Why are Aqua men so addictive?!!

Isn't even funny

Posted by flowingwater

Posted by Huldra
Just by reading your posts I can see exactly why he dumped you smh.

This exactly. Lol

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Posted by aquaguy3000
lol dont listen to him hes just being nasty
but your aqua has moved on nothing u can do... the worst thing u can do now is act clingy
hell come back by himself if he thinks u guys could work again

Posted by Zetarose
Ok it's been 8 months now I still can't stop thinking about him! It's like when we were together it felt natural and real; and I thought we were like spulmatees or something cheesy like that , and I know he did too cuz he couldn't believe it and he said he loved me first the first couple weeks we were physically together. Before that it was a LDR; sexting, semi emotionally thing. After the two or three weeks I came back home and we continued a real LDR commuted one; then it got ugly with my obsessive virgo over analytical emotional traits and I guess he just couldn't take it. But I can't seem to shake him. I won't contact him anymore cuz that gets me nowhere but more hurt and confused about why he gave up on us. He doesn't even wanna go there. But why can't I get over it!!!!??? Maybe just the fact I didn't get closure? Idk.. It's just seems like I'm never gonna get past him...

Posted by Zetarose
I don't know my placements or his I'm a newbie but I'm 9-19-82 don't know time of birth and his bd is 1-24-82

Posted by AquaMermaid
Go to www.cafeastrology.com and get your birth charts done. It will give more insight to his and your behaviour.

Posted by AquaMermaid
The Square Moons. Wow my husband has Cap Moon and Libra Mars as well.Now when you had conversations with him, did you argue/debate a lot with him? Capricorn Moons are very serious people.If they don't see a future with you, they won't waste a single minute with you.His time is precious and he invests his emotions very carefully.Your idea of togetherness may have been debating/talking a lot but Cap Mooners just can't do LDR.Infact same goes for Aquarians.Cap Mooners are very independent people,they need care but they don't want someone babying them. Your Venus and mercury is trine i.e compatible. I guess your Scorpio Mars is making you obsessive.

Posted by AquaMermaid
OP,I was in a similar situation like you years ago with my Scorpio ex. Although, I was the one who walked out on him because of his abusive nature.I never had a proper closure with him because I left when he wasn't at home. I knew it was for my own good,I knew we couldn't make it work, I knew he was a womaniser BUT I kept missing him and felt the urge to talk to him.I kept obsessing over him.I have Scorpio in my chart as well. Every day I struggled to not go back to him.I felt pathetic that after all he had done with me,I still had strong feelings for him. I understand what you're going through.I was in a much worse condition than you.I had become insomniac and had anxiety attacks. I had to go to therapy for it. I was sooooo addicted to his presence that it was hard to deal with separation. It will get better with time. Remember that time heals every wound.You will find someone much better who will love you the way you are.

Posted by lisabethur8
hey looking at it from the paper side, it looks great; You have alot of libra beltween you.
It's just like my aqua gf i know, who has a libra moon and her hubby has a libra mars. (they have alot of libra between them in outer planets, too)
oh he has a Capricorn moon. well with those cardinals in his chart. He wants to partner. I'm sure of it. And you want to pair up too, with him.
where do you think is the problem then?
i did read that virgo venus is overly critical of their partner. Astrologers are Always harping that it's in the fall.
so, well, try not to be too critical. Cap moon men have a difficult time already with Saturn on their back.

Posted by aquaguy3000
flowingwater is still trolling on your thread lol

ust get off; everyone processes things differently he meant a lot to me; Ya it's been 8 months- i can't help the way I feerl tho! So you need to leave my thread plz

Posted by flowingwater

Posted by Huldra
If you want a "real aquarius male advice" I'd recommend listening to aquasnoz and NYAA more. Those members have more tact and insight then most avatarless newbies as of late.
But you already answered your own question several times. He has nothing to do with YOUR issue of putting a person on the pedestal and being stuck in an emotional rut. Stop obsessing over a guy and find something useful to do.
Desperate mass production of threads concerning the same issue will only bring you more sarcastic answers.

Thank you!
Troll? I'm an aqurius woman who is speaking the truth. 8 months is long enough for Aquarius to move on with his life and maybe look for another while you're here asking for advice. I have respect for myself and I won't still be crying about my break up. I gave it a month tops and I am now working on myself. Seeing my worth and value as a woman. You shouldn't shed tears for any man who didn't treat you with dignity and gave you the closure you deserve. When I break up with someone, I'm straightforward is over. If I don't it's because I never thought our relationship was that important anyways. I don't know what the fuck up with some of these aqua men these days.

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Posted by AquaMermaid
Yes Lisa,it is a water thing.It's hard to let go. I know that some where in the corner of my heart, I still feel like I needed the closure.But I've come too far now. Unfortunately, Cancer holds on to the memories.I still remember everything like it happened yesterday. And perhaps I will remember it until I die.It's just the way it is with us watery people. But the wounds have healed and I've a loving man who is there for me to protect me and make me strong. I hope OP finds her man too. She should take this time off to concentrate on herself rather than looking for rebound relationships. She must cleanse all the negative energy that is affecting her mind and body. She must heal spiritually to go on with life.

Posted by aquaguy3000
but zeta u must sit and wait for those 3 ppl to respond to your threads
and hope they arent pushed into the third page on aqua forum
*sarcasm*

ve my husband and cherish him lots and lots. I know what it's like to be in a rotten, terrible relationships and when you find someone who loves you back lots and gives you the world, yuo feel so Lucky and happy, and you want to give them back all the happiness in the world.

Posted by Zetarose
Lisabethur8,
The problem became when I came back home after we had developed a strong bond; I had to leave and come back to my daughters. So I told him I still wanted him and only him and he was like well then I'm all yours! But as it went on I became very obsessive and always worried something would happen and is lose him. We had started making future plans and everything to be back together. Me not being used to this sort of off and on coolness and detachment I guess being an Aquarius, I got scared. So I would I guess to him "nag" and i would basically demand reassurance all the time. There were times I was like fuck this and i said it was over then I loved how he would come back the next day after I cooled off and be there still for me; but that didn't last long, he got really sick of it and started accusing me of attacking him, and putting him down but in my eyes I wasn't trying to do that at all; I really wanted this more than anything. So I believ he created some drama that would upset me that he'd know would piss me off and I said goodbye... But this time he didn't come back to me. So a month later I said plz let's start over and he said he could never forget the cruel things Ive said and he couldn't believ how I could talk to anyone the way I did to him and that he could never be close with me again... He wouldn't tell me if he still loved me, or thought about me nothing. Just totally stone cold.... It has broken me so much I've never felt this way. Like the world feels so dark without him and he's all fine and dandy moving on with not one iota of love for me I just don't get it

Posted by lisabethur8
hey looking at it from the paper side, it looks great; You have alot of libra beltween you.
It's just like my aqua gf i know, who has a libra moon and her hubby has a libra mars. (they have alot of libra between them in outer planets, too)
oh he has a Capricorn moon. well with those cardinals in his chart. He wants to partner. I'm sure of it. And you want to pair up too, with him.

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Posted by Zetarose

Plz just get off; everyone processes things differently he meant a lot to me; Ya it's been 8 months- i can't help the way I feerl tho! So you need to leave my thread plz