Aires & Scorpio - any experience stories?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Guest on Sunday, July 29, 2001 and has 41 replies.
I'm a female Aires who dated a male Scorp. It was slow getting started,
as we are both divorced and wanted to take things slowly. Four
months into dating, the incredible attraction was too hard to ignore.
We finally became intimate and it was an INCREDIBLE night! Talk
about INTENSITY and PASSION. WOW!!!
The problem - since that ONE night, he has withdrawn into a cocoon
and not sure he is ready (as ready as he thought) to pursue a relationship.
Anybody else out there have a similar experience with a Scorp male?
Would greatly appreciate ANY insight.
A special thanks to "Smithy" for your incredible support! Hopefully
someone at this board can offer some insight!
Natasha
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well natasha im in the same boat as you. basically hes got cold feet, leave him 4 a while and then get in contact with him but dont get intense about your feeling otherwise hell run off again (hard to do i know). Scorpios are very moody, controling, and scilently vindictive so be careful, mine has driven me to the point of madness, the sex will be fantastic but you are both head strong people and this will clash. dont make the same mistake i have...by running after him and telling him how u feel, he wont want that. you should act ina happy go lucky was, but i know that will be very hard if you have fallen 4 this guy, seak company with your friends and fill your time in other ways. hope it works out 4 you, but if it dont be sure to know that another fellow female arian is dying too.
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Thank you for responding! I have tried to give him the space and time
he may need to sort this out. I cannot, or will not, believe it's over.
We shared too much BEFORE becoming intimate that neither of us can
ignore. Other factors do play a role in this, its not a matter of him not
wanting this relationship but other responsibilities that need to be tended
to right now. I'm not trying to make excuses for his in-actions, but do
believe what we shared to be real. Maybe that's what has scared him off.
We have both experienced alot of pain and hurt in our previous
relationships and even I had some fears of trusting what we were sharing
cause it seemed too good to be true. We were honest, up front about so
many things in our lives and spoke of the future over and over.
I sincerely hope that your situation also works out for you. Is your
relationship with your male scorp on hold as well, or have you brought
closure to it? You indicated you went after him and told him how you
felt - what was the result of that? Assuming you wish to share more??
One thing I've learned about male scorps (at least mine) is that
Scorps may not always tell you whats going on (ie. their secrecy and moods)
because I believe they don't always know themselves what's going on
within themselves and need the space/time to sort out what they need to
in there own "safe haven". They truly do not recognize or realize how
much time actually goes by in this process. For what we experience on a
daily basis, they experience weeks worth in a single day. They are so
misunderstood, but truly remarkable and deep special people. They
truly only need someone willing to understand their depths and need
to take the time they need to be sure of ANY step they take.
He (and hopefully your guy) will get to the point where they will share,
as long as you are willing to commit to the relationship. It can be very
worthwhile if we only practice perserveance and commitment. Something
all of us Aires need practice at.
Please keep me posted on your relationship and know that I can
feel your pain and sorrow. If you truly love your Scorp man, give him
the time and space to find the answers he seeks.
Keep the faith.....God Bless!
Natasha
the silence
and secrecy of their feelings comes from THEM not knowing how they
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Natasha, Scorpios are private people who have difficulty with trust issues. Sometimes, Scorpios can scare themselves with their intensity and not know what to do about it. Rushing is the worst mistake in relationships. You need to have a serious talk about that possibility.
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Natasha-
I am a female scorp with the same problem with an Aries male.
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I really think that scorpio's and aries are very similiar. My roommate is a scorpio and I am an aries. We are both extremely patient and calm...slow to anger and take trust very seriously. Mutual understanding for the way in which we both think, feel, and act. Difference's are harder to come by, but there is always a resolution...we keep eachother positive and happy smile
My dad is an aries and my mom a scorpio. They divorced a while ago, but I believe that this may be a great combination seems neither gives up on the other(based on my experience)
And I can also see how both could act this way. Cold feet. I agree that we both have extreme trust issues with the opposite sex. We don't like to get our head way to far up our a $ $ es before the point of no return. HAHA. We are very cautious in the way we deal with relationships.
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But then again, I may not be the stereotypical-book definition of an aries...I'm on the cusp with pisces.
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Oh by the way...the more time you give a scorpio the better. They will come back. They are extremely loyal. If they don't want anything with you they will tell you...I'm positive of this. They are not scared to tell someone they just want friendship.
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i am first day of aries and he was first day of scorpio
physically we were attracted to each other
but it didnt last because as an aries i needed my mind to be stimulated
and unfortunately this scorpio, as many scorpios are, wasnt as chatty like lil ol me
and a bit secretive, like i could never read him, or get to know the real him
it took a long time for him to open up but in the end i just felt like i couldnt be myself because i needed more from him.
i want a boyfriend to not jus be that, but also a friend
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My sister is a Scorpio and her new bf is an Aries, and they seem to hit it off. They're really cute together and they met through the internet. But the funny thing is they're both really normal, hot, good looking people.
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Female Aries and male Scorpios won't work. I only get a long with female scorpios in a settle way too.
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Depending on the experience...if something isn't given a chance there is no room for speculation. Every scorpio that I've met I have had a great deal of respect for. I think it is more than possible for a relationship. But, I am extremely optimistic and I believe a lot of things are possible. The more you give the more you get. Respect...it's a big deal.
Like I said before, my mom is a scorpio. Her and I don't necessarily get along as in terms of us completely understanding each other, but we do have consideration for eachother's feelings. We care...a lot. It all comes down to the way we speak to each other and how willing we are to listen to their perspective.
I love scorpios...love them.
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It works Winking I love my Aries guy more and more each day. He's my rock.
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go to scorp board and there are a lot of post of never ending aries woman/scorp man sagas. welcome to the club!smile
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But the funny thing is they're both really normal, hot, good looking people.
hear hear!!!
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so very hot!
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I'm going through the same thing... It's crazy howls we understand each other but not by words but by actions... We only speak when it's not about emotions we try to hide it bc I feel that we both are very scared to get hurt and I want a friend before than a lover and I think he does too as Scorpio and Aries we took things fast physically but we are catching up on the friendship... I feel like we are both very patient since we are both young we enjoy each others company and get to know one another better instead of rushing... I dint know but I think he's going with the same pace as me... I just lve him so much,. And the respect factor is completely true.. We both respect each other so much it's almost as we were afraid of the other person but we aren't the reason why we treat each other this was is bc we respect each other so much
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I don't see why they shouldn't be a good combination but in my experience, it would have taken an eternity to finally get to the relationship part because scorpio didn't open up or talk or seemed to breath which is interesting given the bravado they actually have.
If a scorpio can see an Aries as truly sensitive to the needs of the scorpio, and see how in love the Aries is in love with the Scorpio things I guess can work out. If the scorpio wants to keep everything secret and closed off from the Aries then I see the Aries moving on. Which is so lame because they are great mates in life. Maybe in an alternate universe we all don't have issues haha.
I hope it goes well.
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Oh hey heroic guy... So good to hear your opinion... And we are letting it out lil by lil it's kinda cute... It's like we are two kids falling in love and we are developing a very nice.. Full of trust friendship like a camaraderie.. Us against the world... I know he talks to other girls and what not but I don't get worried bc I know he'll come to me eventually when he gets tired of em and he never gets tired of me but I wanna take slow bc we are both young so I let him have fun while for me Scorpio it doesn't bother me just liking him is enough lol... Can yoh tell me whAt yoh like in a Scorpio woman and what attracts you to us?
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Oh hey heroic guy... So good to hear your opinion... And we are letting it out lil by lil it's kinda cute... It's like we are two kids falling in love and we are developing a very nice.. Full of trust friendship like a camaraderie.. Us against the world... I know he talks to other girls and what not but I don't get worried bc I know he'll come to me eventually when he gets tired of em and he never gets tired of me but I wanna take slow bc we are both young so I let him have fun while for me Scorpio it doesn't bother me just liking him is enough lol... Can yoh tell me whAt yoh like in a Scorpio woman and what attracts you to us?
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i knew a couple who was aries man and scorpio woman-together they were fire...but then time went on and they grew to DESPISE each other. i never heard from the aries, but the scorpio mentioned things like "fucking asshole, all he wants is sex, i want to rip his fucking dick off."
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Scorpio/Aries works better when both have matured. Escorpianas, are you in Espana? Looks like even though you are both young, you're doing the right thing. Remember understanding is the key to a good relationship. When things come up (as they always do in relationships) strive to understand rather than react and pull away. Best of luck to you darlin!
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learn how to spell aries butch
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Posted by KingOfAries
learn how to spell aries butch


What me??
Im a scorpio ha...
And Im not Im in America..Im from Brazil tho
But I do spell right...is just that most of the time when Im posting this Im on my iphone and I type too fast or my auto correct will change things...so I apologize lol
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Posted by Mistery
Scorpio/Aries works better when both have matured. Escorpianas, are you in Espana? Looks like even though you are both young, you're doing the right thing. Remember understanding is the key to a good relationship. When things come up (as they always do in relationships) strive to understand rather than react and pull away. Best of luck to you darlin!


Thank you...
Those were nice words smile
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Posted by starlover
Scorpio/Aries work well if the Aries man is prepared to grow up quickly...otherwise forget it, the Scorpio will crush him and his massive EGO!


wow..very nice way of putting it..i completly agree..
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Posted by westside
i knew a couple who was aries man and scorpio woman-together they were fire...but then time went on and they grew to DESPISE each other. i never heard from the aries, but the scorpio mentioned things like "fucking asshole, all he wants is sex, i want to rip his fucking dick off."


I know a Scorp who says similar things about its SO.
If you don't want to have sex then don't get friggin married and then bitch when he is out getting takeaway every night because you refuse to put out anymore.
Silly bitches.
Well I always say they are silly, but then again they are married, so who is silly - the married chick or the single chick?
I am getting depressed now.
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...just noticed the original thread was 2009 (only a Scorp would have dug back this far)
and as there have been no updates I reckon the Scorp strangled her, chopped her up into little bits and buried her in the garden
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Lol sooooo??? I was doing research it's different haha
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I got one, she cheated on me, then for the next two month she was living in hell,and the guy who she slept with ended up in prison, me and the girl went separate ways forever, the end.
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sex was good
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LOL at "taking it back"
Why did he say it in the first place? Flakepio
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Posted by impresswho
I really like Scorpios. Yall are a trip.


we like you
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Posted by bluebetty
Aries girl/Scorp guy story.
Scorpio told Aries he loved her, then took it back. They haven't spoken in three months. The end.


scorpio scared of being hurt bc you probably didnt say I love you too when he said that...so he took it back bc he thought he was going to fast and paced himself taking a step back..
what was your answer to scorpio guy when he said i love you
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Posted by starlover
Lol at the taking it back.....jeeeeez, what a way to ssssssting!!!



Hi. I am a Scorpio. My word is my bond.
Whoops. Hang on. No it's not. My word is just my mouth moving and random noises coming out.

**Disclaimer - the above comment was a generalization. I have a great Scorp friend who does keep his word, but I have the pleasure of knowing many that just don't/can't/whatever. They talk a big game but turn to water when the pressure goes on.....dangerous people to have around you.
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Posted by impresswho
Posted by bluebetty
I'm very comfortable in the Scorpio forum...


I don??t visit the Scorpio forum often, so maybe I will swing by one day. Big Grin

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I don't really get around much either. I do spend a bit of time with the Tauruses but they are right next to us, so I guess it is only neighborly to pop over from time to time. They are just like us - funny and cool, but obviously a bit bigger (being Bulls.)

Like to stir up a bit of shit with the Gems but now they know me they know I am harmless and have really taken me under their collective wing which is nice, as I have had some awful Gemini experiences in the past.
The Cancer board came in handy when a Cancer guy was trying to chat me up on the internet. Couple of visits to the Crab thread ended that budding romance before it got started!! Dodged a bullet there.
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"dodged a bullet there" lol
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so everyone just ignored my story? i see...
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Posted by KingOfAries
so everyone just ignored my story? i see...



no one ignored it - we know what they are like.
Most people say the sex is good but they can make your life outside the bedroom a living hell (even after you split up)
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lol... i wish i had a better memory tho :/
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My first love is scorpio. He is a sweet guy, fun, caring, child-like..
When he was in love with me, he's afraid of losing me and made me promise that i had to be his friend if we seperate.
He always protected me. He wouldnt let me know his issues because he didnt want me to be worry. He expected that i would take care of him, want me to be there when he was sick (this was what je did to me as well). And he always showered me with gifts.
When we broke up (because we were young and he moved to another country), he cried and couldnt even tell me that he wanted a break-up.
As i knew (his gf told me), he always talked about me, compared me to her.
Even though, we met again in our life. He still care and protect me.
As an Aries, i never understand him, sometimes I pushed him away for my space. This hurted him. And maybe this was the reason why we broke up.
We both had good memory. And we are still friend till now (10 years)
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