When you go into your head and disappear for a length of time

Profile picture of Sunnidaze
Sunnidaze
@Sunnidaze
9 YearsAquarius

Comments: 0 · Posts: 12 · Topics: 1
It's an escape. Life tends to overwhelm and you get to the point where 1 more thing no matter how insignificant it is will break you. So you don't answer the phone. Or messages. You don't leave your house. Nor do you get anything done that needs to be gotten done. We sit and think alone. Possibly while sitting at the table or on the couch. Sometimes it lasts for just a day sometimes longer.
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
9 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Because the Universe is expanding...

But.. expanding into what...?

I gotta search this ..

reads books, articles, journals for days.. quantum physics books..

yeah.. something like that ?

or.. I feel down.. Why is this? I need to find out..

Meditates, reads books about spiritual healing, all good vibes.

Those are some scenarios

We could also be distant if you've hurt us in a way.
Profile picture of Aerazo
Aerazo
@Aerazo
9 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Comments: 9 · Posts: 2257 · Topics: 92
Posted by Sunnidaze
It's an escape. Life tends to overwhelm and you get to the point where 1 more thing no matter how insignificant it is will break you. So you don't answer the phone. Or messages. You don't leave your house. Nor do you get anything done that needs to be gotten done. We sit and think alone. Possibly while sitting at the table or on the couch. Sometimes it lasts for just a day sometimes longer.
true
Profile picture of AbbyNormal
AbbyNormal
@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Comments: 14265 · Posts: 5321 · Topics: 61
Posted by drunkghost
Spiritually, problem solve, and to simply disappear from existing in society. I'm prone to depressive episodes and sometimes I just need to gather my thoughts and make the best of situations. Seeing the world for what it is and being self aware isn't all that great when you can't enjoy it like most of your friends do. People in general make me sad because they're self serving and too lost in their vices to care about improving spiritually and becoming self less. Following your dreams is great but if you're not doing both, what are you really gaining?
b00m! there it is!
Profile picture of MrR78
MrR78
@MrR78
8 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 263 · Topics: 25
I asked this question on another thread and will also ask it here for a different view point.

How long do you take your time out? Is it safe to assume the longer you are out the more you have been affected, emotionally and spiritually?

When you come back, do you come back as if nothing happened, or do you slowly work your way back into a situation, or a person you shut off from? Are you still guarded, and do you let your guard down gently, if this is the case, then why do you do it, ie slowly let the guard down?
Profile picture of MrR78
MrR78
@MrR78
8 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 263 · Topics: 25
@Drunkghost - thank you this is insightful.

If the aqua in question isn't one that opens up about certain issues, but keeps the lines of communication open, whats the best way to handle that.

For example, my ex and I are now talking a lot over email and just the odd hello and goodbye in person when we cross paths. I am not pushing it with her because her body language clearly tells me she isn't ready yet. Sometimes she is comfortable in my presence, others not so much.

When we chat on email, there have been several occasions where she doesn't respond to avoids certain subjects completely. I have asked about this and got some wishy washy answer to I took it as "she is not ready" and didn't push it any further.

There seems to be lots of topics that she avoids, personal and some just normal. Its hard to gauge where she is at if she doesn't open up for me to understand.
Profile picture of AerialView
AerialView
@AerialView
8 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 1255 · Posts: 12836 · Topics: 26
Posted by GC02
Posted by AerialView
Posted by GC02
Posted by AerialView
Posted by GC02
Posted by dial
Is this a way to heal spiritually? is this a way to problem solve? is this a way to escape?

Why do you like being in your heads?
Sounds like something a Cancer would do....

Maybe us crabs and aquas do have something in common??
No ?


Image Not Found


That cat is Cancer? ?
That cat is a representational gif of me leaving the Aquarius thread cuz you don't like me ?
click to expand

I was just testing how sensitive Cancer would be —.

I like you lol.
Profile picture of AerialView
AerialView
@AerialView
8 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 1255 · Posts: 12836 · Topics: 26
Posted by GC02
Posted by AerialView
Posted by GC02
Posted by AerialView
Posted by GC02
Posted by AerialView
Posted by GC02
Posted by dial
Is this a way to heal spiritually? is this a way to problem solve? is this a way to escape?

Why do you like being in your heads?
Sounds like something a Cancer would do....

Maybe us crabs and aquas do have something in common??
No ?


Image Not Found


That cat is Cancer? ?
That cat is a representational gif of me leaving the Aquarius thread cuz you don't like me ?
I was just testing how sensitive Cancer would be —.

I like you lol.
Okay ??

Image Not Found
click to expand

That's more like it ?