Aries guys come back??

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Ohdear on Saturday, July 25, 2015 and has 18 replies.
So a younger Aries guy came onto me in a bar, we made out and he gave me his number. I'm currently in a passionless relationship and really thought I was over sex but this guy has sent me wild with passion!
Anyway I contacted him we exchanged loads of heavy flirting texts and he started calling me. We are both fully aware this would be a FWB kind of thing and nothing serious but he was really keen and phoned me a couple of weeks ago to say he was going on holiday but would contact me when he got back. I haven't heard from him since. I text to ask if he'd changed his mind but nothing I later found out he went with his girlfriend. Why didn't he just reply and say sorry I have a girlfriend?
I'm a Gemini am I likely to hear from him again?
Made mistake of deleting original message!! Thanks for reply Dixie. I know he is definitely not good boyfriend material but loved the flirting. I can't get him out of my head and the fact he's just left me hanging is making me feel like there is still hope. Do Aries like forward flirting girls or should I just wait for him to contact me?
I also thought Aries were direct and took a no nonsense approach. So when I asked him if he still wanted to hook up why didn't he respond?
Posted by LillyBlossom
Because he was hooking up with someone else?

I have no way of knowing why he didn't respond. I don't respond to texts if I am busy or not in the mood. Because I don't expect people to respond immediately to my texts, I assume they'll agree to grant me the same freedom. *shrug*

Even though he came onto me, gave me his number and FB States he's single. I have a strong suspicion he has a girlfriend
Posted by bmoon8
Why do people make threads and then hide their original message?

I tried to edit the post but ended up hiding it and don't know how to unhide it - any advice on how I can get it to show up again?
UPDATE - so I cut him off then last week he messaged me the night before I went on holiday so I didn't have a chance to respond. I never took my phone with me when I got home yesterday I had several missed calls from him and texts asking why I won't answer his calls. So I sent a text saying id been without a phone for a few days and asked what he was phoning for and now no reply!!!!! I wish I didn't like him !!
Posted by Ohdear
UPDATE - so I cut him off then last week he messaged me the night before I went on holiday so I didn't have a chance to respond. I never took my phone with me when I got home yesterday I had several missed calls from him and texts asking why I won't answer his calls. So I sent a text saying id been without a phone for a few days and asked what he was phoning for and now no reply!!!!! I wish I didn't like him !!

-_-...I don't think anyone here cares.
Posted by bmoon8
Why do people make threads and then hide their original message?

yeah I don't get it either.
Posted by dixie
Aries men are habitual cheaters and have no problem lying about not being married when they are. I should know as I dealt with it for years while married to one. Great sex but not worth the hassle....goof for FWB or one night stand only....

just like tauruses love to eat all the time, black people love fried chicken, and gay guys love pink. Go on, I'm intrigued by your analysis...can I also have statistics if you don't mind? You seem to know it all.
Posted by biosynthesis
Posted by Ohdear
UPDATE - so I cut him off then last week he messaged me the night before I went on holiday so I didn't have a chance to respond. I never took my phone with me when I got home yesterday I had several missed calls from him and texts asking why I won't answer his calls. So I sent a text saying id been without a phone for a few days and asked what he was phoning for and now no reply!!!!! I wish I didn't like him !!

-_-...I don't think anyone here cares.
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I do care !
its not about hurt feelings, it's about respect. If the OP truly wanted to hear something constructive, he/she could have approached everyone genuinely, but that was clearly not the case.
Posted by biosynthesis
its not about hurt feelings, it's about respect. If the OP truly wanted to hear something constructive, he/she could have approached everyone genuinely, but that was clearly not the case.

Sorry I don't understand what I have said to offend you, could you explain please?
I hid my original message by mistake and if you look back on previous posts I asked if anyone could tell me how to unhide it, but no one could
/> He's probably pissed that you didn't answer his calls or reply to his messages. I think you should just give it some time. smile

Thankyou for your advice
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Posted by dixie
Aries men are habitual cheaters and have no problem lying about not being married when they are. I should know as I dealt with it for years while married to one. Great sex but not worth the hassle....goof for FWB or one night stand only....

just like tauruses love to eat all the time, black people love fried chicken, and gay guys love pink. Go on, I'm intrigued by your analysis...can I also have statistics if you don't mind? You seem to know it all.
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Posted by March19
Posted by biosynthesis
Posted by dixie
Aries men are habitual cheaters and have no problem lying about not being married when they are. I should know as I dealt with it for years while married to one. Great sex but not worth the hassle....goof for FWB or one night stand only....

just like tauruses love to eat all the time, black people love fried chicken, and gay guys love pink. Go on, I'm intrigued by your analysis...can I also have statistics if you don't mind? You seem to know it all.

That was stupid don't attack us all because one person hurt your feelings child

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I don't think bio was attacking anyone, she was just giving other examples of how people generalize certain groups of people.

I don't know why people come to certain forums, make threads attacking/dissing the sign, and then wonder why they're upset..

That's like going to a board designed for black people, attacking them, making generalized statements about how all black people act, only to turn around and ask why they're pissed when they retaliate.
@ohdear, I was speaking in general, I was talking about recent threads on the aries board, I did not mean you in particular. As far as your situation is concerned: I do not think he will be returning. Aries don't play passive aggressive. If he truly wanted to talk to you he will eventually contact you.
Posted by biosynthesis
@ohdear, I was speaking in general, I was talking about recent threads on the aries board, I did not mean you in particular. As far as your situation is concerned: I do not think he will be returning. Aries don't play passive aggressive. If he truly wanted to talk to you he will eventually contact you.

Thanks for clarifying your earlier comments. He's also just contacted me, so perhaps I was being a bit of a drama queen!!
Posted by Ohdear
Posted by biosynthesis
@ohdear, I was speaking in general, I was talking about recent threads on the aries board, I did not mean you in particular. As far as your situation is concerned: I do not think he will be returning. Aries don't play passive aggressive. If he truly wanted to talk to you he will eventually contact you.

Thanks for clarifying your earlier comments. He's also just contacted me, so perhaps I was being a bit of a drama queen!!
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Oh coool smile