Aries male and soulmates

I had a relationship with an aries (i myself am a leo girl) and we used to think that we were soulmates... Well we broke up.... I would like to know if aries men are likely to dismiss a person who they think is their soulmate? If you honestly believe that sb is your soulmate you never ever break up with her... ain't it? Are aries men full of s**t then?

Aloha Undergrad,

I just wanted to say that I am an Aries Male and we are not the easiest to deal with, especially in love but we do listen and we do think and dwell about things so don't give up if you really love him. We do need guidance and we do idealize and get ahead of ourselves and then regret our decisions after the fact. I am sure he will come around after a few days. Just don't make it easy for him.

Take care.

Hi

I'm shocked to hear that a Aries and a Leo broke up. I thought that that was a stunning combination since some of my friends have a Aries - Leo relationship and that seems to go wel.


mauicountry , your right. I'm an Aries male too and we Aries aren't the easiest. It is weird to say we needguidance AND our freedom to keep the relation healthy. Just play hard to get , gilr, but look out .. even an Aries will stop trying after a while when he see's that it has no point turning back to you...

Hey UG...How old are u? How old is he? Y did you two break up? If he dumped you, then you might not hear from him again. If you broke up w/ him, then, yes, he'll come around when he realizes how much he misses you...it will then be up to you to decide if you still want to be with him.

I agree w/ MC and boyfrom...they are aries and obviously know what they are talking about. Aries men can be very difficult. They naturally need the freedom of a bird and the guidance of a child in any relationship. I've been w/ my Aries for a year and half, and we have broken up at least 3 times w/ up to two months passing before reconciling. We've been steady since January, and I've never loved someone so much.

Any relationship takes time and hard work b/4 you are both on the same vibe (that's why I ask how old you two are). Aries men are don't normally talk shit, unless they're under the age of 23. But we leos can be a bit of a handful, also...so I hope you are being fair with your diagnosis of what went wrong. Depending on your history, I'm sure you would know if things were truly over between you...don't end the chapter, yet. You never know!

Message posted by: sb on 7/4/2006 6:21:39 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.127
undergrad...I thought you were seeing a Scorpio guy

nope, not anymore.... it did not work out eventually... so we decided to just hang out as friends from time to time.
Anyway i dated the aries guy for a couple of years but that was before i met the scorp. Maybe that is why the whole thing with the scorp did not work out. It is dangerous to get into a new relationship when you just got out from another long one. 😢

sb you have a good memory.... i never remember relationship stuff of other dxp users... what stays in my memory is just their overall perception of life, relationships etc....
So good one sb!

hi, truthseeker
i will give you summary of what happened,...he broke up with me, i was brokenhearted, i seriously thought i would never get over it....I was a wreck for a month or so... then the whole disappointment, sadness thing turned into a great anger thing so i stopped calling. And after a month or so he calls me back to tell me i am the love of his life. We kept in touch for sometime but both of us have moved on since. I mean its now been five months and he dated 3 other women and i have dated a guy and he knows that. anyway i think if its meant to be we will be back together in the future, when we have both grown up (we are in our mid 20's now so..) and have realised what we did wrong in the relationship.
I just can't figure him out sometimes you know. he breaks up with me, then calls me to tell me that i was the love of his life, his soulmate, etc, etc, and then when i ask him why he broke up with me, he doesn't know what to answer. He is now dating another leo girl. How ironic is this? 2 leo girs in a row..... lol

Message posted by: sagitTAUries on 7/5/2006 2:43:12 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.136
aries don't have soulmates, they have themselves.

how would you know? are you an aries yourself?

so why do they (aries men) create the illusion to others that they have found their soulmates in them? Are they psychos? lol

hey undergrad,

"I would like to know if aries men are likely to dismiss a person who they think is their soulmate?"

as an aries female i can say that i thought i had my soulmate (sagittarius male) and then we broke up when i found my virgo. i dunno, it just kind of happens sometimes. also the sag was so easy to be around, and we were so compatible, i guess i just wanted a challenge (hence the virgo = what a challenge!)

"so why do they (aries men) create the illusion to others that they have found their soulmates in them? Are they psychos?"

aries are constantly looking for new experiences. sometimes this bleeds over into the relationships arena. and yes, sometimes i think i am a psycho. BUT also time changes things, ya know? people want different things for whatever reasons, etcetcetc