My aqua ex broke up with me a few months ago. We kept talking for a bit and he was down to get back together once his life calmed down but the thing is...
he KEPT talking to me afterwards like it was fine. After a few days of being just friends with him, joking casually I was like uhh. I don't appreciate being in this grey area so I need an answer. Do you want to be with me yes or no? He said no. He can't handle arguments with me but is more than willing to support me as a friend. I said no fucking way. It's all or nothing with me. I still love you so be with me or never again.
He begged me to stay his friend. He didn't even want to block me initially when I asked him too, but he did. I noticed a few weeks ago he unblocked me probably just to snoop. I don't expect him to ever reach out first, but I really want him to. Organically, without me having to fuel things. I kinda promised myself I would never make the first move with him again, but should I? I really love and miss him and I wanted to sit down and repair things. I had a logical plan put in place to do such but we split up before I got a chance to do it with him. I think we are a great match if we just fine tuned a few things.
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Mar 27, 2017Comments: 1330 · Posts: 12920 · Topics: 29
First you need to fix your attitudes.
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Jul 17, 2018Comments: 1 · Posts: 117 · Topics: 14
I don't think you should. He has already made it crystal clear to you that he doesn't wanna get back.. until he changes his mind (if he does) don't reach out to him otherwise you'll seem desperate and that will drive him further away. In the meantime just work on being the best version of yourself and on being content with or without him