Aries male and Taurus female compatibility

Not talking by books. By experience from arian perspective or anyone else with an aries.

Masc-fem
Fixed-cardinal
Man of God(aries)- Venus goddess of (taurus)
So how come its hot and cool? when the chemistry is there. Is it cause he so close to the cusp.

1. He is an April 16 aries male with Taurus moon and mars in gemini.
2. I am an April 28 Taurus female with Aquarius moon and Taurus in venus. Is this a match?
3. He told me he has butterflies in his stomach every since he seen me around.. what is this? I get it to and don't even know him fully yet, just passing by I get butterflies in my stomach too.
4. He tells me he just got out of a relationship that turned really bad. But hes happy now and is going with the flow. I have been single for awhile now and going with flow too.. I wasn't looking for anything as well. Then I kept noticing him, like a magnetic. He would walk and smile, I turn beet red. I am white too.??

I initiated a game a pool and my number. And still waiting and it's been two months since. When I ask him he tells me he's busy, well so am I and working two jobs, and we're both independent and hard working people. But I am willing to sacrifice one date night with him and I told him. Call me he says he hates the phone, and doesnt own one. He has a sister and her phone, but not his own. hmmm what's wrong with arian males and no phone? Its really common.
5. Tell me? we are still trying to meet, just been so busy with life and work. But finally I get some progress and he says we have to meet and I said yeah. I said what do you want to do, I mentioned a few common tips, none seemed appealing except he mentioned the pool game (with bets)no money involved?huh I asked him what kind of bets. Lol he just laughs. I told him I'm competitive. Guess he just turned the heat up. Omg now I am getting nervous cause he just challenged me. I dont wanna lose cause I got some good bets in mind, haha
6. Aries/people what kind of bets come to mind?
7. Aries/people how important is sex in a relationship or just even period. I??have a high drive, do you think taurus/aries match sexually. Remember the physical attraction is there from the start and still there.

He doesn't like you

Move on. It's been two months. If he was really interested, he would have made time to go out with you. Just because he's physically attracted to you, it doesn't mean that he's interested in you.

His Mars in Aries and Venus in Gemini.

Venus in Taurus is domicile and works well with other domicile placements surprisingly (like a mars in Aries). However Venus in gems are a little different when it comes to matters of love....so there may be a clash with the way he goes about pursuing romance. My Venus in Taurus makes me very cautious, where as they love witty banter and like jumping into something to try it right away. Different style s...good luck.

mine is mars in taurus and taurus in venus, lol

I know he cares, and he likes me cause he told me.. am I being naive? or gullible? He is always busy I even gave one of my off days to spend one day with me and he knows this? still nothing flash forward. I asked him for a kiss on christmas he delivered.. He says everythng is good but then its been six months now and no call. He is single and no kids. He says he has his guard up?

I spit game at him asking a million questions about his life and he nevers asks me about mine? this is selfish? I told him I had patience when I first met him..As he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship and to go with the flow. I am going with the flow and it has been six months I have known him. I am really going with the flow maybe its his Taurus moon. But he can be direct when he wants to. Which leads me to believe he knows what he is doing. He doesn't know how to express emotions, he hates feelings. I am always intitating stuff. My Mars in Taurus is like damn. I want to see action.And I rarely see it.He does give me hugs everyday and kisses..I am constantly thinking about him and I am nervous I have met people like this when I was dating. I am actually compromising my own way and he is not.. He's very quiet...His Venus in Gemini I have to use alot more mental stimuli and I use compliments and bring up topic I think he would like.

But he chased me. Then I did. I wasn't looking for anything nor was he. We just clicked like magnets...he opened opened up to me...he initated hugs. I didn't..

Flash forward when he delivered my kiss.. he also said we have to finish what we started. Did I start something that might lead to devastation.. mind you he is a co worker..

Flash forward before I met him he didn't talk to anyone like he does with me.. then we started talking..trust me he always spends his breaks with me. Everyone sees it. He told a guy not that one..because he seen me talking to him. And he still asks if me and that guy talk..I don't know he'll give me hugs in front of everyone every day..

Why you say that..

Hey champ it breaks my heart. I really think it would be fun though.. Physically yes its there, emotionally not now, mentally yeah its different. But he is just so guarded that it is hard for me to open up. When I do open he switches topics.. My moon wants to talk, talk and possess. My taurus side is like ok I want to take it slow because this is how I observe, and test the fact if we are compatible.

We work together so it is hard because all the talking is here at the job and not on a date. But really he has his friends and family first, then it would be me I supposed. I always ask him what he did on his off days and he is just plain busy.. But so am I, I work two jobs and and very independent as he is too. I just feel I want to be there for him and I said that I will always be there for him..I am up in the air literally with something being exclusive like its a taurus thing.b I am not sure if he can handle my emotion side. Heres what I need for someone. Daily calls or once a week. I see him twice or once a week at the job. So I should feel special he does talk to me and we catch up. I want someone who wants me for me and my flaws and I know he isn't a saint either. I need a strong person to help me when I need it the most.

I am always scared talking to someone at work. I have never been the type to talk like this to a co worker. This is my first time. And yeah I have been minimal seriously. Cause I don't want to cause chaos or friendship to break because he is doing that hot and cold thing. Still haven't called me it's been six months..but like I said we talk at work. We flirt, kiss, hug, talk about him all the time, and I am really nervous about this..

Oh I am slow mo..I don't want to rush. But then again its the butterflies in my stomach feeling between us. I feel conflicted cause I do want to be friends and no enemy's cause we work together

Well the more I dwell the more I am analyzing him and his behavior. Hm he's probably thinking the same damn shit.or worse. I asked if everything is good between us ..he said yea..

See that's the thing. Neither one of us want something serious at the moment..but we're just friends. but my possessive trait is attaching to him, and I need to know how to slow or keep up with his pace. Which is slow and rapid.

Well yesterday he told liked me, I think he senses I'm pulling away..

Cause I have been taking advice..I am still snowballing here and really want to communicate with him, but when I do he switches topics at times.

Hm the hardest thing is supposedly he sees me as a jealous person and sees that as a red flag, then he goes without six months without calling me, but we talk once or twice a week at work. Every time I go and I see him talking to other people I don't butt in. I sit there quietly and if something is said relating to me then I will. Once that person leaves or whatever I'll talk to him. But I am quiet and he sees jealousy and attitude. I have distance myself like you mentioned. I said I rather be friends than enemies since we work together. He said yeah. I seen this behavior with my ex aries bff and the shit he did, and I am not going to settle for less and beg that he should call. If I see jealousy there is no relationship is similar to what I did deal with..Sucks but why always wonder what the reasons are, you are not that interested,. As quoted by many people on dxp and my other co-w workers.

My mom is Taurus, we get along well, but there are days where she drives me up the wall, not sure how much of that is "mother aspect" but overall Taurus women are great judging from my mom.. Just find a way to control him, not by shouting and screaming or telling him to do things, but asking. Relationship will have difficulties, but the sooner you learn him, the better you'll be able to handle him.