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Apr 04, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2425 · Topics: 193
My appologies in advance for the below comments but I have to vent!
Why do so many women thing so highly of the Aqua? I think they put put you under some sort of stupid spell making you think they are oh so wonderful but really once you get to know them you see how selfish, manipulitive, untrustworthy, gutless and irrational they really are.
Best sex? Yeah right! So untrue. You may get a different experience out of them & thats why u think its so great but when the honey moon period is over they have no energy & if anything a lower sex drive than normal guys (I am sure they will dispute this. And then they are prone to sharing there loving with other women because its for 'the good of all' & they were trying to make them happy because they felt sorry for them - whatever!
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Have a seat....what has he done now??
I am best at everything.
That is all.
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Aug 20, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 794 · Topics: 58
It goes without saying that not all aqua's are good in bed. Not all of them are good people, some of them are in fact "selfish, manipulitive, untrustworthy, gutless and irrational." Just like any group of men, there are some that know how to respect others and some that don't.
I have met both kinds of men and both kinds of Aquas. The ugly Aqua is no fun, but my oh my, you'll never hear me change my mind about the goodness of a good Aqua. I don't see them being overly glorified, they are one of the biggest mysteries in the zodiac and a lot of people are intrigued by that. People are drawn to them.
"Have a seat....what has he done now??"
Lol, you beat me to the punch. =D What has one of my brethern done now?
It's not just the sign, it's character. Character is key. Along with age and experience, but for the most part it's character.
You will meet one person that acts quite a bit like another person you know with the same sign and gender, but will have different character.
Character changes, signs don't.
Unusualcancer is spot-on. Even us women are kind of like that. An egg is an egg but there are good and bad ones.
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
(( but really once you get to know them you see how selfish, manipulitive, untrustworthy, gutless and irrational they really are. ))
you are a pisces. what else you expect? its like mixing oil and water and complaining itss not mixing well.
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Nov 14, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 819 · Topics: 41
Lady M is right.
Get your high heels on and go clubbing. Do it to remember how many guys were chasing you before Aqua came along -- don't try and make him jealous.
As for the cleaning, all men are like that. They never clean, OR complain if they do. My ex-husband did the dishes, but complained so much about it, it would have been better if I had done them. We used to alternate, and he still complained, and finally I said "If we divorce, then you'll be doing them every day, not every other day."
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Opps hee hee *retreat NOT reteat
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
(( He is a bratt!!! Ill sort that out! ))
get a baseball bat and hang it somewhere he can see with a nice caption which explains it alternate use.
You need to Out-Aquarian him! Lift yourself up like SuperGirl and sail out into the air! Go do something charitable, help a group or something, something that will not benefit you but benefit mankind. Get outside of yourself and you will see that this silly aquarian man is but a grain of sand compared to the big, huge world that is out there waiting for you to conquer it.
Then give him a good dose of ignoring and think up a good clueless look when he asks why nobody has cleaned the bathroom. "Huh? I thought you were going to do it? I gotta go help homeless kids learn to read, on my way out the door, see ya!"
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Apr 04, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2425 · Topics: 193
I LOVE IT!!! Mermaid!!! Ok - Time for doing & less tralking
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ROFL @ bijou!!! One crazy wench coming up!
WOW...... reading these coments i sense a little bit of hate coming from kielbasa.
Its infair and ignorant to belieive that all men born under the aquarius sign are going to behave alike according to other peoples experiences and assuming that these stories are accurate and true.
I have been with my aqua for 7 years now and have known him for over 11 years and believe me, its been amazing! We were friends first for over 4 years and then our attraction got the better of us and decided to make a go of it. I believe that the strenght of our relationship is built on the trust we have for each other as well as the deep love we hold and this is not formed over night. He is still unpredictable but that makes things exciting, it would be boring without!
I hope things work out for you pisces but sometimes, regardless of star signs, things are just not ment to be.
Look, Pisces, if someone says something insulting to you, even if they are completely clueless that it insults you, YOU are to blame for NOT SAYING ANYTHING!
Trust me, I've been in the same boat. One of the things I love about being an Aqua is my honesty. I've had times, when I was much younger, when I would refrain from saying anything. WHAT is the point? IF you want a solid foundation with your Aqua, you owe it to yourself, and him, to say something and overcome your fear. You can tell him you don't like something he said without being a bitch about it. "That insults me, I don't like it, nothing personal, I'm not mad, just please don't say that to me anymore." Let him chew on that. Being an aqua, he'll get it. If you get emotional, then he won't.
Trust and honesty are key here. Tension is going to build and you will harbor bad feelings if you keep from saying what bothers you (I'm referring to insults, here). Some stuff I think IS better left unsaid, but certain particular things such as feeling insulted by something he said should be brought up and dealt with. Remember, you are an independent woman, and while you love him and put up with his shit, you are NOT SCARED to let him know you don't like something he says or does that is insulting to you. It's possible he may be oblivious to it, however it is equally possible he is not and is like "haha I said X and Y to her and I could tell it made her mad but she won't say anything."
Say it. But not with emotion.
Your Aqua friend,
Mermaid
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kielbasa.... these things have happened in my relationship with Mr Aqua. He has never not cheated on anyone of his gfs. I told him when I decided to love him that I would take him for who is was - unfortuately at that stage I thought he was one thing when really he wasnt. I moved interstate to get away from him. I am not perfect either, I have done some seriously nasty things but the things he did ripped my little heart out.
When I left him I told him he didnt have to change but the person he was, was not the person I wanted to be with anymore and that I had changed so I had to leave. It wasnt till I saw some serious change in his life (that took months & months and that was because he didnt like the person he was anymore nothing to do with me)not just pretty words out his mouth that I took him back. I just think now he is comfy again he is slipping back to his old ways.
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Apr 04, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2425 · Topics: 193
I think I am a bit confussed - trying to see both sides of the story with Mr Aqua man & myself.