Why is Aqua man stringing me along?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by fem_femme on Tuesday, September 20, 2016 and has 10 replies.
Jesus. Can you boil it down to like, 3 sentences? Even a short paragraph will work. That was way too long.
Posted by tiziani
It sounds like he was just group texting you.
Why is that so appealing to aquas?


Aqua will wander until they find a partner than can intellectually drain them.
Im currently dating an Aqua and he also just initiates contact all the time but does that want to see me and when he does want to see he usually bails by making an excuse or keeps the date short. Been on 4 dates within two months...
Posted by geminidude
Aqua will wander until they find a partner than can intellectually drain them.


How can she be Intellectual with him if he pushes her away and disrespects her. He obviously has intimacy issues.
Posted by fem_femme
Posted by Huntertyga
Posted by geminidude
Aqua will wander until they find a partner than can intellectually drain them.


How can she be Intellectual with him if he pushes her away and disrespects her. He obviously has intimacy issues.
the thing is i push him away eh comes back yet acts distant and keeps me at arm's length...this is why i wrote it here trying to understand things. His pushing me away takes form of prolonging our dates by making excuses and I got tired of all these games...so i have no idea why he is in contact wit me. I do feel like he has intimacy issues for sure...he acts like he doesn't like me but he verbally tells me that he likes me a lot...go figure!!
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I'm dating the exact same type of aqua guy. So confusing and frustrating! I stopped initiating contact because I don't want to end up getting hurt in the end. It's good that you're being distant with him because he still hasn't proved himself to you through his actions. Don't initiate contact with him and until he shows you his interest through actions and actually plans and shows up on dates!
Posted by fem_femme
Posted by Huntertyga
Posted by fem_femme
Posted by Huntertyga
Posted by geminidude
Aqua will wander until they find a partner than can intellectually drain them.


How can she be Intellectual with him if he pushes her away and disrespects her. He obviously has intimacy issues.
the thing is i push him away eh comes back yet acts distant and keeps me at arm's length...this is why i wrote it here trying to understand things. His pushing me away takes form of prolonging our dates by making excuses and I got tired of all these games...so i have no idea why he is in contact wit me. I do feel like he has intimacy issues for sure...he acts like he doesn't like me but he verbally tells me that he likes me a lot...go figure!!
I'm dating the exact same type of aqua guy. So confusing and frustrating! I stopped initiating contact because I don't want to end up getting hurt in the end. It's good that you're being distant with him because he still hasn't proved himself to you through his actions. Don't initiate contact with him and until he shows you his interest through actions and actually plans and shows up on dates!


Does he chase you now after you stopped contacting him? Would you mind sharing your experience briefly? I'm interested to learn how other Aquas who are similar to mine act?

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When I started to get distant he did start contacting me more, so yeah he does chase now. His excuses always are work but he could ask me out on the weekends which he never did. So I feel like the work thing is an excuse... He asks me out first then bails, so it's confusing.

He's stringing you along because you're letting him.


He's also doing it because he's older and can obviously manipulate you into tolerating his shit. Quit being a desperate hoe.
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I thought you kept pushing him away because you didn't want a relationship?

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