Aries and Libra

This topic was created in the Aries forum by MattC90 on Friday, February 10, 2012 and has 15 replies.
I'm an Aries(man)and I'm in love with a Libra(woman). We are coworkers and have worked together for about a year now. We are both single. Need advice on how to win her heart! Any advice or stories are welcome. Thanks.
Uh, have you asked her out?
Personal experience as a Libra Female with an Aries. Bad News for a Libra as for an Aries Male Paradise!!!
Posted by librastephanie
Personal experience as a Libra Female with an Aries. Bad News for a Libra as for an Aries Male Paradise!!!


Explain your statement please... why bad news for libra and Aries Male paradise???? I've got a v-day date with a libra guy tonight... mutual friends seem to think I'll be bored to death with him. I believe the words used were "No matter which way I look at it, it's not going to work!"
I'll report back in the morning with how it went! haha....
Posted by lotuslily
Posted by librastephanie
Personal experience as a Libra Female with an Aries. Bad News for a Libra as for an Aries Male Paradise!!!


Explain your statement please... why bad news for libra and Aries Male paradise???? I've got a v-day date with a libra guy tonight... mutual friends seem to think I'll be bored to death with him. I believe the words used were "No matter which way I look at it, it's not going to work!"
I'll report back in the morning with how it went! haha....
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Well, it is good that the Aries male is highly attracted to the Libra female. And opposites can be very compatible, especially if he has an air moon or other compatible aspects. Usually, it's the Libra's attracted to Aries and if the Aries doesn't find the Libra interesting or exciting enough, then it falters. I've dated a lot of Libra men and they made the mistake of having a kind of veneer of politeness and seemed awkward or wishy-washy to the point where I got turned off. My mom is a Libra and we never got along very well when I was younger but now as I've matured, I value her so much more and we get along great.
Am curious how your date goes lotuslilly. Do keep us posted!
Am curious how your date goes lotuslilly. Do keep us posted!


It went well! I knew he was a decent guy, which is why I decided to spend the evening with him. I thought I'd treat myself by spending the evening with a gentleman instead of a douchebag for a change and he didn't disappoint in that regard. I told my bestie this morning that while he is not the most exciting guy on the planet (as opposed to a Leo who always rocks my world in any situation), he was completely respectful and real, with no pretences (as opposed to Leo and their massive egos and their air of 'I'm god's gift to women -- you're lucky to be getting my time!').
Even though I was prepared to meet him at the restaurant and took my own money to pay for myself, he came to pick me up, paid for my meal and drinks and came with me to meet up with one of my friendz after dinner finished, and then dropped me off, gave me a peck on the lips and a hug and then off he went. Complete gentleman! (As opposed to Leo, who would expect me to meet him somewhere, pay for myself and do whatever he wanted to do afterwards and then rock my world in bed later on -- I don't have an issue with that last part! haha... kinda makes putting up all his shit throughout the evening worth it) I appreciated Libra in that regard.
I do think Libra is a bit too tame for me and I can see problems arising from my side in future because I love bouncing all over the place... town and the world! I think we both want very different things from life. He seems to value stability and I thrive on taking running leaps into the excitement of the unknown -- just knowing I'll land on my feet. It may not digest well with him when I start being defiant about not staying home and going off traveling alone somewhere because he doesn't want to come with me!
I've had a Libra bf before and it was the same thing. I wanted to go everywhere and see everything and he never wanted to go anywhere or do anything! We'd go to a club and he wouldn't even dance with me... I'd want to go camping somewhere and he would want to stay at home with his friends because he didn't like where I was going (even though he'd never been there...???) so I wouldn't care if he stayed home, and I went camping anyway!
I dumped him in the end because I didn't want such a 'little' life... even though there wasn't really anything wrong with our relationship!
I would like to say that I know not all Libra's are the same... but in my defence... He's never even left the country and I only have like 2 open pages left in mine! He wakes up in the morning, goes to gym, goes to work and then goes home and chills or visits some friends. Doesn't play sports, or anything... and then sits telling me how he hates routine and 'the system' and if he eats the same thing too often, he starts feeling frustrated and changes his eating plan! Like...... WHAT??? Buddy.... you're SO FAR into the system and routine you don't even know it! Nothing wrong with it... at all! It's just very different to the life style I live.
I never know where I'm going to be or what I'm going to be doing from one week to the next -- let alone what I'm going to be eating every night! I wake up when I want to wake up, my work is about something different every day and I'm outta town every other week or weekend -- with or without friends and I'm constantly looking for my next adventure. There are people out there I still need to meet and places I still NEED to see.
TOO much fire and excitement in this lady for a small town guy whose idea of shaking things is changing his cereal if he feels bored with life!
I'm interested in this Libra/Aries dynamic, I'm a Libra and I've been seeing this Aries man for about a month now, all is going well.
He's not like other guys I've like/loved, just want some input on how the dynamics work out.
I have to say though, without being vulgar, the sechs is awesome smile
Downside, we both have demanding jobs that keep us apart and he's been assigned to the current job for now 2 weeks and has to work this weekend, where we were meant to meet up after our time apart, he's actually taken this badly, me I'm rolling with the punches. We'll eventually will be together again.
I know distance relationships take their toll, but some are worth it and I think this Aries man is worth the wait, but my question is will the Aries petter out thinking it's NOT worth it if he keeps getting assigned to places 4 to 5 hours away from our city?????
All I can say is yes as a Libra female the Aries male is very cautious at first but then realizes the Libra will cater to their every need, which we do. Sad thing is an Aries male is all about him selfish, controlling, manipulative, OCD, and etc. As a Libra we are always wanting to be the balancing act and the typical people pleaser until much later when we realize hey what about me!!! Libras will dedicate their lives to making the one they love feel like a King, but the Aries male could care less about how you feel!! Well until you don't care anymore and then they realize one foot is out the door and the whole manipulation control game starts all over again!!! Might not be the case for all, but in 22 years it will happen.
I also wanted know about this too. I'm dealing with this aries woman but I cant read it or looking too much in to it or my gut feeling is confusing me about her. Can you guys help me out, I have been chasing her for 5 years and what my gut tells me and what she says puts doubt in my mind. Libra Sun/Leo Moon and Aries Sun/Taurus Moon. Help.
I had not meet many Libs IRL. Now I have gotten to know a few DXP libs and they seem to have a really neat way about them.
Good balance to my hard arse Aries stance on things.
Obviously a relationship depends on more than just your sun sign.
I'd be more worried about the dating a co-worker thing.
Posted by sleepyrebel
I also wanted know about this too. I'm dealing with this aries woman but I cant read it or looking too much in to it or my gut feeling is confusing me about her. Can you guys help me out, I have been chasing her for 5 years and what my gut tells me and what she says puts doubt in my mind. Libra Sun/Leo Moon and Aries Sun/Taurus Moon. Help.


Well, what is she saying exactly? 5 years is a long time to chase. Her Taurus moon will be cautious but not 5 years cautious.
I figured out what happen when I talked to another Libra, she would say no I dont see you that way, but then will ask for us to go on a trip to another state or out of the country, just us two. Getting close but not actually kissing, all these signs and saying the opposite was really confusing but, I understand it or "maybe I think I do"
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
I had not meet many Libs IRL. Now I have gotten to know a few DXP libs and they seem to have a really neat way about them.
Good balance to my hard arse Aries stance on things.
Obviously a relationship depends on more than just your sun sign.
I'd be more worried about the dating a co-worker thing.


I'm with you, I find my Aries man confusing. I'm in 2 minds about him, he's either waiting for something better to come along and if that's the case, I'm outties or after his last relationship he thinks we are going to fall to the shytter really really quickly, which isn't the case, I just don't know about him.
Again work for us is our distance thing, I'm a shift worker in Health care and he runs 4 construction sites through out where we live, so he's never in our city for more than a couple of days.
He did drop in a funny way over the phone the word "girlfriend" refering to me about other guys...I found that sweet, I'm already in girlfriend category..but I still don't know. My very first Aries so I'm a tad cautious about the sign.
I am a libra female in the early 30 who recently had a one night stand with a 24 years old aries male. I have to admit to the fact that we had very strong sexual attraction, at least from his side. We spent 6 hours together and the first two hours we had amazing conversations and he poured his heart out about his relationship with his ex. They still share a room together but apparently he sleeps on the sofa ( I trust him as i first walked into his place i saw a pillow and blanket on the sofa) and the ex sleeps on the bed. They have splitted for a month by now but she still have feelings for him and always uses the fact that she moved to amsterdam because of him in order to tie him into this problematic relationship. She is 4 years older than him but very childish and she bickers about everything. Anyway it is what he told me. This aries guy is very blunt and honest. He told me straight away that he has never thought he would be attracted to a chubby girl smile)) ( which is ok for me because i appreciate the fact that he is being honest, i would rather be attracted by men for my intelligence rather than my big butt) . I told him i also have never been together with somebody so young and shorter than 185cm ( typical superficial libra woman) and we both laughed out loud about how we break rules. I have a long term relationship and had no intention to cheat on my bf but this aries man, i have no idea how could he find all my hot erogenous spots on my body. He was very very persistent and patient and successfully seduced me into sex. I remember explicitly 7 times he tried to lay himself on me and 7 times i pushed him away eith both of my legs and in the end i had to surrrender his skillful technique. I was totally breathless and gave myself in. It was amazing and i had absolute no regret. He was such a gentleman for being 24 y.o. He is a smoker and he knows i detest it so everytime he wanted to go out for a ciggie he kindly asked if it bothered me. I said yes it does and he didnt try to but after a while i could see he was little stress so i let him go and he kissed me and said thank you for ur understanding Sweety. When he had to take me back, he offered to pay the tram, took me to the restuarant there i wanted to go, ordered the food and got me the tea without honey. I told him oreviously i am a vegan and i dont consume milk cheese or honey. And i had no idea he paid attention to that. He even arranged a free night stay for me at the hostel in short notice when he found out that i was going to take the last bus at 12am to the airport and will have to wait for 6 hours at the airport. I didnt know there was night bus you could take at 5 am so i didnt book for that night, when we went back to the hostel he took me further away from the door and said if we go in the hostel now i cannot kiss you so please give me one kiss. How charming and adorable! he was a savior and such a gentleman to me. I like him so much.