aries broke up with me out of the blue...:(
This topic was created in the Aries forum by walkingonair on Tuesday, October 14, 2014 and has 6 replies.
We've been dating for 3 months and today he told me im perfect and beautiful but he doesnt feel the spark anymore.I told him that he had to tell.me before instead of wasting my time and that i dont want him to ever contact me again.He told me he started feeling this way the other day which is weird because how could someone just stoo having feelings for someone in day.A part ofme thinks hes scared because i invited him to my moms bday and my whole fam will be there abd he agreed to come but i guess he got scared?Guys what do i do?will he be back?I feel.so.awful.im not good enough
(((If i was so perfect and beautiful he wouldnt be breaking up with me 
(((If i was so perfect and beautiful he wouldnt be breaking up with me 
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No. This "scared" bullshit is something made up by females because they cannot accept the fact that guys just realize that you aren't what they're looking for.
Being in the situation sucks, but don't be stupid and make up a "scared" excuse.
He realized he isn't that into you. It's only been 3 months- which is around the time that the honeymoon phase starts to taper off and reality slaps everyone in the face.
He did you a favor and didn't drag it along any further. It's still shitty to be told they aren't into you, but don't make up shit in your head that blocks you from what's REALLY going on.
Being in the situation sucks, but don't be stupid and make up a "scared" excuse.
He realized he isn't that into you. It's only been 3 months- which is around the time that the honeymoon phase starts to taper off and reality slaps everyone in the face.
He did you a favor and didn't drag it along any further. It's still shitty to be told they aren't into you, but don't make up shit in your head that blocks you from what's REALLY going on.
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Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by walkingonair
We've been dating for 3 months and today he told me im perfect and beautiful but he doesnt feel the spark anymore.I told him that he had to tell.me before instead of wasting my time and that i dont want him to ever contact me again.He told me he started feeling this way the other day which is weird because how could someone just stoo having feelings for someone in day.A part ofme thinks hes scared because i invited him to my moms bday and my whole fam will be there abd he agreed to come but i guess he got scared?Guys what do i do?will he be back?I feel.so.awful.im not good enough
He won't be back. Move on. You did a good thing by telling him not to ever contact you again. You will need that time to pick up where you left off before you met him.
It's OK to feel terrible about this, but never, ever think you're not good enough!!
IMO, he saved you a world of pain and drama by leaving NOW instead of say, 6 months or even a year from now.click to expand
+1
Me and my ex went on for two years breaking up every 9 to 12 weeks bc he "wasn't into me anymore". Whatever, it gets old after a while and very exhausting. Let him go. He isn't worth it.
I'm slowly moving on. Now suddenly mine is trying. For me, it's too much too late.
Best of luck bc it's an emotional rollercoaster until you decide to get off.
I'm slowly moving on. Now suddenly mine is trying. For me, it's too much too late.
Best of luck bc it's an emotional rollercoaster until you decide to get off.
3 months, you are good to go, lucky you! You should be happy with raw honesty, at least he isnt lying and stringing you along. People like what they like when they like it. Sounds to me you got comfortable too soon. Your "representative" left and he didnt like the real you. This doesnt make you a bad person or him a bad person, just neither of you are compatible with each other. Trial and error, the right one will come along for you. 
Learn to respect people's honesty.
It's amazing in the long run with everyone in our lives.
Aries don't stop have feelings for someone in a day. They just feel something is not quite right and then one day it clicks and they're gone. They don't have long thought out processes for breaking up, like they plan it in advance and see multiple scenarios unfolding.
It's amazing in the long run with everyone in our lives.
Aries don't stop have feelings for someone in a day. They just feel something is not quite right and then one day it clicks and they're gone. They don't have long thought out processes for breaking up, like they plan it in advance and see multiple scenarios unfolding.
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