Aries doctor

Hello stereotypical first post on the Aries board being: I have an Aries man chasing me.

Damn this fucker just won't give up, and we're looking at 7 months now. Just an ever present "hey I'm right here" and now he's going completely overboard.

-He bought my favorite fragrance to spritz himself with after I told him what it was
-He wants to cook me dinner
-Says he'll provide the money for me to go shopping with, as long as I give him my beautiful self. (rofl)
-Wants to be the MAN and you know.. makes it quite obvious too.

I cannot suppress my laughter once he starts with the flirting.. it's all honey sweet and charming. Compliments on pretty much everything, I'm perfect etc.
Are they all like this? Or is this just the "hot burst" before they get you and then it's gone 😄

Posted by everevolvingepithet
"-He bought my favorite fragrance to spritz himself with after I told him what it was"
He wants to wear the same perfume as you, come on!

I know right? Would it make a difference if I said that he bought it after I told it it makes me feel turned on (cause it does do that for me).

No freebies so far haha, and he bought it for himself, I buy my own stuff 😉

Paco Rabanne one million intense.

Posted by MilkySoft
Don't Aries men live for the chase? Sometimes chasing too much is a turnoff/makes them seem desperate, is that what bugs you about him? Because what you listed sounds pretty good to me. heehee

Is he a doctor too? >_>

Something told me he's just in it for the chase.
Oh he went off radar for me completely, I was too occupied with my taurus failure.. but now he's back again. He doesn't bug me, it's just funny that he's still going strong 😄
The brutal way he's trying to seduce me is hilarious, I'm seriously contemplating giving him a go just for the sake of his persistence and making me laugh.

Logically speaking I should freaking marry him, on paper he's great. Just that budding godcomplex is showing and I do LOVE to mess with people that think they can control me. If he can handle me, he's in for a ride too haha.

Posted by guiwaterdaymaster

I agree...

As some people will know I have an Aries sun...

I can say I am extremely creative with how I chase if I do... if I find she does not like or what I do seems to have an effect then I move on just as quickly... One day puff I am gone for ever... Aries are normally nice still and will try to be friends...

He sounds a bit immature though... with how he is expressing his love... "shopping money..." I never like to work into a relationship where I am buying a girl to many things... even more so right up front because they just take advantage... Now these days i changed how I do things a lot... because woman just seem to want to take... it is not that I will not give... or have to give... is simply because of things like this... as long as they know you are chasing they just want more...

I don't think it is right when that people lead people on or except things which give them hope... I would make up your mind how you feel about him...

I am not trying to be mean I am indifferent but Aries once they don't feel like chasing they will never chase you normally again... as it is no fun anymore because they know all about you...

So is he chasing for a reason?

What is the moral of this story...

PM

Shopping money isn't what he said, but it came down to it. He would work to provide, and I'd just.. spend it. Kinda funny if he thinks like that 🙂
I'm not poor by any means and I do provide for myself, that's what's hilarious about it all, he cannot buy me stuff and I won't let him. Not a golddigger here, I expect things money can't buy like cuddles etc.

Not leading him on either, I got a date with him next week scheduled. Ever since he's upped the flirting as a build up to then.

Beats me why he's chasing me, guess he likes me?

OMG starlover, so is my Aries *looks suspiciously at starlover*

He's not really going to NY when he's away, and won't be going to FL in two weeks, he's going to see YOU! Ok, that's it woman, I'm calling you out, meet me by the flagpole at noon! 😛

Posted by starlover
Feck!! Pistols drawn at dawn!!! 😄


Dare i ask what he lecutures in?? Could it be......he.....—

And...weirdly enough, i know a woman whose ARIES man also is a lecturer

Weird!

The man is playing 3 of us! How dare he! Multiple continents too LOL

Oh, he teaches environmental policy...

Girls girls.. I'm a guy 😉
I don't want any "who's the woman" talk, but your "be the woman" doesn't apply here haha.

He's freshly graduated, started working not to long ago at a hospital.

We'll see where this goes 🙂
I know I'm not the easiest with giving up control, he'll have to earn it.
Other than that I already smelled a feisty aries from a mile away, especially after he kissed me months ago.

He invited me over for a movie, I heard the entire movie while he was wrestling my tongue and cuddling me. Hey I didn't object cause I love physical affection, but I put my foot down on sex. Told him "If I have sex with you now, you'll never have a shot at anything more". That's how I work, once I sleep with someone for sex.. that's what they'll forever be.

I said goodnight, he pushed me against his bookcase and assaulted my mouth (I kiss good for a fish haha). I went home and we went our separate ways. Not too long ago he suddenly popped up again saying "you're hard to pin down aren't you?".

HAHHAHHA no shit Sherlock, how long can you hold your breath under water? 😄

I know right, he was attacking it like the world was ending!

More like brace myself?
He just texted "wear something nice, something that compliments *insert his perfume scent* nicely". LOL

Oh someone's excited alright!
Just mount him and show him a little hospitality 😉

Oh woman, you're the devil!
If there's one thing that gets me going, it's wordplay..

He's getting really nervous about tonight.. I can tell 😛
I made him be the boss, pick dinner spot & the movie.

He's probably frantically cleaning the place as we speak!
Poor thing..

Soooo.. how did everything go?

So, from a male Aries point of view, I can relate to what he is doing.
If you think it makes any difference, I have a Venus in Pisces.

Once I decide that I am interested in someone, and they have some interest in me, I am all in. I don't mean sort of, either. I am totally into that person. The behavior you are describing would be how I act if I were in his situation.

An example, after I have been told that I am "relentless" in such situations. I found that to be rather mixed, but probably not totally inaccurate. It is something that I have to be aware of, and force myself to back off. Your pursuer may or may not have figured that one out.

Please delete the "after" in the third paragraph.