why do you do this? days pass and you're about to put out a missing persons, is it just that I'm not important?
1. You ignore yr Aries and he/she think that you dont want him/her. Then, he/she decides to move on. And the first thing is disappearing
2. He/she isn't interested in you
3. He/she is dead
pretty sure he's not dead: basically, have intense displays of affection one day, very sweet and lots of attention then don't hear from him for two, just when I'm about to give up he's back! I try to give him his space and let him get on with it but also don't want to fall into the trap of just always being AVAILABLE...
are you guys in an exclusive relationship...? how long does he usually disappear for...?
maybe he's the type that doesn't need to see his girlfriend every single day. a lot of guys (doesn't matter what sign they are) are totally okay with just seeing their girlfriend 2 or 3 times a week instead of every single day.
but if you guys are in an exclusive relationship, it wouldn't hurt him to at least call or text you every single day to let you know he's still alive and cares about you. he needs to show some basic decency. it's kinda rude to just disappear on your girlfriend and not contact her for days and weeks....i wouldn't do something like that. i would at least call.
my crush doesn't disappear on me. he always returns my calls and emails wherever he is.
i think it depends on the guy. maybe your man isn't that talkative. some guys are really bad at keeping in touch and stuff. that shouldn't be an excuse to constantly go AWOL but i'm just saying.
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Mar 12, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 144 · Topics: 17
Sure honey, but when I stop talking to you and act like I don't care, you always, always reappear...
Of course we always reappear, because it's a change in the banality of life. Essentially, we hide in turtle shells to protect ourselves from the disappointingly nature and boredom of life, we always peek out when intruded upon. ARIES love to chase. So, if you're chasing them, they will run. We like to set the pace of how most of everything will go.
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Dec 02, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 410 · Topics: 13
Jdugan you are like the 100th person i've seen that have said that about aries. Ugh...i think i waited too late tho. He's chased me since we were kids and up until 6th months ago i had full control, but man have the tables turned, and sadly i feel i'm too late to turn the tables back.
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Nov 23, 2010Comments: 1 · Posts: 193 · Topics: 20
If an Aries disappears, He's bored or busy.
If an Aries is very interested in you, it is very obvious!
Plain and simple.
IF you disappear on an Aries, it is a blow to the ego... therefore it will spark the interest of the Aries once again.
If you are always around... the Aries will need some space.
I am aware of how retarded this is but it is the truth.
These are the beginning stages of the relationship. Once an Aries is committed to someone with no doubt in their mind that they want to be with you, these games no longer exist...
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Dec 02, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 410 · Topics: 13
Well at first it had been about 3 days since we last spoke because I was upset with him. I sent a text to ease the tension on Monday, and he responded today at about 5:00am this morning. Might I add this his text was like 6 messages long. I thought it was nice how he specifically really tried to bring things down for me in the messages.
Hi! Stereotypical Aries here with Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aries as my credentials.
If I "disappear," it's because I'm a) busy, but even then I will think of you important enough to inform, even through a simple text. Or b) I have no use for you because you did something morally wrong, and you've thus been iced out. If I really liked you and you ask me what's wrong I might tell you when I want to but as I get older I find explanations are a waste of time and energy.