Will Aquarian man stay mad forever?

This Aquarian male and I have been friends since last summer. Things got hot and heavy and we have been fwb ever since. Something happened about a month ago that made him so mad that he wouldn't talk to me..but he won't tell me what it is. I had been drinking and don't remember. At first, he was very cold...calling me childish, making fun of me. Asking me to have sec but being rude so of course I said no. 😢 Well, he didn't talk to me for about 2 1/2 weeks...I would see him and he would give me piercing stares and never say a word. Suddenly out of nowhere, he shows up at my door asking a random question about a bus time for his niece and then blurts out that the reason he wasn't talking to me was because he heard that I slept with someone else...which I didnt. So he asked if I was mad and I told him no..that I was just upset because I thought we were close. And he said, "because we were best friends...and we still are..please come give me a hug..it's over..its OK now." So he hugged the bajesus out of me...said he wanted to talk later..then changed his mind when the time came because he said he was still mad at me and it was going to take a while because there was more to it. He hit me up 2 days asking if I wanted to have sex..and I did..but I kept it completely to the point and no emotion. No contact since.

What is going on? Does he have feelings for me? Is he going to stay mad forever? What am I supposed to do?

Also..here are our charts:


Mine-

Sun: Taurus/Gemini cusp
Moon: Pisces
Rising: Leo
Mercury: Gemini
Mars: Gemini
Venus: Taurus
Saturn: Sagittarius
Pluto: Scorpio
Neptune: Capricorn
Uranus: Sagittarius
Jupiter: Aries
N. Node: Aries
S. Node: Libra
Chiron: Gemini

His-

Sun: Aquarius
Moon: Sagittarius
Rising: Virgo
Mercury: Pisces
Mars: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Saturn: Pisces
Pluto: Scorpio
Neptune: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Jupiter: Scorpio
N. Node: Scorpio
S. Node: Taurus
Chiron: Virgo

I really hope that isn't the case. Like he said, I have felt like we have been best friends..very close. Aside from the other obvious benefits. You're probably right though. My gut feeling is that I'm being used..maybe I just wanted to believe that there was more to it. Thanks, DonJohnson.

True. Thank you.

Even if you did sleep with someone else, what business is it of his?

He can make it official if he wants exclusivity.

And he refuses to do so. This aqua man has told me he wants to marry me in the future and wants to take care of me...he praises my ability to mother my children, take care of the home, that we get along so well intellectually and spiritually..yet says he isn't ready to settle. He's ever great at manipulating...or has feelings and won't face them. Or both.

Maybe in his mind, he's made it official (talking about future marriage may have been his way of saying something is official) and because it's the method in the way you see someone saying it's official, you didn't recognize it. So, he believes you went off and slept wtih someone else....well, that could be a deal breaker. He may be trying for it not to be, but it seems as if it is.

Of course, I have no idea what his intention was or wasn't, but it is worth taking a gander at.

*not* the method

Of course, both of our definitions of official may be different.

True. That's not something I really thought about..but in the same sense...he is out there flirting in my face constantly. Idk. It's like nothing but mind games with him...I have so much Gemini in me, I feel like it turns me on. LOL lord help me.

Then why would you want to be with someone who plays mind games?

No, no...I have my ascendant in Leo and I feel like the chase is what keeps me interested and coming back. I really hate the mind games. The chase turns me on. But I'm getting extremely sick of it with him now being rude and not giving me reasons as to why he's angry with me.

I'm 28.