aries girl confuse PISCES guys i need help
This topic was created in the Aries forum by flrttilithurt247 on Thursday, June 29, 2006 and has 11 replies.
so this is my story
i started working at a restaurant and before it had even opened we had to do training and wait on the other people training to be servers...i got paired everytime with this guy that is a pisces...it was crazy how we had clicked and soon after i had a huge crush on him...someone told him and he was just as excited as i was...which was unusual because usually i have to work for the guys that i want. we ended up hanging out almost every night for two weeks. we had both been out of relationships his was for a year and a half and mine only about seven months. he told me how crazy his ex was (a capricorn) and how he was still dealing with her. i told him i wanted to be with him and i think it freaked him out. i just couldnt believe how great it was being with him. it was like a fairy tail-everything was perfect i had butterflies in the stomach...everything. the next few nights after i told him we hadnt been seeing eachother as much and things at work were awkward. i couldnt figure him out and i just figured i would get over it. everyone i work with hangs out together and one night i went to a party and ended up flirting with a guy we work with and i was sitting on his lap...well the guy i like got really jealous and after the other guy left he was all trying to talk to me and said we needed to spend more time alone together...i told him that he couldnt be off and on so much and told him i couldnt do it. well, he got back with his ex like two days later. he still flirts with me which is hard knowing he is with her...the girl wants to kick my ass. i dont know what to do because i cant even tell him how i feel because i think that just pushed him away before. the hardest part is knowing that he still likes me and that he is with his ex that looks like a bulldog. i just cant understand how you can feel something so amazing and then go right back. i just figure she gives him more attention and he feels safe in the relationship. i dont know what to do. i want to get him back i just dont know how.
sorry for the long story i just would like some advice. thank you!
i started working at a restaurant and before it had even opened we had to do training and wait on the other people training to be servers...i got paired everytime with this guy that is a pisces...it was crazy how we had clicked and soon after i had a huge crush on him...someone told him and he was just as excited as i was...which was unusual because usually i have to work for the guys that i want. we ended up hanging out almost every night for two weeks. we had both been out of relationships his was for a year and a half and mine only about seven months. he told me how crazy his ex was (a capricorn) and how he was still dealing with her. i told him i wanted to be with him and i think it freaked him out. i just couldnt believe how great it was being with him. it was like a fairy tail-everything was perfect i had butterflies in the stomach...everything. the next few nights after i told him we hadnt been seeing eachother as much and things at work were awkward. i couldnt figure him out and i just figured i would get over it. everyone i work with hangs out together and one night i went to a party and ended up flirting with a guy we work with and i was sitting on his lap...well the guy i like got really jealous and after the other guy left he was all trying to talk to me and said we needed to spend more time alone together...i told him that he couldnt be off and on so much and told him i couldnt do it. well, he got back with his ex like two days later. he still flirts with me which is hard knowing he is with her...the girl wants to kick my ass. i dont know what to do because i cant even tell him how i feel because i think that just pushed him away before. the hardest part is knowing that he still likes me and that he is with his ex that looks like a bulldog. i just cant understand how you can feel something so amazing and then go right back. i just figure she gives him more attention and he feels safe in the relationship. i dont know what to do. i want to get him back i just dont know how.
sorry for the long story i just would like some advice. thank you!
twice..
flrttilithurt247
Let's just say that Pisces people are weird. I had a small attraction too
with a picses girl but it didn't turned into a relation because she
was allready in love with someone else.
Just pull yourself together. If he doens't want it, just be glad because Picses
aren't made for a Aries. Ignore him and his girlfriend and get along with your life. it seems to me that that Picses guy want's to play a pimp or something ? i mean , if you have a girlfriend, you don't flirt with someone else....
just leave him.. ther are greater guy's for a Aries women to spend her precious energy on
Let's just say that Pisces people are weird. I had a small attraction too
with a picses girl but it didn't turned into a relation because she
was allready in love with someone else.
Just pull yourself together. If he doens't want it, just be glad because Picses
aren't made for a Aries. Ignore him and his girlfriend and get along with your life. it seems to me that that Picses guy want's to play a pimp or something ? i mean , if you have a girlfriend, you don't flirt with someone else....
just leave him.. ther are greater guy's for a Aries women to spend her precious energy on
"i just couldnt believe how great it was being with him. it was like a fairy tail-everything was perfect i had butterflies in the stomach" What a wonderful feeling.
"i told him i wanted to be with him and i think it freaked him out" Slow down lass, Aries wants to jump forward too fast and you scare people that way.
"i went to a party and ended up flirting with a guy we work with and i was sitting on his lap" So, he didn't move fast enough for you, so you decided that you would try playing love head games with him. Perhaps making him jealous will get him to move faster towards taking you.
"he was all trying to talk to me and said we needed to spend more time alone together" Alright, you got his attention, so what do you do about it?
You try to dictate to him, just exactly how the relationship is going to go, you said to him, "i told him that he couldnt be off and on so much and told him i couldnt do it." Do you even get yourself?
You want him, then you move too fast and scare him, he's not gone, just scared, so you scare him more by sitting on someones lap, trying to play with his feelings, it works temporarily, long enough for him to say that you two need to spend more time together, then you beat him down by telling him how he was going to behave and that you could't do it.
You said here, "told him i couldn't do it." You ended here, right here. Then you have the audacity to say you think you pushed him away . . . yeah . . . dah
Then, the two of you come here and say that Pisces are wierd because of it. I'll admit, I do things that would make the fish look bad, I can't deny that. But, this was all you, Aries girl, this had nothing to do with the fish.
YOU scared him away. He didn't just swim awaay with just cause.
And btw, you probably won't get him back. He no longer trusts that you know how to take care of and protect his heart. Sitting on another person's lap is NOT caring for and protecting his heart.
"i told him i wanted to be with him and i think it freaked him out" Slow down lass, Aries wants to jump forward too fast and you scare people that way.
"i went to a party and ended up flirting with a guy we work with and i was sitting on his lap" So, he didn't move fast enough for you, so you decided that you would try playing love head games with him. Perhaps making him jealous will get him to move faster towards taking you.
"he was all trying to talk to me and said we needed to spend more time alone together" Alright, you got his attention, so what do you do about it?
You try to dictate to him, just exactly how the relationship is going to go, you said to him, "i told him that he couldnt be off and on so much and told him i couldnt do it." Do you even get yourself?
You want him, then you move too fast and scare him, he's not gone, just scared, so you scare him more by sitting on someones lap, trying to play with his feelings, it works temporarily, long enough for him to say that you two need to spend more time together, then you beat him down by telling him how he was going to behave and that you could't do it.
You said here, "told him i couldn't do it." You ended here, right here. Then you have the audacity to say you think you pushed him away . . . yeah . . . dah
Then, the two of you come here and say that Pisces are wierd because of it. I'll admit, I do things that would make the fish look bad, I can't deny that. But, this was all you, Aries girl, this had nothing to do with the fish.
YOU scared him away. He didn't just swim awaay with just cause.
And btw, you probably won't get him back. He no longer trusts that you know how to take care of and protect his heart. Sitting on another person's lap is NOT caring for and protecting his heart.
your righ Pangel ....
Sitting on someone's lap isn't really the brightest idea when you have a relationship ....
but still .. Picses are weird... especially when i look at my younger brother..
Sitting on someone's lap isn't really the brightest idea when you have a relationship ....
but still .. Picses are weird... especially when i look at my younger brother..
We have our moments, just as you said that people look at you strange because you are an Aries.
But, in this case, it was all the Aries girl who screwed up.
People get scard easily, especially men when a woman gets all mushy about feelings and stuff. I know it's hard because you guys are full of fire - but, sometimes, it frightens people and you have to cool down and pull back a tad. You know what I mean?
But, in this case, it was all the Aries girl who screwed up.
People get scard easily, especially men when a woman gets all mushy about feelings and stuff. I know it's hard because you guys are full of fire - but, sometimes, it frightens people and you have to cool down and pull back a tad. You know what I mean?
yeah
Levelling your energy on the group...
not my fav happening. P-angel .. i'll try to NOT overrush my approach on my red angel when i'll see her again..
Levelling your energy on the group...
not my fav happening. P-angel .. i'll try to NOT overrush my approach on my red angel when i'll see her again..
Girl, get some help . . . seriously.
your right sitting on someone elses lap doesn't but like boyfromutrecht says they try to pay the pimp...to defend myself he flirts with everyone...im not a cold hearted bitch...i did get impatient and ya i have to deal with it, but the night i said i was over it we ended talking and being ok...well later that night he made out with a different girl. ok im an idiot but can i help feeling unsure if he is saying something to me that he said to some other girl in the same night. you make it sound like i need to go to therapy just because there was a lack of communication between us. so i wont get him back...whatever i just want us to be normal.
i tried to say *itch i didnt let me i would never put cookiemonster lol
hm. contradicting story... o.O
oh, and pisces aren't "weird". we're just different because we see things differently, i suppose.
but on your story and stuff.. if you "want him back" try to find a way to talk to him.. We tend listen VERY well and we understand viewpoints pretty easily (well.. i do at least). annndd you probably did scare him away, your "attack" might have been too BAM for him, but thats fine..
I'd say just try to talk to him.. and explain how you FEEL - he'll understand. it might be hard for you, but he should sense things that will make it easier.
If he's with the other girl still - so what! you guys can still be friends and she can just get the hell over it. =D mkay, thats my input. woo.
PS. WE'RE NOT WEIRD! -_- rewr. =]
oh, and pisces aren't "weird". we're just different because we see things differently, i suppose.
but on your story and stuff.. if you "want him back" try to find a way to talk to him.. We tend listen VERY well and we understand viewpoints pretty easily (well.. i do at least). annndd you probably did scare him away, your "attack" might have been too BAM for him, but thats fine..
I'd say just try to talk to him.. and explain how you FEEL - he'll understand. it might be hard for you, but he should sense things that will make it easier.
If he's with the other girl still - so what! you guys can still be friends and she can just get the hell over it. =D mkay, thats my input. woo.
PS. WE'RE NOT WEIRD! -_- rewr. =]
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