Why is my Aqua ex so abusive?

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Okay the thing was that when i was 11, my ex-bf , when i was living with my dad [while him & mom were separated and got back together, before his death], okay so we went over to my house, then i didnt know much at sexuality as i do now, my Aqua ex brought out the sexual demons i knew i never had... like i'm still a virgin, but like he would pressure me to talk about it, but i didnt do it EVER. he's 10 days older than me. Idk but when i was younger i never left like i had a childhood for other reasons with my family, being the oldest kid on my mom's side of the family.
One day we were alone at his house, after his older sister left, we made out, then he tried to take off my bra[a second later i put it back on], then i got mad, then he got mad, then after he beat me up[with my bra and pants on. I ran home, to my dad[he didnt know about My ex till i came home with the bruises and busted teeth], told him about it, because we were too young to go to court, he didn't go anything about my ex, but he cut my real hair[i'm 1/4 white, i naturally had long hair but my dad cut it when afterwards so i wouldnt attract guys again and put extension braids on my hair.
But after me & my Leo dad[real one] went to the hospital and got my bruises and teeth fixed. I couldnt talk for hours.
I just dont know his birth time. But he did look like a Leo rising.
My ex's chart:
Sun Aquarius 21.53
Moon Aries 3.21
Mercury Aquarius 1.57
Venus Aquarius 9.16
Mars Libra 5.48 R
Jupiter Aquarius 4.40
Saturn Aries 4.33
Uranus Aquarius 5.37
Neptune Capricorn 28.22
Pluto Sagittarius 5.25
Lilith Leo 25.50
Asc node Virgo 29.25

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Posted by truecap
Why didn't you press charges on him at the time?
His agression is from some other psychological reason. Could be circustances of his parents divorce, frustrations, not getting attention from dad or mom, no parental support, mental abuse from his parents, etc. You did nothing wrong but be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
It's still not too late to have someone beat his ass!!
*grabbing shotgun; heading to Canada*

His dad, was mentally abusive to him and his brothers and sis, but his other siblings came out okay tho...

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Posted by ThePiscesPrincess

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess

Posted by truecap
Why didn't you press charges on him at the time?
His agression is from some other psychological reason. Could be circustances of his parents divorce, frustrations, not getting attention from dad or mom, no parental support, mental abuse from his parents, etc. You did nothing wrong but be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
It's still not too late to have someone beat his ass!!
*grabbing shotgun; heading to Canada*

His dad, was mentally abusive to him and his brothers and sis, but his other siblings came out okay tho...

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Posted by truecap

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess

Posted by ThePiscesPrincess

Posted by truecap
Why didn't you press charges on him at the time?
His agression is from some other psychological reason. Could be circustances of his parents divorce, frustrations, not getting attention from dad or mom, no parental support, mental abuse from his parents, etc. You did nothing wrong but be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
It's still not too late to have someone beat his ass!!
*grabbing shotgun; heading to Canada*

His dad, was mentally abusive to him and his brothers and sis, but his other siblings came out okay tho...

That's really sad. They don't understand how they mess a kid up.

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Posted by Metoo
Honey, you need counseling and to figure out why you are talking about this so lightly, like it was a small incident.
Also why are you contacting him on facebook? You have 7 years to press charges and if this boy doesn't get some help through restitution and his own counseling, he is possibly hurting someone else this way.
You did nothing to cause this to happen and I am so sorry, but try and find out whats going on inside you that makes you still think of him and ask about him. You should never see or speak to him again, but rather report this and move forward and try to better yourself and find positive friends and a job and stay close to your family or faith.