Who the f!*!k did I marry??
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by trashedbliss on Saturday, May 25, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Ok so I didnt marry anyone. Especially not this Aquarius just have a question.
I float around the message boards here and there for insight or out of curiosity and notice Aquas are pretty good w/giving advice or insight.
Last year I started dating this Aquarius. It was amaze-balls! After awhile there was less and less interaction and since we never got intimate I figured he had lost interest. Communication stopped and I started dating other people here and there. Being a Virgo I sought out info, saw it was a doomed coupling and meh'd it away.
Around my birthday last year he starts texting like crazy, like a baby attention whore and Ill admit that the butterflies came back for a moment then left again.
I started seriously seeing a fellow Virgo (that fell through) and then a few months ago the Aqua guy starts up again. The butterflies didnt come this time though. My response now "oh ok, yes good afternoon". Its been that way for awhile now. He'll flirt and Ill respond with less than enthusiastic glee. In my mind he's in the Friend Zone MTV style .
Then he asks me out. We have I think the best date Ive ever had in my life but I didnt put too much into it because hanging out with him is usually fun anyway. Then he asks me how compatible I think we are. I tell him I hadnt thought about it and asked what his thoughts were. He says 10/10 (in my head I laugh because I was more at a 4/10) and he says its because he can be himself around me, he's told me things he'd never tell other people and I didnt GAH at him or make him feel any different. The night continued on. Lately he keeps insisting (seriously guys, he mentions it almost everyday) that I cook for him. Like its this weird craving he has. (I cook all the time and he knows this. Sometimes Ill text blast a few of my friends photos of my masterpieces.)
Now though, Im not sure how to react. It would be nice to explore that romantic possibility with him but Im not as interested as I was before b/c of his MO and def dont want to waste time or hope. Any thoughts?
I float around the message boards here and there for insight or out of curiosity and notice Aquas are pretty good w/giving advice or insight.
Last year I started dating this Aquarius. It was amaze-balls! After awhile there was less and less interaction and since we never got intimate I figured he had lost interest. Communication stopped and I started dating other people here and there. Being a Virgo I sought out info, saw it was a doomed coupling and meh'd it away.
Around my birthday last year he starts texting like crazy, like a baby attention whore and Ill admit that the butterflies came back for a moment then left again.
I started seriously seeing a fellow Virgo (that fell through) and then a few months ago the Aqua guy starts up again. The butterflies didnt come this time though. My response now "oh ok, yes good afternoon". Its been that way for awhile now. He'll flirt and Ill respond with less than enthusiastic glee. In my mind he's in the Friend Zone MTV style .
Then he asks me out. We have I think the best date Ive ever had in my life but I didnt put too much into it because hanging out with him is usually fun anyway. Then he asks me how compatible I think we are. I tell him I hadnt thought about it and asked what his thoughts were. He says 10/10 (in my head I laugh because I was more at a 4/10) and he says its because he can be himself around me, he's told me things he'd never tell other people and I didnt GAH at him or make him feel any different. The night continued on. Lately he keeps insisting (seriously guys, he mentions it almost everyday) that I cook for him. Like its this weird craving he has. (I cook all the time and he knows this. Sometimes Ill text blast a few of my friends photos of my masterpieces.)
Now though, Im not sure how to react. It would be nice to explore that romantic possibility with him but Im not as interested as I was before b/c of his MO and def dont want to waste time or hope. Any thoughts?
It's probably safe to assume he was testing to see if you guys were compatible and I can only chalk it up to this is just how we are. We don't really disappear or slow contact consciously, perhaps it was just a reflection period for him to work through some of the emotions and compatibility issues between you two.
There can be a lot of reasons as to why he pulled away when he did but now he's back. Insights are great but if I were to be fair even I can say perhaps he just liked spending time with you as a friend before all that happened and all his other 'friends' at the time didn't match up to you so now he's back. You can confront him about it or keep wondering.
Ultimately the choice is yours if you want to take it a step further. It might be a waste of time or it might turn out great but if you choose to do nothing then it'll remain just that, nothing. No one is going to promise you it'll be good unless you also are willing to put some effort to reciprocate his feelings.
When an Aqua says they can be themselves around you I consider that a BIG thing because we don't often share things considered dear to us with just ANYONE. Without factoring the shady circumstances of his disappearance the very fact he said all this is like a milestone of sorts because we're really not the kind to go around making just ONE person feel special.
There can be a lot of reasons as to why he pulled away when he did but now he's back. Insights are great but if I were to be fair even I can say perhaps he just liked spending time with you as a friend before all that happened and all his other 'friends' at the time didn't match up to you so now he's back. You can confront him about it or keep wondering.
Ultimately the choice is yours if you want to take it a step further. It might be a waste of time or it might turn out great but if you choose to do nothing then it'll remain just that, nothing. No one is going to promise you it'll be good unless you also are willing to put some effort to reciprocate his feelings.
When an Aqua says they can be themselves around you I consider that a BIG thing because we don't often share things considered dear to us with just ANYONE. Without factoring the shady circumstances of his disappearance the very fact he said all this is like a milestone of sorts because we're really not the kind to go around making just ONE person feel special.
@Aquasnoz - I really want to jump his bones. I think thats why Im still entertaining the thought. Im usually quick to cut people out/off because whats the point... but I am extremely sexually attracted to him and vice versa. He tells me so. I never act on it (even when he asks) because Im also entertaining two other guys.
@Feby this was about two weeks ago. He asked me out again the next day but I couldnt make it. He texts often but not everyday. Today my friends and I are going to a seedy part of town for some Memorial festivities and I invited him. He said he was coming.
@Feby this was about two weeks ago. He asked me out again the next day but I couldnt make it. He texts often but not everyday. Today my friends and I are going to a seedy part of town for some Memorial festivities and I invited him. He said he was coming.
Hmmm I had a similar relationship with a virgo 2 years ago. It lasted a good year I think, heaps of sexual tension but I think for me it was the circumstances because we do work together and I'm also a single parent so giving in to sexual desires isn't on top of my priority. I wanted a relationship to say the least I always do because if it's a fling then it's just that I don't want to deal with having to work with that person.
If it helps the second she did jump my bones it made things clear. So if that's what it takes then do it lol. And no we didn't end up together or anything because I did end up rejecting the idea but at least we found our answer.
If it helps the second she did jump my bones it made things clear. So if that's what it takes then do it lol. And no we didn't end up together or anything because I did end up rejecting the idea but at least we found our answer.
@Aquasnoz LOL! It's always so much there when we're around each other lol. He mentions it much more often than I do so I think it's something he desires more than I but you're right lol next time we hang out I'm going to test those airy waters lol. Any suggestion on the Aquarius sexual likes?
lol! I think it might differ, the virgo I mentioned had the seduction thing down. Being very sweet leaving little romantic notes and asking me to help her with her hair or any chance she gets for us to be closer physically. It's a hard feat I think because I don't think a lot of aquas can be seduced in the conventional sense so probably play up the whole humanitarian side of things and play the damsel in distress with a sexual spin on it? 
I don't think anything is out of the question. I still remember when we went for dinner and we laid it all out on the table. I told her this is what I expected and she sings another tune and even after we agreed "well there can't be anything" we still persisted because of the sexual attraction.
I still think highly of her though and we're still good friends so don't be afraid to try anything and everything
I don't think anything is out of the question. I still remember when we went for dinner and we laid it all out on the table. I told her this is what I expected and she sings another tune and even after we agreed "well there can't be anything" we still persisted because of the sexual attraction.
I still think highly of her though and we're still good friends so don't be afraid to try anything and everything
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