Posted by SassyKiwievery Aqua i've encountered has a controlling figure in their life. sup with that? funny too coz he never even slept on my bed. he insisted on sleeping on a mat on the floor so he can at least still stay in my room. so ridiculous why his aunt would ever think anything EVER happening to him. nothing happens to this guy until i came along. and even then, not much is really happening right now. least physical relationship i ever had. and i'm betting my whole ass he's a virgin. he even implied that any form of physicality might be allowed maybe like 7 months from now. but sooo weird coz this feels like the most stable and satisfying of my relationships. more mental in connection than physical but i am sooo here for it.
I know lots of Aquas like that. Do you imagine them all to be some stubborn, headstrong rebel? Sure, but not usually in every single aspect of life. Most Aquas are softies who could be susceptible to such controlling people in their life, especially if they’re family/SOs. Protect teh Aquas from abuse !
Posted by Berzerkerit disgusts me too srsly but i don't think it's his fault but i just can't help but feel as if he's not as enraged as he should be about this control
My aqua uncle is being controlled by a cancer woman right now, this disgust me, he is such a good guy
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SassyKiwievery Aqua i've encountered has a controlling figure in their life. sup with that? funny too coz he never even slept on my bed. he insisted on sleeping on a mat on the floor so he can at least still stay in my room. so ridiculous why his aunt would ever think anything EVER happening to him. nothing happens to this guy until i came along. and even then, not much is really happening right now. least physical relationship i ever had. and i'm betting my whole ass he's a virgin. he even implied that any form of physicality might be allowed maybe like 7 months from now. but sooo weird coz this feels like the most stable and satisfying of my relationships. more mental in connection than physical but i am sooo here for it.
I know lots of Aquas like that. Do you imagine them all to be some stubborn, headstrong rebel? Sure, but not usually in every single aspect of life. Most Aquas are softies who could be susceptible to such controlling people in their life, especially if they’re family/SOs. Protect teh Aquas from abuse !click to expand
Posted by Foxy777hmph this is interesting
they like it ..it makes them feel loved and secure
Posted by SassyKiwiidk but it makes sense in a roundabout wayPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SassyKiwievery Aqua i've encountered has a controlling figure in their life. sup with that? funny too coz he never even slept on my bed. he insisted on sleeping on a mat on the floor so he can at least still stay in my room. so ridiculous why his aunt would ever think anything EVER happening to him. nothing happens to this guy until i came along. and even then, not much is really happening right now. least physical relationship i ever had. and i'm betting my whole ass he's a virgin. he even implied that any form of physicality might be allowed maybe like 7 months from now. but sooo weird coz this feels like the most stable and satisfying of my relationships. more mental in connection than physical but i am sooo here for it.
I know lots of Aquas like that. Do you imagine them all to be some stubborn, headstrong rebel? Sure, but not usually in every single aspect of life. Most Aquas are softies who could be susceptible to such controlling people in their life, especially if they’re family/SOs. Protect teh Aquas from abuse !
Aquas are most likely to lose their virginity the latest. It’s a subconscious rebellion against hookup culture.click to expand
Posted by justagirlmaybe that's a better word but they always got somebody restricting them
I'm curious as to what the controlling behavior is.
What you said about his aunt sounds more codependent than controlled.
Posted by pinkbird03we haven't met yet. it's only been a month of dating. we've known each for a couple months but only recently we've actually started dating.
He’s only 20. Legally an adult, but most brains aren’t fully developed until age 25. So to me he’s a kid and his aunt is trying to protect him. He respects her. I think this is super sweet. What’s your relationship with her? Does she like you? It also seems like you want to control him in this situation.
Posted by virgoOPPPWhat if you hung out earlier, would you get more time? I have a conflicting schedule with an aqua due to his job and working crazy long hours. I just try to be flexible and make it work. I don’t get upset about it. I worry that if you keep bringing it up to him, it will create uneasiness and eventually he will lose interest. Aquas don’t seem to put up with a lot of drama. Just trying to help.Posted by pinkbird03we haven't met yet. it's only been a month of dating. we've known each for a couple months but only recently we've actually started dating.
He’s only 20. Legally an adult, but most brains aren’t fully developed until age 25. So to me he’s a kid and his aunt is trying to protect him. He respects her. I think this is super sweet. What’s your relationship with her? Does she like you? It also seems like you want to control him in this situation.
i'm not trying to control him just... won't you be annoyed if you're on a date and someone keeps getting restricted?
or maybe i'm just used to dating older guysclick to expand
Posted by BerzerkerI don’t know these people- his life style , culture, background, if his family is in crisis, if the aunt has experienced trauma in her life, where’s his mom, the list goes on. And neither do you. So many factors influence behavior. There’s a reason why this aunt is doing it. Or else she wouldn’t do it.
@pinkbird03 protect him from what? unless he is retard or has some other disability this has no meaning
Posted by pinkbird03i never bring it up with himPosted by virgoOPPPWhat if you hung out earlier, would you get more time? I have a conflicting schedule with an aqua due to his job and working crazy long hours. I just try to be flexible and make it work. I don’t get upset about it. I worry that if you keep bringing it up to him, it will create uneasiness and eventually he will lose interest. Aquas don’t seem to put up with a lot of drama. Just trying to help.Posted by pinkbird03we haven't met yet. it's only been a month of dating. we've known each for a couple months but only recently we've actually started dating.
He’s only 20. Legally an adult, but most brains aren’t fully developed until age 25. So to me he’s a kid and his aunt is trying to protect him. He respects her. I think this is super sweet. What’s your relationship with her? Does she like you? It also seems like you want to control him in this situation.
i'm not trying to control him just... won't you be annoyed if you're on a date and someone keeps getting restricted?
or maybe i'm just used to dating older guysclick to expand
Posted by pinkbird03central figures in his life are all female- aunt, mom, grandma.and he seems to have a better relationship with females in general. odd thing about this is i'm not jealous at all, so unlike the way i've always been in other relationships. i feel secure in this one. questionable sexuality and all. he's a deeply religious guy (coz that's the only thing i ever attract- must be my pisces 7H?) and we both come from annoying traditional cultures (except i never religiously followed mine) but he did and he's got the most religious name hahah wish i'm kidding.Posted by BerzerkerI don’t know these people- his life style , culture, background, if his family is in crisis, if the aunt has experienced trauma in her life, where’s his mom, the list goes on. And neither do you. So many factors influence behavior. There’s a reason why this aunt is doing it. Or else she wouldn’t do it.
@pinkbird03 protect him from what? unless he is retard or has some other disability this has no meaningclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiawe've kissed each other innocently on the cheek but nothing more than that.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by pinkbird03i never bring it up with himPosted by virgoOPPPWhat if you hung out earlier, would you get more time? I have a conflicting schedule with an aqua due to his job and working crazy long hours. I just try to be flexible and make it work. I don’t get upset about it. I worry that if you keep bringing it up to him, it will create uneasiness and eventually he will lose interest. Aquas don’t seem to put up with a lot of drama. Just trying to help.Posted by pinkbird03we haven't met yet. it's only been a month of dating. we've known each for a couple months but only recently we've actually started dating.
He’s only 20. Legally an adult, but most brains aren’t fully developed until age 25. So to me he’s a kid and his aunt is trying to protect him. He respects her. I think this is super sweet. What’s your relationship with her? Does she like you? It also seems like you want to control him in this situation.
i'm not trying to control him just... won't you be annoyed if you're on a date and someone keeps getting restricted?
or maybe i'm just used to dating older guys
only asked him one time if something crazy happened to him one time here in the city that's why she's so protective and he told me he's just basically coddled all the time
okay so there's my answer
getting coddled comes off as an Aqua thing to me now
Air signs are lowkey affectionate! But only to those they truly lahv. That's why we can be very dismissive with other people like super easily. You'll see this with alllll Air signs. And this is random, but Capricorn too. Another very like family-oriented "these are my people and the rest of you are just there" kind of energy.click to expand
Posted by LethalFantasianothing has happened for a month. he implied that something might happen after 7 months so i'm gonna wait for 7 months to make a move.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LethalFantasiawe've kissed each other innocently on the cheek but nothing more than that.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by pinkbird03i never bring it up with himPosted by virgoOPPPWhat if you hung out earlier, would you get more time? I have a conflicting schedule with an aqua due to his job and working crazy long hours. I just try to be flexible and make it work. I don’t get upset about it. I worry that if you keep bringing it up to him, it will create uneasiness and eventually he will lose interest. Aquas don’t seem to put up with a lot of drama. Just trying to help.Posted by pinkbird03we haven't met yet. it's only been a month of dating. we've known each for a couple months but only recently we've actually started dating.
He’s only 20. Legally an adult, but most brains aren’t fully developed until age 25. So to me he’s a kid and his aunt is trying to protect him. He respects her. I think this is super sweet. What’s your relationship with her? Does she like you? It also seems like you want to control him in this situation.
i'm not trying to control him just... won't you be annoyed if you're on a date and someone keeps getting restricted?
or maybe i'm just used to dating older guys
only asked him one time if something crazy happened to him one time here in the city that's why she's so protective and he told me he's just basically coddled all the time
okay so there's my answer
getting coddled comes off as an Aqua thing to me now
Air signs are lowkey affectionate! But only to those they truly lahv. That's why we can be very dismissive with other people like super easily. You'll see this with alllll Air signs. And this is random, but Capricorn too. Another very like family-oriented "these are my people and the rest of you are just there" kind of energy.
a common friend implied his a virgin. believe it or not i'm willing to wait 7 months for this hahah. i went from being oversexed to being celibate for more than a month now. whodathunk?
something special about gem moons making me do things for them.
That's so weird how nothing has happened in 7 months. And I wouldn't be surprised if he is a virgin. Or to be honest, maybe just views you as a friend or nothing serious? I totally feel your frustration and how lowkey annoying he can come off but there's no way he will put his aunt/loved ones on the backburner if he isn't srs about you. So maybe think about that too. xclick to expand
Posted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
Posted by BerzerkerYou’re assuming. Assuming isn’t going to help op. It’s her job to figure it out.
@pinkbird03 yes has a reason, its called control freak
Posted by virgoOPPPIts so interesting it’s the aunt, not the mom. Anyways maybe if you met her, she’d feel more comfortable with him staying longer with you. I’m wondering if religion is the problem? Has he had sex before or is he waiting for marriage? Ok what’s his name lolPosted by pinkbird03central figures in his life are all female- aunt, mom, grandma.and he seems to have a better relationship with females in general. odd thing about this is i'm not jealous at all, so unlike the way i've always been in other relationships. i feel secure in this one. questionable sexuality and all. he's a deeply religious guy (coz that's the only thing i ever attract- must be my pisces 7H?) and we both come from annoying traditional cultures (except i never religiously followed mine) but he did and he's got the most religious name hahah wish i'm kidding.Posted by BerzerkerI don’t know these people- his life style , culture, background, if his family is in crisis, if the aunt has experienced trauma in her life, where’s his mom, the list goes on. And neither do you. So many factors influence behavior. There’s a reason why this aunt is doing it. Or else she wouldn’t do it.
@pinkbird03 protect him from what? unless he is retard or has some other disability this has no meaning
i'm not going to try to stop her from asking him to come home early. he tells me i'll get acquainted with his family soon anyway so i'll understand better. he's actually met my grandma coz i brought him over for lunch one time (something he insisted on).
he's not a pushover which i like but he IS with his aunt.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP"so ridiculous why his aunt would ever think anything EVER happening to him. "Posted by SassyKiwievery Aqua i've encountered has a controlling figure in their life. sup with that? funny too coz he never even slept on my bed. he insisted on sleeping on a mat on the floor so he can at least still stay in my room. so ridiculous why his aunt would ever think anything EVER happening to him. nothing happens to this guy until i came along. and even then, not much is really happening right now. least physical relationship i ever had. and i'm betting my whole ass he's a virgin. he even implied that any form of physicality might be allowed maybe like 7 months from now. but sooo weird coz this feels like the most stable and satisfying of my relationships. more mental in connection than physical but i am sooo here for it.
I know lots of Aquas like that. Do you imagine them all to be some stubborn, headstrong rebel? Sure, but not usually in every single aspect of life. Most Aquas are softies who could be susceptible to such controlling people in their life, especially if they’re family/SOs. Protect teh Aquas from abuse !click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPTalking of moving in together after a month of friendship with a guy that could be a virgin and dominated by an aunt?Posted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
i think he wants to break free in the future from her. he'd be staying over at my place for around 2 months and we'll go from there which i think is practical (internship-related) and experimental coz he wants to move in together. one of my Virgo friends is also dating an Aqua guy and from what i've seen, the relationship progresses crazy fast. they moved in together after one month and she got pregnant 4th month and they look very happy. rare arguments. he's a Pisces mars too like this Aqua.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinedon't see anything wrong at allPosted by virgoOPPPTalking of moving in together after a month of friendship with a guy that could be a virgin and dominated by an aunt?Posted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
i think he wants to break free in the future from her. he'd be staying over at my place for around 2 months and we'll go from there which i think is practical (internship-related) and experimental coz he wants to move in together. one of my Virgo friends is also dating an Aqua guy and from what i've seen, the relationship progresses crazy fast. they moved in together after one month and she got pregnant 4th month and they look very happy. rare arguments. he's a Pisces mars too like this Aqua.
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Posted by virgoOPPP...... and if he takes his pants off and offers up the ultimate disappointment....is that okay?Posted by MyStarsShinedon't see anything wrong at allPosted by virgoOPPPTalking of moving in together after a month of friendship with a guy that could be a virgin and dominated by an aunt?Posted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
i think he wants to break free in the future from her. he'd be staying over at my place for around 2 months and we'll go from there which i think is practical (internship-related) and experimental coz he wants to move in together. one of my Virgo friends is also dating an Aqua guy and from what i've seen, the relationship progresses crazy fast. they moved in together after one month and she got pregnant 4th month and they look very happy. rare arguments. he's a Pisces mars too like this Aqua.
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Posted by MyStarsShinehahah idk but the bulge looks promisingPosted by virgoOPPP...... and if he takes his pants off and offers up the ultimate disappointment....is that okay?Posted by MyStarsShinedon't see anything wrong at allPosted by virgoOPPPTalking of moving in together after a month of friendship with a guy that could be a virgin and dominated by an aunt?Posted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
i think he wants to break free in the future from her. he'd be staying over at my place for around 2 months and we'll go from there which i think is practical (internship-related) and experimental coz he wants to move in together. one of my Virgo friends is also dating an Aqua guy and from what i've seen, the relationship progresses crazy fast. they moved in together after one month and she got pregnant 4th month and they look very happy. rare arguments. he's a Pisces mars too like this Aqua.
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Posted by Antiphatesmore an observation than a problemPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
i think he wants to break free in the future from her. he'd be staying over at my place for around 2 months and we'll go from there which i think is practical (internship-related) and experimental coz he wants to move in together. one of my Virgo friends is also dating an Aqua guy and from what i've seen, the relationship progresses crazy fast. they moved in together after one month and she got pregnant 4th month and they look very happy. rare arguments. he's a Pisces mars too like this Aqua.
Okay, what is your problem then?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPHope it's not a bananaPosted by MyStarsShinehahah idk but the bulge looks promisingPosted by virgoOPPP...... and if he takes his pants off and offers up the ultimate disappointment....is that okay?Posted by MyStarsShinedon't see anything wrong at allPosted by virgoOPPPTalking of moving in together after a month of friendship with a guy that could be a virgin and dominated by an aunt?Posted by Antiphatesyes----ish?
Isn't this exactly what you want with the only difference being that you want to be the one in control?
i think he wants to break free in the future from her. he'd be staying over at my place for around 2 months and we'll go from there which i think is practical (internship-related) and experimental coz he wants to move in together. one of my Virgo friends is also dating an Aqua guy and from what i've seen, the relationship progresses crazy fast. they moved in together after one month and she got pregnant 4th month and they look very happy. rare arguments. he's a Pisces mars too like this Aqua.
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Posted by JammerwheelsGemini
What is his moon? We are not like that
Posted by alexscariesPosted by justagirl
We do everything for those we truly care for to our own detriment sometimes. It's funny because that's an aspect people love us for and hate us for.
Personally, I do not let others control me, but I'm an independent self sufficient woman.
Would members say virgos do the same thing?click to expand
Posted by Aurora_Borealisyeah i think he is sweet and kind
Why 7? Because it's the holiest of numbers? Maybe You like all the drama. Plus I believe he is sweet and kind...But he's kind of going from one boob to another...Good luck
Posted by justagirlAquas and Virgos belong together ❤️Posted by alexscariesPosted by justagirl
We do everything for those we truly care for to our own detriment sometimes. It's funny because that's an aspect people love us for and hate us for.
Personally, I do not let others control me, but I'm an independent self sufficient woman.
Would members say virgos do the same thing?
I would. I see tons of similarities between those two signs.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by justagirlAquas and Virgos belong together ❤️Posted by alexscariesPosted by justagirl
We do everything for those we truly care for to our own detriment sometimes. It's funny because that's an aspect people love us for and hate us for.
Personally, I do not let others control me, but I'm an independent self sufficient woman.
Would members say virgos do the same thing?
I would. I see tons of similarities between those two signs.click to expand
Posted by Phantom_Limboi date multiple people but it's been over with the scorpio for like a month now
How is it possible that you're about to move in with someone? You were asking for advice about a Scorpio a week ago...two weeks ago?
From his family's point of view, you might look like the controlling one, trying to separate him from them.
Posted by iFemmehow? i'm annoyed he lets this happen.Posted by virgoOPPPSeams, that you'll try to be the next one who's tempted to control an Aqua. But I must say, those kind of relationships never last. All Aquas eventually breaks free from manipulating and controlling people. And if it doesn't happen easily, we suffocate the relationship and when it dries out, we are free to go. This applies to all bad relationships – romantic relationship, friends or family. Time doesn't matter, only the outcome matters.
growing disillusioned with Sag and Aqua descriptions in astrology coz they're the opposite. and it's' not just one person but keep encountering example after example of them. every time i go out with this Aqua sun/Gem moon and we stay out a little too late (8pm-ish), his aunt would call him and nag him about where he is, about going home and i'm sick of this. once when he stayed over my place, he only got to stay for one night. she had him come home immediately the next morning. this guy is freakishly tall (big guy for a 20 yr old) and is into MMA and his aunt think he's gonna get mugged easy in the big, bad city.
then i got this female Aqua friend who is 24 yr old grownass woman and her Cap mom rules her life. passed by late on my way to my aunt''s house and dropped her holiday gift to her and she had to sneak out just to get if from me (her own garage!).
they just let people control their lives.click to expand
Posted by iFemmei don't interfere with that. i'm just curious about it (internal). coz i observe they just let other people control their lives.Posted by virgoOPPPThere is a reason why he's doing what he's doing (or letting happen like you say). I recommend to respect his life-related decisions and let him manage it as he wish.Posted by iFemmehow? i'm annoyed he lets this happen.Posted by virgoOPPPSeams, that you'll try to be the next one who's tempted to control an Aqua. But I must say, those kind of relationships never last. All Aquas eventually breaks free from manipulating and controlling people. And if it doesn't happen easily, we suffocate the relationship and when it dries out, we are free to go. This applies to all bad relationships – romantic relationship, friends or family. Time doesn't matter, only the outcome matters.
growing disillusioned with Sag and Aqua descriptions in astrology coz they're the opposite. and it's' not just one person but keep encountering example after example of them. every time i go out with this Aqua sun/Gem moon and we stay out a little too late (8pm-ish), his aunt would call him and nag him about where he is, about going home and i'm sick of this. once when he stayed over my place, he only got to stay for one night. she had him come home immediately the next morning. this guy is freakishly tall (big guy for a 20 yr old) and is into MMA and his aunt think he's gonna get mugged easy in the big, bad city.
then i got this female Aqua friend who is 24 yr old grownass woman and her Cap mom rules her life. passed by late on my way to my aunt''s house and dropped her holiday gift to her and she had to sneak out just to get if from me (her own garage!).
they just let people control their lives.click to expand