Aries lady

My best friend and roommate is an Aries. We go from getting along beautifully to getting extremely annoyed with each other. Lately we have been better at talking things out which she loves to do. And I hate it! haha I know it's horrible but I don't like to talk about how I feel all the time which I know is bad for me.
Anyway what I'm getting at is how do keep an Aries friend happy? generally speaking

lets see she gets annoyed that I don't like to talk things out. but I feel like she repeats herself. I get annoyed with her when she's not consistent with what she says she'll do. But I don't like to nag so I don' bother her with it.
Also just random things like dishes or bills sometimes

I know it seems vague but I guess I just want to know more about what makes for good relationship for and Aries? Things you need in a friend to make it work

Thx seems simple enough. Now I just have to push myself to tell her! Cos I hate telling ppl what to do haha

What's your sign and where's your Mercury? Where's hers? It depends on the maturity of the person. I don't need to talk about how I feel all the time (I wonder if she has Libra or Pisces in her chart.) But I wonder if she likes to talk it out because she's bad at reading people, and therefore prefers to hear it straight from your mouth vs. guessing. I could see an Aries doing that.

I don't require a lot in a friendship... just give me my space, be consistent, and straightforward. Oh, and be fun.

I'm a cancer with merc in Leo. Her merc is in Aries. She actually had no pisces or libra anywhere in her chart. But her moon is in scorpio dunno if tht factors in. I feel we're both mature individuals but at times have gotten petty with each other. We've been friends for years, I'm just trying to be a better one.

Posted by feby16aqua
Oh and aries with moon is scorp is especially like this. Plus sensitive. That's cool that you don't nag her to be consistent, but you can remind her every once in awhile. I'm not the nagging type either and I noticed that that plus a intermittent neutral reminder was appreciated.

yeh she's def sensitive and sometimes cries. I think that's what makes me feel bad like what did I do haha but thx!

Posted by starlover
Just be yourself baked

Dont change for her or anyone but maybe learn to speak out
and be honest with your thoughts

thx star! you always make me feel better about just being me🙂

Your problem is that you're a pussy.

Quit being a pussy. Problem solved.

I fucking hate door mats and people who don't speak up. You look like a total asshole when you sit there, sulk, and then don't say what's wrong or voice what's bothering you. Sure, I may get upset or be pissy, but in the long run, I'd rather you speak up than be some meek fucker who holds grudges and can't be man enough to tell me if I'm doing something that bothers you. The remedy cannot be found if you don't point out the issue to begin with!

Also, pfft, "be yourself?" Yes because that's clearly causing the problem at hand. Go on being yourself. Because that's the fucking logical solution here.

There's a difference between who you are and tendencies that you have. If your tendencies are what cause problems with social interaction or conflict resolution, CHANGE THAT SHIT. You ARE part of the problem here and this is the only variable that you can actively change on your part. Freaking do it.

Fuck coddlers, too. I'm beginning to get really irritated by so many women's approaches to handling shit. Fricken dumb asses. No wonder so many people don't take our gender seriously.

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Posted by feby16aqua
Oh and aries with moon is scorp is especially like this. Plus sensitive. That's cool that you don't nag her to be consistent, but you can remind her every once in awhile. I'm not the nagging type either and I noticed that that plus a intermittent neutral reminder was appreciated.

yeh she's def sensitive and sometimes cries. I think that's what makes me feel bad like what did I do haha but thx!

Her water moon probably can pick up those times where you are annoyed with her, but she probably could not tell what caused it. So in turn, there's probably a lot of possibilities going through her mind, and she does not know how to figure out which one it is. That's probably why she's frustrated that you don't want to talk things out.

Hope I made sense. Just my opinion. 😉

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it does! she can def sense things even kinda psychic at times. She doesn't like to bother me she says she knows it gives me anxiety to talk all time about feelings. I don't why it does it just does. I just don't know why we have to talk about things over and over, it's exhausting. I'm trying to get better about saying how I feel in the moment. I'm not always aware I'm annoyed and them it just creeps in.. thx for responding!

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Your problem is that you're a pussy.

Quit being a pussy. Problem solved.

I fucking hate door mats and people who don't speak up. You look like a total asshole when you sit there, sulk, and then don't say what's wrong or voice what's bothering you. Sure, I may get upset or be pissy, but in the long run, I'd rather you speak up than be some meek fucker who holds grudges and can't be man enough to tell me if I'm doing something that bothers you. The remedy cannot be found if you don't point out the issue to begin with!

Also, pfft, "be yourself?" Yes because that's clearly causing the problem at hand. Go on being yourself. Because that's the fucking logical solution here.

There's a difference between who you are and tendencies that you have. If your tendencies are what cause problems with social interaction or conflict resolution, CHANGE THAT SHIT. You ARE part of the problem here and this is the only variable that you can actively change on your part. Freaking do it.

Fuck coddlers, too. I'm beginning to get really irritated by so many women's approaches to handling shit. Fricken dumb asses. No wonder so many people don't take our gender seriously.

haha your funny! def not a pussy have one tho! it's not that I'm afraid to tell her how I feel. It sometimes takes me a while to understand what I'm feeling. I'm also not sitting around sulking that shit is for the birds. I think that's what irritates her sometime. I get over things pretty quickly, after I've decided how I feel about it.
Anyway I don't have problem dealing with most my friends. I think it's being so close and living together. We're bound to get on each other's nerves every once and a while. Thx for your input.

Posted by feby16aqua
Yes, she's getting irritated because you don't discuss and work through with her directly. It could leaving things lingering...like they are now since you even made this thread.

Thx Feby I hear ya! there's not any current issue now. In fact she know I wrote this thread cos we tell each other most things. We've been getting on fine. I was just looking to avoid future misunderstandings or annoyance with each other.

Posted by bakedbaby
I'm a cancer with merc in Leo. Her merc is in Aries. She actually had no pisces or libra anywhere in her chart. But her moon is in scorpio dunno if tht factors in. I feel we're both mature individuals but at times have gotten petty with each other. We've been friends for years, I'm just trying to be a better one.

When is her birthday and birth time if you have it? Seeing aspects and planetary placements might clue us in to why she communicates how she does. It's also interesting she's sensitive and cries (something you'd think is more of a Cancer trait) and you don't seem as inclined to do so. You two really balance each other out.