Are aries unfaithful

Well I'm not saying aries are bad people at all but they seem to lack loyalty from a Virgo onlooker. I'm a virgo/scorpio with my eye on a aries/scorpio. She's nice smart, self reliant, her confidence wavers, and has a great personality but her negative side could equal a lack of loyalty. She's prideful, somewhat insecure(she hides it terribly; Am I cute? yes...), impatient, unsympathetic, impulsive, selfish, always right and is always defensive about everything that touches her ego, all the signs I believe to be unloyal. The other day I was hanging out with an aquarius friend with his aries friend over his house they both got drunk, the aries guy drunk all the liquor that aquarius guy got from everyone. The aquarius guy said "you drunk damn near all the (idk the liquor's name) are you happy now?" the aries dude was like "yup" I wanted to punch him the face and I don't even drink. I took that night as aries really don't give a fuck about a "friend" but then again I could be overgeneralizing. But I've never seen an aries that showed any sign of humility it seems as if they'd rather have their pride than a good friend. But other than a few mishaps with other aries folk, they're pretty cool nice people when they aren't emotional I have nothing personal against them, for example she was having a bad day and I was like it sounds like u could use a video game, and she got all defensive because Idk if she can take advice it maybe some kinda sign of weakness idk. I'm just wondering is this truly the relationship that I would like to get into because I'm not the one night stand kinda guy. I mean I went out with a cancer/aries and that shit was fucking terrible, but this is another water/fire combination but way more impulsive, I'm just saying.

And I find it weird that I'm more extroverted than her xD.

I'm an older aries woman and have NEVER been unfaithful. In fact when I'm with someone I'm totally and completely into them. Now, I do like to flirt. But flirtation with limits. I like to know I'm wanted and that others find me attractive but that's as far as it goes. I love people and want people to love me.

some are and some are not,that is true in all signs,faithfulness depends on many things and whats been taught to someone in their life and what they are going through and so on.what character they have and how much self control ect... all play into it.

Why are you digging up old shit??

Have you ever spent time with a kid of about 5 years old, at a park? They want their independence. They want to run around and play and direct other people and explore and have a great time. BUT, they look over their shoulder to make sure that you are watching, keeping an eye on them, making sure that they are safe. If they don't see you watching, they will run over for a little snuggle and reassurance and then get back to playing.

THAT my friend is an Aries.

We are independent, inquisitive, fun loving 5 year olds. We want our own freedom. We want to be able to play and explore and have fun with friends....but we want to make certain that you are right there, ready with a reassuring snuggle.

The problem comes when you aren't there to give that reassuring snuggle. I am not a cheater, but i won't long stand for a relationship that doesn't include a lot attention. I don't want you to hover over me or direct me or boss me around and I certainly don't want to feel that you don't approve of me. But I do want a lot of little moments of attention.

If I don't get it....it hurts me deeply and makes me feel rejected and it won't take long for me to look for someone who will give me that little snuggle.

I have to say I missed this old post, here's a random an impulsive response:

Virgo and Aries works or not, there is no middle ground. I think Virgos make good friends, until they start looking for defects in the personality of Aries and literally nit-pick at what they do not have in their own personas.

Resenting impulsiveness and bluntness within candid jokes make it a recipe for success or utter failure as from some experiences Virgos have very dry senses of humor for anything they are not used to having around themselves. Sometimes this will strain that relationship (friendship or love) and create chasms that relaxing would have solved.

OP: you already decided she is not what you want in your life: you are comparing her to some other random person because he is an Aries, you hold nothing against Aries but are unsure if this introverted Aries is what you want, you think she lacks humility from the start and is unfriendly and full of pride, you are comparing a relationship that happened to a relationship that might be. Give her a chance or don't but don't go in judging her by the past and others that are not her, it is just plain unfair to your future in any relationship.

No absolutes on the individual with any placements but a person who is unfaithful is unfulfilled in any Sun. Whether it is with them self or work or something else they have not wanted to face about their immediate situation, they stray for some purpose explainable or not and even if everyone agrees cheating is bad it doesn't stop people from straying when unsatisfied.

Posted by Flavia
I have to say I missed this old post, here's a random an impulsive response:

Virgo and Aries works or not, there is no middle ground. I think Virgos make good friends, until they start looking for defects in the personality of Aries and literally nit-pick at what they do not have in their own personas.

Resenting impulsiveness and bluntness within candid jokes make it a recipe for success or utter failure as from some experiences Virgos have very dry senses of humor for anything they are not used to having around themselves. Sometimes this will strain that relationship (friendship or love) and create chasms that relaxing would have solved.

OP: you already decided she is not what you want in your life: you are comparing her to some other random person because he is an Aries, you hold nothing against Aries but are unsure if this introverted Aries is what you want, you think she lacks humility from the start and is unfriendly and full of pride, you are comparing a relationship that happened to a relationship that might be. Give her a chance or don't but don't go in judging her by the past and others that are not her, it is just plain unfair to your future in any relationship.

No absolutes on the individual with any placements but a person who is unfaithful is unfulfilled in any Sun. Whether it is with them self or work or something else they have not wanted to face about their immediate situation, they stray for some purpose explainable or not and even if everyone agrees cheating is bad it doesn't stop people from straying when unsatisfied.

+1

I'm aries/scorp and I'm unfaithful, because of the impatience....
If your moving slow and not giving me what I need then there's others that will. I won't waste time if I feel like an option..
(Currently going through this with an pisces)
So if you tell her up upfront what you want from her, I'm sure shed have no reason to stray...
I just really hate guys that move slow(yuck)!

Posted by slicklildee
I'm aries/scorp and I'm unfaithful, because of the impatience....
If your moving slow and not giving me what I need then there's others that will. I won't waste time if I feel like an option..
(Currently going through this with an pisces)
So if you tell her up upfront what you want from her, I'm sure shed have no reason to stray...
I just really hate guys that move slow(yuck)!

Well aren't you just a lovely combination there.

^^^
Am I??
I'm a newbie, so not sure what you mean....

Posted by Virpio
Well I'm not saying aries are bad people at all but they seem to lack loyalty from a Virgo onlooker.

there. I'm a virgo sun/scorpio mars. I felt the same so I dumped him. dating a virgo now

he treated me well though 🙂

Posted by slicklildee
I'm aries/scorp and I'm unfaithful, because of the impatience....
If your moving slow and not giving me what I need then there's others that will. I won't waste time if I feel like an option..
(Currently going through this with an pisces)
So if you tell her up upfront what you want from her, I'm sure shed have no reason to stray...
I just really hate guys that move slow(yuck)!

I actually dumped a Virgo because he was moving too fast (imagine that).

You are unfaithful because of choices. Men move the way they think or you give them the impression you want to move.

I've had bad experience with an Aries guy. Even though I'm over him and moved on, I still feel very wary about the next guy I will date or go out with. What his true intentions are. Not to go into a long essay story the break down is that we were getting to know each other, he fed me all this bullshit about him being a great guy. Portraying that he's the guy for me, made me feel special, gave me that attention every girl wants. I started to trust him.. we ended up sleeping together.. after that nothing. He didn't contact me, I was messaging him and he didn't respond. He saw and read my messages but chose to ignore them. At one point i thought something might have happened but he was posting away on fb like usual. So overall, his intention was just to lie chase and sleep with me. with no explanation, no reason which really hurt me. That he made a fool out of me.. used me..

I will never forget this guy..

Posted by LadyAries25
I've never cheated. I don't think I ever could. I feel guilty when I'm simply attracted to two men.

My virgo ex though had a second girlfriend on the side for 2 yrs, online dating profiles on websites like ashleymadison.com, was responding to women-looking-for-men posts on craigslists, and reading books/watching tv shows on how to seduce women...oh and he made a deposit to a camp in Cali that teaches men how to pickup women.

Needless to say, it didn't work out. 😛

wtf....he sounds obssesed

Posted by Angeleyes17
I've had bad experience with an Aries guy. Even though I'm over him and moved on, I still feel very wary about the next guy I will date or go out with. What his true intentions are. Not to go into a long essay story the break down is that we were getting to know each other, he fed me all this bullshit about him being a great guy. Portraying that he's the guy for me, made me feel special, gave me that attention every girl wants. I started to trust him.. we ended up sleeping together.. after that nothing. He didn't contact me, I was messaging him and he didn't respond. He saw and read my messages but chose to ignore them. At one point i thought something might have happened but he was posting away on fb like usual. So overall, his intention was just to lie chase and sleep with me. with no explanation, no reason which really hurt me. That he made a fool out of me.. used me..

I will never forget this guy..

A taurus just did the same to me, and their supposed to loyal, commited and stable. BS

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Posted by Angeleyes17
I've had bad experience with an Aries guy. Even though I'm over him and moved on, I still feel very wary about the next guy I will date or go out with. What his true intentions are. Not to go into a long essay story the break down is that we were getting to know each other, he fed me all this bullshit about him being a great guy. Portraying that he's the guy for me, made me feel special, gave me that attention every girl wants. I started to trust him.. we ended up sleeping together.. after that nothing. He didn't contact me, I was messaging him and he didn't respond. He saw and read my messages but chose to ignore them. At one point i thought something might have happened but he was posting away on fb like usual. So overall, his intention was just to lie chase and sleep with me. with no explanation, no reason which really hurt me. That he made a fool out of me.. used me..

I will never forget this guy..

A taurus just did the same to me, and their supposed to loyal, commited and stable. BS

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Sorry to hear.. but how did you react after? I was confused at first to why he's being this way and then I became angry at myself to falling for his crap. It really hurt and because of maybe me being made a fool of and plus to rejection. But the strange thing was, the sex was really good. It wasn't like It was crap and he didn't want to know me.. lol.. but I think im in a place right now where I didn't do anything wrong. He's the wrong.. glad he's not in my life.

I was a upset then numb. I didn't love him but I thought we were in strong like. I've been rejected so many times it doesn't even feel the same anymore it hurts but it's almost a normality for me, when I like a guy.

Posted by bkbella86
I was a upset then numb. I didn't love him but I thought we were in strong like. I've been rejected so many times it doesn't even feel the same anymore it hurts but it's almost a normality for me, when I like a guy.

I can really relate to you.. I've had that soo many times that im used to it. But its always a different situation and way of being rejected. Guess it makes us wiser.. but gets tiring too. I've never been in a long term relationship. Its either the guy i like doesnt like me back or im not into the guy. lol

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Posted by bkbella86
I was a upset then numb. I didn't love him but I thought we were in strong like. I've been rejected so many times it doesn't even feel the same anymore it hurts but it's almost a normality for me, when I like a guy.

Guess it makes us wiser.. but gets tiring too. I've never been in a long term relationship. Its either the guy i like doesnt like me back or im not into the guy. lol

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I always wondered what people mean when they say rejection is a lesson you'll learn from it.....but what is the lesson? Why does it keep happening? I mean it very exhausting and it hurts like hell. Some will argue o you have to be happy with yourself and your happiness shouldn't be dependent upon others but then why are people constantly craving interaction, relationships and intimacy and even sex? It's instinct to me. I am happy alone I spend most of my time that way but it's gotten to the point where I get lonely too. I can't be by myself all the time. The last real relationship i was in hs and and that was 9 years ago and brief the relationship was. I don't feel normal.

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I was a upset then numb. I didn't love him but I thought we were in strong like. I've been rejected so many times it doesn't even feel the same anymore it hurts but it's almost a normality for me, when I like a guy.

Guess it makes us wiser.. but gets tiring too. I've never been in a long term relationship. Its either the guy i like doesnt like me back or im not into the guy. lol

I always wondered what people mean when they say rejection is a lesson you'll learn from it.....but what is the lesson? Why does it keep happening? I mean it very exhausting and it hurts like hell. Some will argue o you have to be happy with yourself and your happiness shouldn't be dependent upon others but then why are people constantly craving interaction, relationships and intimacy and even sex? It's instinct to me. I am happy alone I spend most of my time that way but it's gotten to the point where I get lonely too. I can't be by myself all the time. The last real relationship i was in hs and and that was 9 years ago and brief the relationship was. I don't feel normal.

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Being completely honest, its words of comfort for us lol.. Rejection hurts a lot. but we start to think differently, I mean I've had my years of experience with people coming in and out of my life, but the girl i was then and the woman i am now are completely different. I was very naive, very emotional, took things to heart, kept to myself and i used to easily trust. (not a bad things but not a good thing either) especially with the people you can be surrounded by can take advantage. The lesson is to move on from that. We women end up over thinking why me why did this happen to me. We cant put ourselves down. The person who was in the wrong is the one who rejected without giving the reasons. Lied in the first place to get what he wanted. But what is normal in your eyes?

Posted by Angeleyes17

I will never forget this guy..

You'll be amazed when you do forget him, but it can happen. Someone will randomly mention him and you will go "Who?" The right connections will make that a reality.

Posted by Flavia

Posted by Angeleyes17

I will never forget this guy..

You'll be amazed when you do forget him, but it can happen. Someone will randomly mention him and you will go "Who?" The right connections will make that a reality.

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I really hope so.. just a random in my life not worth thinking about hehe..

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I was a upset then numb. I didn't love him but I thought we were in strong like. I've been rejected so many times it doesn't even feel the same anymore it hurts but it's almost a normality for me, when I like a guy.

Guess it makes us wiser.. but gets tiring too. I've never been in a long term relationship. Its either the guy i like doesnt like me back or im not into the guy. lol

I always wondered what people mean when they say rejection is a lesson you'll learn from it.....but what is the lesson? Why does it keep happening? I mean it very exhausting and it hurts like hell. Some will argue o you have to be happy with yourself and your happiness shouldn't be dependent upon others but then why are people constantly craving interaction, relationships and intimacy and even sex? It's instinct to me. I am happy alone I spend most of my time that way but it's gotten to the point where I get lonely too. I can't be by myself all the time. The last real relationship i was in hs and and that was 9 years ago and brief the relationship was. I don't feel normal.

Being completely honest, its words of comfort for us lol.. Rejection hurts a lot. but we start to think differently, I mean I've had my years of experience with people coming in and out of my life, but the girl i was then and the woman i am now are completely different. I was very naive, very emotional, took things to heart, kept to myself and i used to easily trust. (not a bad things but not a good thing either) especially with the people you can be surrounded by can take advantage. The lesson is to move on from that. We women end up over thinking why me why did this happen to me. We cant put ourselves down. The person who was in the wrong is the one who rejected without giving the reasons. Lied in the first place to get what he wanted. But what is normal in your eyes?

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im so late angel....but your right its just hard to rationalize these things at the time of another rejection. Its so hard to step back and not take it so personally. I have been very naive in relationships but the hurt and pain ha

I got cut off but I was saying the the hurt and pain taught me a lesson indeed. not to be so damn naive, LOL

Posted by Jbest
But I've never seen an aries that showed any sign of humility it seems as if they'd rather have their pride than a good friend.

We are rather independent women and very different than other women of the zodiac. What is the problem that you have with her pride? Here is the definition of humility: Humility (adjectival form: humble) is the quality of being modest and respectful.

I find that, myself, as an Aries woman have pride/humility going on at the same time. If "friends" cause me more trouble, chaos, or drama... I would rather allow them out of my life because I prefer friends who are supportive.... certainly not someone who is going to try knock at my ego (identity)...
In talking with other Aries women.... I find them to be the same way. We simply do not trust others easily ....

I'm right there with you Jbest. I think Virgo wants submission - loyalty.

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I will never forget this guy..

You'll be amazed when you do forget him, but it can happen. Someone will randomly mention him and you will go "Who?" The right connections will make that a reality.

I really hope so.. just a random in my life not worth thinking about hehe..

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That is the usual response until more time passes lol. I think the right focus makes us forget any trauma.

Do you know what makes an Aries not cheat— Be a bad ass Leo! But even then, only when that Leo commits his heart. 😉

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Posted by Angeleyes17

I will never forget this guy..

You'll be amazed when you do forget him, but it can happen. Someone will randomly mention him and you will go "Who?" The right connections will make that a reality.

I really hope so.. just a random in my life not worth thinking about hehe..

That is the usual response until more time passes lol. I think the right focus makes us forget any trauma.

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Not worth mentioning anymore...errrmm WHO— LOL 😉