Astro free chart" and select hour: "unknown"

Posted by GeminiamI think this happens to every women who deals with an Aquarius man, that's why im not that upset. I started to read about them after everything happened. He shares the same birthday with my dad but i thought my dad was just like that bc of how he was raised but i see it also has to deal with his Aquarius sign! smh so difficult!
Nice to know I'm not the only one who experienced that crap with an Aqua! I felt the same way, was absolutely perfect and so comfortable in person...then get home and felt like I got abandoned or something. I'm a Venus in Gemini lol so you know I need communication and attention in a relationship more than anything else...its how I give and feel love. If that doesn't happen then I'm moving on.click to expand
He also goes ghost on me, so unless i call him he does not call me! smh Such a damn shame aquas are great listeners too, great for communication. Like i know they crave to be loved too! They just seem scared to open up emotionally :/.
Oh yeah the more gemini you have in your chart the higher i assume the communication is needed. i am just learning more about the other charts!



Posted by librawomen7So i just found out he is also an Aquarius in Venus -_- and Taurus in Mars. Need to do my research on the compatability bc i just found out i am Leo in both Venus and Mars.
In a love relationship you need to pay more attention to the Venus-mars connection than the sun, but the sun signs are very important. What is his Venus sign?

Posted by GeminiamPosted by geminibeauty611That would be like pulling teeth to have them actually express deep and true emotions! haha They are logical thinkers good but not always good. I used to be like Aquarius..scared to be vulnerable.. but then i opened up so i know that it is scary to actually open up to people. I would love to help him express himself..if i learned i think anyone can too regardless of sign. 🙂 We have to add psychology into the mix!Posted by GeminiamYeah, Aquas do not seem open about their feelings at all to me. Even when they do express them it's almost non emotional...like "you know obviously I care and you are special because I called", it's very "this is the logical conclusion" rather than romantic or sweet lol. Hmmm, can we please have some mushy romance every once in a while lmao... Or an exciting text or phone call once in a while that says you miss us or feel something besides how excited you are about the capabilities of your new tech toy? HahahaI think this happens to every women who deals with an Aquarius man, that's why im not that upset. I started to read about them after everything happened. He shares the same birthday with my dad but i thought my dad was just like that bc of how he was raised but i see it also has to deal with his Aquarius sign! smh so difficult!
He also goes ghost on me, so unless i call him he does not call me! smh Such a damn shame aquas are great listeners too, great for communication. Like i know they crave to be loved too! They just seem scared to open up emotionally :/.
Oh yeah the more gemini you have in your chart the higher i assume the communication is needed. i am just learning more about the other charts!click to expand


Posted by jssica0810Welcome to the Aquarius man has us all confused club!! That is how i ended up on these forums as well!
I am absolutely shocked.
I ended up here in this forum because i was so lost i typed "aquarius needs space" on goole hahah
then i discovered A LOT of girls reporting the same crap atittudes im experiencing with my loved/hated aquarius, i cant believe this!!!
Im a libra, venus libra, moon in aries.
I met this guy at tinder five months ago in amsterdam. We did not see each other there, i came back to my country (brazil) but he kept texting me EVERYDAY. But after two months i realised that sometimes he was so sweet i almost thought it was a dream, and suddenly he lookes distant. Was online and didnt talk to me, or stopped being cute suddenly. Sometimes i got crazy and emotional and asked if i was bottering him, because he totally was talking as if i was bottering but he always denied and said i was crazy. Suddenly, the sweetness came back and it was a dream again.
In march during a discussion of this one he just told me: i dont know why you think i dont like you as im looking forward to arrive at brazil next month and i was like WHAT? He is so crazy that he bought his tickets and didnt even tell me!
Anyway, last month he was here and omg....it was a living dream. We have so much in commun! But i experienced hes frozen times as well. He knows he is cold and he played he was learning fire for me. When he left, he told me about a movie where the characters cant say what they really feel, so they made a translator... the dad ask his son to fishing and his son says he dont likes it, but what he would like to say was "i love you and i want to fish with you" and he ended saying: this might be the aquarius translator.
When he was here i noticed everytime i tried to talk about feelings, about a relation, about us, ask him questions, he frozes and acted distant. When i acted cool as i didnt care, he was always sweet.
When he left i sent a message saying that i think i love him and he replied "im boarding babe i speak to you soon" hahaha
The point is: the day he arrived back home, HE WAS A NIGHTMARE. the only thing he said on the first day was: i feel empty without you here. After that, everytday i said i missed him and he said nothing or sent an smile or a little heart.

Posted by GeminiamPosted by geminibeauty611You're definitely right! Wishful thinking that he may want to learn how to give and receive love or show emPosted by GeminiamLol that's funny, I used that exact same expression when telling a friend about the Aqua guy once "like pulling teeth to get him to communicate" haha. Anyone CAN learn, but if they don't see anything wrong with it or don't want to be any different than it will...ahem...be like pulling teeth...to try to get those stubborn intellects to change their ways. Can't say that will be the last time I ever fall for an Aqua again though, their nerdy brilliance is very attractive and lack of expressing feelings makes us Geminis only want them more, like the ultimate challenge hahahaPosted by geminibeauty611That would be like pulling teeth to have them actually express deep and true emotions! haha They are logical thinkers good but not always good. I used to be like Aquarius..scared to be vulnerable.. but then i opened up so i know that it is scary to actually open up to people. I would love to help him express himself..if i learned i think anyone can too regardless of sign. 🙂 We have to add psychology into the mix!Posted by GeminiamYeah, Aquas do not seem open about their feelings at all to me. Even when they do express them it's almost non emotional...like "you know obviously I care and you are special because I called", it's very "this is the logical conclusion" rather than romantic or sweet lol. Hmmm, can we please have some mushy romance every once in a while lmao... Or an exciting text or phone call once in a while that says you miss us or feel something besides how excited you are about the capabilities of your new tech toy? HahahaI think this happens to every women who deals with an Aquarius man, that's why im not that upset. I started to read about them after everything happened. He shares the same birthday with my dad but i thought my dad was just like that bc of how he was raised but i see it also has to deal with his Aquarius sign! smh so difficult!
He also goes ghost on me, so unless i call him he does not call me! smh Such a damn shame aquas are great listeners too, great for communication. Like i know they crave to be loved too! They just seem scared to open up emotionally :/.
Oh yeah the more gemini you have in your chart the higher i assume the communication is needed. i am just learning more about the other charts!click to expand

Posted by jssica0810I don't think they forget about the good times. I think they just chose not to speak about it.
Im just asking myself if maybe we dont deserve more, dear!
Is it right for us to deny so much of our needs, in name of our time with them? because we are the only ones who seems to remember the time together... he acts as he forgot everything... but i know im my heart how happy he was here, i just cant understand how a feeling can go away that easy 😢

Posted by ShrewdsharpeThank you for sharing!! I am learning so much about myself and him as well! He is a thinker and i am more with my heart. And haha i definitely do feel he hears red when i say blue smh! As for attention i do love attention back from my partner as for i love to give them attention too. But not too much bc im also a gemini and too much would be annoying for me.
Aquarius and Leo Compatibility http://www.compatible-astrology.com/leo-aquarius.html



Posted by librawomen7It's amazing how your Aquarius partner was angry you disappeared but you loved when he disappeared!
I am a Libra in Venus and Mars In Aquarius, and it hurts being so misunderstood when I need my space. I have 3 planets in Aquarius and I dated an Aquarius who disappeared and I loved it. We would both disappear, but we both returned. Sometimes my Aquarius got angry when I wouldn't come over or disappeared, but truthfully I had no idea that 1) I had disappeared. 2) Or why I had disappeared.
I think air signs are susceptible to the whims of the universe. Meaning in natural weather; sometimes the air is muggy, sometimes it's humid, sometimes it's windy. Air is not contained like earth, or water. It's all over the place and it's not our fault. My Venus in Libra, Mars in Aquarius needs sooooo much space from a lover it's unbearable even for me.
I know personally I couldn't meet the needs of a Leo in Venus. Sometimes I wake up and to discover the universe has blown me somewhere 100 miles from my home (metaphorically) Not only have I disappeared from him/ but.... shit I don't even know where I am my damn self. The demanding, self-centered needs of the Venus in Leo will drain the living shit out of me. But there is nothing wrong with being who you are, but I know I am not equipped to meet those needs. Venus in Aquarius... I would be in love.

Posted by librawomen7I love the authenticity, don't say sorry ! 🙂
I mean no disrespect, because God has made you who you are, and it's beautiful. everybody is different.
Venus in Aries choked the living breathe out of me. I was consumed with all that fire and couldn't function. My Venus in Libra - makes me love and appreciate Aquarius detachment and need for space. Aquarius meets my needs on a deep level; I am showered with complements and affection then given space. I love love love it!

Posted by geminibeauty611Posted by librawomen7I love the authenticity, don't say sorry ! 🙂
I mean no disrespect, because God has made you who you are, and it's beautiful. everybody is different.
Venus in Aries choked the living breathe out of me. I was consumed with all that fire and couldn't function. My Venus in Libra - makes me love and appreciate Aquarius detachment and need for space. Aquarius meets my needs on a deep level; I am showered with complements and affection then given space. I love love love it!click to expand

Posted by geminibeauty611Posted by librawomen7It's amazing how your Aquarius partner was angry you disappeared but you loved when he disappeared!
I am a Libra in Venus and Mars In Aquarius, and it hurts being so misunderstood when I need my space. I have 3 planets in Aquarius and I dated an Aquarius who disappeared and I loved it. We would both disappear, but we both returned. Sometimes my Aquarius got angry when I wouldn't come over or disappeared, but truthfully I had no idea that 1) I had disappeared. 2) Or why I had disappeared.
I think air signs are susceptible to the whims of the universe. Meaning in natural weather; sometimes the air is muggy, sometimes it's humid, sometimes it's windy. Air is not contained like earth, or water. It's all over the place and it's not our fault. My Venus in Libra, Mars in Aquarius needs sooooo much space from a lover it's unbearable even for me.
I know personally I couldn't meet the needs of a Leo in Venus. Sometimes I wake up and to discover the universe has blown me somewhere 100 miles from my home (metaphorically) Not only have I disappeared from him/ but.... shit I don't even know where I am my damn self. The demanding, self-centered needs of the Venus in Leo will drain the living shit out of me. But there is nothing wrong with being who you are, but I know I am not equipped to meet those needs. Venus in Aquarius... I would be in love.
Learning that i am a Leo in Venus, i do love attention but as a Gemini i honestly dont even require that much attention. A lot of the times i rather be left alone. As long as we hang out on the weekends (not every weekend) and or you hmu once a week that's fine with me. I don't need the constant communication, as for Gems also get bored easily. We like the mental challenge, as for why I guess i am intrigued by this Aqua man.
Taurus Sun men always are intrigued by me but it takes me forever to like them back. i guess i am getting a taste of my own medicine 😢. sigh...click to expand

Posted by librawomen7All this researching all these different charts and signs and compatibility just made me pissed off as if i wasted and put in effort into something impossible lol. Just went from overthinking to over analyzing and researching. I think i should just call it a night..lolPosted by geminibeauty611Posted by librawomen7I love the authenticity, don't say sorry ! 🙂
I mean no disrespect, because God has made you who you are, and it's beautiful. everybody is different.
Venus in Aries choked the living breathe out of me. I was consumed with all that fire and couldn't function. My Venus in Libra - makes me love and appreciate Aquarius detachment and need for space. Aquarius meets my needs on a deep level; I am showered with complements and affection then given space. I love love love it!
When the right one comes along, actually the signs will have very little to do with it. I am finally getting married and left to astrology we are not compatible. I am Libra he is Capricorn, I forgot the rest of his chart. In fact, we get along so well, I did not do a reading, or his chart until 5 years into the relationship. His rising I think is Libra, moon in Leo, Venus in.... shit I forgot LOL.
But what I did was imagine the relationship i wanted for 5 years. Finally in year six he came.click to expand

Posted by librawomen7
Some Aquarius men can be real bitches, not all of them. One time I dated an Aquarius that stood me up, I did the same thing to him, and he had a living fucking fit. I got tired of his lying broke ass, all we had was amazing chemistry.



Posted by aquanibThanks for sharing! Its definitely something i am not used to and last night after researching all the charts not even sure if its worth dealing with his distancing from time to time. And it just started to happen as he started to connect more which leads me to think he got scared and needed the space..and then i overwhelmed with my emotional outbreak so I dont even know anymore lol.
"when we are in person it's great, but when i got home i felt abandoned".
Does it not count for nothing that you've just spent an amazing few hours with your guy and now he just wants to maybe catch up on the projects that were put on hold because he met you and you were amazing and took (he gave voluntarily!) so much of his time he is behind schedule?
Or maybe, he just wants to unwind.... or maybe be just wanted to analyze the date, see if he had made some mistakes, rewind your reactions in his head to gauge what you think of him and his antics, courtship etc etc
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What i'm trying to say is, get used to giving space, but a lot of times it's just processing, nothing to be worried about. 🙂

Posted by PrincessLouiseHe is a nice guy. But i wish he didnt end it with leaving me to think there was hope..dont tell me take a break after you said its over for now. If its over for good wish he would of just sais lets enf it and not just for now. That does more damage.Posted by aquanibI think he is a really nice guy who didn't want to hurt her and end it as gently as possible.
"when we are in person it's great, but when i got home i felt abandoned".
Does it not count for nothing that you've just spent an amazing few hours with your guy and now he just wants to maybe catch up on the projects that were put on hold because he met you and you were amazing and took (he gave voluntarily!) so much of his time he is behind schedule?
Or maybe, he just wants to unwind.... or maybe be just wanted to analyze the date, see if he had made some mistakes, rewind your reactions in his head to gauge what you think of him and his antics, courtship etc etc
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What i'm trying to say is, get used to giving space, but a lot of times it's just processing, nothing to be worried about. 🙂click to expand



Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.

Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.

Posted by GennieSo true!! I thought i had an issue im not even clingy i just have so much love to give and then when its not matched i do feel like the magic was lost! I am addicted to the honeymoon stage! This is like a gift and a curse smh. But when it comes to taurus sun i do the opposite..takes me forever to get in the honeymoon stage with them. Its crazy ppl dont believe in these things, im starting to believe in astrology even more! Thank you for sharing!
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.

Posted by truecapIm far from high maintenance but from an Aquarius in Mars or Venus i can dedinitely see the reason why they would feel that way. :/Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.
- signed, mars in aquariusclick to expand

Posted by librawomen7Haja im just going to give up. Leo in venus does too much im sure every other sign will feel just as suffocated!
Don't worry Geminibeauty, Gemini are resilient as hell. Give him a double dosage of silent treatment and go look for an Aries. He'll come crawling back.

Posted by geminibeauty611I didn't mean to imply you were, didn't mean to offend. It's just a general statement on a general conclusion based on my real life experiences with friends. My friends with Leo placements often feel neglected and my directness has been known to hurt a few feelings.Posted by truecapIm far from high maintenance but from an Aquarius in Mars or Venus i can dedinitely see the reason why they would feel that way. :/Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.
- signed, mars in aquariusclick to expand

Posted by truecapIm not offended 🙂 im just saying like i understand from an Aquarius venus or mars point if view bc Leo venus requires so much attention and they require so much space. Polar opposites.Posted by geminibeauty611I didn't mean to imply you were, didn't mean to offend. It's just a general statement on a general conclusion based on my real life experiences with friends. My friends with Leo placements often feel neglected and my directness has been known to hurt a few feelings.Posted by truecapIm far from high maintenance but from an Aquarius in Mars or Venus i can dedinitely see the reason why they would feel that way. :/Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.
- signed, mars in aquarius
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Posted by Gennietrue.....
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.

Posted by truecapand true....Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.
- signed, mars in aquariusclick to expand

Posted by truecapyou probably lack fire houses and fire placements. fire needs fire. just like water gravitates to water. earth needs earth.Posted by GennieLeo placements are too exhausting, too much work; almost high maintenance.
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqua, we have a very "short" honeymoon stage, unless you're like me and all your aqua shit is loaded into the 5th house then it's party everyday. Even so, after a 2-3 months, I notice a ton down on my new shiny as I try to fit it in with the rest of my life.
This is where Venus is Leo starts to freak and think the magic is gone, and reacts in a negative manner. Usually by criticizing, nagging, smothering, punishing.
- signed, mars in aquariusclick to expand
Posted by Gennie
Leo in Venus *shudder* No matter how Gem you are, you can't hide that. In order for someone to make you feel like they love you, that Leo Venus has to be cared for.
When your Venus is in Leo, you can be “stuck” in the first stage of romance, when passions run high and you can’t seem to get each other out of your minds. You never want this stage to end! When you are in love, the relationship consumes you. You radiate the love that you receive from your partner, and reverberate with the energy of love. You are ardent and affectionate with your partner. The adoration you give may not be (and probably won’t be) matched, and this is when you falter. Truth is, your lover may have a different style of expressing his/her love. It may be just as ardent as your love, but you tend to equate adoring expressions of love with love itself.
It means, those with Venus in Leo are addicted to the "Honeymoon" stage of a relationship. When someone has Venus in Aqu
Posted by geminibeauty611your man must have a strong 5th house then. like personal planets in 5th to attract so much personal planets in leo.Posted by librawomen7So i just found out he is also an Aquarius in Venus -_- and Taurus in Mars. Need to do my research on the compatability bc i just found out i am Leo in both Venus and Mars.
In a love relationship you need to pay more attention to the Venus-mars connection than the sun, but the sun signs are very important. What is his Venus sign?click to expand

Posted by GeminiamLMAO! Sorry! But is it safe to assume you too have been a victim of the Aquarius distancing committee?SMH I feel like so many woman have!Posted by librawomen7Hahaha🙌. Or go look for an Aries and stick with the Aries and ignore his stupid Aqua inconsiderate ass.
Don't worry Geminibeauty, Gemini are resilient as hell. Give him a double dosage of silent treatment and go look for an Aries. He'll come crawling back.click to expand
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I understood him being distant because my father doesn't show his emotions either and this aqua man just like my dad, didn't grow up with his father in his life.
I understood the emotional detachment and the struggle to show his emotions..
I did not expect to fall for this aqua man, but I did! He's from the city & im from new jersey so it was quite an adventure for me. Everything was new to me so i fell!
Gemini's love adventure and excitement! I felt very comfortable around him from the start!
We spent the major holidays together and even his birthday and i usually stayed over his place every other weekend so i knew this Aquarius man did like me..or else he wouldn't spend the entire weekends with me vs his friends or family..
He told me he did want me in his life when i asked him if i should walk away during one of my insecure moments at 3 months.
At 4 months, he became a little distant. First after I met his coworkers/friends (preplanned) ...and then after i met his mom and grandma (not planned) but he became distant once again after connecting on a deeper level!
After he became distant my hormones got the best of me and i got really emotional and i just learned thats a big no no for the aqua man..!
After I told him i felt he was pushing me away after connecting with me he decided to say, "let's just end it for now" bc he was not giving me the attention i was looking for and he knew it was bothering me so he said .."its best we take a break now."
That doesn't tell me if its over or GOOD or if he just needs his space after connecting too much..I also know he is busy looking for a new job. It's been 2 weeks since no contact..I ended it in a non emotional way. "So it's over x/3 I hear you."
Is there hope of him coming back or is he gone for good??
Thanks!