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jules69
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15 Years

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I see posts after posts about breaking up with an Aqua for months or years and then these same people go back. Why? Do you really think with the passage of time things will really change?

I've seen someone go back to the same aqua man 3 times in 3 years and nothing ever changed. She isn't with him now. And of course according to him, it's all her fault. LOL And no matter how much he said he 'loved her' is afraid to 'trust' after the break up, within a month he is with someone else. WTF..how contradictory is that? Why would anyone assume it would be any different with them?

Do Aquas simply not really know themselves or what they want? They seem to want a perfect person, and think they are one, yet the reality is, that does not exist. I've noticed that when they start picking out every flaw in the person they date, you kinda know its over for them even if they don't tell the person directly. Then if that person breaks it off first, they sit around and wonder why like they had no clue? LOL

It just seems all so bizarre...
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Aquaguy7
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16 YearsAquarius

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Yes, there are a lot of posts like this floating around. I've noticed that myself.

I tend to find with people that after any fallout, break-up or breakdown that they instantly blame anyone but themselves. So I'm not sure that this is just something to apply to Aquas. It is always someone else's fault. But in truth, it probably isn't. But you look around the world and people often blame others to cover themselves in glory. That is just life. Not an Aqua thing by any means.

Why do people go back time and time again? I don't know. But again, I've seen this within many relationships that don't contain the sun sign Aquarius.. In all honesty, the majority of your post could be applied to any sign. Just because something is broken, it doesn't mean that you can't fix it. It just depends on the people involved in the situation. Sometimes people walk away and never look back, sometimes people go back and try to fix it, sometimes they succeed, sometimes they fail.

I don't believe that perfection exists. It is made up. That is my own opinion - maybe some people believe it does. But can they prove it? I'm not looking for the perfect person - because again - they don't exist. I like the imperfections that people have. I have my own flaws and I'm willing to admit that. All that I do expect from my partner is honesty and loyalty.