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Aries and I planned a trip
1. Stop trying to run the show. Aries runs the show
2. Stop assuming that just cause his phone is near him, he doesn't have a social life, no friends, on the computer that he isn't busy. He could be watching paint dry and still not want to talk on the phone or be bothered by someone who keeps beefin with him over some phone.
Stop watching his clock and counting his minutes.
Are you not grown? Don't you have things that you could be Doing? Like art?
Get out there and live the only life you have and just may be you will be genuinely too busy to give a shyt just like him.
2. Stop assuming that just cause his phone is near him, he doesn't have a social life, no friends, on the computer that he isn't busy. He could be watching paint dry and still not want to talk on the phone or be bothered by someone who keeps beefin with him over some phone.
Stop watching his clock and counting his minutes.
Are you not grown? Don't you have things that you could be Doing? Like art?
Get out there and live the only life you have and just may be you will be genuinely too busy to give a shyt just like him.
Posted by DMVHe does give a shit. Why would he apologize if he didn't? Or agreed to plan an entire trip if he didn't?
1. Stop trying to run the show. Aries runs the show
2. Stop assuming that just cause his phone is near him, he doesn't have a social life, no friends, on the computer that he isn't busy. He could be watching paint dry and still not want to talk on the phone or be bothered by someone who keeps beefin with him over some phone.
Stop watching his clock and counting his minutes.
Are you not grown? Don't you have things that you could be Doing? Like art?
Get out there and live the only life you have and just may be you will be genuinely too busy to give a shyt just like him.
I agree with the previous poster, stop trying to control a situation. If it isn't broken, don't fix it. You're going to push him away with your demands. Some people just like to unwind and be alone after being around people. These are called introverts.
There's a difference between making concrete plans (i.e. book the flight/rooms and save the date) and just talking about where you want to travel to in the future.
Maybe chill a little. He's not gonna want to travel with you if your this full on and demanding over a conversation.
Maybe chill a little. He's not gonna want to travel with you if your this full on and demanding over a conversation.
Posted by DMVThis.
1. Stop trying to run the show. Aries runs the show
2. Stop assuming that just cause his phone is near him, he doesn't have a social life, no friends, on the computer that he isn't busy. He could be watching paint dry and still not want to talk on the phone or be bothered by someone who keeps beefin with him over some phone.
Stop watching his clock and counting his minutes.
Are you not grown? Don't you have things that you could be Doing? Like art?
Get out there and live the only life you have and just may be you will be genuinely too busy to give a shyt just like him.
I already told you on the other thread OP..but it seems you didn't got it.
He got absolutly no interest in you, like zero.
For us some people are just like that...sometimes it's very hard to choose between staring at a blank wall or replying to a message..but if we are faced with that choice...we more then often choose the wall.
Why ?...because the wall is less anoying.
Why was he polite after ?...because he knows that's not a good thing to do....but he will do it again...
Why will he choose the wall again ?...because he got absolutly no interest in you..
Don't do this to yourself OP...Aries are blunt...if he had any romantic interest in you, you wold have know it by now.
Stop trying to find things...that are simply not there...
This is for your own good OP....if you have any doubt about this..ask him...if you hear the word "freinds" among those phrases...move on....all the rest is being polite..nothing more.
He's interested in you, and he's interested in traveling, but he's not interested in this particular arrangement. It'd be best if you completely forgot about those plans and waited for new ones. The thing about Aries, and I'm speaking true from the heart, is that if something has to be planned, the details have to allow for our ever changing sense for freedom. It probably just began to sound like a drag for him because things are set in stone between the two of you for how this trip is going to pan out. Let me tell you, a Taurus and I just took a trip three hours west to go see Lake Michigan. It was 3 am and we were both inebriated by different substances, and she expressed a sincere interest to sporadically travel to reach Lake Michigan from Detroit by sunrise. I jumped right into it. There's nothing I love more than an immediate, random, crazy road trip. If we had planned it three days or even two days in advance, I wouldn't have wanted it. It just has to happen, and if there's a plan for it, it better happen immediately, so the Aries doesn't have time to think about it, he just has to jump in and join. Don't give Aries time, we're one of the worst to sticking to something like a trip if it A.) doesn't happen immediately, or B.) isn't the most amazing trip in the world. If it's not at least one of those things, it's not going to happen.
Posted by CookieoAquarius
Btw what is his moon?
Posted by IamTheRamI asked him, bluntly, because when I wanna know something, I ask. He didn't say friends. He used like talking to you, after saying a few days before that if he doesn't feel an intellectual connection with someone, he's out.
This.
I already told you on the other thread OP..but it seems you didn't got it.
He got absolutly no interest in you, like zero.
For us some people are just like that...sometimes it's very hard to choose between staring at a blank wall or replying to a message..but if we are faced with that choice...we more then often choose the wall.
Why ?...because the wall is less anoying.
Why was he polite after ?...because he knows that's not a good thing to do....but he will do it again...
Why will he choose the wall again ?...because he got absolutly no interest in you..
Don't do this to yourself OP...Aries are blunt...if he had any romantic interest in you, you wold have know it by now.
Stop trying to find things...that are simply not there...
This is for your own good OP....if you have any doubt about this..ask him...if you hear the word "freinds" among those phrases...move on....all the rest is being polite..nothing more.click to expand
Then, used various "I've been busy" excuse when I tried talking to him or just plain didn't reply.
Or ignored sexual double entendre
Posted by missionI'm actually like that. I believe it's my Sag. I can wake up one day and say "Hey, beautiful day, let's go to NYC." (It's 6 hours away) And just book when I'm there.
He's interested in you, and he's interested in traveling, but he's not interested in this particular arrangement. It'd be best if you completely forgot about those plans and waited for new ones. The thing about Aries, and I'm speaking true from the heart, is that if something has to be planned, the details have to allow for our ever changing sense for freedom. It probably just began to sound like a drag for him because things are set in stone between the two of you for how this trip is going to pan out. Let me tell you, a Taurus and I just took a trip three hours west to go see Lake Michigan. It was 3 am and we were both inebriated by different substances, and she expressed a sincere interest to sporadically travel to reach Lake Michigan from Detroit by sunrise. I jumped right into it. There's nothing I love more than an immediate, random, crazy road trip. If we had planned it three days or even two days in advance, I wouldn't have wanted it. It just has to happen, and if there's a plan for it, it better happen immediately, so the Aries doesn't have time to think about it, he just has to jump in and join. Don't give Aries time, we're one of the worst to sticking to something like a trip if it A.) doesn't happen immediately, or B.) isn't the most amazing trip in the world. If it's not at least one of those things, it's not going to happen.
Or, 2 am (I'm a night owl) I feel like eating sushi, let's go to that place that's still open!
And I make it an adventure. I'm a very random adventurer and that stuff excite me so much
But the thing with a trip to Japan, it needs some planning. He really wants to go to a live taping of a show he likes and you need to book months in advance. When I told him about it, I didn't even say it like I wanted to plan it now, just tell him what to expect to make sure it would work
Posted by StarSkyHe's actually extrovert, as per Briggs Myers
I agree with the previous poster, stop trying to control a situation. If it isn't broken, don't fix it. You're going to push him away with your demands. Some people just like to unwind and be alone after being around people. These are called introverts.
Posted by IndependentArtisticLadyPosted by IamTheRamI don't know tbh....we Aries are blunt..when we do like you we tell you why right away why we were busy..I asked him, bluntly, because when I wanna know something, I ask. He didn't say friends. He used like talking to you, after saying a few days before that if he doesn't feel an intellectual connection with someone, he's out.
This.
I already told you on the other thread OP..but it seems you didn't got it.
He got absolutly no interest in you, like zero.
For us some people are just like that...sometimes it's very hard to choose between staring at a blank wall or replying to a message..but if we are faced with that choice...we more then often choose the wall.
Why ?...because the wall is less anoying.
Why was he polite after ?...because he knows that's not a good thing to do....but he will do it again...
Why will he choose the wall again ?...because he got absolutly no interest in you..
Don't do this to yourself OP...Aries are blunt...if he had any romantic interest in you, you wold have know it by now.
Stop trying to find things...that are simply not there...
This is for your own good OP....if you have any doubt about this..ask him...if you hear the word "freinds" among those phrases...move on....all the rest is being polite..nothing more.
Then, used various "I've been busy" excuse when I tried talking to him or just plain didn't reply.
Or ignored sexual double entendre
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I have this feeling that there is something *fishy* about him...
But as allways..i am going to say what i allways do...follow your heart...just..be *warned* and *try* not to give to much of yourself..
🙂
Posted by IndependentArtisticLadyAries switch off. He may seem "available" to you but just coz his phone is on doesn't have to make him available in his mind. Respect his time and boundaries a little more. Maybe you should let him come to you and dont be whiney with him or make him feel guilty. That way you will know if he really is interested AND it gives him the chance to think/wonder about you without you being in his face first.
So, my Aries and I talked and we planned a trip. For hours we just vibed about it, decided where we wanna go. He's never been elsewhere. I, on the other hand, am an experienced traveller, thanks to the Sag in my chart.
Then, nothing for 2 days. After I asked him a question about the trip that he ignored.
So tonight, I sent him a message saying: I like talking to you but if you don't wanna talk or reply, nothing I can do! Hope you're fine 🙂
He replied right away, apologizing saying he was sorry, that he's been busy with work and watching this tv show he's hooked on.
Here's the thing, and I don't sugar coat things, I'm blunt and he knows it. I hate when people say they've been too busy to text back. Nobody is that busy, especially him. He's home all the time. Always at his compute the moment he gets home from work to the moment he goes to bed. He doesn't have much of a social life. He has friends but he never goes out. You're telling me you haven't had 2 minutes to text back? Please!
How can I deal with this Aries? Why did he apologize if he isn't interested anymore
We haven't talked since Tuesday and I'm not contacting him either.
A month ago, we talked about a game that was coming out and how excited he was to buy and play it. He said: If I don't talk to you, you'll know why.
That game came out Tuesday. He told me about how one of his ex got really mad at him for disappearing for a week, too busy playing a new video game.
To which I said, I don't like girls like that. You're a gamer, it's normal for you to plunge and play and forget about everything. I get that!
And I thanked him for warning me.
Tuesday, we spoke about a tv show briefly. He told me he was busy playing, and I said, have fun gaming. I'll see you in a week or something 😛
Not gonna bother him, I'll wait and see what come of it!
A month ago, we talked about a game that was coming out and how excited he was to buy and play it. He said: If I don't talk to you, you'll know why.
That game came out Tuesday. He told me about how one of his ex got really mad at him for disappearing for a week, too busy playing a new video game.
To which I said, I don't like girls like that. You're a gamer, it's normal for you to plunge and play and forget about everything. I get that!
And I thanked him for warning me.
Tuesday, we spoke about a tv show briefly. He told me he was busy playing, and I said, have fun gaming. I'll see you in a week or something 😛
Not gonna bother him, I'll wait and see what come of it!
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