Aries kinks hidden from me

This topic was created in the Aries and Gemini Compatibility forum by Gemitati on Monday, September 30, 2019 and has 64 replies.
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I’ve asked about his kinky side. That I want to see it. He said do you like to be slapped and choked and hit?

I was like hmmmm yeah...

He said I don’t think I can do this with you.

I said try me!

He said I just don’t see you like that...though I like your freaky savage side but I like it the way we are now.


So I just winked and changed the subject.

We’ve entered ‘married couple’ zine too quickly.

I guess it’s a good thing but I’ve SEEN his fierce sexual predator site for a few seconds before and he had not proceed in this manner.

Don’t want to push. But I know he had been married to bi woman but with me he isn’t unleashing the Beast. Why? I’ll get to his ass but I don’t want to make mistake to turn him off by being too annoying about it. Somehow he doesn’t practice it on me. Could that side of a man die when he is in ‘normal’ rships? 🤷‍♀️
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.
I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️
How were you able to see that small side of him? Can you recreate whatever happened?


But all you have to do is offer yourself up to it. If his hands come close to your neck, lift your chin. If you want him to spank you, say it while he’s busy fucking you doggy style , when his hand is already rubbing your ass.


Use moments where he just needs a idea in the spur of the moment and he can execute it since it’s easy to do in whatever position he’s in.

But some guys don’t like planning it. You just have to tell them whole in the middle of sex.
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


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Lmao! Damn! So who won!! 😩😩🤣🤣🤣
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.
Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.
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It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.


It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...


??


The two stories you posted that I read were both of the beast, which was obviously Satan, violently mutilating and raping a woman, one of whom was being burned alive. It's interesting, but hot? Fuck no. Not to me.
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He is the Beast! What do you expect him to do? Getting married and become soccer dad? 🤷‍♀️
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Awkward
That face is awkward...🥳👻🧟‍♀️
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.


It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...


??


The two stories you posted that I read were both of the beast, which was obviously Satan, violently mutilating and raping a woman, one of whom was being burned alive. It's interesting, but hot? Fuck no. Not to me.
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Devil 😲😳
Look on the bright side, he sees you as more than a sexual conquest.


Sexting porn is a good way to get the ball rolling.




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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.


It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...


??


The two stories you posted that I read were both of the beast, which was obviously Satan, violently mutilating and raping a woman, one of whom was being burned alive. It's interesting, but hot? Fuck no. Not to me.


Devil 😲😳


lol

You must have missed those posts.
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I miss a lot

Thank God 🤪
I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿

Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati

I’ve asked about his kinky side. That I want to see it. He said do you like to be slapped and choked and hit?

I was like hmmmm yeah...

He said I don’t think I can do this with you.

I said try me!

He said I just don’t see you like that...though I like your freaky savage side but I like it the way we are now.


So I just winked and changed the subject.

We’ve entered ‘married couple’ zine too quickly.

I guess it’s a good thing but I’ve SEEN his fierce sexual predator site for a few seconds before and he had not proceed in this manner.

Don’t want to push. But I know he had been married to bi woman but with me he isn’t unleashing the Beast. Why? I’ll get to his ass but I don’t want to make mistake to turn him off by being too annoying about it. Somehow he doesn’t practice it on me. Could that side of a man die when he is in ‘normal’ rships? 🤷‍♀️


I sort of feed off the other person's energy. If the girl is too cute, inexperienced or I'm not sure she can handle me I will hold back. If someone said to me "try me", I'm getting the rope out.
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❤️Love is getting the rope out❤️


Awwwww 😋🥴
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Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️
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That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by MyStarsShine

I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿


Madonna/whore complex?
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The very same words crossed my mind

…Puta Madre
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by MyStarsShine

I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿


Madonna/whore complex?


The very same words crossed my mind

…Puta Madre


Well, what is Gemi to do with that? She wants to be his everything, not his pure mommy wife or his dirty slut.
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I’m afraid i can’t answer that
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.


It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...


??


The two stories you posted that I read were both of the beast, which was obviously Satan, violently mutilating and raping a woman, one of whom was being burned alive. It's interesting, but hot? Fuck no. Not to me.


He is the Beast! What do you expect him to do? Getting married and become soccer dad? 🤷‍♀️


I don't have a problem with horror. I enjoy horror. I don't think the devil raping someone to death is sexy, though. I don't think that's an abnormal reaction. I didn't think it was sexy when the girl in the Exorcist stabbed her vagina with a crucifix either. I found it disturbing!!
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NOW I’ll have nightmares! 👻
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati

I’ve asked about his kinky side. That I want to see it. He said do you like to be slapped and choked and hit?

I was like hmmmm yeah...

He said I don’t think I can do this with you.

I said try me!

He said I just don’t see you like that...though I like your freaky savage side but I like it the way we are now.


So I just winked and changed the subject.

We’ve entered ‘married couple’ zine too quickly.

I guess it’s a good thing but I’ve SEEN his fierce sexual predator site for a few seconds before and he had not proceed in this manner.

Don’t want to push. But I know he had been married to bi woman but with me he isn’t unleashing the Beast. Why? I’ll get to his ass but I don’t want to make mistake to turn him off by being too annoying about it. Somehow he doesn’t practice it on me. Could that side of a man die when he is in ‘normal’ rships? 🤷‍♀️


I sort of feed off the other person's energy. If the girl is too cute, inexperienced or I'm not sure she can handle me I will hold back. If someone said to me "try me", I'm getting the rope out.
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So I said it! Oops...

He is just too big! He pushed 200lb on a scale with his hands! He once almost broke my fingers just playing with my hand...lmao

Maybe that’s why...🤔
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...
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So you openly hate me? I didn’t know...🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati

I’ve asked about his kinky side. That I want to see it. He said do you like to be slapped and choked and hit?

I was like hmmmm yeah...

He said I don’t think I can do this with you.

I said try me!

He said I just don’t see you like that...though I like your freaky savage side but I like it the way we are now.


So I just winked and changed the subject.

We’ve entered ‘married couple’ zine too quickly.

I guess it’s a good thing but I’ve SEEN his fierce sexual predator site for a few seconds before and he had not proceed in this manner.

Don’t want to push. But I know he had been married to bi woman but with me he isn’t unleashing the Beast. Why? I’ll get to his ass but I don’t want to make mistake to turn him off by being too annoying about it. Somehow he doesn’t practice it on me. Could that side of a man die when he is in ‘normal’ rships? 🤷‍♀️


I sort of feed off the other person's energy. If the girl is too cute, inexperienced or I'm not sure she can handle me I will hold back. If someone said to me "try me", I'm getting the rope out.


So I said it! Oops...

He is just too big! He pushed 200lb on a scale with his hands! He once almost broke my fingers just playing with my hand...lmao

Maybe that’s why...🤔
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Nothing to do with size, strong men can be very “gentle” when playing rough, it’s not like he’ll spank you with his full strength lol he’ll just use his size to carry you from the front door to the bed
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati

I’ve asked about his kinky side. That I want to see it. He said do you like to be slapped and choked and hit?

I was like hmmmm yeah...

He said I don’t think I can do this with you.

I said try me!

He said I just don’t see you like that...though I like your freaky savage side but I like it the way we are now.


So I just winked and changed the subject.

We’ve entered ‘married couple’ zine too quickly.

I guess it’s a good thing but I’ve SEEN his fierce sexual predator site for a few seconds before and he had not proceed in this manner.

Don’t want to push. But I know he had been married to bi woman but with me he isn’t unleashing the Beast. Why? I’ll get to his ass but I don’t want to make mistake to turn him off by being too annoying about it. Somehow he doesn’t practice it on me. Could that side of a man die when he is in ‘normal’ rships? 🤷‍♀️


I sort of feed off the other person's energy. If the girl is too cute, inexperienced or I'm not sure she can handle me I will hold back. If someone said to me "try me", I'm getting the rope out.


So I said it! Oops...

He is just too big! He pushed 200lb on a scale with his hands! He once almost broke my fingers just playing with my hand...lmao

Maybe that’s why...🤔


It doesn't matter how strong a person is, it's about how they handle strength.
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Exactly
Posted by MyStarsShine

I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿
So that side CAN die in men? 🤷‍♀️
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gemitati

I’ve asked about his kinky side. That I want to see it. He said do you like to be slapped and choked and hit?

I was like hmmmm yeah...

He said I don’t think I can do this with you.

I said try me!

He said I just don’t see you like that...though I like your freaky savage side but I like it the way we are now.


So I just winked and changed the subject.

We’ve entered ‘married couple’ zine too quickly.

I guess it’s a good thing but I’ve SEEN his fierce sexual predator site for a few seconds before and he had not proceed in this manner.

Don’t want to push. But I know he had been married to bi woman but with me he isn’t unleashing the Beast. Why? I’ll get to his ass but I don’t want to make mistake to turn him off by being too annoying about it. Somehow he doesn’t practice it on me. Could that side of a man die when he is in ‘normal’ rships? 🤷‍♀️


I sort of feed off the other person's energy. If the girl is too cute, inexperienced or I'm not sure she can handle me I will hold back. If someone said to me "try me", I'm getting the rope out.


❤️Love is getting the rope out❤️


Awwwww 😋🥴
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Exactly! He is the only one I would trust with it...

That’s it! I am buying the rope...
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


Call him a dirty bastard.
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You know it, that will do it. Or show up wearing black leather anything...Hey @Gemitati got any black g strings?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by MyStarsShine

I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿


Madonna/whore complex?


The very same words crossed my mind

…Puta Madre
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So I am NOT? 🤷‍♀️
Tell him you want to arm wrestle for who gets control of the handcuffs...as long as you don't mind being the one wearing them.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.


It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...


??


The two stories you posted that I read were both of the beast, which was obviously Satan, violently mutilating and raping a woman, one of whom was being burned alive. It's interesting, but hot? Fuck no. Not to me.


He is the Beast! What do you expect him to do? Getting married and become soccer dad? 🤷‍♀️


I don't have a problem with horror. I enjoy horror. I don't think the devil raping someone to death is sexy, though. I don't think that's an abnormal reaction. I didn't think it was sexy when the girl in the Exorcist stabbed her vagina with a crucifix either. I found it disturbing!!

NOW I’ll have nightmares! 👻


Have you seen that movie? I HATE that part. lol
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No. I’ve just being introduced to all his collection of classics. I loooove Dracula!
Posted by Jules-ll

Tell him you want to arm wrestle for who gets control of the handcuffs...as long as you don't mind being the one wearing them.
No blindfolds. No handcuffs for me. I can’t be restrained. In any way...

I can stand pain but I have to be free.

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


So you openly hate me? I didn’t know...🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂
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You want him to get rowdy with you right? I'm telling you how to do it...fighting is foreplay for them Big Grin
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


Call him a dirty bastard.
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I would NEVER call man I love any names...

We are just based on exceptional respect and peace.

What would you do if woman called you that?
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Posted by Jules-ll

Tell him you want to arm wrestle for who gets control of the handcuffs...as long as you don't mind being the one wearing them.


No blindfolds. No handcuffs for me. I can’t be restrained. In any way...

I can stand pain but I have to be free.
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It's not about pain, it's about pleasure. If he's a true Aries they love to be in control. Have you tried it? It's pretty damn hot, but I prefer being the one that's restrained. Total turn on...
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


So you openly hate me? I didn’t know...🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂

You want him to get rowdy with you right? I'm telling you how to do it...fighting is foreplay for them Big Grin
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Oh no! Insult will end us before I would finish the sentence. It’s an absolute no.

I’ve said once playfully that he is full of shit...I won’t do it again! He looked in my face and said ‘I had never talked to you like this...’ and that was enough...

I’ve never HAD a cave man before.

It’s pretty intense. It feels different. I have to actually think before I speak. 🤦‍♀️
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll

Tell him you want to arm wrestle for who gets control of the handcuffs...as long as you don't mind being the one wearing them.


No blindfolds. No handcuffs for me. I can’t be restrained. In any way...

I can stand pain but I have to be free.

It's not about pain, it's about pleasure. If he's a true Aries they love to be in control. Have you tried it? It's pretty damn hot, but I prefer being the one that's restrained. Total turn on...


Depends on the Aries and the situation.
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No! Depends on me. And I am not up to it. I was born in a year of Fire Horse. It has a lot to do with it too. I can’t wven wear jewelry. It suffocated me.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


Call him a dirty bastard.


I would NEVER call man I love any names...

We are just based on exceptional respect and peace.

What would you do if woman called you that?


I've been called a bastard, a dirty fucker and that I have a pathetic cock. In the context of sex it was an incredible turn on.
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Oookey! No! That won’t happen...
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll

Tell him you want to arm wrestle for who gets control of the handcuffs...as long as you don't mind being the one wearing them.


No blindfolds. No handcuffs for me. I can’t be restrained. In any way...

I can stand pain but I have to be free.

It's not about pain, it's about pleasure. If he's a true Aries they love to be in control. Have you tried it? It's pretty damn hot, but I prefer being the one that's restrained. Total turn on...


Depends on the Aries and the situation.
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True, but I've never met an Aries male that doesn't want to be in control. Tell me, have you ever let a woman restrain you?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Hopefully it doesn't involve getting raped by the devil.


Hmmmmm...that was hot wasn’t it? 👻


Sorry, not my cup of tea. I find rape deeply disturbing, not hot.


It was a Beast! Not real. Fictional. I am not talking about rape...


??


The two stories you posted that I read were both of the beast, which was obviously Satan, violently mutilating and raping a woman, one of whom was being burned alive. It's interesting, but hot? Fuck no. Not to me.


He is the Beast! What do you expect him to do? Getting married and become soccer dad? 🤷‍♀️


I don't have a problem with horror. I enjoy horror. I don't think the devil raping someone to death is sexy, though. I don't think that's an abnormal reaction. I didn't think it was sexy when the girl in the Exorcist stabbed her vagina with a crucifix either. I found it disturbing!!

NOW I’ll have nightmares! 👻


Have you seen that movie? I HATE that part. lol


No. I’ve just being introduced to all his collection of classics. I loooove Dracula!


The one with Gary Oldman and Winona Ryder? I love that one too. Such a tragic love story.


He said I have the same accent...from Transylvania...



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Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll

Tell him you want to arm wrestle for who gets control of the handcuffs...as long as you don't mind being the one wearing them.


No blindfolds. No handcuffs for me. I can’t be restrained. In any way...

I can stand pain but I have to be free.

It's not about pain, it's about pleasure. If he's a true Aries they love to be in control. Have you tried it? It's pretty damn hot, but I prefer being the one that's restrained. Total turn on...


Depends on the Aries and the situation.

True, but I've never met an Aries male that doesn't want to be in control. Tell me, have you ever let a woman restrain you?
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Can’t wait to see the answer...
The aries real kink.... wanting to read his childs books aloud while fucking you lol



Why do you want him to hit you and get violent with you?



Do you really think that the relationship will be the same if he did?


Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


So you openly hate me? I didn’t know...🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂

You want him to get rowdy with you right? I'm telling you how to do it...fighting is foreplay for them Big Grin


Oh no! Insult will end us before I would finish the sentence. It’s an absolute no.

I’ve said once playfully that he is full of shit...I won’t do it again! He looked in my face and said ‘I had never talked to you like this...’ and that was enough...

I’ve never HAD a cave man before.

It’s pretty intense. It feels different. I have to actually think before I speak. 🤦‍♀️
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This is a big point, they don't like being insulted. So you do have to filter what you say. Is that something you can do long term, Gem? Because after a while, it got to be where I couldn't be myself. Something for you to think about, my mercury sister!
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Posted by MyStarsShine

I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿


Madonna/whore complex?


The very same words crossed my mind

…Puta Madre


So I am NOT? 🤷‍♀️
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Ask him......
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Haruuka

Why do you want him to hit you and get violent with you?



Do you really think that the relationship will be the same if he did?


It's consensual. I've pulled hair, spanked with my hands and used "degrading" names; there's a huge difference between what goes on in the bedroom and how you conduct the rest of the relationship.
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What would you do if you fell in love with a girl who wasn't into any of that stuff....would that be a deal breaker for you alex?
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Haruuka

Why do you want him to hit you and get violent with you?



Do you really think that the relationship will be the same if he did?


It's consensual. I've pulled hair, spanked with my hands and used "degrading" names; there's a huge difference between what goes on in the bedroom and how you conduct the rest of the relationship.


What would you do if you fell in love with a girl who wasn't into any of that stuff....would that be a deal breaker for you alex?


This has passed my mind. It's not been an issue so far. I think if say the woman was just lied there like a corpse, it would be an issue, if it was "vanilla" sex but it was incredibly passionate it would be ok.
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So all the women you've been with are into BDSM....i find that quite surprising?
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Haruuka

Why do you want him to hit you and get violent with you?



Do you really think that the relationship will be the same if he did?


It's consensual. I've pulled hair, spanked with my hands and used "degrading" names; there's a huge difference between what goes on in the bedroom and how you conduct the rest of the relationship.
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I know



But there is limit, always
Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I don’t understand how people can do things to their sexual partners that they wouldn’t want their child to do or have done to them some day. There’s a disconnect there somewhere. I don’t see it as open minded really, more like going along with the crowd, especially since “vanilla “ sex just seems to be a synonym for loving sex now.


Love is more dangerous. 💕
Oh you read my mind girl


Love is far more risky....I think you're onto something here. Disconnect is the word that came into my head...as though all these practices are a smokescreen to true intimacy..


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Posted by LadyNeptune

The aries real kink.... wanting to read his childs books aloud while fucking you lol


WTF
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I’ve decided to never mind her. That post was just a brain fart!
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Posted by Haruuka

Why do you want him to hit you and get violent with you?



Do you really think that the relationship will be the same if he did?


It's consensual. I've pulled hair, spanked with my hands and used "degrading" names; there's a huge difference between what goes on in the bedroom and how you conduct the rest of the relationship.


What would you do if you fell in love with a girl who wasn't into any of that stuff....would that be a deal breaker for you alex?


This has passed my mind. It's not been an issue so far. I think if say the woman was just lied there like a corpse, it would be an issue, if it was "vanilla" sex but it was incredibly passionate it would be ok.


So all the women you've been with are into BDSM....i find that quite surprising?


Not all of them. I've only really been into it for a few years and for the most part yes.
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Do you meet them on special websites?
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Posted by but_didyoudie

I don't think such thing can just 'die'.... everyone is different with everyone, so he probably just doesn't wanna show you.


I am dying to see that side of him! I’ve seen a sample and I want him to lose control of his emotions. There must be something I can do 🧟‍♀️

That's easy, insult him. Insult his honor. Insult his abilities. Get him fighting, then jump him once you get that martian beast going...


So you openly hate me? I didn’t know...🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂

You want him to get rowdy with you right? I'm telling you how to do it...fighting is foreplay for them Big Grin


Oh no! Insult will end us before I would finish the sentence. It’s an absolute no.

I’ve said once playfully that he is full of shit...I won’t do it again! He looked in my face and said ‘I had never talked to you like this...’ and that was enough...

I’ve never HAD a cave man before.

It’s pretty intense. It feels different. I have to actually think before I speak. 🤦‍♀️

This is a big point, they don't like being insulted. So you do have to filter what you say. Is that something you can do long term, Gem? Because after a while, it got to be where I couldn't be myself. Something for you to think about, my mercury sister!
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I can be good. He is adorbs. I don’t have to bitch with him...he is tucking me in bed...I can’t be even thinking talking to him like that! I guess I can do it...I think I can...(do I sound like that Choo choo train? Lmao)
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Posted by Haruuka

Why do you want him to hit you and get violent with you?



Do you really think that the relationship will be the same if he did?


It's consensual. I've pulled hair, spanked with my hands and used "degrading" names; there's a huge difference between what goes on in the bedroom and how you conduct the rest of the relationship.


What would you do if you fell in love with a girl who wasn't into any of that stuff....would that be a deal breaker for you alex?


This has passed my mind. It's not been an issue so far. I think if say the woman was just lied there like a corpse, it would be an issue, if it was "vanilla" sex but it was incredibly passionate it would be ok.


So all the women you've been with are into BDSM....i find that quite surprising?
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That’s our goody Aries Alex??? 🤦‍♀️
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by MyStarsShine

I asked my spirit guide 👻😛and he said its because he cares and respects you not like the other slappers he was kinky with


My spirit guide is my Aries dad and i wasn’t aware he knew such words as “slapper” lol.


I think he sees you more as wife material, either that or he is getting too old for all that kinky shit. 🥴👿


Madonna/whore complex?


The very same words crossed my mind

…Puta Madre


So I am NOT? 🤷‍♀️


Ask him......
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Ask him what?

I’ve asked once if he wanted to get into bi women and he said he likes what we have better.

Then we’ve talked months later about me being...well...me and he said he thinks I am a bi and I said why? He said because you said so and I said I don’t know because I’ve never done it.

But I loved his raw moment he cut short and he said almost in horror...so you want to be hit? I couldn’t do that to you...and I said not hit but you don’t have to restrain yourself from that fire...I loved it...

I don’t remember the end of the conversation. 😀
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