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Jul 09, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 114 · Topics: 16
Ok. I've posted here that I meet an Aries a while back (last summer) we dated very briefly, and then he dropped off. Out of the blue he texts me on Christmas to wish me a merry one, I reciprocated but didn't make convo. So Wednesday he texts me say hey stranger, I replied with a hello. Then he went on to ask if I deleted him (which I did). I told him when he didn't communicate with me anymore so I figured he went back with his girl that wasn't a problem for me but I was not going to be a back up girl.
He goes on to explain that I was never back up and he didn't intend for it to be so long since we talked, but he was not in a situation to get serious.
I said that I was not trying to get serious with him and nor did my actions suggest otherwise, asking him if they did, he agreed that I was not pressuring him in any way.
He said I left a jacket at his place, and I couldn't remember if I did. Well it is my jacket and I was looking for it for a while. Well he said to come over and get it.
Somehow I think he is trying to get some from me and using the sweater as a way to lure me back to his cave.
We were supposed to meet yesterday but I'm in pain right now and I am on meds.
The thing is I don't want him to think that I want to have sex now or something. Just want to get my sweater back. I don't mind to remain acquaintances but not interested in sex with him.
What should I do? How should I handle it?
Meet at a restaurant, you don't have to go to his house. You seem to be a little nervous about you possibly jumping his bones first. Those Aries are sexy and good at it.
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Jul 09, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 114 · Topics: 16
Well i suggested to meet in public and he was not interested, preferred that i went to his house.
the thing is i am not interested anymore not like that. I'm sure if i tell him that he will be very understanding, but have a feeling that won't stop him from at least trying to get me in bed.
I did think i should just leave it alone, fuck it i can live with out that sweater. after four months, im not going to just have sex with him and he hasn't even called.
I can see this guy coming a mile a way. He wants some thing from me for nothing. I don't even get a date!
And I'm just going off of experience with this particular guy, I do adore his Aries traits though. Hope to find an Aries that is really interested, they would be so much fun.
For now the sweater stays there???????.
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
preferred that i went to his house.
the thing is i
LOL ! Don't do it! I've done that *bends head in shame*
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Jan 14, 2007Comments: 71 · Posts: 2672 · Topics: 56
"hell I'll get u a new sweater fuck it! who wants to chip in?"
lol. zen i'm in!
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Jul 09, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 114 · Topics: 16
LOL! Thanks girls!
Oh and guys too! But I like what the girls said more????.
Well he's off again no where to be found. Looks like the sweater isn't the only think I lost????..
Maybe I will hear from him again in another 4 months.